Have you ever tried playing video games with him? Iām also wondering if he really is just thinking he pays for the house so the other half of having a home is taking care of it. I got in a rut feeling like Iām doing it all and we both work. I had to start asking for specifics (please take out trash if you leave take a kid please switch laundry etc) because he doesnāt know how to help and thinks i got it so he doesnāt. I had to start joining in on his āfunā things or we would have no time together
My man does this shit. It pisses me off. And I dont mind getting in his face about it. No point in being with someone if they dont put the time into you. And who cares who makes more? Stfu with that! Thatās so childish
My fiancĆ© loves video games too. I told him when he gets home from work parenting is 50/50. He only plays games than can be paused when our daughter is awake. When sheās napping or after bedtime he can play whatever online games he wants. If she wakes up while heās playing a non-pauseable game, i get her while he finishes the round. Then he switches games or gets off all together. He knows if he puts video games first I would throw his whole gaming setup (computer, 2 screens, mouse, and keyboard) out into the driveway
Sounds like hes using you to take care of his kid and make him meals, clean up after him, and pamper his baby ass. If he isnt interested in YALL anymore, Iād Express that and then leave if it continues after and he shows no effort.
That is sad . Stop cooking for him ,doing his laundry , leave when he gets home to care for the child . let see what you do , by having to do it for himself and just maybe it might be a eye opener for him to what all you do for him .
This is more than him just playing video games. Hes more like a room mate than a partner. I would be straight forward with him. Tell him you need more or leave because he wont change. He likes it the way it is.
Well thatās called gaslighting and emotional abuse, which is unacceptable. No. Youāre not asking for too much. As a matter of fact, youāre not asking for enough, and the fact that, yes, he feels like he can belittle you for asking for attention, which you shouldnāt have to ask forā¦is not okay. Basically, youāre a single parent and a single woman, and he is a parasite. If things donāt change, youāll do more hard to yourself and your baby girl if you stay. Speaking from experience.
Gamersā¦
dating a gamer guy is hard. I know that from experience. Almost same situation, but for my guy is as long as he does his chores I am good. Wasnāt always easy with attention. We would always argue about it and things would get frustrating. It took a lot of frustration, anger, persuasion, and sadness to get what is needed. I couldnāt get him to stop completely, but we compromised. Psychology too much screen time and gaming can alter the mind. When u take that away than u trigger them. You may not be able to change or stop his gaming but you have to put your foot down and tell him straight out what you really need. Be stern and solid. They act like kids when it comes to games. Donāt blame yourself if he isnāt giving you the attention. It is not your fault. You are being responsible and trying to excel. While he may not have the same mindset. Try to find another hobby or make friends. I am sure when u do u, and he sees how independent u are than he will come around. GL Be strong #womenpower
I was on the same boat except he was belittling me as well as verbally abusing me in front of our daughter. It took me leaving him for him to realize how bad he had messed up. We have a 20 month old. After sleeping at my parents for a week he is now apologizing to me and showing appreciation. But I wonāt get back into a relationship with him til after we both do a lot of therapy as he is a narcissist and I need time to heal from him and past relationships. Now 2 weeks after I left he is communicating with me and has not raised his voice at me. I know it could be just a show to get me back under his control but he has actually done research on narcissism and gaslighting as well as reactive abuse. He has admitted to it all and agreed to seek help.
My husband is also a video gamer. We have set days where he can come home and do what he wants but the other days are mine. He also can not ignore the kids while he plays or that ends it for the day. Kids come first he deserves his time but find a happy medium where he can have game days but days with you too and for the kids.
He can take care of himself. I assume he is grown. You have a full time job, you just arenāt getting paid.
Stop cleaning up after him and stop making him stuff to eat. 
