Well at least going forward you won’t enjoy sex with him as much, which good news for him, you’re vagina will be tight, unfortunately, uncomfortable to you.
Tips if you want to keep the relationship
•try cowgirl
• flex your vagina if you’re doing missionary/ if your doing doggy arch your back as best as possible
•do anal
•remember what he said and space out durning sex that should tighten you up real quick
I, personally, wouldn’t be able to get over the comment if we were doing the deed and eventual find someone who doesn’t find my vagina loose.
What is said is an absolute violation of trust in a serious relationship. Geez, would you tell a man that you are in love with that he has a tiny ####? No, because you do not hurt someone you love. Leave sweetie. You deserve better
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Small dick energy… our vaginas get “looser” when we get more aroused and feel completely free with our partner.
He’s acting like somebody who has never really pleased his partner before and is scared of some real WAP…
You said you were being honest with each other- is there any way you might have hurt his feelings, and this is how he lashed out?
Every selfish ex of mine always said this shit when they were mad. But at the same time, they were the ones who always kept coming back because they claimed that they’ve never had better p*$$y…
Besides- our vaginas can expand to push out a baby- then contract back to being tight again… so its HIGHLY unlikely that you’re actually loose.
(((HUGS)))
So im not the only one who jumped straight on to say he’s obviously too small… haha 
Be sure to correct him hun… then move on and find someone more “appropriately fitted” to the situation 
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Laser rejuvenation is supposed to work pretty good.
The amount of people that don’t know how vaginas work is scary, especially considering 99% of them are women. Please do research. Your vagina “loosens” the better it feels.
Maybe it’s not you. Maybe just maybe he has a micro-penis. Some people just cannot take the blame for anything.
Throw the entire man in the trash and start over.
You wanted open and honest you can’t be mad about it.
It happens we can lose elasticity. Weight fluctuations, having babies etc. “Loose” is just the wrong word for it.
Pelvic floor Workouts. Kegels. Get the eggs/balls you put up there walk around with for a while to build back up your strength. I’m sure you’ve noticed things as well with sex not just him bc I went through it myself. I gained a lot of weight, lost it, gained back, lost some more. I felt that things were different when we had sex and no not just your usual “walls get loose when aroused”. My friends and I have all had the same conversation bc we love sex we noticed the difference and looked into shit ourselves.
He’s not a dick for pointing it out when you asked for feedback. Just look into it work on it and ways on keeping your sex life interesting while you do. It’s not the end of the world and can be “fixed”.
Then you shouldn’t have told he he can tell you anything. DUH !
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It’s not you. It’s called little man syndrome and he needs reminded of that.
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I had C-Section so mine never got stretched during childbirth. Maybe she could strengthen her pelvic muscles…squeeze 'em.
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- The more excited a woman is, the “looser” she appears due to muscles relaxing and lubrication.
- The only way to ensure continued tightness is to have a good sized boner… Has he considered that he may be the problem?
- Under NO circumstances do you EVER insult your partner’s bits. EVER. I don’t care if you begged for the information, him telling you that is really uncool.
You should tell him your going to find a man who can fill you, and leave.
How you ask for truth & be mad about it. lol
You wanted the truth you got it … damn would you rather he lie to you!
Do some kegals 10 seconds each sets of ten at least 3 times a day increase the length with time
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Oh NO mama! You leave this dude & find another one with a bigger D his obviously isn’t big enough 
God bless you !!!
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Be honest right back and tell him he’s tiny then and needs to get off his pedestal
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You asked and he gave you honesty and you cannot be mad at him for that. If I ask my man personal questions like that I want the truth and he gives it to me. First I want you to understand that when your arroused and comfortable during sex your muscles do loosen and its an absolutely normal occurrence. Also try some pelvic floor exercises. You can also squeeze your muscles in your hooha during sex it always drives my man crazy.
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Breaking down the myth of a ‘loose vagina’
First thing’s first: There’s no such thing as a “loose” vagina. Your vagina may change over time due to age and childbirth, but it won’t lose its stretch permanently.
The myth of a “loose” vagina has historically been used as a way to shame women for their sex lives. After all, a “loose” vagina isn’t used to describe a woman who has a lot of sex with her partner. It’s primarily used to describe a woman who has had sex with more than one man.
