He said he didn’t know why she was calling him, not, I don’t know who this is…
What’s his fb I’ll go undercover for yeah
I’m going with he is lying. I even asked my fiance and he said it’s not possible. I’m sorry
U do know only if ur friends it rings if ur not friends it says u received a video chat from … hit accept so they can contact you… so they were friends… now I wud keep an eye on her n see when she is on chat n see if he is on chat at same time… tgey probably will use hang outs app or wats up app too
Buy a 35$ tape recorder and hide in his car ease ur mind
No definitely lying
Cant call someone that’s not a friend unless you send a message request first they messaged before bet.
I butt dialed my entire dnd group when i was at work
You can’t pocket dial unless that number is in your phone… sorry
His reaction to immediately block and deny is suspect. You don’t want people mistrusting you then don’t act like you’re hiding something.
We do not hide things from each other in our marriage.
Now is the time to look closer, has he been sneaky, gone more, extra work hours, has he given you any other reasons mistrust.
You only get so mamy shady occurances before I stop trusting and I refuse to build my future with someone I can’t trust.
I accidentally call people all the time on messenger and snap chat. It happens🤷🏻♀️. It’s crazy that all of you are so insecure that’s the first thought you think of is he must be cheating. If you don’t trust him. Leave.
You have to accept message request before someone can call you don’t you?
They have obviously spoken before for them to have each other on messenger
Number has to be programmed in the phone for pocket dial, and it’s usually the last number you called. That’s just how cell phones work.
It will only ring if he is friends with her or has accepted her message requests.
I wouldn’t believe him, maybe do a little investigating.
Ive had people accidentally call me and ive blocked their number after talking to them to make sure if they got the wrong number the first time they could the second.
Even if it was a butt dial they had to have already talked previously to be connected in that way and him blocking her immediately clearly means he doesn’t want you knowing they’ve talked or are friends and didn’t have an innocent explanation of who she is, my partner has many friends who are girls as the industry he works in is female dominated and he often gets messages I see pop up on his phone from someone I don’t recognise and he calmly explains who it is and what they are talking about as we have no secrets and he has nothing to hide, also no one has ever butt dialed either of us on fb and I’ve never accidentally called someone I didn’t mean to either, it’s very very suss
He could be lying or there could be a legitimate reason they are connected on messenger and it really wants an accident. Has your partner been buying or selling on market place or bss groups? Most contact on these occurs on messenger. If not and he has been shady with hiding his phone, taking calls away from you or working a lot more than usual then yeah I’d be asking questions.
Sorry to hear… he’s doing the dirty.
Honestly my husband pocket dialed a friend of his on messenger. He hadn’t talked to the guy in years then pulled out his phone bc he heard a noise and sure enough messenger call was open lol I would definitely be wondering but it does happen
If it was an accident why did he block her???
People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. He wouldn’t have blocked her if it was innocent
I had a guy call I sold something to on marketplace 3x at like 1am, don’t know him, still don’t, only met him and his wife to sell them a baby swing I guess it could accidently happen but I think they have to have spoken before in order for someone to call, not sure though
If they hadn’t talked previously her call wouldn’t have came through. They have to have had communication previous. Something is up.
Yeah, that’s sus
I wouldn’t trust him or her. Time to do some diggingm
Yep there is something going on there!
He is lying to you if you are worried about it I’d be FBI on that motherfucker
He’s cheating and she knows he’s with somebody. There’s no way in heck I believe that …both liars
Something isn’t right with that, I was holding my phone while cleaning and accidentally called one of my friends without realizing it. With him automatically blocking her is a giant light up red flag and then he denied knowing her. If it was an accident then he wouldn’t have blocked her that fast.
I’ve had my phone in my back pocket and accidentally called my boss on messenger, so it could be legit, but they would have to had communication on there for the call to go through.
Definitely cheating, why block over an accidental dial
As long as she’s blocked and he doesn’t unblock… than I wouldn’t worry. It could be accidental. Do you have full trust, if not go through his phone girl!
If the call went through, they have spoken and are connected on messenger
Some random dude called me at 4am. I didn’t block him… I was like who tf are you and why are you calling me… lol so sounds suspicious to me idk
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I was butt dialed last week by a guy I haven’t spoken to since elementary school. Called on Facebook about… 5 times in a row?.. over the course of about 15 mins. My husband was next to me as I refused the call each time.
