Maybe get him tested for ADHD, he sounds alot like my boy
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I do the corner technique, a minute for however old they are and if they keep at it then more time in the corner, they’re not allowed out until me or dad get him, then we stop and talk about why what he did was wrong if he keeps at it then we do corner plus taking away privileges or games/toys good luck momma, sometimes kids so things to get a reaction. Also try ONLY giving attention for good things and making a big deal about it like WOW that’s great! You ate all the food or didn’t make a mess let’s have a snack or a sticker
You need to rule out medical and mental before you go further imo. Medical wise it could be anything from lack of sleep to maybe hearing problems. Mental of course could range on ADHD, dyslexia to the Autism spectrum. Maybe keep a log during the day of his diet and outbursts. I have 2 boys, 18 and 16, and their teacher tried to push ADHD on me in Kindergarten bc mine were all over the place. I knew they were bored though with what was being taught and had them tested into an advanced class. 100% turn around for my two. I kinda had to step away from outside advice and go with my momma’s instinct in that case. My first step was talking with their pediatrician so I highly suggest that. With all that said I highly believe us boy moms have to be a different breed lol You always have to stay one step ahead of them and trust me that stays even into college years. Sports were helpful for me in getting some of that normal boy energy out in the meantime. Good luck mama❤
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Sit his ass down in time out, be consistent you let him get away with a little thing he will run a mile with it. Seriously keep disciplining. He will catch on that you are not going to put up with the behaviors
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Have you ever heard of a good whopping well I will tell you get you a belt or a big switch and he needs a good whopping see if that will will cure it.
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You little one sounds just like my little girl who also is 4 yr old
She dont sleep
She a very picky eater
Constly on the go moring to noon
She lashes out when you tell her to calm down or stop climbing nd jumping of furniture
She has a naughty step you put her on it she gets up nd just loughs nd kicks nd bangs on the door or she lays on the floor kicks nd head butts the floor
Many of time the school have asked what she dont to her forhead as there a huge bruse nd bump there so she being monitored at school they have said she does have a behaviour problem in class nd they have also said they struggling with her to do any classroom work
Iv also rang the docter the docter they have sent me to cams so still waiting to here from them been waiting over a 2 mnths now
Who is this post inbox me plz x
I was there too. I finally broke and told his pediatrician I couldnt handle him anymore and he was referred out to be evaluated. He was diagnosed at 4 with severe adhd and a sensory processing disorder and put into feeding therapy ( he has major texture problems because of the SPD )and occupational therapy and it absolutely helped. Hes 6 now and we have made leaps and bounds in progress. He still acts out and destroys damn near everything he can, but it makes it SO much easier when you know why they’re being like that.
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I agree with you Courtney. My son has adhd growing up and would be so destructive. I do therapy that helped him. A behavioral specialist will help decided what’s best for your son.
Sounds like he needs a constructive outlet. Soccer, karate, baseball something physical to burn all that energy.
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The Kid Code by Brenda Miller is amazing! https://www.amazon.ca/Kid-Code-Second-Parenting-Strategies-ebook/dp/B0811S7YT5
I am a foster parent off 26yrs.I have had 28 children in my home. There is help out there for your child butyou must talk to his teachers,to see what is going on.Then go get him evaluate and get help from professional. He is still young and with help he will succed in life.I took one day in at 8 was a terrible destructive boy.We got help.We got kick ,pinch ,cuss at hit ect.We never gave up e today is the sweetest man. So thankfull for what we have done and most of all never gave up. He now is working and a sweetheart.We love him like ours.
