my thot is leave him, but try counceling, if he isnt willing to go then u have you answer, dont allow him to distroy your son’s heart and emotions. hesounds like he aint worth it anyway.
How can you not see the signs? You are selfish for ever getting your child into this situation, and now you’re bringing another one into the mix? Are you so desperate for love that you would try and make it work with someone who hates your child? You know when this child is born things will get 10x worse for your son, because the baby will be loved by both of you, and it will break his heart that he’s not. How can you do that to your son? If you don’t get out now you’re gonna screw that kid up so bad!
It’s so hard to sympathize with women who not only put the children they have at risk, but insist on having more! THINK BEFORE YOU BREED!!!
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Get rid of him .Why do you woman keep the dead beats around .I wound never let anyone treat my kids like that .
Kick him out. No contact, don’t look back. You will be teaching your son and his children the proper way to set boundaries. Letting this continue teaches them to accept unacceptable behavior. I stayed 15 years believing if I modeled kindness and love, it would get better, it hurt my children and it became progressively worse. Please run. PM me if you need help talking through how. I knew I had to leave for years, but couldn’t figure out how. You are a child of God and He wants good things for you and your children. Praying for you.
This is exactly why after my divorce, I stayed single for the next 12 years. Until my son’s were raised exactly how I wanted them raised.
I lived a horrific childhood due to 2 evil stepdads.
I refused to let men affect my son’s in any negative manner at all.
Let’s face it.
A man who will raise another’s mans children. Especially boys is a rare find.
I wasn’t chancing it.
Dating fine.
Bringing them home.
NOPE!
Moral of the story.
Leave!!
Throw him away and dont look back. Your son needs a better example as a man and an example of what a woman should not put up with! Love you and your children first and everyone else can get in where they fit in
Why haven’t you thrown him out? You’re paying the bills for you and your son plus him and his kids! You put your own child before and lazy piece of crap! Get him out and get child support when you have this baby. Your son deserves to have you protect him in every way, stop the emotional abuse now before you regret it later.
Praying it gets better but with men like you S.O it will not. So move on without him. You don’t need a creep like him in your life or your kids life.
You need to do what is best for you and your son and it doesn’t sound like he is best. You’re supporting a looser at your son’s expense. If your son sees this he will eventually think it’s ok to treat women like that. Teach your son to respect women by respecting both of you.
Sounds like an asshole… if you weren’t pregnant, I’d say leave. Maybe the new baby will soften him up.
But you’ve gotta talk to him about the financial situation. That’s unacceptable!
Get the loser out now or your son will grow to resent you & the new baby.
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He is not going to change the way he treats your boys,and why would you think he’s going to help you support another child if he’s not doing so now,put that bitch out like the trash.
You’re a dumbass. How do you even continue a relationship with a man after the first time he is mean to your flesh and blood? Your poor boys!
I’m sorry I could only read up to “he pushes my son away and barks personal space”. There’s no thinking about this…Your children come FIRST !! This imbecile is damaging your child, you do realize this, I hope. You can’t change him so don’t try. You need to end the relationship and move on with your children. When anyone mistreats your children that should automatically be a deal breaker. Stop thinking about yourself and think about your children. S/N: I finished reading your post and my stance did not change.
I would’ve left him the first time he done that,same day,I swear.
Girl. He sounds like trash straight up. Kick him to the curb if his lazy ass can’t help you with cleaning,bills,or even treating your children equally. Someone like him doesn’t deserve a DAMN thing. 
Time for dead beat dad to hit the bricks. And fast.
Get rid of the loser. Your son deserves equal love. 
Get out, NOW! No man should ever be allowed to mistreat your child.
Why haven’t you kick d the bum out? Don’t wait until it is too late. Don’t ruin your child’s life trying to fix this piece of scum! Throw him out!
Freaking kick his ass to the street where he belongs. Fuck him. Poor little guy feeling like he doesn’t matter…I pity him. You belong in his corner, not staying with a man that’s clearly breaking his heart…
Get rid of him hes a piece of shit
Dump his ass… that’s no relationship
How does someone fall in love with a man that can only love and show affection for his own blood that’s what you should be asking yourself and I’m sure he was doing this before you got pregnant with this ignorant mans child ijs
Why the fuck would you be with him? You need to put your kids before yourself. Stupid
I am so sorry this is daily life for you at this time! No matter WHAT you don’t deserve to be treated in such a way, and neither do ANY of your children. I think you are being mistreated. I would say your SO needs to know you don’t want to live like this anymore and if he doesn’t make an immediate switch then you should part ways for your health and the sake of your children. If he isn’t treating y’all right then move on. It’s easier said than done I know, but those children are depending on YOU 
That’s not fair to your kids. They’ll grow up to resent him for how he treats them. I hope maybe you can talk to him and tell him things need to change or you’re gone because that’s unfair
It won’t change you are going to have to leave and if you speak up they don’t see it or think you’re being a bitch. I’m living this everyday and I’m ready to leave my husband because of it. 8 years it don’t change he’s an asshole and my kids hate him because of it they see it and it angers them.
He doesn’t treat your kid right, verbally abusive, doesn’t help around the house or contribute financially? 
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Speaking from experience honey first off no person man nor woman has the right to call you out of your name. You can do bad by yourself and there is no need in feeding a grown man. Look out for you and your unborn child. You do not need this stress in your life. Your son will have hard feelings toward you because you are an adult and he looks to you to protect and love him.
