kick him to the curb with his buddy
The writing is on the Wall! Most likely his friend introduced your Husband to some questionable Lady’s! They Certainly will lie for each other. Tell your Husband to move in with that looser and do not let the door slam on his behind
Motels. Meth. Crack Whores. Run , run far way
Your husband’s “friend” obviously has no concern for his marriage so he’s trying to drag your husband down and your husband is more than willing to let him. Throw your husband out for a while and let him stew.
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Yeah he cheatin boo, confront him and ask to see his phone. If you do find out for sure he’s cheating, take the kids and leave. It’s hard, but it’s better than teaching your kids to tolerate disloyalty and disrespect.
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Men are so stupid sometimes, thinking they can get something over on us, thinking they’ll never get caught. You are not wrong. Pray about it and then take action.
Let him go. Lies escalate.and his mate isn’t a nice person. He won’t respect your feelings. I would let him go. And live a better life with your child. Who needs that in their life. Your worth far more. Xx
I suggest counseling. If he won’t agree to that remind him he has a family who needs him home and not trotting all over town with an old friend. If he keeps choosing his friend over you, tell him to leave for good.
Honestly I find it very hard to believe that this is even a question on here? Dump his friggin ass! Idc what the hell he is doing. You have absolutely no life and he should have never started hanging out with that loser in the first place. That’s just asking for trouble and you got it. Dump him. He’s lying, he’s disrespecting you, etc etc! Let him stay at that hotel. Tell him to take his sh*t with him. Start fresh. I also think your in denial.
His friend will love to ruin your marriage. Misery loves company. And your husband is being an immature idiot. Sorry
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How do we know this woman isn’t a demon sent straight from the bellows of hell and her husband has done everything he can to keep the marriage together for his daughter but lucifer looks at his phone, calls him 10 times a day and he hasn’t had a minute to himself in a decade? There’s always two sides.
Obviously if he is lying he’s hiding something. This”friend” does not seem to be a good influence on your hubby. He either needs to choose his family or his friend. If he keeps hanging with this person. Eventually he will end up leaving.
Let him go stay in a motel with his low life friend 
that’s what I would do. Byyyeeee. Kick him to the curb. It won’t change. Everyone’s like “you need to make him end that friendship”. Nah girl… you just need to serve his ass with some papers and move on. Single mom life really isn’t all that bad.
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Not ridiculous, kinda seems like they are going to strip clubs behind your back. Just seems like something that a man like his “friend” would do. Or maybe they are doing drugs together at his motel or both.
Sounds like he has a rotten influence in his life who’s spiraling and his spiraling is making your husband question his life as if what’s happening to the friend is just a matter of time before it happens to him and his family.
Sounds like the coworker is more than just a “friend”.
Why in the world would anybody be OK with her spouse lying maybe he’s gay and he’s having affair with a guy
Kick him to the curb!!50 ways to leave your lover …?. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out…
If he keeps this up after 25-30 years. I would dump him. OMG
Give him the ultimatum…him or me.
Danger flags flying …
Stick to your gut feeling…
He sounds gay and just hasn’t come out of the closet yet.
So my husband and I…
Always trust your gut feeling.
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Does he come home with poopdick?
Misery loves company. Your husband has become company to a miserable person. You are headed for some serious problems.
He’s doing drugs or cheating…
It’s beginning to look a lot like L E A V E T H E M ™
Go with your gut feeling
Gay written all over it
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#closetmuch
#helikesmen
Misery loves company…
Ugh I think you know the answer.
He’s gay and won’t tell you.
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Hes fucking someone else
he won’t change.
Rebuke Satans tactics and pray for your husband. Misery loves company, your husband needs to cut ties with that friend for the sake of your marriage and family. It’s all spiritual warfare. Ask Jesus to take over!
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Trust your intuition
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They’re probably fucking.
They going to the striiiiip Cluuuuub 
Most likely 
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Dump him. Liars r the worst. Put his shit out on the street.
Nope not wrong at a. If he wants to party and not be a husband. He should go stay in the hotel too.
He’s acting single like his newly single shitty friend. I have found over time men don’t understand and will just make you feel crazy until the same is being done to them. (I’m guilty of that myself sometimes) start doing the same things as him with a single female friend even if you have to make a new one you have nothing in common with for awhile! When he doesn’t like how promiscuous she’s dressed/her hitting on other men/getting taken home by men/ hanging out with other men as her wing woman you always being out when you should be home with your family, you can say how does it feel?
Ask him if he wants to be like his friend. Lose it all and live in a motel.