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My son was like that started at like 2 and it didn’t stop til he was like 7 
just keep your patience, try to take away things he LOVES and not for just an hour like a week or something. Give him a calendar so he can get stars or Xs and that way depending on his behavior he either gets a “treat” or a punishment. Stay strong mama
You mite need some consoling for him .get all the help you need ok cause I no how your feeling.sometime get him some were wear he can ran
Adhd for sure. My sons was diagnosed at 3 and I didn’t believe them Bc obviously he was THREE YEARS OLD but lord he’s gotten worse. He’s 5 now as well. Even a butt whoopin doesn’t phase him and honestly it’s not worth it to try Bc it’ll make it worse. He’s in kindergarten and they say how patient and polite he is there but he’s having trouble staying on task and concentrating. He’s only on melatonin at bedtime but since school started he hasn’t needed it Bc he gets pretty tired from school naturally thank goodness but I am going to have him see the behavioral specialist since it’s affecting his academics. I can handle a hyper kid without medication as long as he sleeps but I feel like I’d be guilty for not getting him medicated to help him focus in school. I refused meds for him the past 2 years Bc I didn’t think it was necessary since I’m his mother and I created him so I can handle it but Idw him to suffer in school
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Definitely look into Sensory Processing Disorder. It could be that he is seeking sensory input. I have a little boy that has a diagnosis of nonverbal autism spectrum disorder and sensory processing disorder. Before his diagnosis, I thought he was just plain naughty from a VERY young age, like before I had any suspicion of autism. Turns out, he was seeking sensory input. There’s a lot to it, and we still deal with a lot of destruction and chaos, but we try to find ways for him to safely get the input he is seeking.
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We have a son that has schizophrenia. It’s so sorry to see him this way. We haven’t found anyone that will help. We have tried to get the right drugs for him but they can’t give him anything because he is 40 years old and he has to agree to take the medical help. He won’t agree to that so we don’t know what to do
It can be a sign of adhd or sensory processing disorder I’m currently in process of trying to get my daughter diagnosed she will be 6in may and she is super hyper now I know children can be hyper etc but when I say she hyper it to extent it extremely full on hard to calm her down sometime she doesn’t realise she hurts you sometime when she does it by accident doesn’t see danger in stuff even though I’ve constantly explained from a young age etc she struggles to sit down to even watch her favorite movie she may sit for 1/2minutes then she cant sit still any longer at all bed time takes hours to get her to sleep despite a routine she has to be on the go much more etc and it has now began to slowly disrupt her in school now she gone up to where they have to sit a desks my advice would to be speak to drs, school, health visitor anyone you can
My normal reaction would be to pick him up abruptly and remove him from the area to a designated punishment area of the house (corner, chair whatever you choose, but making sure it’s literally near nothing stimulating and that it is boring). Over and over again. Until the defiant behavior is eventually associated with getting put into a boring non stimulating punishment area. Without missing one opportunity, without delaying it at all, any of the times that it occurs. It could be a hell of a month for you, but it’s better than dealing for years. Do it all day long, over and over again for a month if you have to. Letting him know that he will not win, not even one time.
Maybe enlist someone to help you during this time in the house if possible, or if you have other children. To help with them. So that your focus can be entirely dedicated to ending this behavior consistently and quickly every time. It’s not that I do not believe in ADHD, it’s just that it takes a different mentality and focus to control those behavior patterns, and I’ve seen it work. It’s just not easy bc it has to be done without fail for a long period of time, to work.
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Take away sugar and gluten 
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Sounds like he also needs some extra physical/sensory input. Maybe have an OT eval and see about adding some extra proprioceptive and vestibular input into his daily activities
ADHD can look like defiant behavior, especially in boys, I would suggest researching the symptoms and talking with your pediatrician. If it is ADHD, it is a lot easier, and less heart wrenching, to help a child cope and succeed than it is to try to discipline the hyperactivity away.
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Currently going threw this with my 2 year old. Very destructive and does not listen AT ALL! I swear I’m in tears atleast once or twice a day 
hang in there mama!
Get him out so he can run that energy off, boys are like having a pet dog, let him burn that energy off and they’re easier to manage, also look for the the positives to praise as much as you can rather than looking to tell him off, kids want to please you and if you reward the good behaviour as much as you can they’re more likely to behave a bit better. Reduce any sugary foods too.