But the truth is that it doesn’t matter who you have sex with or how often. Penetration won’t cause your vagina to stretch out permanently.
A ‘tight’ vagina isn’t necessarily a good thing
It’s important to know that a “tight” vagina may be a sign of an underlying concern, especially if you’re experiencing discomfort during penetration.
Your vaginal muscles naturally relax when you’re aroused. If you’re not turned on, interested, or physically prepared for intercourse, your vagina won’t relax, self-lubricate, and stretch.
Tight vaginal muscles, then, could make a sexual encounter painful or impossible to complete. Extreme vaginal tightness could also be a sign of vaginismus. This is a treatable physical disorder that affects 1 in every 500 women, according to the University of California, Santa Barbara.
There are many levels to sex outside of insertion. Perhaps exploring the warmup area will be a good way to exercise your sexual tension while keeping you both satisfied
For one you ask , and for two I’d say Iam not loose your just small
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You can’t have it both ways !
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Obviously he doesn’t know female anatomy. You can’t technically be “loose” if you’re not comfortable with someone , your pelvic muscles contract. If you’re comfortable with someone, your pelvic muscles are more relaxed, which is why he might be saying that. So if he isn’t happy that you’re comfortable with him, then that’s on him. Do some pelvic floor exercises, give him that grippy grip, and then leave his ass. That way he won’t forget.
Maybe his dick is too small…
U ask crazy questions u get crazy answers!!! Dont ask questions u cant handle the answers too!! Anything he said as a response to that questions would not have turned out well. I surely wouldnt be mad at him for answering ur ridiculous question with honesty. Next time dont ask!!!
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He’s got a tiny pee pee
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Yes she asked, but it’s ok for her to be upset and hurt about what he said.
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I would tell him he’s just small 
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Maybe he just has a small peep. I don’t honestly believe woman are ever loose. Did you know that when you’re aroused your vagina opens up more? Like it’s a fact.
Yes she ask for his honesty but he could’ve worded it differently… like it’s ok that she’s hurt but girl maybe it’s time for your honesty hour and tell him he’s just not big enough to hang🤷🏾♀️ things you can do naturally are kegel exercises they strengthen your pelvic muscles and that’s what they are muscles down there so you just gotta work em a lil after a while especially if you’ve had babies etc. Hugs girlie
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Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answers to or don’t already know the answer imo
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Keigal exercises ma’am…but he’s an asshole for telling you that…no man should tell a woman that they are loose and that he’s been lying about being satisfied…as grown ups we sit down and if we have issues even when it comes down to sex and we talk about those issues…your crown is falling ma’am, pick it up adjust it put it back on your head, you got this!!!
There’s exercises you can do to strengthen your muscles some very important ones are Kegel do daily you can do them through out day any time and theirs also other exercises that u can do . You can google them .
Damn all the girls here are bitter. If you asked your fella and he said same you’d take offence to it too. I know I would regardless
Maybe his dick isn’t big enough.
Do some kagels, go to the dream and tighten up.
If you’re relaxed and “loose” you’re in the mood, if your clenched and tightened up, your prob not. He should take it as a compliment. Yes you could do kegals and such if you want, but he deff could have talked to you about it differently. All vaginas are made differently, just like all penis is.
Well you can fix that, do kegels like everyone said. He can’t fix his small dick, which he must have.
My abusive ex told me this once…i can guarantee it wasnt me. It was him.
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Then hes not doing good at foreplay. A woman’s vagina swells when she is turned on. He needs to do more work before he gets his 30 seconds of fame.
Sounds like he’s an executive member of the angry inch club.
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When a woman is comfortable during intercourse and is relaxed she does loosen a bit. That’s natural. You don’t become loose, child birth doesn’t make you loose… I’m sorry he hurt your feelings. Maybe Google what the vagina actually does during intercourse and prove to him that your vagina is actually comfortable with him.
Being “loose” means you are comfortable and safe with the person you are with….hate the stigma of you need to be “tight” when generally that’s your body telling you, that you are not comfortable. You can tighten it during sex for him if you do kegel exercises and learn more about yourself and your body. Don’t feel ashamed because you are comfortable with your partner because the “loose” just means you feel safe. Varying on your body,others feel tighter and some feel looser down there when relaxed, again our bodies are all different,I do suggest some kegel exercises and pelvic floor exercises, but this is more beneficial for you,especially for us Mama’s.