He didn’t once accuse me of cheating, and I didn’t block the guy, either. I just kept refusing the call. To be honest, I just figured he’d been hacked. Then suddenly he messaged me apologizing profusely for butt dialing, and we caught up for a minute. It was nice.
Seriously though, my husband never once went, “WHY ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME, YOU WHORE!?” It never even crossed his mind …which is good because the dude is gay, married, and lives halfway across the world. I would have been embarrassed for him if he had accused me.
Anyway… all y’all need to check your relationships.
I’m if he had to urgently block her after words:rofl: this has got to be a joke? TOO FISHY
My daughter accidentally FaceTimed a guy in my phone instead of her father and was speaking to him before I realized! I was mortified. But misdials happen. I would just make sure she stays blocked
nope. nobody accidentally but dials someone and gets blocked that fast unless the person is known to the other one. Not buying it
Be worried sis. Def be worried. She knows about you that’s why she lied, and called so late. My messenger doesn’t allow just anybody to call me.
Nah they both suspect and running skiems on you baby they know what theyre doing and dont want you to know. He immediately blocked her, what does that look like???.. KNOW YOUR WORTH LUV
How do you just accidentally call someone you don’t know on messenger? Don’t you have to be friends or have mutual friends? Wouldn’t you look at their profile before blocking them to see how you might know them?
It was no accident. She would have to be in messenger, scroll to his name, click his name, then press the dial button. All of which she would hear the phone ringing on her end giving her time to hang up and send a quick sorry. In the time it takes your husband to pick up his phone, hang up and block her
People accidentally call 911 all the time. It could happen HOWEVER to block her that fast seems suspicious. If it was nothing he should have just accepted the call and say sorry u have the wrong person or something
Either way, you have to make a post about it so you don’t trust him or the situation. You should just go your separate ways.
I’m not saying he is or is t telling the truth…but I Facebook dialed people today just throwing my phone into the passenger seat…
You can’t get through on a facebook call unless they’ve spoken before. I can’t call a stranger because it tells me were not connected. So yah I would worry
Looks like he’s cut one out of the herd, even though he might not be riding her yet!! Definitely not an accident
Nah the instant block says it all
I wouldn’t have thought anything of it…
UNTIL HE INSTANTLY BLOCKED HER. Why is he blocking people if they called “by accident” I get “wrong number” calls all the time, I tell them it’s a wrong number and we never hear from each other again.
Trust yourself, you know the truth. You can feel it in your gut it may just take some time to understand and believe it because you love him…
Honest, trustworthy partners don’t have things to hide and his reaction says he’s hiding a lot.
Strange that he would immediately block her if it wasn’t an expected call…
Unfortunately the seed of doubt has now been sewn. Because of his actions you won’t be able to forget this or be like you were before this happened, innocent or not, it’s in your head now bless you. Been there, got the t shirt If you can’t let it go completely, forget about it and put it behind you then it will keep getting dragged up. Big hugs xx
If it was completely innocent why would he immediately block her that’s my question
Depends on whether or not you already have Shady feelings of stuff happening
I’d be like wtf bc he instantly blocked her… why didn’t he text her and say hey why did you call? Lol
I’ve accidentally pocket dialed and called people on messenger. It’s so embarrassing. But why would he block her that’s what makes it fishy
Anyone ever tried calling someone you’re NOT already friends with on messenger…?
Her pocket would have had to click on his profile. Click on message. Click on the phone tab. idk if the pocket has that capability.
I once pocket dialed a person on snapchat. I didn’t know that even had a call feature! Lol
How do u accidentally pocket dial someone on fb u dont know? Theres no way she can call a stranger they have had a conversation before maybe he even had her as a friend on fb too. Hes lyin to u hun so sorry!!!
Women’s intuition is always right once a cheat always a cheat he can always unblock her get to the bottom of it then kick him to the curb
Check in a couple days to see if he unlocked her
If u got a funky vibe from his reaction listen to it
Check his phone records
I’ve been accidentally added to a video call between a mother and daughter in California. I’m in Wisconsin. it happens.
Ask him for the number. If there’s nothing to hide he’s give it to you
I have actually done it but why the blocking.