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From my own experience, your family doctor needs to give you a referral to have him tested for possibly adhd to start.
Dont let them tell you this is normal. There could possibly be an underlying condition that causes this. Try seeing a neurologist, and doing a brain scan to see if there is a issue. Just dont let the dr. Medicate him before being tested though…some drs used to do that. Google different symptoms or causes of the things he does…document it before taking him to the dr. So you’re prepared as well to ask questions.
Hope this helps
This sounds like my life 
my sons school referred him to a peadeatritian diagnosed a couple of underlying issues but on the whole I got told some kids have more energy than others and basically to ‘deal with it’ I go to bed crying on a regular basis 
xx
Behavior therapy was great for my son
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Bust his bottom! This helped me and my children. No out bursts.
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Sounds like you have a very active five year old. You should set up some simple house rules that he must abide by. You can have him help you decide what those rules should be. Have some predetermined consequences if he violates the rules. Maybe have a spot in the house where he can take some calm down time when he gets too hyper. You have to be very consistent the rules and consequences. Also make sure he gets plenty of outside time. Maybe go to park where he can climb, run, jump, etc to his hearts content. He needs an outlet for his energy.
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Nothing worked for my 5 yr old then I started having her do wall sits.
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Batting cages !!! Throwing ice cubes outside … worked like a charm . Or get him worn out , the old “I bet you can’t run to the end of the fence and back 15 times” always worked !
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Behavior therapy. I’ve seen 3 weeks of good results thus far. My wild defiant little alpha Male is behaving better each week. We have had a bad day or two, but over all behavior therapy has helped us immensely.
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I’ve also noticed a maturity in him since giving him chores of his own. His tablet time us his reward for completing his chores.
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Woop his but if he dont listen. He obviously doesnt take you seriously. 5 year olds know
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Talk to his pediatrician maybe he has a disorder!
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Could have ODD/ADHD. Speak to his pediatrician.
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Behavior hospital. Sounds like he’s got ODD
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My son was like that even while taking him to therapy as others suggested nothing worked… kept taking him to pcp for documentation and testing until he was old enough to be diagnosed with ADHD is now on meds and he’s been a normal child he is now 8.
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Keep him busy! Build a jungle gym/ rock wall in the yard, batting cages, skating, etc. Ty Pennington once said he was hyper and his mom gave him boards, hammer and nails and told him to go build something. Thus began his house restoration career! You just have to figure out his interest.
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You have to physically remove him if he doesn’t listen that means getting up picking him up and removing him fro
Whatever he is doing
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Sounds like he needs a place to let out the boy energy!!! Trampoline? Gymnastics? Run him around the yard for a few laps!!! I’m not kidding- my younger son was the same at that age!!!
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It can also possibly be a food intolerance. He could be intolerant to preservatives, certain colours, even some thing like salicylates which are in strawberries etc. could also be ADHD. Take him to a paediatrician. Also if you have the opportunity try a parenting course. These are great for tips on other ways to handle situations. My daughter is ADHD. Smacking only made her worse and food had a big impact on her behaviour.
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Wow. Dont ask facebook whatever you do 
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I have the same issue with my 5 year old daughter
I would speak to your pediatrician first and maybe do some screenings to rule out behavioral issues. Enroll him in a karate class. Gets their energy out and teaches great discipline.
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Wow. I see a lot of advice to medicate the boy. The boy needs discipline and he needs structure. He doesn’t need excuses for his behavior. He needs to be told and shown how to behave day im and day out. Introduce spanking for misbehavior or some form of discipline that works for you, he is testing you and it sounds like he is winning. Give him something to do every day; chores or projects that will make him use his mind and with physical activity to wear him out. I raised boys, when they stepped out of line, I put them back on that line. Yes, I busted their backsides…and they all turned out to be law abiding, hard working, mature adults. Good luck.
