Can you go to the bank and take it out ?
Since youâre in the middle of your divorce, let your attorney know and make sure itâs brought up in court. Youâll get it
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Report to the IRS as well as have that put into your divorce papers by your lawyer so he will be required to pay
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Unless you have custody of the children in a court order he wonât have to give it to you. Ask for it in the divorce
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Call the IRS and report it. I did and took a year but he has to pay it all back. I unfortunately donât get my share but at least I let them know what he is capable of.
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Sadly my ex husband got all three of my sonâs checks, we are 50/50 split on time. The years taxes they used fell on his file time. I canât get any of it. My son asked for some of his and got in big trouble with his dad and stop mom. Sadly nothing can be done about it. I have checked into it
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Going through the same thing!!! Itâs so complicated 
Iâm having same issues. My ex BOYFRIEND who has NO children he is legally able to claim is getting stimulus money for MY two children from a previous MARRIAGE. Tell me how they screwed THAT up in the IRS. And you canât get anyone on the phone and thereâs no emails available you can send. I just today found a fraud report form I could fill out and so I submitted that today. Says someone will be in contact with me soonâŚ
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Weâre you a stay at home mom before and if so then you shouldnât get it 
If you worked then you both can get it 
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So if your starting to go through your divorce were papers signed? If not go to his bank and take your money out especially if itâs a joint account
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I wouldnât worry about it, during the divorce court trial bring it up. The amounts are in your name show proof you have the kids he will be obligated to pay you back. Donât feed into the arguments. Those type of people crave that attention
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Court may offset at division of assets hearing or settlement
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bring it up in court, they will get you taken care of
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Tell u lawyer⌠He /she will get it for you
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Court? IRS? Girl you should have been taking care of this when he got the first one
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He is wrong what caused the divorce
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Contact the itâs and they will go after him let him know thatâs what your going to do might push him to just give it to you rather then the hassle heâs gonna face from the irs for fraud
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Call your lawyer to get it legally reported first then call the irs on Monday. Call em both so your double protected.
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You could open a joint(still legally married) credit account for your amount and put it in the divorceâŚ
Take him to small claims court. Its quick and easy.
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Call the IRS and report him for fraud and heâll have to pay all that money back and youâll get whatâs rightfully yours. On your taxes this year you should have put you didnât receive the last 2 so that money could at least be included in your tax return. The only other option is to sue him in small claims court unfortunately
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I donât know if it works the same as family tax benefit? Buy my ex was receiving that for our kids the whole time we were together,then getting g him to sign it over he refused. But as ours is a DV case I didnât need his signature. Anyway my point is! When I was speaking to them on the phone for the interview the lady actually asked me if I had been receiving any of it in the mrhs prior. As even together I was the 24/7 parentâŚ
If I hadnât?! I couldâve still got paid in back pay from Centrelink & they would have taken it out of his wagesâŚ
Donât know if same applies here
Have you filed your tax return yet? If not they asked you if you have received all of your stimulus packages for the year. Say no and it will go from there
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He doesnt have to give you any of that money. Nothing you can do about it.
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Talk to your attorney
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First dont ever mix accountsâŚhusband or no husbandâŚI always kept my money separateâŚbut I always did financial things as if I was singleâŚI would never let nobody screw me overâŚ
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Mention it in court. The judge will deal with it.
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Put it in your divorce that you are owed the money. Worst case would be they make him pay you half. 
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When you file your taxes it will ask if you received the stimulus check no and they will add to your refund
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Call Carol Baskins girl she has got the answer 
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There is a form called a 3911, google it & it should help you. Not sure how soon anything will get done about it but thatâs a start
Ur screwed. Money isnt everything. Just chalk it up to bad luck of the draw.Just b glad ur rid of him.
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Log into the his bank account and transfer it to yourself
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During court sue for it. Or get a. File emergency court order. To get funds.
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Take every single thing he has to the pawn shop until you make your money back. 
I would just have a bonfire in tbe yard, but thats just me.
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Thankfully for my ex husband I give him his portion everytime! But what i did was incase it was sent to him I called my lawyer and let them know to add the amounts I was owed to for both stimuluss in the divorce decree that way if that had happened Iâd get it in the end when we finalized. I told them the amounts I was rightfully owed and they drew it in there.
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My question is if itâs a joint account like your saying why canât you just take the money out your self 
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Well tell your lawyer, sue him for it
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Ya name on the account then take the damm money!
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Worst case⌠you add it into whatever is owed to you in the divorce paperwork. Any amount of stimulus can be claimed later in court if he got what was owed to you. Not saying you can get the money for the children but thereâs a much higher chance of getting the amounts sent for you.
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Contact your lawyer my ex had took money from our joint account and put it in an account in his own name. My lawyer got an order that froze both our assets to stop him from spending it. Was a nuisance but when the divorce was being settled financially I got half. As long as you havenât reached financial settlement and you arenât divorced you will get half of everything including that money x
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Go to the cops !!! Show them everything ! And take his ass to court
Got to citizenâs advice beuro
tell the ploice he stole your money
File it on your taxes, you didnât receive it and he will get audited and have to pay that back
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Its in my divorce that my ex is supposed to pay me for the vehicles he sold when we were married. But my lawyer said I would never see this money though. So it can be apart of the divorce decree but if anyone figures out how to squeeze this money out of them I would appreciate it because my ex still owes me per our divorce decree
If you let the IRS know the situation they will split it in half and send half to you via check and half to him. Since itâs already gone out you wonât be able to get it without a lawyer however if there is a stimulus in the future itâs good to let your tax preparer know and the IRS that you would like the funds split. That money is half yours. Hope things get better for you. 
