My spouse works with someone that I feel uncomfortable with: Advice?

NEVER CONFRONT THE OTHER WOMAN…CONFRONT YOUR MAN!!! You didn’t make any commitments to that woman so you don’t step to her at all! Step to your man and if he don’t handle it right…STEP OUT THAT MESS!

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She is way too comfortable with him… lines are clearly blurred here and it seems that he is likely entertaining all the attention he is receiving. He needs to establish clear boundaries with her and if he doesn’t, you have your answer…

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Tell him he better stop flirting with that girl at work before you flirt with the door on your way out :v:t2:

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And if you guys haven’t been to her house before…she wanted him to know where she lives …why else would she want him to drop her off so bad…

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You have a stalker there.

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You’re not overreacting! I see so many strange things with this post like why on earth would she leave her kids and husband to go with you instead, why is she so comfortable around your hubby, why was he so nervous, why was the card only made out to him??? If this was me, I would talk to EVERYONE in this situation. Talk to your husband first, and then talk to this other woman/coworker along with her HUSBAND about how this makes you feel…definitely inform her husband on her behavior around your husband … this lady seems obsessed but the question is why???

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Dont rush into an argument Try the pet bunny test first if the bunnys safe so are you .

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My husband would literally be a full blown asshole lol and tell her to back the fuck off. But my guy has no filter. So, if he won’t say it, I would if I were you.

I see a Lifetime movie in the works here. :joy:

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Something seems off between them … or like stated above she is nuts but why would he be so nervous he is sweating and for her tonsayboh my husband and kids can walk … that’s disgusting … what type of person/wife/MOTHER does that :astonished::face_with_raised_eyebrow:

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You’re not overreacting. Talk to that bitch.

I would have had a word looong ago. Well done you for being so calm. Maybe just a quiet one yo let her know she’s crossing boundaries

Sounds like a lifetime movie. Either something is going on or she’s very aggressive. I would have said something to her

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I would tell her fffffffffffffffffffffffffffoff!!

Wtf…I would of punched the bitch in the throat…

She is crossing a line but…your husband should stop it. She clearly thinks it’s ok so he should step up and says it not, and if it doesn’t stop then he needs to make sure higher up at work know.My hubby has no problem telling bitches to get bent. MOST… women will stop if they are aware the attention is unwanted and bit acceptable.

What is ur husband doing that makes her so damn comfortable is a better question…

His nerveness gave him away. There’s something going on. You need to talk to him and lay the law down period put that horny loose hoe in her place.

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No! You are not overreacting! That’s not right.

Trust your instincts

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She has a major crush your husband’s knows hope he hasn’t played into this in past and she won’t leave him alone now go to her husband and have a talk then talk to het

Something is going on but it isn’t your husband. She sounds as if she has crush on him and can’t get it control. Ask your husband what is going on. He is in a tough spot.

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My fiance has had a few girls do this. Definitely don’t approach it like your accusing him and make it very clear you just want to know what their relationship is. (I asked my fiance in the wrong manner and it just ended in arguments and started to push him away) but anyways , the best thing to do, with the assumption nothing’s going on , is ignore her and her behavior or short of interject as a woman and make it known without being rude about it, that you’re in his life and your relationship with your husband isn’t going anywhere. After a while in my experience they give up. If not it at least decreases a bunch. Best of luck , sweetie ! I hope you’re able to work through it. I know how uncomfortable it gets.

Your SO needs to tell her she’s inappropriate.

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That’s your husband’s problem and it sounds like he’s not handling his business.

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Either he hasn’t told her to stop, he’s sleeping with her, or she’s nuts.

I’m more inclined to think something’s going on. If he had any backbone at all, he’d have already told her to knock it off. Clearly he has some since he didn’t have any problems telling her no to a ride. So either she’s completely nuts, which I doubt very much, or he’s seeing her on the side.

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I would give her a piece of my mind. And a slap if she’ll talk back snotty. Get away from my husband you skank