Neither you, you’re kids or even his kids that seem to have u more than him deserve to be treated this way by this “man”. He needs to grow up and become a real father, you’re being an amazing mother, he needs to learn how much he needs and depends on u and how wrong it is. It’s hurting such a hard working person, these kid’s are victims along with u. If he is so inconsiderate even after being put on the spot he clearly needs something to push him in the right direction.
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I definitely would not put up with that. Any of it. My kids have a step dad and he would never reject any of my kids like that and hes a total jerk! This is probably the saddest thing I have heard all day.
A chingar sue madre I never left my regret it
I hope he wasn’t like this when you met him because this guy sounds like a total asshole and should’ve been gone a long time ago.
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He needs to leave. He only cares about himself.
What is it that makes you actually want to be with this guy (not a man)? You didn’t mention one redeeming quality. That pretty much screams that you already (at least subconsciously)know what you should do.
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No body should come before your kids. PERIOD! Leave him since he obviously don’t give a shit.
Anyone who disrespects or mistreats my kids is gone! On top of being useless and only offering an appearance… BUHBYE!! And If another adult hurt my childs feelings like that, you bet I’m going to hurt theirs a whole lot more!!
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It sounds like you already know what you want. I personally regret not leaving before I had my baby. It would have saved me years of my life. Instead I stayed and tried to make it work many times. 🤷🤷
Do u want help?? U need to get out of this relationship!! Things r not going to get better just worse!! PG or not it’s time to cut the ties!!!
He’s going to end up beating the shit out of your son or killing him. Stop being a dumbass & open your eyes! Get the hell out of that relationship. NOW!!!
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If the man cannot accept your child as he accept you he is not worth the effort you need to let him go sounds very selfish and self centered does not mean you have to let go of relationships with his children
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Pregnant with his child or not. “Hit the road jack, and dont come back no more no more no more no more”.
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Your son comes before any boy that wants to play house. He’s a child who depends on you to stand up for him physically and emotionally.
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He’s abusive is what he is. Leave him. Either permanently kick him out and change the locks or move elsewhere. But get him out of your lives ASAP!!! You and your kids all deserve sooooooo much better!!!
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Why are you allowing your children to be emotionally abused??? You should never ever let someone hurt your children! It’s your job to protect them. Get rid of that “man” or your children will be hurt!
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Send his ignorant ass packing ,put your son first
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He needs to go. You need to take care of your kids. He is not a good person to have in their lives. He is basically just another kid for you to take care of except he gets away with calling you names.
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H*LL NO. That’s a hard BYE, don’t let the door hit him in the @$$! Your child is being damaged and hurt.
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Read your post, you know the answer!
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Do it tell him to Get out. Hes not a man hes a boy and you dont want your son to think thats how a man should be. You both deserve better and so does your unborn child.
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LEAVE HIM!!! That would be the damn day where a man disrespected my child!!! Dont put up with that shit
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If he treats your son like that just imagine how he’ll treat you in the future
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In the long run its your son being the most hurt out of the situation… As a mother I’d chose my child before any man! With that said the choice is yours!
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If he’s like this now he won’t ever change! Kick him out now before it’s too late! If some man is going to treat my child differently than he’s not the one
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Oh my goodness. Do you and your babies, he needs to go. There is someone out there for you that will love all of you. Until then love those babies. They are looking to you for that. This man sounds like he could snap. It’s not okay.
Omg!! Be a mother first not a women!!!
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Basically, I think you’re answering your own question.
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Sounds like u need to to tell him hit the road.
Help??? Help??? Why the hell are you in that relationship? 
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Kinda answered your own question there… but that’s the hardest part… now just put it into action.
If he can’t treat the kids the same… LEAVE HIS ASS!
I don’t think you need advice, you know already what needs to be done.
Read what you wrote!!
Be a mom first! How is this even a question!!!
Thats a serious form of abuse! I know because I was in a similar situation…difference is, I started to treat his kids the same way he did mine and they didn’t like it so much. And for that reason, I was SUPER vocal about it. My son developed a hate towards him but due to my lacknof self love I couldn’t see how it truly affected my son. Get out cuz it will only get worse after the baby comes
If I was a single parent and my child was mistreated in ANY way . Bye bye!
If he can’t treat ur kids as his own he is not worthy of having u. He need to hit the road
It sounds like you’re in an impossible situation. It’s time to take action before things get any worse. The amount of stress you have in this relationship has to be taking a toll on your kids as well. I wish you the best of luck with your decision
You need to put your son first. Send him packing because he is a leech. You deserve better and my word!!! Your son deserves better!
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Time to hit the road!
You said it yourself girl don’t let no one come between you and you children. We’re their voices when they can’t speak and I would’ve never allowed it the first time and I be damn if a man is going to push my child aside when only wanting a hug step up and move on you deserve not to mention your son deserves way more than that
You got the wrong one sis 
trash day is coming time to take it out.
Sounds like you need to divorce him
You should leave him I bet it would make your life easier. I get you have pregnancy hormones going on. I do too lol but if I was the one pregnant and only contributing to everyone and he worked yet didn’t give a s*** I would say I can’t do this anymore either you help me out more or this is over cause it’s too much