Should a 7 and 10 year old take a bath together?

We take all the precautions to keep our children safe. In the end they all go skinny dipping in the same pond.

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Stop. Sexualizing. Bodies.

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Took my 4yr old girl and 6 yr old boy for their physical and they both had to turn around and she checked them and she even said “ bud, turn around you don’t need to see sissy”. Point is I agree. Kids will be curious and HELL NO they shouldn’t bathe together at that age smh.

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Not appropriate. The girl will start changing To a young woman. She needs her privacy. Her brother will learn about girls soon enough. One little bit of years will cause a great deal of difficulty

Nope I bathe my 10 year old son and 4 year old daughter at the same time if in a hurray. It’s a human body. It only becomes wired if you make it wired.

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There must be more important things for you to do in your life than this

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I bathed with my younger brother till I was like 14 n he is 4 yrs younger then me… its only weird if u make it…

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:woman_shrugging:t4: what’s the deal? They’re comfortable enough to still wanna bathe together. They’re only playing why on earth do people try do this with something that’s so normal and something that ourselves grew up doing like come on. If they’re fine and not doing anything inappropriate than let them enjoy it while it lasts. Soon enough they’ll want nothing to do with each other for the next 13 years -/+ until they’re grown. Let them be kids and stop trying to make it something it isn’t.

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I wouldn’t allow it at that age.

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No they should not be bathing together. At age 7 and 10 they should have privacy. They are tooooooo old to be bathing together. My opinion :woman_shrugging:

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It’s only weird if you make it weird.
If the kids are comfortable and fine with it, that’s all that matters.

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My children never bathed together. B-9, G-8, B-6.

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I ain’t gonna lie 7and 10 would probably make it weird for me to… as an outsider. But for that mother and them kids it probably ain’t weird at all as their mother she knows her kids and probably knows their minds haven’t not matured enough to even be thinking like that yet. And she is probably tired so two for one and save some time and energy.

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It’s wrong after age 5

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I bet children’s service would get involved and say no they are too old none of my business

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I wouldn’t because kids start becoming curious around that age.

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I’d say that would depend on the child…how mature they might be. But it sounds innocent. I don’t see a problem if they are innocently playing n having fun…

My son is special needs and he’s 6. If I don’t want him to dive out the window or run out the door while I’m bathing her, I HAVE to put him in the tub with his 3 year old sister. There is only one of me and I can’t be in 2 places watching both of them at once. People threatening children services are going way too far and must be the worlds most perfect parents.

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Way too old for that.

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It stops when one or both express to you they don’t feel they should bath together STOP WITH THE GROSS SEXUAL STUFF FFS

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It’s ok if it’s siblings of opposite genders at that age but I’d probably say it won’t be happening for much longer when the girl starts to develop. As in any other kids same sex is fine to bathe together in my opinion

My kids are 8(girl) and 9(boy). As a single mother I bathed them together their whole lives because of the convenience up until my son was 6. Now they bathe separately and having a bath together is never even a conversation lol. I think it’s too old for these ages to bathe together however in their family this may be normal and not weird at all for them. Everyone raises their kids differently.

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I think they should be showering by themselves at that age

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I only did it a couple of times when they were under age 4, and I have daughters. But at those ages and they are the opposite sex.

Maybe just let her parent her own children?

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It stops when they voice that they are uncomfortable. It’s only weird because you’re sexualizing it. They are also not your children so maybe mind your business?

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I personally would not do it but they were raised that way so it’s probably no big deal to them

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To each their own. If the kids become uncomfortable with it, it’s time for separate baths. Stop sexualizing everything & let kids be kids.

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My kids are just under 3 years apart. My son is 5 and my daughter is 8. I bathed them together (for convenience) until my daughter was 6 and my son was 3 I believe. The pediatrician said that by 6 my daughter should be taking a shower because her private area would get irritated from sitting in soapy water. She’s been showering herself since she was 6 (I still washed her hair until she was 7). She’s 8.5 now and already growing little breast buds. I started buying her training bras for when she wanted to walk around the house with her shirt off like she did when she was little… I don’t think it would be the end of the world for them to get a bath together, but I wouldn’t just leave them in the tub together alone. They’re almost 6 and 9 now and as much as we normalize everyone’s bodies and try not to make it taboo, I still don’t think they need to be bathing together alone when they’re this age & my daughter’s body is starting to change. They are still very much sweet, innocent little kids because they are homeschooled & not allowed to freely explore the internet… so they’re not as “worldly” as some kids their age are… but curiosity is normal and I’d rather be the one to explain the differences to my kids rather than have them try to find out themselves… I guess it depends on the family dynamic, what’s “normal” for them, wether or not they’ve started to experience changes in their bodies etc… I personally wouldn’t do it, especially because my kids are together 24/7 anyway and have a ton of bonding time… they don’t need sibling bonding time in the bath tub as well.