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Following. We have the same issue with our almost 6 year old. We tell him daily not to do the same things. He’s rough with our 1 year old (although that’s gotten better). I’m tired of repeating myself and getting nowhere. Taking away his toys doesn’t work. Nor time outs, spankings or the belt. Flipping it around and being nice doesn’t do a damn thing either.
I bought a camera for my 1 year old’s room not too long ago. Had it sitting on his dresser. The 5 year old went in there asked about it and within minutes of me telling him not to touch it, started hitting it with a toy he had been using as a sword. Yesterday he got smacked and sent to his room for picking my tomatoes (he’s been told multiple times and he picks them way before they turn red). And the day before he got his ass whooped for dropping a huge rock on my pittbull. Then hitting her with sticks and his wooden sword. His dad found that out and flipped a lid. We don’t tolerate animal abuse. Then this morning grabbed her tongue and yanked on it.
Sorry to bombard your post but I completely feel your frustration. And I’m scared my 1 year old will pick up on the behavior and do the same things.
Everyone so quick to jump on the ADHD bandwagon 
Maybe he’s just a 5 year old boy who’s being an asshole? I’d know, I’ve got one. 
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My boys need to go to the trampoline or the park or go on walks because they become destructive. I stopped disciplining them and just putting them in time out and telling them to color and settle down then we go on walks . Try that mama
He needs to go somewhere where he can climb and jump. like a parcore or ninja class or a regular pillow fight.
If you see him start to get antsy put go noodle and do some of the movement with him if your unable to go somewhere.
Make sure his attention cup is full.
Behaviour is a form of communication one or more of his needs are not being meet you just need to find out which need it is.
We all have different level of needs so your not doing it wrong you just need to find out what it is.
Don’t discipline as such ask what he has learnt and what would he do differently. Explain rather then punish.
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Have him evualated for ADHD make a chart for rewards for good behavior but first have him checked
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If he is acting out there is a reason
Please get him some professional help love.
And the comments that say best him.
Acting out is a for of attention he is needing something beating him definitely isn’t the answer
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I would discuss his behavior with your pediatrician and possibly see if there is a behavioral therapist you can have him seen by. I’m all for discipline when it is appropriate; however, if there is something legitamently wrong with him as far as medical diagnosis goes then spanking him is just being mean and not accomplishing anything. When I worked in peds we would sometimes have the more challenging kids seen by a pediatrician that specializes in development and behavior in children. If it truly is just a behavior issue then you can see about getting some assistance as far as what type of discipline works for him. The old school method of just beating their ass isnt really appropriate now. At least not until you have ruled out other things being the issue. I do know that Vanderbilt has a developmental peds department. The waiting list can be quite long and there is an income based scholarship program that can help pay based off of income.
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Has he been tested for DMDD?? Punishment won’t work
Find something productive he can do with all of the extra energy he seems to have.
As someone who worked in the mental health field at a University I can tell you that 90% of the students who came in needing to continue their ADHD meds that they’d been prescribed since being a child ended up not actually being ADHD and we would not continue their prescription. Consider that before putting him on medication please. Sounds like he needs some outside time. And also a butt whooping or 5.
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Cut out all foods with artificial dyes. My niece was like that until we modified her diet. She calmed down after about a month.
Or honestly maybe he needs meds for ADHD. It might be worth a chat with pediatrician if you have honestly tried to consistently discipline him.
Good luck.
Sometimes you need a me minute. It’s ok. We’ve all been there.
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Honestly therapy never hurts and can help even if he has no mental issues. But it sounds like he’s bored. Take him outside and let him get energy out.
ADHD? There is treatment for that if this is the case
Just a thought is in side all day with U? If so get a soccer ball and go to a park let him chase that ball, let him fall and tumble till he lays dn to catch his breath then get something in him wholesome to eat. No Sugars fresh fruit would be better. If all else fails have him tested for ADHD, DYSLEXIA, or other disorder. Hell, he just may need Glasses. Don’t you give up it all part of the process.