Report d aid on the kids social security numbers. And inform them the stimulus money went to wrong parent . Or when u do taxes have the apply n make note that he is not in care of the children at all n got money that wasnât his .
Trust me the Judge will make him pay you back with interest! Judgeâs hate fatherâs who steal from their own children!!!
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Let your Divorce Attorney handle it.
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If itâs been dispersed you will have to take him to court to get a portion of it. The stimulus has nothing to do with who has the kids it has to do with the tax return. I would let your divorce attorney know so that maybe they can stipulate in the settlement for him to pay you a portion. He is also going to be the one getting the child tax credit advance.
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Could you file an injured spouse form with the IRS? my husband and I had to file one when he owed back child support ( it was a complicated situation with his ex) so they would not take my income money ( I was the only one working but we filed jointly)
If you are in the middle of a divorce, consult your divorce attorney about it. Every single thing should be in writing before the divorced is finalized.
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Yea call the IRS and A lawyer
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There is a number you can call if you have the kids more says a year then he does. The irs will investigate and send u the money and make him pay it back.
The court is going to screw him so bad for doing that. Get that money sis
Im agreeing with many others, let your lawyer handle it.
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My parents were going through a divorce when the first stimmy went out (they lived separately at this point but hadnât had the court hearing yet) and her ex had to meet us at the bank with the attorney and split it or he wouldâve been breaking the law according to the attorney. Donât let this slide. Tell your attorney!
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Report identify Fraud. Theft it still theft
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Tell ur lawyer. Mine made my ex husband reimburse me for taxes he took when we had seperated or go to jail if he didnt
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Do you have a lawyer? If not get one!! My ex use to say any cheque in his name is his even if it was for us jointly!! Changed my info pronto and I got my next check. Sorry you are dealing with this
Call your government office that handles your stimulus and tell them your situation & information. I know here in Canada, if that happens, he will have to pay the government back or it gets shaved off of his paycheck and goes directly to you
I know someone who went on the irs.gov site and filled out the information that she did not receive her full stimulus. She got the full amount and her ex partner will now owe the IRS.
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Your lawyer will take care of it! Get a hold of him!
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Have your attorney bring it up in court.
No excuse you should of went online and changed the bank account information
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Thatâs so messed up, I second everyone let the attorneys know
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Get you a lawyer and call the irs
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Only thing you can do is wait for court
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Tell your lawyerâŚ
Needs to be brought up in courtâŚdonât let him get away with itâŚ
Cant you change it on the irs portal which bank account it goes to. In your name.
As long as you are married and your funds are intermingled you are out of luck.
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Call the irs and get him for fraud.
If you have the kids and he dont he needs to give you the money or they will. Or the judge will
Hunny take his ass to court
Document everything. You can sue him for it. Itâs your money.
Talk to your divorce attorney.
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Have ur lawyer tell the judge in court whats going on here may order ur ex to pay the money back to u nd maybe ask for partner all the money for the kids if u have them fill time ur entitled to some of it if not all of it
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Right now not reallyâŚbut tell your attorney about it. They can argue for half in the settlement.
No advise here, but this sucks. Sorry mama. It seems like a lot of great advice though. Best of luck to youâ:heart:
I heard post parents can get it Iâd speak to a tax preparer
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You got a lawyer use him. Or waste more time and money on the looser.
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I would call the IRS tell them see what theyâll do.
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Well technically it depends if her and her kids were claimed as dependents at the time. If she wasnât working itâs considered his money and she is out of luck. But she can still try to fight it in divorce court.
Iâm Canadian so Iâm not too sure how it works for you guys - but can you not just call them and just switch the account on your file? My husband and I file everything together but payments still come in our separate names.
Also, are you still on the bank account? Go to the bank and withdraw all of the money that was sent in your name.
Yeah, take that piece of shit to court⌠What a deadbeat. Heâs lucky Iâm not his ex cuz Iâd stab him.
If the check is direct deposited and it has both of your names on it then the bank account has to have both of your names on it or it wouldnât be able to be deposited, go to the bank and take whatâs yours, he canât do a damn thing if the account has both your names on it
You can actually get in contact with the IRS⌠this is a federal crime and they could possibly be fined or convicted of theft⌠had a friend in the same situation
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If youâre in the middle of the divorce speak with your attorney. The attorney should be able to get your money for you.
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Unless youâre filed jointly for 2020, there should be a way to get it in some capacity.
But to avoid any future issues with IRS talking to a tax professional is your best course of action.
You can always go to the get my payment website and change the bank account your stimulus goes to
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If you are getting divorced thereâs nothing you can do till you go to court. You need to keep track of everything & tell your lawyer.
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Sue him for it in your divorce. It is yours the courts will grant it to you when your divorce is final
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Iâd tell him that if he doesnât give it to you in X amount of time, youâre contacting the IRS and possibly a tax lawyer as well (that will know how to fight for you).
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If youâre in the middle of a divorce you or your attorney should be able to file a motion with the court regarding the issue.
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Document everything dates times and messages including text messages- just document it so youâll have it for lawyers and courts!!
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File charges against him. Call his employer stv.
Speak with your attorney
If you contacted the IRS and told them it was deposited into the wrong account then it is his responsibility to then take it up with his bank. Heâll have to explain why he spent money that wasnât his!
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