Invite yourself to this so called dinner. If the show was on the other foot, I bet you wouldn’t be going alone… That’s a date, or he would have invited you to go along.
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Helllllo no. Byyeeee.
No this can’t happen. Of course, if it does, that frees you up to date too. If he wants an open marriage, he needs to speak up.
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If it makes you uncomfortable and you expressed that to him and he is still going, that alone is an issue. The fact that the person is female…well I think you already know what you should do and just need affirmation that it’s the right thing. I promise you, it’s right. You deserve someone who would never do something that makes you so uncomfortable. The right man is out there, this one you are with is not the right man for you. 
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Did you follow him ? Sup ?
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Don’t play dumb.
Run…
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Girl, he’s out in a date with another woman, right in your face! 
And you are questioning your own reaction to that?! No.
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He would come home to an empty house.
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Girl! You know exactly what’s going on! He isn’t even trying to hide it!
He can’t have his cake and eat it to if your around.
Sounds like You and baby deserve so much better!! A great man that wants to be home with his family at 8PM and wouldn’t trade it for the world & showing yalls baby what it look like to love their momma.
Bless your heart and I hope that you find some peace with this and know that you are worth so much more!
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My hubby wouldn’t disrespect me like that. That’s why we’re married still for 38 years now too. 
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It’s definitely a date
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I’m pissed for you. If this was my Im tagging along he don’t want us he ain’t having us.
Carry on with his dinner date.
You find it “kind of rude”??
Do you need some bigger red flags? Would life size help?
I’d say… go ahead and go …but don’t plan on coming back here …
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Oh yeah, he’s definitely cheating. Point blank. Proof in the pudding.
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Nah, that’s it. Cut it off. He’s definitely fucking around
Open your eyes, sweetie, this IS a date!
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pack his bags to take with him.
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This happened to my daughter. He cheated on her that night and they have since broken up. Good luck
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Leave his bags on the porch
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Get a babysitter for the kid and follow him and see what’s going on and then just show up
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I’m angry for you, what a pos!! How disrespectful, I’d be livid!! Just show up to where they’re having their so called dinner. This whole scenario looks super suspicious… If she’s such a good friend then why didn’t he invite her to yours for dinner and meet you all??
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His friend is a lesbian. There’s no chance of sex. So what’s the hoopla? If it was a guy youd all be fine.
Lots of things wrong, but why are you trying to bring a toddler out around what should be their bed time? Just playing devil’s advocate here, but IF it was legit, you sound extra AF. Based on circumstance, boot him.
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Nope wouldnt fly in my book
Yes he went in a date
His behaviors are unacceptable. Red flags 
all over this.
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It is a date no way this shud be happening find a baby sitter get dolled up and go. Be as pleasant as possible but keep yr eyes and ears open find out exactly who she is to him. Girl dnt sit bck n be ok with this how wud he feel if you did this to him.
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Baby your just back up, he’s into her and not you
So long as she’s around your going to be second best
You can either wait till she out of the picture or you can realize that your to good to be put on the back burner and tell him to kick rocks, don’t let him play you,
From, someone who has been in your shoes
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Wait, you’ve been through his cell phone? How do you know he has a lot of pictures of her? Were you insecure even before this?
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He’s on a date. Pack his bags for him
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Ah H*** Nah!! 
I wish my man would try! 
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Wow very suspicious. First of all why aren’t you and your kid allowed to come. Who cares if she’s vegan and also an old coworker he has pictures of??? Wtf huge red flag
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That’s his mistress obviously or someone he’s obsessed with
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Leave his lieing lame ass
Wow! That definitely sounds like a date!
Why do men pull this crap? Why don’t they say hey, I want a divorce? Oh, she doesn’t want him ! She just enjoys pulling him around at her beck n call! She doesn’t care if it hurts you and neither does he ! Let him have her ! Stick him with as many bills as you can ! Go shopping as often as you can you will want new things when he runs to his new love ! See how he likes it ! They are both selfish let them have it! See if he can afford his new love and his old family too .
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Id let him go and report your car and credit card stolen when he pulls out. Good luck, buddy.
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That’s a whole lotta nopes!