Dtop whining, become more interesting, many would love to have a home and healthy children with a husband that comes home
You definitely not asking for too much, my hubby works full time as do I and he does tattoos on the weekends, he gets home at 6pm, helps with our 18-month-old whilst I do the cooking. He cleans the kitchen afterward while I tend to her. Then once sheās asleep he plays his games and still makes time for me when Iām done putting our baby to bed so he definitely needs a wake up call, too many women being taken for granted.
You work 24/7ā¦ how about you go out as soon as he gets inā¦ like they have already said ā¦ and at the wk endā¦ when u get in from work ā¦ go play a game and tell him he doesnāt work on the wk ends and in fact u work harderā¦ dont let him treat u like a slave and donāt let him give u zero respect ā¦ u let it continue then ur part of the problemā¦ demand the respect u deserve. Gd luck
Better than him cheating 
Playing video games everyday.I see a problem.Doesnt want to talk on phone? You are putting up with that.Hes also a father not to spend time with you or your daughter.There needs to be some changes.Wow reading this its disappointing and on top of it hes belittling you.IF not move on with your life.
Hubby works full-timeā¦so do I. We are both managers in our jobs( his is a whole department, mine a store) and have 4 kids we manageā¦ I do the kids in the morning ND get them to school before heading to work and he starts at 3am to finish before school pick up. I get dinner out in the morning so he can cook it in the arvo. When I get home we both sort the kids out then HE can do what ever the hell he wantsā¦ just leave ME alone unless I want to annoy him 
No one āclocks outā at 5pm if there are things that need to be done. Padlock his power cords and give him his to do list. 
Sometimes you just have to parent them. Iāve turned off the wifi so he couldnāt play games until he helped me with what I needed 
Being a mom is a full time job. Plus it sounds like you are an unpaid maid as well. Iād run that game console over out in the driveway!! What a rude, lazy bastard!!!
He sounds like trash. I canāt get enough of my man. So to be told I can only talk to him certain times a day Iād lose my shit. I have two children with another man and the new boyfriend helps take care of them when I am at work. If he canāt help with your child throw him in the trash. 
My husband has been playing video games his whole life!!! I personally see NOTHING wrong with itā¦I KNOW WHERE HE IS AT AND I KNOW HE IS SAFEā¤ That is a passion of his and what he enjoys to do after a long hard day of working!!! LET H BE AND LET HIM RELAX THE WAY HE WANTSā¦I WILL SAYā¦U TRY TO COME BETWEEN THATā¦AND IT WONT BE GOOD FOR EITHER ONE OF YOU!!
Straight jack ass. You can do better. I will say one thing. Donāt text him while heās driving home. Nobody should die cause you just want to see whatās going on. Either way, I get him needing wind down time. But video games all night is ridiculous. If you choose to stay, you have to make friends. Heāll resent you so badly, if he feels like heās all you have. But did I mention jack ass?
Girl leave, he needs to grow up and realize what he has; hes unable to do that while your supplying his each and every need. You need a real man not a 10 year old wanna be video game loser. 
My husband is this way. Our marriage is ending because of it.
He wants nothing to do with me but will spend all his time with his online friends who disrespect me. It gets old real quick.
Iād suggest you stop cooking for him, and doing HIS chores. He is supposed to be your partner, not your boss that you need to cater to. Heās a grown man, not a child. His momma should have done a better job raising him.
I did this for 7 years. There werenāt kids to complicate things- but regardless, I say with absolute certainty- leave. Your life will get better 
Lol i left this kind of a man. All he does is video games. I dont get any help, no spending time with me or the kids. Oh he will spend time but thats if its benefit him. This is for 10 years being married. Left the marriage and im so glad.
He sounds like a boy not a man. Get rid of him, thats no way to be treated by the person who is supposed to be your biggest support
I was on the same kind of relationship. We had two kids is the only difference. Wasted 8 years. Leaving was the best choice I ever made. The kids an I are a lot happier now!!
