That’s a big no… Lunch is for friends imo dinner should be with family included. Anytime you SO wants to be included I feel like they should be rather husband or wife.
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Look, I’m not against dinner/lunch with friends. I used to have lunch often with a mutual friend of mine and my husband’s.(We both worked in the same area and both our spouses were aware, plus it was lunch not 8 pm) However, even the friend would respectfully alert my husband that he was taking me to lunch etc. Plus if my husband had been home, he could have come too. If your husband was adamant you couldn’t go that’s weird. Maybe it’s because you wanted to take the toddler, but I also agree an 8pm dinner sounds more like a date. It is also weird he has so many photos on his phone of this woman. I get they were friends before you married but it is still weird. I have a few guy friends and I literally only have five or six photos of them and they’re all ones of them either in our group photo or a photo taken by my husband of the two of us. There is a boundary to having friends of the opposite sex and it sounds like he’s trying to cross it. 
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My rule is: My wife is ALWAYS welcome to come anywhere with me. If for any reason I am told that she could not go with me, then I dont go. This does not mean that she always comes with me. It means that she is always welcome to come with me.
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Time to walk the other way
It is a date… Wake up and get stepping… He’s fkn her.
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You know damn well that was a date…
That’s your sister wife.
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That’s a huge red flag and sounds like a date to me. How do these men think this is okay . If you went out with a guy friend at 8pm ,he’s not invited,no kids I bet you anything it would make him uncomfortable too. The only dinner with a woman he should be going to that late is you or his mama. Anyone else is suspicious.
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So he is openly telling you he’s going on a date with another woman and your question is what?
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That would be a no go for me
You have your answer right there ‘my spouse wouldn’t let me’…, girl!!! 
boy bye
Well would it be better if he lied about what he was doing? I mean when did people become so insecure and then possessive of one and other 
So do women UPDATE us or are we all just guessing what happened? lol 
because curious minds want to know 
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Make plans to follow him. Trust your instincts.
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If you don’t feel you can talk honestly about this with him, I encourage you to reevaluate your relationship. If you guys love and respect each other you should be able to converse about it.
I too, would have a suspicious mind!
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Well I guess it would be a dbl date than…cause I’d be damn if my husband / SO would be doing a dinner date with another female. I’m bring my male "friend " along too …shit two can play this game
He’d come home to an empty house cause no way in Hell would I be there looking stupid when he got back. How would he feel if you just randomly got dressed to go on a dinner date with one of your past male coworkers while he stayed home with the baby? Right, he’d have a damn fit! Actually he’d tell you straight out NO.
Honestly sounds like he wants to catch up with an old friend. The time doesn’t concern me because of date or cheating can happen at noon. I don’t think that you should Have asked to go with your toddler. Who wants to catch up with an old friend while trying to make sure their toddler is being well behaved. That sounds annoying… Ultimately though if you don’t trust your husband to have a casual dinner with someone of the opposite sex then you have much bigger problems in your marriage. Also though, why would he tell you he was doing that and who it was with if he had something to hide. You seem to be controlling and insecure. And definitely have trust issues. I would start there before worry about a female he is dining with. Cheating can happen anytime anywhere.
Follow him I wouldn’t be ok with that either
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You offered you accompany him with your child. Why would he turn that down. If they are just friends… why can’t you be her friend as well? Something is not right.
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Because it IS a date. Send him to her with his bags packed.
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He knows better, it’s a nope 
Go to the same restaurant with your kids and eat. Act like you don’t even see him and continue the meal.
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Not dinner girl that’s a date!
It is a date ur man is just a pig good luck cuz I would take my child and would be gone!!!
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From my husband’s mouth girl you are being played like a fiddle he said absolutely he is up to no good talking shop or anything else there’s no reason she couldn’t go or no reason the meeting couldn’t be at your home so from another man he says girl you need to stand up and say absolutely not happening and if you do go you can take your belongings with you this is from a married man of 20 years he says absolutely do not fall for this stunt he said go spy see what you see when you see what we know you will then you walk in and make them both look like the trash they are and if you do not see anything you still need to make it known to him and her this is not going to happen again period or she can have him
That’s a date. Run girl. You deserve better!
No fuck him out asap hes lying 8 oc shes vegan bet he will eat her 4 desert has she no partner herself or what s going on its not right n ur left holding d baby red flag there 100%
That’s a date for sure! Surprise them, go for 830 and walk up to the table and introduce yourself. Then you’ll get all the answers you need. I would!
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I understand him not wanting to go with the toddler. That pretty much changes having a nice meal. But lunch would sure look better than dinner with someone of the opposite sex. However, if you are confident nothing is going on then don’t intrude.
That would be I will take you for everything you’ve got.
Red flags all over the place why take her to dinner and loads of photos of her on his phone no no no.He could invite her to your home and get dinner delivered if got nothing to hide 
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Yes he hiding something
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Are these actual posts from real people or shared scenarios for content on this page?
I just don’t like commenting or getting invested without an update or some type of interaction from the OP!
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He’s cheating honey.
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Post her name to blacklist her. Lol
Bet your ass I would be going
He’s cheating on you.
Where does he even get the hide to TELL you he’s going out to dinner with her??
I would be like nope not happening
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Girl pop up and watch honey!!!
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Good thing I don’t Have Husband lol
Nope. Bye boy. He’s been in love with her this whole time and he’s gonna be with her. Nope
Dunp him hunny! You don’t need that type of stress, I’m so sorry you’re going through that 
hugs girl
How come OP never responds to any of these fan questions? I dont feel like giving advice to a fake story.
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red flags all over the place. I would show up:boxing_glove:
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If you can’t trust him send him on down the road
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Lord have mercy girl!! What does it take?? If it looks like a looser and acts like a looser ya betcha it is a loser!! Drop hom like a hot potato!!!
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If you do not trust him, the relationship is over and has been for some time.
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If you have to question it, it sounds like you don’t trust him and if you don’t trust him how do you justify staying in a relationship with him? If he says nothing is going on and you don’t believe him, you already have your answer.
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No effing way that would ever be ok with me 
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It would be a BIG NO from me something going on there with them I would be asking questions a guy does not have photos on his phone of someone for nothing
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Wake up. It’s a date!
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Yyyyeshh 
giiirrlll… i mean….come on.
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Sounds like he’s sleeping with this woman
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If you have to question it… Y’know the answer
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I’d tell him to stay out as long as he wants, in fact he should probably take a few outfits with him because the locks would be changed the first second he was gone.
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That’s his other women ! If you can’t go ! Neither can him !
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I would let him go, and I would drive after him and appear my self w the baby. Oh hey babe sorry I was a little late 
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I’d let him go!!! Let her have him 
not a man worth keeping
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Hun hes bumping Nastya would just set him down tell him like this if he wasn’t enough to be honest that you made the hardest decision for you both. Pack up his shit and put it on his mommies place. Then in a few weeks see who’s he’s with and maker.your decision based on what yiu have that would what you have now
He’s up to no good and if he doesn’t want you to go along than you should already know!
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Only you know if he’s cheating on you with he’s honest . If not kick him to the curb