KEGELS!! Then when your tight again go give it to someone else that deserves it ookkkuurr lol
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Gonna sound rude but you DID ask. Don’t ask a question if you are not prepared for an honest answer. At least he is being honest. You can do exercises called Kegel’s to tighten yourself up.
Girl, him & his children are why things aren’t what they were down there. Don’t let it bother you more than it has to, feel it & then do some research & see if there’s anything that you’d be interested in that could help tighten things up. I ordered a Perifit & have been impressed. I didn’t order it for my husband but for myself, I want sex to feel better for ME & changing my view on that made a huge difference. It’s great to have a satisfied spouse but you’d be surprised how he’d react if you started just mostly worrying about your satisfaction… & even if he doesn’t, you’ll be having a better time & won’t care 
Do keegal exercises and try not to be upset to much
You asked for honesty, you can’t ask for something and then get mad. Upset yes hurt even but truth can 95% of the time hurt. So find ways together to make it so both of you are satisfied and ways to help with your personal area.
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Sounds like he knows it bothers you as u keep asking him and his playing on it x
You asked, he answered honestly just as you wanted. Yes, you are allowed to be upset, no one can change how you feel. But, being upset and angry at him for being honest isn’t fair to him. Yes the answer sucks, but it’s the truth in his eyes. Find some alternatives to help in the bedroom so you both are satisfied.
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Tell him it’s not that your loose it’s just he’s to small to fill it.
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Do men not realize that we, internally loosen up and relax when we are aroused? If you were painfully tight, you wouldn’t be in the mood 
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Pelvic floor exercises. Kegels don’t always just do it! We as women should be talking more about our pelvic floor health. I’m sorry he hurt your feelings, though. Hugs.
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Loose is just a concept men made up maybe educate him about vaginas since he wants the privilege to be inside of one but doesn’t know how they work.
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Maybe his dick is just small🤷🏽♀️
Lol maybe you’re not loose and he’s just a tiny dck btch 
I’m sorry this is happening though.
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There is no such thing! Tell him to get a bigger d#ck
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I agree with some of the lady’s in the comments. Dudes got a little dick. We can push a whole ass baby from our vagina and it tighten right back up. It’s not you it’s him.
More to sex than penetration… change husbands hun
maybe he is just small
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Well you did ask. You can’t be mad that he was honest.
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Rock this shirt, play the song, and dump his ass
Maybe he’s just small and deflecting his insecurities 
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Tell him his penis is really tiny , and you’ve never felt it . It’s all about PERSPECTIVE
I’m sorry he’s an insensitive asshole. From my understanding, the vagina muscles go back to how they were after birth (I’ve had three kids so I’m pretty sure this is correct), and if it can do that then he’s just got a small D. Anyway, the only men (I’ve slept with) who’ve ever called me loose (actually only happened once when I was a teenager) had a small d. I slept with his best friend when we broke up just to be sure and he said the exact opposite (because he had the exact opposite of a little D)! 
Or maybe his dick is small? I’m honestly wondering if he is deflecting… maybe not, but Kegals will help keep your little lady in shape. You can do em anytime. 3sets of 20 . Us women LOVE asking questions, swear our butts won’t get hurt. . then poof. We’re in our emotions. I know it hurt, but you have to try and hold up your end.
Well the real question is is he small and then you got your answer
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I agree- he’s just small!! Also, he may be setting you up for him to cheat. Making up an excuse so you blame yourself instead of him. js
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So he doesn’t want you to be aroused then? The vagina is a muscle, if you’re aroused the muscle expands and lubricates. If you’re not, you’re right and a little drier. Not sure why he’s mad he’s doing everything right. Tell him to go his hand then
See the funny thing about men is that they complain when a woman isn’t satisfying enough. But you wanna know what the true kicker is? A woman can tighten and change her insides. A man can’t make his penis bigger. Woman for the win! Throw away the husband!
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Your not loose there is no such thing thats not how vaginas work he just has a small penis
that is so mean why would anyone say that to someone they care about. he definitely should have delivered that better.