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I would’ve shown up anyway and see what’s going on 
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Mamas uncut, are you re-using posts submitted by followers to boost likes and comments on your page? This is the SECOND repeat post I’ve seen. I think you’re doing it for the algorithms because I know for a fact this is the second post I’ve already commented on a week or so ago and now here it is again posted 6 hours ago…shady AF
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Wait for him to go, get yourself and bubba and just turn up. Pack his bags and and say see ya
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He’s telling you he wants you to Show up and introduce yourself 🤷🏼♀🤷🏼♀🤷🏼♀
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Throw him out. Not a partner when you exclude an sneek around
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Get a babysitter and you go girl. I’m sorry but he shouldn’t be going to dinner with another women and not ask you to go with or if it’s ok and if your comfortable with it.
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He would have went out for dinner and should have been back by now i wonder how it was…the hubby probably is majorly attracted to this woman but it doesnt mean the other woman has the same feelings?..he has lots of pics of her so he more than likes her…the reason he didnt have wife get a sitter to join because he wanted the woman full attention…and that is why he made every excuse for her not to join…but i would put pc tattle tail on his phone and see what his conversations are with her it shows even the deleted ones and he wont know about it…he probably hasnt seen her in a while so it could just be friends getting together…but to be on the safe side…if it was more than dinner then he will be out very late…and i would personally have followed him about a hour after he left…i also would put a google tracker under the passenger seat of his vehicle to see the addresses of where he goes…if he is a cheater then it probably would be only with this woman so keeping an eye on his phone will tell you…then i would leave if he did
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I’d of told him to.pack his stuff on the way out the door,very odd behaviour that
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If u can’t go he doesn’t need. To go either
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If you’re remotely suspicious that this relationship with this “friend” is past the platonic stage, then fill ya boots mumma…go dig and investigate, but be prepared to find out some alarming facts…if this is just purely an old friend it shouldn’t matter that your having lunch or catching up…but tbh, anyone who is going out with the opposite sex, whilst in a committed relationship, is always gonna get the suspicious, and probably jealous nature of the other partner aroused here…i think most normal couples would definitely question the morality of meeting up in private situations!
Because it is a date! Don’t play dumb it does nothing and ruins your self esteem… confront him! You deserve better if he won’t invite you and your child out to dinner.
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Sounds like a date. I think you know this also.
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Tbh you either trust your man or you don’t
And in my opinion if there’s no trust there’s no relationship maybe that’s just me but if your really that para then go get your little one watched and go stalk him pmsl 
I was joking but seriously I’d trust him until I had solid proof otherwise
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8pm dinner sounds more like not dinner
Would he be so happy if the shoe was on the other foot and you left him with the baby and told him he wasn’t allowed to attend a meal with just you and another guy ? I can imagine he wouldn’t be so I’d go get a babysitter go get dressed up and take a pal to dinner at the same place as them… xxx
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Sounds like you don’t trust him…
this just sounds like you don’t trust him… why are you even with a man you don’t trust? you don’t have to do everything together… he’s going for dinner, leave him be and trust him. or just leave because you clearly don’t trust him at all.
and to everyone saying “just show up” no, that is literally crazy shit, he clearly doesn’t want you there so don’t show up. your only solution to this is telling him how much you don’t trust him and leaving. and you can see which are the insecure, jealous women in this thread, the ones who don’t trust men:joy: just because it’s a a late dinner and he would rather do it on his own doesn’t mean it’s a “date” 
if it was a male would you act like this? would you think he’s going on a date? of course you wouldn’t. but because it’s a female friend everyone automatically hates it and thinks it’s weird.
Why are you still sitting at home
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Ohhh hell no! Either he ain’t going or you’re coming.
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Wow definitely something going in,I’d put my foot down
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Sorry girl, you husband is going on a date. Find out what restaurant he’s going, get a babysitter and show up at the restaurant. Confront them!
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Yeah its definitely a date and he clearly doesn’t want you to be involved in whatever is going on for a reason… get out now while you can.
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Ah i wouldent b haveing that just turn up there
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Trust your Gut. I would be kicking up a fuss
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I’m gonna go with cheater for 500
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I think the fact he has photos of her on his phone is a big enough red flag. Your husband has a date and you need a babysitter so you can show up at the restaurant.
