Hmmm , I’d surely be suspicious!!
Been there. Watch out.
Tell her to get lost
Yep! Does he have a passcode on his phone? Be more worried!
Yes it’s very suspicious
If it was a pocket dial, why was he in her numbers? Just saying.
Yes. Been there. Yes!!
Depends what was his reaction, don’t ignore it either.
I agree with everyone. Instant block is a major red flag. Listen to your gut. They more than likely are talking and she just went along with it. I’m sorry you are going through this.
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Ive accidentally called some lady on messenger before (extremely embarrassing) we have chatted a few times way before the incident bcuz of a purchase I’ve made from her so when she was online for some reason she would pop up green telling me she’s online even though we weren’t friends. For him to not know who she is, is very unlikely. In my opinion she’s on his messenger bcuz they chatted before, definitely more to the situation that he’s not telling you
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Look at her profile. Does she live near by? If so it’s prob not accidental.
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I’d be questioning the instant block because why? Unless she’s been bothering him but then he would’ve mentioned it to you, right? Things that make you go Hmm 
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The instant block seems a bit shady, and the pocket dial doesn’t seem as possible unless they’ve had interaction before which would mean he does know who it was. Listen to your gut. This can be dealt with in so many ways. You can let it go (especially if you’ve never had an inkling or situation like this before), you can directly talk to him explaining how off it seemed and how you felt (his reaction should tell you what you need to know even if he doesn’t), or even check it out (look at her page to see if there’s anything notable. What city shes in things like that). However, if you do choose the last two or something different you need to be prepared for the outcome if you poke the bear. Im not saying dont, you do whats best for you, but make yourself aware of the possible outcomes. You can always take a different route as you already saw something and if it was malicious in anyway hes been ‘caught’ so to speak. Talk to him and tell him how you feel or don’t, but observe what happens now. If you’re uncomfortable, always communicate with your partner. If anything else comes up or you get that inkling then for sure lay it out on the table and go from there. Good luck lil lady, I hope all goes well with what you decide.
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Its the fact that he blocked her right away. Thats what I would be worried about
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A pocket dial on messenger isn’t very believable at all. Regular call yeah, happens to me or wrong number.
But her butt or thigh searched his name and then pressed call on messenger? Lol doubtful
The block right away is sketch … why would you block someone instantly over a pocket dial ?! Sounds like he was worried she would message right after and so blocked her instantly.
Shady for sure.
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A normal reaction would be surprise and confusion. He’d even show you maybe and be like “some lady accidentally called me”. If its nothing weird, there’s no need to instantly block someone. Trust your intuition.
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I wouldn’t make to much of it… However I would definitely go to working behind the scenes…
Well who is it? If she called they’ll have a message stream, read it. The only way to really pocket dial in messenger is if you have your message stream open to the person you called. I get butt dialed by my bff all the time but she has messenger open and is in our message stream.
If it was just an innocent pocket call why would he need to instantly block her
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Listen to your gut. If something feels off it probably is
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Yes I would be suspicious because you can’t call people on Facebook you haven’t had contact with before
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Yes. You should be suspicious.
Hes talking to her ur post says it all. U should talk to him more and investigate
Fb won’t even let you call someone unless they have messaged you and you’ve accepted their request or vice versa so…
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The instant block makes this suspicious
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Instant block is a red flag. He is talking to her. Don’t ignore your gut feeling.
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I’d question everything .He’s lieing and you k ow in you heart that he and her are having an affair
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It seems like you and hubs need to have an open discussion about boundaries and comfort levels when it comes to the opposite sex.
But yes this sounds fishy af.
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Nothing should worry u… his just cheating
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Trust him…it’s worth more in the end.
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i accidentally call people and add people idk on messenger its possible. i also know a guy who blocks people for doing it and he never cheated. you should trust him but you can sneak onto his phone or ask to borrow it to look and see if you must
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I would still check it out peace of mind
I accidentally dialed a friend on messanger while in Kroger last weekend. It does happen
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He wouldn’t have immediately blocked her if it was an accident.
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He blocked her so she couldn’t call or message again while your there with him.
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My 3 year old got a hold of my phone and called people on messenger and even changed names to “nicknames” like awa and Asssswwa and no I am not making this up 
I wouldn’t freak out too much unless suspicious things keep happening.
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How does someone accidentally call someone on messenger? If you have them as a friend, then ya it could be possible. But there are steps to getting to the point of calling someone. But if it’s someone you don’t know then how do you accidentally call a stranger on messenger? 
. It’s not like accidentally calling the wrong number, there is a first and last name. And if you knew her. Why is a chick calling your husband at midnight. If a girl called my husband , he wouldn’t just immediately block her , a normal person would be like , who the hell is that and look. If it’s someone you know, then why be so quick to block them .
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Look my husband is so careless with his phone. He goes through like 4 phones a year from dropping them and breaking them. He butt dials me all the time from work on his lunch with the guys. On his way home, on his way to work. He leaves his phone home all the time. Now your husband blocked her number real fast that’s the only problem I have with your situation.
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Ngaiwikau Whakarongo Kiriona-Whanau husband sus
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There are so many weird people on Facebook. I have been called up on messenger by people who have no business calling me. If there was anything, the person would have his personal number and call him off that.
Ummmmm yeah. That sounds super suspicious!
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I mean my thought is if he didn’t know her that his reaction would be more “what the heck who is this” not to immediately block them but you know him best. I wouldn’t make a huge deal but I would be concerned of anything else. I would also tell him of your concern and ask him straight up because if you aren’t able to trust him it’s going to deteriorate your relationship real fast regardless of what really did or didn’t happen.
Suspicious… sorry 
Yes u should investigated well and well cause u never know
Smells like bullshit
I don’t believe either of them, get out, walk with your head held high. Your
You believe him or not only he knows the truth 
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I’ve gotten a pocket dial on messenger but in order to have that option you have to have had contact at some time (friends, messages before, etc). If he has done nothing before (cheated, lied, etc) I would just let him know how you feel and explain it made you uncomfortable. If he has been unfaithful then I can really understand the concerns. Immediate block is weird to me. If it was an accident and he hasn’t had any contact prior then why would it be a big deal to block?
My husband gets random messages from women, boob or snatch shots even though his profile says married. He instantly blocks them after we laugh about it. He isn’t even friends with these people. Seriously some people just have no self worth anymore 
he over reacted when blocked her , imo it wasn’t no accident.
You shouldn’t be suspicious…you should realize he is lying and move on.
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Messenger means that they already have talked or it would not even call
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If he blocked her right away is a huge red flag. Id be going through his phone now
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No snooping. If you don’t trust he’s telling the truth then you leave. Don’t be a bad person by snooping. Trust is the basis for a relationship. If you can’t trust him, you have nothing and snooping would just show that you don’t trust him. So you have to call it. Do you trust him or not.
Doing that would make the woman just as bad as the boyfriend. If she can’t trust him, she shouldn’t be with him. Plain and simple.