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There’s a lot of advice being given on here. Most of it is good, there’s a place, time, and child for nearly all of it. That being said some of it might not work for you. There are consequences to actions, your child needs to learn that, so discipline should most definitely be in that mix, regardless of whether it seems effective. They do something wrong, there has to be punishment, that’s how society works. Branching out from that, activities are most definitely beneficial, reducing sugar intake, behavioral therapy, and finally medication. On the medication issue realize that it is not a cure-all, it is an aid. I’ve had two children with ADD, medication help them. When they took it it helped. I have a grandson that was diagnosed with ADHD and oppositional defiant disorder. Medication is hit and miss with him. He is a constant work of punishment, activity, and reward. I pray for your sake that your son is going through a phase, that hopefully he will go out of. Until then, or if not, I hope that you can find the tools you need to help to you circumvent parenthood. If you were in a larger city, these tools for the closer. We live in a rural area, help is hard to come by.
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Put mine in gymnastics. My son was always climbing and breaking things, not intentionally. Did the trick. He is really good at it and safe. Consistency, boundaries and consequences. Also yoga helped alot with tantrums and outbreaks. We do spank, time out etc. But these activities worked wonders! Good luck
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Won’t be a popular response but look at ADHD.Some Truely cannot control it.
Sounds like he’s super hyper. Before trying to see if he’s ADHD or ADD and putting him on meds try to do things with him that’ll wear off his energy. Teach him soccer, basketball or football. There’s lots of running in those sports. The park or kid gyms… I mean there’s lots that you can find to wear off all that energy. Table tennis or badminton…
I’m going through the same situation. I cut down screen time and increased outside time also he’s been diagnosed with ADHD we are NOT doing medication just yet we are trying an alternative method first as he is still growing and his brain is still developing. Patience, honestly I know it’s hard but just love him and hang in there. Maybe have him see a child therapist to find the root cause. That’s what we did and we are SLOWLY getting on track. It is definitely a long way from where we wanna be but it’s also a long way from where we were.
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Def check diet! The artificial food dye changed my son into a monster for awhile until I figured that out!
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It’s a bit late to set behavior issues. His behavior sounds to me like more than normal little boy stuff. Take him to a good psychologist and Do Not put him on drugs. Little boys act up but aren’t evil.
Ive got an active boy , limited sugar and processed foods is HUGE, lots of running and lots of patience. Sometimes the negative attention is what they are looking for so removing them to a safer area and then positive reinforcement on good behaviour resets the brain
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Spank his butt, and make him sit in corner. Take all toys away also helps
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Wow to all the people suggesting hitting a child when they have no idea what may be causing his issues. Gotta love those kind of parents that think you can beat the problem out of a child if you just try hard enough 
. Giving advice is always touchy and even more so over the internet. But with what information you’ve given, I agree with the suggestions of seeing if burning more of his energy makes any difference. Some kids are just more energetic than others and nothing outside of letting them burn that energy is going to help. If you haven’t already I’d set some very clear house rules and decide on what punishments you feel appropriate when house rules are broken and then stick to it. My oldest son had so much energy when he started kindergarten they use to actually have him run laps around the gym in the morning and afternoon ( he enjoyed this and he never had to run more than he wanted to ). He was a completely different child when they started doing that. If you try something like that and he’s still very much out of control, then I would maybe consider speaking to his dr about everything because there may be something going on that needs to be addressed, or he may even just benefit from some behavioral therapy.
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A firm hand round his back side and some discipline,a smacked butt never done us any harm when we were kids and we grew up with so much respect for our parents not like most of the kids of today,we wouldn’t dream of behaving the way alot of kids of today do as we knew there would be consequences to our actions,kids of today get away with far to much or have excuses constantly made for there bad behaviour x
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Wow cant believe the comments about slapping or medicating your child. Is this what we really think fixes a problem? Violence and medication? I have a little boy myself who has a lot of energy and he needs to be kept active. Very careful about his diet, processed foods and sugar can turn a child into a demon. Try get him out more, go to the park,play some sports, go swimming etc. It might just make a big difference. Some kids have a lot of energy and if they dont have an outlet for it they can become destructive
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My son was the same way kept breaking his cribs at a year old and it just kept getting worse as he got older. Turns out he has obsessive defiance disorder, adhd combined type, and also has an anger issue. I hope your son is just going through a stage bc let me tell you it was pure hell with my son. Good luck I really hope your son dosent have any of those issues.
