Best off concentrating on you and your children… Find better
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My heart is breaking for you. I can feel your hurt and your pain. You have tried so hard to make this relationship work, even going so far as to having a ‘friendship’ with your man’s ex.
The day he asked his ex if she wanted to get back together should have and probably did, send off big warning alarms in your head. Everything else following along from that, in your message points to him trying to get back with her.
As painful as it is, I think that you have to accept that he doesn’t appreciate what he has in you and that will be his loss. Don’t encourage the ex-wife to be around when he is around, don’t talk to her about your relationship in the negative at all. You might have unwittingly helped them to become closer. His family have known her for years longer than you and she has given them a blood Granddaughter which makes their connection stronger, or so it seems. For your own self-esteem you need to get back your independence and let this idiot, whom you love, know that you are sick and tired of coming forth place after his daughter, his parents and his ex…
Find yourself a place that is yours and your girl’s so that you all can have a space that is safe and stress free. He can’t come and stay over until he is 100% certain that it is you and your girls that he wants to be with and he starts acting like it. You never want a repeat of what you have just been through or you are both over permanently.
He and his ex broke up for a reason so getting back together won’t be easy if they do because it doesn’t seem like they took the time to correct the problem. When the reality of day to day life pops up, their relationship might not be as wonderful as they all thought.
You focus on yourself and your girl’s in the meantime and try to forget about him. You deserve so much more. It won’t be easy but you will walk out with your head held high and everything on your terms.
Good luck.
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This is a mess full of drama. Leave. You and your kids deserve better. Red flags everywhere.
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You are always better off alone than in the wrong company…
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Sorry but I can’t believe some of the questions that are asked in this site. They have to be made up
You need to higher your standards and treat yourself better. Do you want your kids thinking this is okay? Cause letting them see an unloving relationship is going to affect them later in life as well. They need to she love and partnership and you need to feel loved and supported.
The ex rubs it in your face and tells you he asked her that. She loved doing that and than to make it like shes the good guy tells you it’s weird. Seems to me she enjoys all of it. The attention ,rides and oh let’s not forget the coffee. Your being played as a fool. Open your eyes , learn your worth and get the hell out of there. Find someone who values your worth and respects you.
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He’s still in love with her.