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Tighten up. It doesn’t matter size just how they use it. He gave you a straight up answer if you wasn’t ready 4 truth u shouldn’t have asked. U can tighten on him while u having sex it will make him roll his eyes back in his head!
Your s/o is a twat. He’s probably insecure about his dick size or his abilities to maneuver it and is trying to get in your head to make u feel bad about urself before u feel bad about being with him. It’s quite literally impossible to be “loose” and any idiot even slightly familiar with human anatomy is aware of this. If you’re now feeling down on yourself due to his ignorant statement, do some extra kegals.
Have you tried anal? I find that men like the change from oral to vaginal to anal so maybe you aren’t really “loose” maybe he’s just doing a shity job at saying he wants to switch it up. And don’t worry about pain, lube with numbing medicine is worth it and comes in different ways.
There is no right or wrong answer. It could be a few factors here that could now open a closer more intimate relationship. There is the possibility you aren’t what you once were and kegals and pelvic floor workouts will heighten your experience regardless if he is right or not, you could be more turned on, and on his side after being together for a while guys get bored and aren’t at their full potential anymore either and he may need more excitement. Work on yourself (muscles) for more confidence and try spicing up things; role-playing, wigs, lingerie, etc and/or different places/positions if only happens in bed and too difficult outside of bedroom on the floor or in a chair, in the bathroom, too many other places in the house to list try being risky. Don’t take his honesty as bad like I said it may not reflect on you it could be him or both of you either way life is too short to dwell on it learn from it and live for the moments!
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Loose isn’t even a real concept!! If you can push an entire child out and your body goes back to normal there isn’t a penis in the world to make you “loose” he’s insecure about his small attachment and trying to push it off on you.
Tell him to get a dick pump so he’s not so small
You can tell him he needs to consult an anatomy book and actually learn a thing or two about vaginas. Maybe you’ll want sex more if he knew what to do 
It might not even be u his dick to small
Tell him you ain’t loose his dick is too small 
he got big dick energy for a small dude
Your probably not loose. He’s just small. I know. I had the same problem. Move on like I did…
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Maybe your not loose, maybe hes not big enough to fit like a glove. Ugh! Kegal exercises. Google if your unfamiliar.
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Tell him his dicks too small seems like he’s the problem that’s a stupid thing to say to your woman either way
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It is actually proven that when a woman is completely turned on our muscles loosen. You’re not loose you’re just extremely turned on and if he wants to complain that he makes you feel good you need a MAN hunny not this little ass boy that knows absolutely nothing about a woman’s anatomy!
It’s all muscles which in time can get slightly looser and child birth but you can strengthen all that up with pelvic floor excersise and kegels! Tell him to get a pump and contribute
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Tell him you ain’t loose he’s just got a small dick…
Well in all fairness u told him to be honest
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This might be a little tmi but have you tried using toys at the same time lol men do not think before they speak sometimes I’m sorry like everyone else says you can also try some exercises to help strengthen your muscles I recently lost a TON of weight and that did help a bit I feel.
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If that’s truly how he feels, you can do one of two things. Tell him to grow some.extra di#k or if there is merrit to it, do some kagels. Learn how to better control it. If he’s doing it right it should be contracting and tightening and lossening. Like if he’s hitting the right spots. Honestly though if you had to ask if he’s satisfied, you already knew the answer and didn’t wanna hear the truth.
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Women “you ca be open and honest about ANYTHING”
Men: okay
W: no not like that. You’re the bad guy.
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No respectful secure man wud say that especially to someone they say they love. Nope sry I’d say bye real quick. Move on to the next that wud respect u n love ur body.
Or slip in some dick growing meds into his coffee if I wanted him to have a bigger ego as well n get myself some kegal balls n not have sex for a week n then c wtf he had to say after that
Little dick energy…
I think he’s cheating or wants to end the relationship.
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Just tell him it’s not your fault his thing is small… I’m petty like that. Wound his pride back.
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He needs to stop using his hand so much. A vagina and his hand are not the same level of “tight”
That’s not how that works…Now you be honest and tell Him the truth #littleweewee
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I highly doubt your loose. His penis must be real small.
“Loose” isn’t a real thing. It’s called your body preparing for sex.
Maybe he just has a small penis