Throw the whole ass dude away bc he is trash
Needs to stop hiding behind the controller and be a man
nope fuck that. that is roommate status. we had to set up days that my husband would play and i would find something else to do. 2 days a week. i still expected him to help around the house as well. video game addiction is a thing and almost ruined my marriage. its cool that he likes that as a stress relief but it cant take over the rest of his life and responsibilities.
Give him a taste of the sameā¦stop calling and texting him, stop catering to him or doing anything extra. I know itās hard but use that energy and pick your child up, go to the park, mall, play a game. Donāt give him the time of dayā¦and If that doesnāt make him stop for a second, try counseling. I understand he needs to come from work and unwind, play his game for a little but what you wrote is absurd. He decided to get married and have a house and children. Youāre not his maid or go to when he gets bored. Stand up for yourself.
I love when mines plays video games, he leaves me the hell alone
Leave. Stop begging or explaining yourself more than once when he has shown you that he does not re about your needs You deserve better.
Iām sorry you are going through this. It sounds like he only married to get a free maid. You should try and get out and make a good life for yourself. Heās just added weight.
I would make sure he knows how you feel and give him a chance to do better. I say make a schedule so much playing a game for him to relax and same time for you to relax doing what you like and work together on cooking and cleaning. Much easier said then done I know but it works if both are on board and if both want it to work.
unfortunately this is just one of those things where you work or you dont. gaming is his outlet he isnt going to change and theres no point trying to change someone who doesnt see what theyre doing is effecting you. I had this same issue with my ex i practically had to beg him to help me with chores and spend time with me. It ultimatly low key was part of what ruined our relationship cause i constantly was āpestering himā to do something with me. I even told him playing on the couch vs the computer would help cause i could sit next to him and he didnt even do that for me. There are gamers who can deal with responsibilities and life first and then those who cant. If your husband is one who cant and you cant take it it will end things between you eventually.
That sounds like emotional and financial abuse. Sweetheart for you and your daughters sake stand up to him and tell him to get over himself. You are right and your feelings are valid.
Take his video game console and run it over
His belittling comments r fuckddā¦ but my husband plays and so do Iā¦ he comes home and plays his own for a bit till dinnerā¦ I get annoyed so if feel ya there but he devers time to unwind after working all day and week.
Nope. Nope. Nope. You work and go to school. He needs to grow up, get off the game and be a parent. Working never exempted me from being a parent or doing household chores. Id run that game over.
What would he think if you put your daughter in day care and went to work too. itās not ideal because you might be working just to pay for day care. Itās not fair to use being a full time mom against you. Would he switch roles with you? I imagine youāre going to school to make a better life for you and your family. He needs to get all of this. As far as time, schedule a date night every week if you can.
No I think you are doing too much for him and heās taking advantage. He doesnāt know that taking care of your child all day is also basically a job. So you work just as much if not more than him. If he wonāt give you the time you want to just be together you gotta ask yourself is this what you wanna put up with for the next 50 years?? And if not then ask him to make some changes or this isnāt going anywhere.
Heās belittling you. And not taking care of the kid? Girl, game over.
What in the world is up with everyoneās knee jerk reaction to run from their problems?! If I had a partner that felt the need to text me constantly, interrupt my personal me time and insist I do EVERYTHING they want to do I would start ignoring them too! Sometimes its not the man. Sometimes its a super needy emo woman.
Stop putting up with it!! Heāll continue to do what you allow. Whats the point of being with someone if they never want to spend time with you??
He wants a momma sister. Stop putting up with that shit.
Youāre a brave and amazing momma to your baby and as long as you are taking care of you and the baby then nothing else matters. Keep your head up.
Once a gamer always a gamer. Lol. I been since pinball and t.v. tennis. Run a hot bath and go from there. He loves you. Playing games donāt change that.
Yeah hes a user. F that. Iām petty so Iād straight up stop doing the chores that benefit him because he seems to think theyāre not that hard he can do them himself then!