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You could try positive reinforcement. Every time he listens and does what he’s told, give him a sticker. Then give him a reward each time he gets a certain number of them.
Make a chart so they can viably see his progress.
Don’t take a sticker away once he’s earned it though.
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Going through something similar with my 4 year old daughter. We actually ended up making an appointment with a behavioral consultant her doctor recommended. The consultant told us it sounded like she was having a hard time coping with her emotions therefor lashing out. We’ve been working with her on an emotional journal and trying to find ways for her to express her emotions since she doesn’t know how to express them with words. The behavioral consultant also told us that this is normal for kids in her age group (4-5 years old) and common right now with the pandemic. Stay strong and good luck! You will get through this phase momma 
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Start with a trip to your pediatrician for a complete medical exam and evaluation! Be honest with your Doctor on your concerns and your child’s behavior. He may have a medical condition that contributes to his behavioral problems. If educate yourself on how to best address his problem. Only then will you be able to make the necessary decisions to properly address this isdue. You and the adults in his life will need to form and adhere to the same plan for treatment and discipline going forward. It is important to work together unified in your efforts for your child. I have three grandsons. Two have ADHD. One has ADD, a learning disability, and noted hearing loss due to illness as a baby. They each respond differently to praise, stress, and discipline. The one thing that they all respinded to and needed was a set schedule. I made a chart for daily activities and simple chores that they responded well. They knew what was expected of them, the rules, and the consequences for not following them. Make clear the rules and the consequences for not following them. I am old school so yes there were some spankings. (Spanking not beating) The thing that helped us the most was being consistant. You must be firm with him as he will test you all at every turn especially when you begin! Good luck!
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Besides the cracking of the butt, I told my 6yr old grandson ( who I have custody of ) no snacks ! He loves his snacks and loves to be defiant. Everytime he is bad I take a snack away. And I keep track. He is now up to one week with out. Since I told him that 3 days ago, he has been a little better. Gotta find what they love most in their little head and just start removing it, and be strong dont give in
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Have you talked to doctors about possible ODD?
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Have you had him tested for Oppositional Defiant Disorder ?? Maybe Behavioral Therapy would help…
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His mind is bored. Put him in taekwondo or something active.
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Hand to bottom usually works if he doesn’t cry pat harder
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Sounds normal to me.
Try taking him outside and physically exerting him!
It works for destructive puppies.
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In my parenting “hood” I put my almost 5 year old in timeout & put one of his toys away until his behavior has changed. He knows to behave, but the energy and time he has -tends to get him in trouble, I give him books and learning activities to occupy himself after his done timeout. If he still has too much energy I let him play outside for awhile and do outdoor activities. Life is tough with boys but best to prepare and keep them going physically and mentally. Kids are growing little creatures lol the wild in them needs some guidance so I wish you mommas the best:green_heart:
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Sounds like he might have adhd. That’s how kids act when they have it. Try punishing him by taking something he loves away
Get him checked for ADHD and ODD sometimes they really just can’t help it. Something in their brain just doesn’t connect. I’m always yelling at my 8 year old for the same reasons and he will literally cry and say “mama I try so hard but my body just can’t stay still”
*edited to add PLEASE get a referral to a psychiatrist for an actual evaluation and don’t just let a pediatrician shove meds down his throat. They don’t have the proper training to fully diagnose behavioral disorders.