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I agree with Allison Wilson
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No ma’am… My husband would be taking a dirt nap…
I mean this with NO offense at all, but if my husband ever tried anything like this (he wouldn’t because he respects our relationship and he’s smart enough not to do this) but I would GO OFF. Stand your ground. Do not allow this behavior.
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I wouldn’t let him go. But also I wouldn’t be with someone who thinks that’s ok. Learn your worth.
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I plan on going out late with a female after dinner.? No sir your not??
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Nope to forced confrontation
Keep your dignity
U can’t and shudnt stop him from straying by force for long .
Prepare to detach.
Wish you luck.
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Dear husband, I am not really sure why I feel hurt because of your going out with an old vegan flame. Invite her here for dinner and I will get the sitter to care for the children. I will learn to make a few dishes…and maybe get some takeout for her. We can sit and visit and you can reminisce. That would make me feel more secure in this marriage. Otherwise I feel we are just playing house…like we did as kids. Either that… or get over it.
Nope, he’s going on a date and you’re the babysitter. I’m only quick to say that because of the photos on his phone and the fact that he’s making dumb excuses for you not to go. If you’re ok with all that so be it, but if it hurts and your gut tells you something’s off. Prepare for the end, it won’t get better unfortunately.
People like that might say they want to change but when it all comes down to it, they want to do what they want to do. They don’t think of their actions having consequences for others
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my man going “out” with a female “friend” and Im not invited…oh HELL to the NO-NO! He don’t go without me or Im gone when he gets home…
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Awh I’d show up anyways.
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Just act like you don’t care and ask where they r going and just show up and invite yourself
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Time to tell your dude to kick rocks.
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Hes def cheating on ya hun and yeah that would be a date without u or ur child id divorce his ass as soon as he came back home
Hell no. I’d be gone.
Regardless, if you’ve expressed how it makes you feel and hes disregarded that, then that alone says alot…not to mention the other stuff…which does sound like cheating btw. Drop the douche and find someone else worth your love and time. The world is too big and life’s too short. He may not know your worth but you should! Good luck! ︎
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Red flag red flag?!!?
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I would tell him your going and get a sitter! Make jim understand who he chose to marry and that you will NOT be walked all over!
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Sounds like you have the “me too” movement going on in your house.
Divorce.
Enjoy your dinner. I won’t be here when you get home! Bye!
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Men gotta learn respect. And this most definitely ain’t it… wish my guy would tell me some B’s like he’s going to dinner with another woman. Red flag babe.
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Go with you gut girl.
Remember at the end of the day you are a queen and if he isn’t going to treat you like one it’s time to move in
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Billy Graham rule. Any dude less than Gambit can be sure to not to let to door hit him on the way out
Deuces sugar nothing personal.
I just know who I am in Christ.
Ummm what. I don’t fuckig think so
It’d be over. Lol boy had red flags from the beginning it seems.
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Make sure you know where the dinner date is and invite yourself
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So many no’s! He needs to be gone, but if you wanted to try therapy… some guys are completely clueless and maybe he’s not cheating, but needs to learn to think about you for sure.
See myself I would say ok babe. Then about 845 'm going to be popping my ass up to see what’s going on & to introduce myself 
I don’t like the vibe his shit would be on the lawn when he got back.
He is cheating. RED FLAG. Go to the dinner anyways
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…sorry…
…Sorry…
Not sorry but I see everywhere
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Um nope I’m going or
I’ll show up and introduce myself
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get a grip and stay at home with your son sounds like you are all me me me newsflash it’s not all about you he’s got a life too
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Express how you feel to him. If he doesn’t take that in consideration I think that gives you an answer love . I will pray for you
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Go out to a 8pm dinner with a guy your friends with… sww how he feels about that.
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find out where he’s going and go spy on him…hell no is my husband ever going on a dinner date with another woman without me unless it’s his mama!
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Bullshit- cheating!!!
Well then leave him if he can’t include or think about ur feelings screw him! That’s crossing boundaries he shouldn’t be!! That’s bs and not right ! He doesn’t care about ur feelings
Id ask where there going and just show up!
RED FLAF for me
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