I would ask why he blocked her? If it was just an innocent accidental call, a answer it?
If I’m honest and it was someone I didn’t usually talk to calling I’d be way to curious not to answer and be like whatcha doin? …
Then if it was a pocket dial you’d be able to tell, hang up and then odds on they’d message later when they realised and be like shit my bad! Sorry.
You don’t just react to a random call with a block?
She if he’s unblocked her lol
Yes. He overreacted which is suspicious.
I get that it could have been an accident. However the overreaction of blocking her is suspicious
I think if shes asking the question she knows the answer & should be discussing this with him.
Usually when you answer a call on messenger it shows up on your phones call history. Wait until he’s asleep and check. If you can’t do that you can go through the service you guys pay your phone bill through and look at his call history. Be aware that if you do find something there’s no going back and it will always hang over your head if you do choose to forgive him.
I didn’t think you could call people you hadn’t had any contact with in the past without them accepting your message request?
Sure the button is there, But does not ring on the other person’s end if message request hasn’t been accepted
All these people saying you can’t call someone you’re not friends with, no where does it say the husband and caller aren’t friends.
If him speaking to a woman you don’t know always makes you think he’s cheating then I can see why he would immediately block her so it doesn’t happen again (trying to be proactive but causing a bigger issue).
He hiding something beat him up …
I’ve never blocked a wrong number or a pocket dial. And if it was a pocket dial wouldn’t the caller have to have his contact saved
Well she could have had a toddler playing with her phone.
My son would call everyone in my messenger just to get someone to talk to him.
You can’t exactly “pocket dial” on messenger.
They would’ve had to if had contact at some point for him to even be in her inbox, messages, call logs or whatever.
He should have answered it in front of you instead of you wondering if he’s innocent. Simple things to keep our people at ease, don’t come at me about trust. If my person has concern in their eyes, I’m fixing it without hesitation because that’s how you earn the trust. And why would he immediately block her instead of seeing what she wanted. The block seems odd
Stalk her and him, get to the bottom of this
Have him unblock her and call her in front of you without announcing your presence and without any warning to him. Place on speaker and then have him ask how he knows her and listen for her reaction. That will tell you what you need to know.
Her pocket must have been really busy to find his name in messenger and click call
It could be legit… but why block!!! That makes it suspicious as hell!!
You can’t pocket dial someone on messenger unless you have already been messaging them.
To accidently call somebody you have to go to their page and in messenger. I feel like there are to many steps you have to take for it to be an accident
He was afraid she was gonna keep calling that’s why his dumb ass blocked her
Do you think they would they have talked if you’re already sleep at the time that call came in? Does your husband often get random calls from unknown people? Did he block people who did the same ‘accidental’ call thing before? What were his actions right after that incident?
He’s cheating. Bust his ass
He would have had to been in her recent message list to call him. They must have been talking at some point. The call may have been accidental, but definitely not an accident that they had contact…
He’s in her contacts or they’ve talked before. Only way that could have happened not accidentally but on purpose. I can’t even butt dial with my phone unless the number is in my contacts or I spoke with them before. Sorry but he’s playing you no doubt.
Not believable, at all.
(Unless she made like 4- 5 specific keystrokes) which is very unlikely.
Why block her if it was an accidental call?
Pocket dial!!! Those can’t happen if it hasnt been purposely dialed before. Girl… yes you should be concerned. If you get to the point where you have to worry, it’s time to let him go.
Be worried, mine joined fb in 2018 after 28 years with me, he found some old classmates. He had never done social network, next thing you know she fb called him, and without knowing I was home, she blurted out…“did you call me up to dump me”…of course he said “what” told her don’t be stupid, and ended the call. Later when I asked her about it, she said it was a joke…needless to say two months later he told me we were done…he didn’t love me anymore, and next thing you know he was on the other side of the United states with her going to San Francisco to see things he never saw before…were not back together, and she elected to stay with her husband in the end I believe…Be worried…
Yep been there and found out that I wasn’t the only person he was seeing at the time.
I would be a little worried.
Trust your gut. If the fear is there. Trust it.
Fb messenger phone calls aren’t accidental. ESPECIALLY if they’ve never talked before.
Super sketch. Like she said above, u dont pocket dial on fb messenger
I’m sorry. Same situation in 2017. Trust your gut.
Know your worth.