Needing opinions about gender roles

Girl… no. Mom is a problem. He needs to live on his own.

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That’s the best BF you could find? REALLY???

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Kick his mamaboy ass to the curb…

um screw the mom and ya bf. wtf is this dude doing expecting you to clean his room for him? hiw old is
he?? do you have to change his diaper also?? come on!

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Really don’t know why you’re dating an actual child but whatever floats your boat I guess.

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You don’t need a mama’s boy, find you a man

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Maybe she thinks you’re lazy! And if she’s Latina good luck! They tend to baby their young even into adulthood… and you only see him a couple times a month?!?!! Nahh run don’t walk

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Send him to an adult daycare!!!
Nobody has time to clean up after a grown ass man!!!
Girl think twice about marriage!!
I would NEVER!!!

If momma didn’t teach that boy how to clean his room by now he will never learn. Run…find yourself a man

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What the hellllll? Sounds like mommy doesn’t want to give her baby to anyone. She is not accepting that he is a grown ass man that she shouldn’t be doing that kind of stuff for every day. Mother’s that do that make it sooooo difficult on future spouses by coddling their adult children. You need to make it crystal clear to Mommy Dearest and your bf that you are not his damn maid. It’s 2022.

I’m sorry are yall 12??? He lives with his mom and you are expected to help clean his room and make him lunch??? :thinking: you don’t live together and you’re not his mother HE LIVES WITH HIS MOTHER lol I feel like this is a pair of teens.

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Tell his mom to make his lunches and clean his room! Wtf

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Wowww…let that boy go. If you marry him, you will be miserable because you will have gained another child instead of a husband. He has some growing up he needs to do.

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Girlfriend doesn’t necessarily do wife things. He sounds pretty spoiled.

This is the toxic stuff a lot of mom’s have with their sons, they baby them all their lives and then expect him to find a wife to basically be a slave to him

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He’s a grown ass man- he can pack his own lunches and clean his room :rofl:

You’re not a maid or his mother! He can do those things on his own. If you do it for him, it’s out of love and appreciation, not obligation. As long as he doesn’t expect you to do those things, how she feels doesn’t matter so much. What does matter is whether or not he’s standing by you and the relationship, or will allow the disrespect towards you to continue. Don’t be with someone that will allow others, especially family, to disrespect you

Sounds like mama tired of having a man child and wants you to take over her role :joy: i would honestly run when u get married you marry their family too hun are u prepared for that not to ever change?

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Dont be his mom, he has one. He sounds like he loves him mom a lot, but hes not standing up for you.

He doesn’t have a back bone an seems to not have ya back when they talking bad an showing u plus your not a maid an who knows if U will be a wife although your doin wife things his mom is creating a monster I would get out before u get pregnant your not obligated to do anything he seems handicapped :triangular_flag_on_post: