My step kids mom tells her kids not to eat my cooking: What can I do?

Start cooking healthy foods vs foods with grease.

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If you don’t stand up to that woman and tell her it’s your house your rules and her ruckus can stay at her house. Don’t inconvenience your household because she’s jealous.

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No one is going to tell me how to run MY HOUSE eat what I make or nothing

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And. Don’t forget to tell her to kiss ur blank A— —!!!

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Refuse to allow them to buy Wendy’s or any other fast foods or make them eat it outside - even if it is HOT, Freezing, raining or snowing. If they don’t want to eat your food, they can go hungry.

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You need to meet her and tell her that your house is your rules and she can like it or lump it. Don’t carry the kids to Wendy’s or anywhere else. They can eat what you have to do without.

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Your husband is an ass wipe and your an idiot for going to Wendy’s with the kids. Your house Your rules. Kids won’t eat your food they can go to bed hungry.

Sounds like the issue is with your husband being to big of a pussy to stand up for you and your family, the solution starts with him manning up

Send the money she gives them home with them every time she does that. Tell the kids oh well I’m not getting fast food. Eat what I make or starve. That’s your house. You make the rules there. Right now you’re allowing all the kids to make the rules and get away with it. It’s not that hard. They eat with the family or at least something from your house or they don’t eat. The mom sounds like a bitter woman and that’s not right for the kids either. Their father needs to get on board with it though. If he’s taking them to pick up the fast food all the time then he’s just as bad as the mom whose sending the money

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Put your foot down inform her kids that she doesn’t want them eating your food becuase she must be jealous … fight fire with fire

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Tell ur husband to PUT ON HIS BIG BOYS PAINTZ.

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I mean your kids also shouldn’t be eating greasy foods. & if they don’t want to eat your food you can’t force them. The mom has every right to feed her kids what she wants. It’s not her problem if you can or can’t afford fast food

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I reackon you have rules at your house their mother has rukes at there house. So they eat what you give or go hungry. Dont take them to the take away shop. Tell there father that he backs you up. Or you dont have them.

Man these so called “men” have no balls these says. Tell him to grow up and start parenting.

You’re house
You’re rules
Dad sounds like he don’t care if he can’t put a stop to the fast food at you’re house the. He can hit the road .

How are those kids getting to Wendy’s to get that food? Are they bringing it with them? Your house- your rules.

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This is someone just being a bitch , she is out to hurt you . It’s your house your rules . Maybe get the kids to choose and help make the meals the family will be having when they are over . Make plans and menus, get them to help around the house like keeping where they sleep clean that way they can say to their mum that what they are eating is fine . Or ask them what does your mum cook find out what they are used to eating and get them to help make it .

I’d be just as petty if not more…. After putting a stop to them eating fast food in the house. Make them sit outside on the porch until it’s gone. Then when they do come in I’d start saying petty @$$ sh!t “if your mom was a better mom you wouldn’t be so rude” “if your mom had any respect she’d make you understand you have to listen” “if your moms a better cook tell her to bring something FROM HOME” “if you think I’m cleaning wrong you show me how it’s done”

Nope. One set of rules for all kids and dad needs to grow a pair. His first set of kids will end up being entitled and disrespectful towards him if he doesn’t actually parent them and then his other kids will end up angry and disrespectful too for being treated like crap because there’s them and us. He needs to sit all his kids down with you and go over new rules. If they don’t like it tough but this will be about creating a better family unit rather than singling anyone out.

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It’s his fault. He’s scared of her.

Yeah time for u to have the pops have visitation with the Kids elsewhere

Five years !!! Hmmm and he doesn’t care to defend you sounds like something more

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take aways are greasy too.

Ur house ur rules PERIODT

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Your husband is the problem.

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Honestly, you shouldn’t have to deal with this shit in your life snd in your home. Your home your rules. However it is your husband responsibility to tell his ex your rules in your house. If she isn’t happy with your rules then don’t have her kids come over anymore. And if she doesnt send them to him, he can take her to court and let judge know what a big inconvenience she is to everyone.

The issue that should be addressed here is that your husband is allowing her to disrespect you. Fast food money sent should be sent back. How are they getting the fast food? Are they walking to the Wendy’s? I’d imagine not. She doesn’t have control of the situation at your/his home. That’s not how it works. If he is allowing it the issue is with him.

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Yea I agree with the others, the father needs to grow some balls and man up to his other kids then tell the ex to stop encouraging the kids to have bad feeling with the others, if he doesn’t do anything then you need to move on because it is already affecting your relationship

Same rules should apply for all kids under one roof and if their mother has a problem she needs to take her jealous arse over to yours and discuss it with you and your husband !

So many issues need to be addressed here. Fast food is probably way worse than what you are making. Don’t allow meal replacements. Your step child can eat what you make or not eat. Bio mom literally cannot tell dad how to run his visits, even a judge will tell you that.

Your husband needs to step up and put his foot down… YIKES

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Nothing worse than a bitter baby momma :roll_eyes: she needs to grow up & he needs to grow a pair… he should not allow you to be disrespected…& I agree that they should not be allowed to get the fast food…& the money should be sent back… she cannot dictate what happens in your household & he needs to put his foot down

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I think this on subject. Watch wife swap. I loved that show. Wish it still aired.

Your house, your rules. No meal replacements. Bio mom does not get a say in what goes on with the father when it’s his turn with them.
Dad needs to stop letting their mother walk all over you.
Tell him off.
Tell your stepchildren too bad, they will eat that or not at all or wait for dad to feed them.
Or, don’t cook for them and give them things like salads/etc.

Let her start something.
She can talk alllll she wants.
She paying your bills?
She doesn’t run your house.

Sounds like you need to send the man back to his other woman.

Wendy’s closed opens up when back at moms house

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And one of the best Cooks I’ve ever met!
A great Mon with the best kids. They wouldn’t think of going for food & nor checking with everyone else. They would even come next door and ask me ! Ice cream , whatever.

Honey, Your husband & you need to talk plainly & he should back up everything for you. As my dad says he needs to Man Up! Now you just Continue Cooking and Cleaning the Best you can and Do Not Cater to his children with her. He looks at them as his & sees no problem but you see them as hers beyShe Is the Problem! Tell Everyone that they will eat what you can afford to cook or they can Do Without and Go Hungry!

If he backs you up every meal this makes the children decide and Not their mother. If they choose to go hungry a few times so what! They’ll live and that leaves more for your kids! Lol. Ask him to go along with this because you’re his wife and doing the best you can. See what happens you may find a great de of Comedy in this! Best of Luck & don’t give up just be Stronger than her. Oh one more thing they Can’t Complain at the table about food or they go to their rooms without!