Iād be sitting him down and being like this is how it is. This is what I feel like needs to change. Let him express what he feels like you may need to change about yourself (if anything) nd come to an agreement. Yall need quality time. And if youāre messaging him ffs during the day and that annoys him? Smh idk. This just seems like a lot of him doing the minimum. Youāre literally doing all the work as a parent which is like 12 jobs in itself. An actual job and going to school. F anyone that thinks thatās not good enough. Just being a SAHP is a lot. Good luck OP. I really hope you can figure something out with him. And if not do whatās gonna make you happy and whatās best for you and your child.
Omg Iām so sorry you are dealing with this. Heās disrespecting you, and you deserve so much better. You deserve an equal partner. Be blunt with him about how hard you work and will not put up with this anymore. If he doesnāt step up, leave.
One day you will wake up and wonder wtf youāre doing with your life. The little girl you are raising will see mummy doing everything for someone who leaves for 8 to 10 hours a day and think thatās normal. She will see Daddy sitting around and not engaging with her and think this is normal. And more than likely he will justify this by saying āIām providing for my family, doing what I need to doāā¦
You know whatās normal??? A father and partner who is there, whether he works 10 hour days or not, who spends time with his child and wife. A man whoās present when his family need him the most, time is more valuable than anything. Thatās normal!! Yep time out is also normal, a moment to unwind from work. Itās not an excuse to sit on your ass and expect to be waited on.
You will wake up one day, letās hope itās not to late. Take that man aside, put your big girl pants on and ask himā¦ is this how you want you little girls future husband to treat her!! Tell him what you need from him, if he shuts you down and wonāt hear youā¦ you have all the answers you need.
No its unfair. Youre working to, you both need a balance. Its also classified as abuse after a while. Civilly fight to fix it or leave. I stayed for too long in a similar situation, thankfully left before it was too late. Im not the fighting type, i dont even argue. Now everything is better off in our lives.
Mick his ass out tell him he can learn to take care of himself
None of what was described sounds like a partner to meā¦
Definitely toxic my husband always tells me babe Iām gonna play for a min 10 mins later he sees me bored ends the game and comes to cuddle with me and tell me how much he loves me go get one of those nd fk that dude I divorced a guy like that
Sounds like heās getting time to unwind and youāre not. Thatās not how a partnership is supposed to work. He should get time to relax but not all night every night.
Parenting means no video games till the babies are asleep 
Men or boys use video games, workouts or ect as outlets for stress. Maybe heās stressed at work? Iām not trying to find an excuse for his behavior. I am just trying to understand why he would behave this way. My husband plays video games when he gets home from work but he does spend a couple of hours with me and our son. Sounds like he might not know how to balance family and his stress relief. Make time to sit down and talk to him. Donāt try to sugar coat the situation, be straight forward because most men even my husband need it straight forward or else theyāre not really gonna understand the whole situation. I think some men are pretty oblivious to situations like this. Just my opinion. Regardless If he is the one making money or busting his ass at work he still needs to have time for his family. You bust your butt at work/home, school and still have time for family. You need to make that very clear to him. Itās not fair to you for him to belittle you or for him to treat you like that but maybe he doesnāt realise hes doing it either? And again not trying to side with him or anything like that. My husband sometimes makes VERY blunt comments and my family takes things very personally so I have to go behind him and rescramble his words and word it all correctly for a way that they donāt get offended.
I see this all the time you either go with it or move on without him but at least he works to support the ones I know dont have jobs barely helps with kids yet the mama is doing everything and only asks for just even an hour of quality time a day but some how the PlayStation is more intriguing
Finish school and leave him. He sounds like another kid and not a partner.
First of all, your post is really confusing. A lot of the responses here are talking about how your husband doesnāt take care of things at home etc but I think you were talking about wanting intimacy/quality time with your husband? Perhaps attention and such?
If this is so, it is easier to be straightforward to your husband what you want instead of āexpectingā him to just know how you feel and reciprocate. Men also have the need to unwind and often this involves games etc. it doesnāt matter what they choose to do with their time, I think you both deserve some off time. However, if you want some quality time, find a good time to tell him you need an hour or two put aside for just you two, no phones, maybe to watch a movie or so on. Itās not hard but donāt expect him to put down everything for you every single minute of the day. It honestly sounds exhausting. I understand you donāt have many friends or hobbies but it sounds like youāre in great need of one. It is unhealthy to expect your husband to be responsible for your happiness or fulfill your needs in that area. You deserve to find something that makes you happy apart from your husband.
If your post is about how your responsibilities between you both are unequal, that is something you both need to discuss. Instead of complaining or getting upset about it, if you need some time for self-care, just do it. Some men will take advantage of you let them because no one wants to do the āeasy workā like folding laundry or taking care of the kids, just donāt give them the chance to say no.
Definitely unfair. Nothing about him says āpartnerā at all.
Use him to get your schooling done if you need the financial security, siphoning off money to get you and your daughter a safe place to land. You earned it by being maid, cook, and nanny. Hand him divorce papers once you finish school. Do not have any more children till youāve found your freedom
My husband is the same wayā¦ I sympathize with you 
Yes and no. Itās a release for him. Be gentle
Thatās his way to unwind from his day. He could be at the bar or out cheating. But heās not. I gave my man a special gaming corner that he can come home to and battle his daily struggles out. He works a very stressful job and supports us. After I got on board and supported him, it actually helped his well being and our overall relationship.
Sounds like oops the cord/ remotes to his gaming system somehow got lost ā¦weekends included !
Stop saying he works and you" just ". Thatās why he can play his games because youāre doing everything else
Had this happen to me, he slowed pulled away and eventually cheated before breaking it off. You should do what makes you happy because you can only control how you respond. Once you are in a good place emotionally then maybe see if he is willing to take a night or two off. He does sound stressed but you canāt control how he reacts to stress. Take your daughter for walks and play and try not to think too hard about whats going on. Keep yourself open to communication but be patient, men can be incredibly slow and dense.
Hahaha, if you say it feels like he is belittling you cause you dont work full time and make more moneyā¦guess what he isā¦you two are in a relationship ship with a child. You are going to school to get a better education to help better your family while taking care of your child plus cooking cleaning and working on the weekendsā¦clearly he does not value you or your hard workā¦ I can understand coming home to unwind and play a game for a bitā¦I do sometimes and so does my husbandā¦but he will say or ask if itās alright if he plays for an hr or so or if I need help with anything first or when he is doneā¦he spends time with me and his kids plus runs around does errands for the houseā¦ may be take some time for yourselfā¦cook supper have it ready for when he comes home eat together and then tell him you are leaving for a while because like him you also need time to unwind from the dayā¦its not healthy to not do things for yourself ā¦even if you go for a walk or take a long hot bathā¦you both need to discuss what you both want out of this relationship and work towards itā¦maybe set aside one /2 days for him to cook maybe talk about having a date night once a week.dont have to be expensive just quality time together a walk grab a coffee sit and watch a movie together cook a meal togetherā¦and if he still doesnāt want to try and work with you maybe itās time to stop catering him and move on in your life without himā¦he is your other half ā¦should be praising and help build you up not break you downā¦
My husband comes home and usually I give him dinner cause I know heās hungry and he always asks if myself and the kids have ate and if we havenāt then thatās his first priority is helping me get the kids settled or maybe one of them needs help finishing up their homework while I finish fixing up everyoneās plates, and if there are dishes in the sink and I tell him I have to stay up to get them done he tells me to not worry about it and wants us all to snuggle up with him until he falls asleep. We are a team and if each of us doesnāt do our part NOTHING gets accomplished.
Taking care of a child is a full time job alone.