Absolutely too old for that. Idk why people are laughing. I couldn’t have my 11 and 7 yo boys in the bath together, hell i dont even let my 7&4 yo boys bathe together. Its not that im sexually a damn thing either its bc kids are straight up fucing weird and do weird sit. Theyre all old enough now they can take their own bath /shower

actually DHS says no tubs together I used to be a foster parent

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I’m sorry but that’s definitely wrong!!!

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They were raised like that so I see where she doesn’t see anything wrong with it. But no, you’re correct that’s not appropriate. We have a combined family of 6 kids. If they are opposite sex they don’t bathe together past 4. The only ones that still occasionally bathe together is my 5yr old and 10 month old boys. The kids may not know better, but the adults do. And honestly if the wrong person walked in on that she could have problem’s.

Children of the opposite sex at a young age can’t even share a bedroom together. Believe it’s age 5. Why would you let them bathe together? Children are in full blown puberty at age 10. That’s just disgusting to me.

Yeah i think the girl is old enough to bath alone

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Something wrong with the parents math.

Yeah I think there are laws or something against it…in most states there are laws/rules idk what u call them I guess but most states say kid of the opposite sex cant share a room passed a certain age

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Not of opposite sex no! They are too old to bathed together or naked together.

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I personally think it’s wrong …I think they are to old to be getting baths together. I know I wouldn’t be having my seven year old boy bathing with my 10 year old. just like if you go get public housing a boy and a girl can’t share the same room and same sex child if they are more than 5 years apart they don’t allow them to share the same room. My daughter’s are 12 and 15 they do not like there dad taking them to there physical appointment they told me it’s weird and asked me to start taking them once a year. We both respected there wishes .

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Somenthing is wrong with you , because you are advertising your friends :roll_eyes: business in social media.
Stay in your line karen.

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I was taking baths with my cousins all of us that age. None of us thought anything of it and my aunt told us why we had different parts. We were not ashamed to be naked.

You have more to worry about with two girls on that age!!! Little girls love kissing in bathtub. Had to stop My 5 year old and my 7 year old sister. I asked where they learned it and apparently my parents don’t watch the 10 year Olds phone who was watching porn lmao

Definitely not right at that age your best friend needs to be shown all these comments!!!

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Thwy are kids for goodness sakes! The only thing weird here is all of you making it weird :woman_facepalming:

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Even if they were sibling no no no

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The family that bathes together stays together. :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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My son and niece used to bath together all the time and they are the same age! They only stopped cuz they both decided they now wanted to have separate baths… one likes to shower more than have actual baths. I personally don’t see anything wrong with it

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They are siblings. Also not you kids. Adults are the nasty ones. Kids are innocent untill they are corrupted by adults.

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There’s nothing wrong as long as the kids aren’t pressured and feel comfortable bathing together.

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They are siblings for God sakes, and who are you to tell someone else how to parent their children?

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If the kids are comfortable with it then it’s not weird

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No I think at 10 years and 7 years are to old to still be sharing a bath together especially boy and girl would be different if both were the same gender though

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Absolutely not ok. I stopped bathing my 2 boys together at 4 and 5 and never bathed my boys with my girls.

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Um no too old. Shoot I have a 8 year old boy and a 6 year old daughter and I give them separate showers!!!

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What don’t work for you or is “weird” may be something completely normal to someone else. Not everyone sexualizes every single thing that has to do with a boy and girl. Especially if they’re siblings. That’s what’s wrong. People sexualize EVERYTHING!!!

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It wouldn’t be allowed in my house hold but that is in my home.
I also do not judge those who do what they do in their own home!!!.
It’s what they do and their business.

I don’t think it’s ok at all. Siblings or not kids get curious and do inappropriate things sometimes. There’s nothing you can do or say in the situation because they aren’t your kids and technically she isn’t doing anything wrong… so stay out of it is my advice

Are they your kids? If not none of your business what their family dynamics are like. Now if you suspect some sort of abuse etc then sure have an opinion but back that opinion up with facts and contact anyone who actually needs to know (authorities) if no abuse etc then mind ya business.

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To old for opposite genders. My girls stay dressed if they go in the bath with their 20 month old brother my girls are 7 and 9. They won’t even bathe together anymore they are to big :woozy_face:

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Should be wearing bathing suits or at least underwear in the bath together. My kids are 7, 8 and 5 everyone showers on thier own now

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Everybody would have a different preference to it I find that a little old but my 6 year showers with her nine-year-old brother sometimes but they’re siblings and they’re very close
Until one of them says they’re uncomfortable I’m fine with it

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No way. Not at my house.