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This friends is single and ready to do what every he wants with no one to answer to your husband following him isn’t good at all if you want to keep him you have to give him and ultimatum now !! Either the friend is only a friend at work or your done!!! No more going out every night or weekend while
You provide for the baby it’s not just your responsibility and if he can’t respect you call it now 
trust me !! Been their !! It will only get much worse ps don’t listen to his words watch his actions 
praying things get better it’s a very hard life lesson to live threw. 100 percent their is another women at this point because of the lies 
other wise he would have been able to tell you don’t be a push over or this will become your daily life
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He may be gay or I to drugs or both.
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Sorry, your suspicions are right. Go with your gut feeling this is your life and daughter’s at stake. A lot is on the table. Be strong for your daughter and your self. It’s hard and I pray you get the upper hand, it’s your lives, we’re speaking about. Prayers for you, take care.
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Sounds like he wants the single life. Let him know he can’t have it both ways. File for child support asap.
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Plot twist him an his friend are playing hide the burrito. Just walk away.
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Yeah…you’re first instincts are always correct. His buddy is his alibi.
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One of my partner’s friends was like this… would try anything to get him to go out, would try bringing drugs into my home etc… my partner ended up telling me what this “friend” had said and what he was trying to do… and we both decided he is no longer welcome at our home… it doesn’t matter how shitty this person is, your husband is a grown man and his actions are his own…as they say, if you hang with trash you become it .
You, your child and marriage, regardless of all us, should be his #1 priority!
I hate to say it but sounds to me like he is up to no good. Being married with a child is difficult as it is. Sounds like he is getting a taste of bachelorhood. Which is not always good. I would be very very concerned abut his reaction, especially when his friend had that LONG pause.
I NEVER thought my ex-husband would EVER cheat. Totally blew me away. But always feeling like he was up to no good and then discover he really was up to no good, broke me. I found d the proof and then I was done.
I guess unless you have absolute proof, then don’t jump ship. Sometimes we need that proof, especially in marriage and with a child.
I truly wish you the best. Sound like you may have a long road ahead of you…
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Honey, there’s a lot more wrong than him lying to you. Him never giving you any relief from child care and taking care of him for starters. Just because you work in the home doesn’t mean you are an indentured servant 24/7. He needs to help you once he gets home. That baby isn’t just yours. If he is longing to spend more time with his single friend than with his family…. Thats a problem.
All sex issues aside. Do you feel like his one and only? Cause if you don’t, this is the Crack that everything else will stress and burst the dam.
If he’s making excuses to not be in your life and leaving you to carry the responsibilities of parenting and marriage, you are flying solo.
If you have to smack him, confront him or acquaint him with those responsibilities, then put your energies to better purpose and move on.
Is it easy? He’ll no! But it’s easier being both parents when you don’t expend the energy covering for him , trying to reason with him or wondering if you were enough. Any partner, who doesn’t share the load, has no business remarking on your deficiencies.
Every relationship is based on 3 qualities 1) safety- if you or your child/children are not safe-leave. 2)Respect-we all need that to survive and thrive. Self-respect comes from that. Respect yourself enough to not allow disrespect. 3)Trust- once damaged is next to impossible to repair. If any of these 3 qualities is missing then any relationship is damaged to the extent of the participant’s willingness to understand and make honest and significant commitments to the relationship.
Give these qualities in every relationship, starting with your daughter, and expect them in return. Go with God.
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Honey get out of the relationship while he’s working he has to support you and child go to Weave get help Good luck and God Bless
Even if he was out playing golf or something all the time, the point is that he’s refusing to be part of the family he created, which is childish.
Sometime being with someone who does not how to treat u are better off alone
Nope question everything stand up for yourself too! You have every right to ask questions. You can download a tracker app on his phone and see where his going and how long he’s staying there. I think they have the location thing on snap chat too. Sorry idk what the app is called my mom and step dad use it for fun lol my sister uses it with her fiends too lol.
Not a good situation. It will only get worse. Have him leave so he can live the single life.
I’d tell him to go stay in the motel, and dont come back.
Get out and don’t look back. You and daughter can do better.
I’m sure you do know what to think. I’m sorry
I’m a man and I can tell u he’s up to no good.
leave now ! yes be pissed ! follow your gut , its BS , he is up to something for sure !
Life’s too short to waste on a liar throw him out with the trash!!!
Your husband is being dirty as hell behind your back, Your husband will blame his friend, you will take him back on conditions. DO NOT DO THIS
The person at the hotel is another woman and the friend is just covering for him. There is no drunk friend
Sounds like he’s making his friends problem how own.
No ma’am you are not.
You already know hes a lying dirtbag so what next?
Association is everything
Liars are liars for life.