Give gaming a try itās something you both can do together but separate at the same time. It is bonding time for my husband and I, and I enjoy it. I agree itās a stress relief and although you sound very busy as well (been there), we all need time for ourself and differently than others. He may be getting agitated because to him it may come off as nagging. Maybe give yourselves some space whether it means less texting throughout the day or just giving space when youāre both home. Iām not trying to say youāre wrong in any way, just giving an outside opinion especially not knowing his side.
I canāt even we are focusing on just the video games in this situation. If it was just the video games and everything else was okayā¦ I would say there is some leeway on what she could do. But this man is straight up belittling herā¦ Disregarding the āworkā she does at home and to better thier family because he works full time during the week? Thr fact that all she wants is a text before he leaves workā¦is an issue? Come onā¦honestly. Its takes such little effort to be appreciative of your partner. My SO and I text good morning and how are you every morning because he leaves for work earlier than I have to be upā¦ We text throughout the day and then before he leaves for work itsā¦ Can I stop to get you anything on the way home? Or if he knows I have had a stressful day with our kids and my daycare kidsā¦he offers simple thingsā¦do you want to go shower? Want to run to the store/gas station? He helps me get our childrens dinner plates ready and doesnāt take one bite till Iām sitting with him. And then thanks me for cookingā¦sometimes its a big meal and sometimes its hot dogs and Kraft. And this gets recriprocated back to himā¦ Hey you want to go lay down early tonight. I know you had a long day and your back hurts. Or take it easy on Saturday and play your video games. Appreciation is a 2 way street. I dont think she is asking a lot to be appreciated and shown some attention.
Been through this, he is belittling you. MOVE ON
If it is too much for you finish school start working full time and do what makes you happy it canāt revolve around him since thatās his peace you gotta find yours
There should definitely be a time limit on games, like an hour a day at the most, yes Iām dead serious 
if he loves you and ur daughter then he will agree
My husband use to be the same way. But i had a heart to heart about 10 years ago with him and he would only play video games after i went to bed. I would use that time as me time. We both work full-time back then. We now have a 6 year old Daughter and i am a stay at home mom with no friend so i definitely understand your feelings of being alone and just wanting your best friend (him) to pick you over video go . For my i had to understand his love language . Just because he seemed liked he picked video games over me that wasnāt the truth. He works hard to give us the word. My husband gets up at 1am for work m-f and most of the time doesnāt make it home till 4:30. He gets a window of 2 hours to shower, eat dinner and spend time with us. So it doesnāt bother me that on Friday and or Saturday night he plays video games after our daughter goes to bed. If my daughter has behaved that week we have girls night in our bedroom. So my 2 cents is talk and be supportive and just come up with maybe a suggestion like maybe once a week or whatever you 2 have a movie night and then all other time he does whatever.
What is he doing during the hours he gets off work and when he comes home? Or am I reading that wrong?
Make a date night once a week
Tell him. Donāt be scared. He will either contribute more then financially or he can lose you because you deserve better than that. Stop doing anything for him. Either he changes or you get the strength to leave because some men canāt and wonāt change
Gaming spouses arent the problem. Itās disconnected spouses that are the problem. You could replace gaming with any other hobby and he would still be neglecting his wife and child. He aināt it, sis! Move on!
Iād smash the game system and tell him if he doesnāt want quality family he can have quality alone time while you pack your bags and bail. My husband used to pull that shit and I nipped it in the but because as a parent you donāt get to clock out. Period. Tell him to grow up
Youāre not in the wrong for wanting to spend quality time with your hubby. With that being said you said you donāt really have friends or talk to other ppl on a normal basis. How about talk to him and explain that you want some quality time and also start trying to get out of your shell more and meet new ppl. If he doesnāt want to do that then focus on bettering yourself and doing things that make you happy! Go for walks with your daughter or hikes. Find a place does little arts and crafts things you can do. Like painting? When you start doing these things and back away from talking to him, itās going to either make him want to interact with you more or heās going to just pull away more but you will know where you stand and at that point you can make a decision on whether the relationship is worth keeping
My husband said you need a new girlfriendā¦ But in all seriousness youāre his free housekeeper and nanny. And you deserve respect for all you do. Donāt walkā¦runā¦
Thatās not a relationship.Thats a station ship.Tell him what you need .an if hes not going to participate in the relationship .Then why you in.Why are we accepting the bare minimum. When youāre in a relationship that takes two people. Quality time, help around the house, help with the children, you donāt want to do any of that why are you in a relationship.Let him know this is not what you want.He either participate and be a part of the relationship. Or you need to move on.Your not his house keeper or the nanny
Tbh, as a gamer it always makes me feel weird and ashamed that i game.
I donāt think this has a alot to do with gaming, I feel like itās more about what heās saying to you.
Tell him how you feel ask him to make some time for you.
Edit: DO NOT throw it away or break it!
It wonāt fix anything if you do that itāll just cause more problems and wont actually fix anything, on top of that do you want him to spend 500$ on a new one.
Also you can always try gaming with him it can be super fun:)
Trash. Iām a gamer, my husband is a gamer, weāve got two kids. I stay home, am a student. He works full time. He STILL comes home to do chores and housework. I aināt a maid.
I knew mine was a gamer from day one. I started playing too. Sometimes we play together, sometimes I sit in my chair by him and watch tv while he plays his computer and Iām content with that. But from how you make it sound, he doesnāt enjoy spending any time with you and your daughter. Mine makes a point to watch a few episodes of something with me while we eat. Or he will stop and rub my feet. We work at the same place but opposite shifts one of us is almost always gone during work hours and we share all parenting duties. Idk. He should appreciate what you do. If he canāt, you will be happier being alone. Sounds like youāre already alone as it is.
I donāt allow all that in my homeā¦ So I donāt have these problems.
ā¦ok fyi no man -love him or not-should ever be making you feel less of a partner because if who works more or does moreā¦itās team effort to have a family and stable homeā¦first off he should be so lucky you are home with your kids and not having to drag them to daycareā¦I stay at home with my husb kids (weāve had them just us -no biomom- since they were 2&3, now 11&12 so i am the MOM but still) and my husb is the sole providerā¦I cook I clean I do the finances, shopping, laundry, school work, literally everything a household needs to run smoothlyā¦on his days off and every day after work he plays his games til his eyes closeā¦I honestly donāt mind as much as heās not doing anything with bitches or money or crack and if thatās his favorite hobby I feel he deserves itā¦also, he has NEVER looked at me and said nothing about what I do or donāt do in the houseā¦thereās been days I hadnāt done the dishes or dried the load of clothes I washed days ago, thereās days I donāt cook and guess what, he will do it without a single word of discourse because were a fkn teamā¦talk to him and tell him you need his attention and if you have already and itās gotten no where, put your foot down and decide if itās worth the effortā¦
My daughters dad used to do that. It got so bad I ended up leaving him a year ago. He did this for 3 years. She is now 2 almost 3.
A grown man that spends his evenings playing video games is nothing more than an overgrown adolescent.
Fuck.that.shitšš¼ sorry. I had to say it. I go to school work 2-3 days a week have 3 kids, my husband is in the military works 10-12 hours in a day runs his business (painting) and is getting his masters. We share all house work, school work for the kids, and we BOTH take turns planning date nights, itās def not perfect but you should never settle for less!
Seriouslyā¦ a real man has tool boxes and tackle boxes Not xboxesā¦youāre being played !
Good luck 
literally in the same situation except I donāt go to school. Idk how you do it.
I set my exās tv on fire. There is NO excuse for shitty parenting, half-assed relationship investments, or āI work more than YOUā bullshit! Cancel the internet and sell the gaming system! Since he āmakes more moneyā he can afford child support!