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/he kids are WAAAAY past the age to be naked in the tub together. And don’t call me names because I am part of the MAJORITY who believe in a bit of modesty after 4 or 5. But this is a decision the parents have the right to make. My brother used to take showers with his teenagers ( it was room.sized in the basement). He is gone now. His oldest boy is a drunken pervert who has been arrested for public indecency, ma@turbating in his truck in broad daylight, and the younger son is in prison for being a pedophile.

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You really need more in your life to think about. Honestly.

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i agree it’s weird, but also not my business tbh. we stopped my kids from showering together when they started taking note of their differences, which was when my daughter was 5 and my son was 3. they’ll take the occasional “bathing suit bath” (aka pool in the bathroom :rofl:), but not naked anymore. they are also to change with the door closed now

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I feel like that’s too old but you can’t control what other ppl do. In my experience when you speak on it they’ll get offended & defensive

  1. Are they you’re kids?
  2. If not mind your own
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NO !!! Kids start to become curious at this age! Some kids even start having sex at 11-12 !!! This will only encourage it to start earlier!

It’s not weird. I can remember being on vacation with multiple families with children that were around our ages, and after playing at the beach, all of our mothers would throw all of us in the shower together. Boys, and girls. I never thought anything about it. I will say we were supervised by one of the mothers.

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It’s not that weird but it also isn’t your business and to worry about something like that is far weirder that you want to make it weird… and it is only weird if the kids are taught to do shit together in a bathroom they shouldn’t. Otherwise they’re used to it and they do it all the time. Some of us want to save water too… if these kids aren’t being gross or inappropriate, what’s the problem?

My cousins and i took baths together :woman_shrugging: your the only one Making it weird. Mind your own and quit judging

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I personally wouldn’t be comfortable with it

No they shouldn’t too old

A little. I think at that age ( now a days unfortunately) kids are learning about the opposite sex, respecting ones privacy, & girls are even getting their period. I think it might send the wrong message but only a parent can know if it can have a negative effect or impact. I would never allow this though to be honest.

I agree with you. I don’t know how weird it is but it is definitely inappropriate being of opposite genders. I’m sure the kids don’t even pay attention to it or realize it’s a problem at this stage because they have probably done it all their lives but there comes a time when modesty and privacy needs to come into play. Personally I think that time is past due but you’re not their parent so really it’s none of your business :woman_shrugging:t3:

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It’s fine. If they are being raised to not be ashamed of their bodies and educated on appropriate behaviors it shouldn’t be an issue. Monitor of course.

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At ten my boy would not bath with a female. He’s getting to the age of noticing girls etc. But he sometimes baths with his four year old brother. That’s our family though. Everyone is different.

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It’s not your business

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I think the ages they are they shouldn’t be. I stopped bathing or showering with my brother when I was 5, stopped bathing with my sisters when I was 11. But their age is too old for that in my opinion. I have 2 boys and I wouldn’t bathe them both at those ages.

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Eh yea I think they’re too old but it’s not your business tbh or ours

They’ve likely been doing it their whole lives and are innocently playing together.

My 10 year old bathes with his 2 yr old sister and 5 yr old brother when he wants to it’s alot easier to bathe them all at once because our hot water tank is small and empties quickly

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Oh. Absolutely not. 7 and 10 is far to old. You are leaving it open to sexual exploration between siblings. It’s not ok. And shouldn’t be done, especially that far along in age.

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Hell no just my opinion

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I think when they become more curious about their bodies then they should stop- which in most childrens lives is around that age- but, if they’re still in that innocent  naïve part of their life then what’s it matter :woman_shrugging:t2:I think it’s weird that you think it’s weird, are you projecting?

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Are you serious??? No they shouldn’t take a bath together.

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I think it’s too old but how about you mind your business if they’re not your kids

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when my daughter was almost 2 she was in the bath. my 5 year old son wanted to hop in with her… I let him thinking no big deal. They’re still young. As soon as he stepped in my daughter grabbed his little peepee and YANKED on it. :joy::joy::joy::joy: she was clearly just curious why he had something hanging there… poor guy!!!. haven’t let them bath together since. :joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy:

And I personally don’t think you should “mind your business since they’re not your kids.” That’s bull crap. I personally think we need to pay attention to ALL children. Some children sincerely are in bad situations and could need help… Definitely shouldn’t ignore things just because they aren’t ours. :woman_shrugging:

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Absolutely not! That should not be happening

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I let my kids bath together if they want but they are all boys and it’s usually just my 7 yr old with my 4 yr old. I wouldn’t let this happen if they were of the opposite sex though

Nope. Not happening in my house

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If they are your kids you bet

My (b/g) twins bathed together till they were like 6 or 7 by choice. One would hop in with the other, they would sit and play. But weren’t unsupervised. I sat in the bathroom with them.

Not at there age ,smaller maybe.

Toddlers ok…but at this age…nope.

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Absolutely not. They r way to old .

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