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Hahah u got no choice! Spank his butt
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DONT SKIP STRAIGHT TO MEDICATION EVEN IF U FEEL LIKE UR AT UR WITS END 
bc ur little boy is most likely at his too!! having an exorbitant amount of energy that’s different than most children must be so difficult, i can’t even imagine. please consider getting therapist recommendations from ur child’s doctor , maybe even family therapy. not every child has a reason behind their high energy or seemingly destructive tendencies, but urs may! i guess all i can offer is to let him play outside, for long periods of time. let him get as dirty & muddy as possible. maybe even try long family bike rides? i wish i had more to offer!!
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Talk to your doctor about adhd … sounds like hes going through something …
Boys need outdoor time to burn off all that energy …
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Hmmm, so if that were my son, I’d limit him to an area of the house using baby gates. Like keeping him in the living room, and I’d take away his toys immediately and give one back an hour or so he’s gone without misbehaving. Little boys can be rambunctious and all over the place, I understand it’s tiring, but if you’re consistent with punishments, he should smooth his behavior out. May take a few weeks, but just do your best. If you can, try to make to where you get out of the house for an hour or 2 and let him go play outside at a close park. Help ware him out and keep his energy levels inside lower so he knows he can get all the wiggles out at a specific time of the day.
I have an unpopular opinion.
Talk to him. Calmly. If he sees so much anger from you (yelling, being angry, hitting him), he will have a lot of anger. How do children deal with anger? Outbursts.
When my kids were small I never hit them or belittled them with “what’s wrong with you?”
I would say, “ uh oh that will break if it hang on it”, then quickly divert their attention elsewhere.
It worked. They’re respectful AND they learned WHY we don’t hang on the towel rack and never did it again.
Is he bored? Is he hungry? Is he tires? Does he need some attention? Is he angry because everyone around him is angry(even if they’re angry about his behavior)?
It takes a LOT of effort to parent healthy children. A lot more effort than just hitting them.
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No one is a perfect parent kids will be kids yes - Sounds like ADHD You would need a diagnosis from a Pediatric Neurologist they will perform all the necessary tests - Not a pediatrician yes they can prescribe medication but that’s not there specialty - Medication is a choice YOU do what you feel is best for your child - i’m reading some of these posts a lot of people are against the medication - most people have no idea how to handle a child with ADD/ADHD it has nothing to do with the medication you still have to parent the child the medication only does so much… It’s a hard choice to make but it’s YOUR choice - Yes the medication helps I no that for a fact as i have a child with ADHD…
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The comments on this thread are exactly why we have grown adults throwing temper tantrums in the middle of the streets and burning down cities guess we have a few more generations of entitled jerks to look forward to
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Start by taking his favorite things, given time out, last resort will be having him evaluated , to see why he’s being so destructive
Take him to a doctor and go from there.
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hehehe…sorry, not laughing at you, laughing at our sons. I can remember those times, and my sons were truly lil males who are naturally ‘rough’ and ‘tumble’ through their younger years. You may have to take him out and let him burn his energy in the park, the garden or swimming. Swimming was great for my kids and a good feed after, wonderful combination to settle active boys. When he starts school get him into all the sports you can, that will help to. Help him understand the difference between his play space and his home space. He’ll get it. By the way, your a great mum or you wouldnt be trying to find ways to get through this. Our kids are amazing manipulators, mine make me laugh, cry, angry and all 3 at once sometimes. But I wouldnt give that up for anything. lol. All the best mum, lots of deep slow breaths in between. 
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Ever try smacking him on the ass ?
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Sound like my 5 yo son you might have to get him checked for ADHD but get his ears checked first just in case he might have hearing problem such as fluids in his ears that could be a problem
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Maybe he wants attention. Even negative attention is attention to kids. Give some structure to the day and include one on one time that is positive also.
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Talk to your doctor. It sounds like ADHD. I have it and growing up and my Mom avoided meds. While I understand why she did it, not being able to focus and do things like other kids really hurt my self esteem. Meds sould be a last resort but please consider them if needed.