You let your child go there so it must not be that bad.
U didnāt when yāall were together so donāt do it now.
Why do you let you child go there
If anything, just think of your own child, take Dad to court saying you donāt feel that your child is safe when at his home
Wellā¦if you want your kid in the system, sure. There is a reason you donāt have custody either.
No, you let your kid go there. Mind your business if you still allow your child to go over to such an awful environment
If you legitimately are concerned then yes.
Talk and offer the help first those people are bad news
I would personally never call cps on someone without at least discussing my concerns with them first. And thereās a difference between dirty or nasty and being so dirty that itās unlivable? Is there feces and roaches? Things like that would be a major no. But just being dirty is there problem.
Stop ur child going over. Simple. Cps are evil ( not all but a lot are ). Please donāt call cps just keep ur child away. As long as thereās food in house, clothes, toys, educational thingās. No illegal drugs etc then its fine. Kids can wonder off at times. As bad as it is. U could always offer support
I would question the adults first, and maybe even question the kids further before getting law involved.
Only if itās a health hazard should as far as feces covered, no food in the fridge, child is in the road, theyāre using drugs in front of the kidsā¦etc. discuss with the ex before doing anything that drastic
CPS is a crime against children. They ALWAYS make it worse. Try and find an advocate center first. Or do a well check with the police.
Being outside alone is no issue. My 3 and 5 year old play together or alone outsideā¦
But. The house however- thereās a difference between untidy and unsanitary
No mind ur business donāt call CPS on someone u donāt know anything truthfully thatās not coo for someone to just up and call CPS I hate people like that ugh effn Karenās
Talk with the dad first. Are we talking clutter or a dirty house? Document everything and if you can, take photos. If things donāt improve call CPS.
Iāve thought about this and with that one child wondering around outside everyday all day is abuse and neglect.
Yes by all means please call customer before someone gets hurt real bad or even kidnapped for that matter. Maybe she kicks him outside and tells him not to come back inside. So terribly sad. I hope noone gets hurt.
Unless you suspect physical or sexual abuse I would not involve CPS if you truly care. That system is not a pretty one at all.
Mention how the house looks and stop bringing your child there for that reason and if thereās no change then report
Why do you let your kid over there
I would talk with them first and see if there isnāt something you can all work out ā¦and if they donāt wanna talk then I would make that call.
Just file for emergency custody and explain why then u wonāt have to put the child in the care of a dirty place
Absolutely you should call cps
I think I would mind my own fking business and you probably should too.
Yes. Right now. And keep calling.
Always advocate for the child. They have NO voice. Let CPS make the decision. They will come and investigate and decide.
If your concerned yes then you should call
No. What if there isnāt anything wrong? Talk first before you do anything else other wise you sound like a jealous ex causing trouble
I aināt even read the rest after the opening sentence ā¦
NO.
CPS is in the business of stealing children. Unless you never wanna see your kids again, handle it.
A 4 year old playing in the yard by themselves is not a concern. Talk to them first,
I would call and I wouldnāt let my daughter be there anymore.
Id absolutely call cps, even if you do it anonymously
Nah sweetie have a conversation of ur concerns. Having an untidy is no reason to call CPS. You wont want that done to you.
Call them, but stop letting your child go there,
Yepā¦ If I thought any child was in any kind of issues of that I would.
Ring them . Might be the kick up the arse they need. And keep your child away till theyāve pulled their finger out ā¦rather check on the kiddies and nothing be wrong rather than ignore it and them get hurt
Without question yes I would!!
Itās hard looking after a family so mind ur business
If your questioning if you should then yeah.
So they can go into a foster home and be treated the same if not worse and be terrified? No
being messy and being dirty r 2 totally different thingsā¦its up to us as adults to not ignore stuff like thatā¦I would callā¦nasty mfs
Is your daughterās or the other childrenās health or life in jeopardy? Iād think that if you were actually that worried and felt as such, you wouldnāt be allowing your child to go over there. Be an adult and talk to them. Express your concerns and go from there. If those children are not in danger then you will only be wasting valuable time when cps could be helping more children that are in need. Start with communicating.
Are you actually concerned tho or just a jealous ex cos I see jealous exās alot pulling stunts like this tryna say they worried for the kids safety but really they were haters still in loveā¦ Just saying.
Depends on what your version of dirty is.my house was cluttered but not dirty and to my landlord was dirty lol.also some 4 year old are pretty gd at staying in the yard.my kids were
I would not let my kid go in those horrible conditions because if that 4 year old is unattended what makes you think they wonāt do the same to your daughter too.
Iām a mandated reporter and a dirty house is not an upfront sign of child abuse or neglect. If the kids donāt have food, clothing, or a home to live in, sure. You trust it enough to send your own child there but wanna call cps? You put your child in that environment when you felt it was unsafe? That says a lot about you. Just talk to them and voice concerns to your lawyer if you have a custody agreement and be able to provide proof of your claims.
CPS is not somebody you should trust they have literally been busted for sex trafficking children do not call CPS.
Honestly kinda sounds like they need help calling cps due to the place not being clean is pretty shitty i know i sometimes have trouble cleaning right now my sink is full of dishs iam rising two babys by myself n had a c section 3 weeks ago i would be pissed if someone called cps over that
Why are you sending your child there then. It will make you look like an instigator and they will keep t ha t on record and from that point on you wont be taken seriously. If the kids are happy, healthy, have food and clothing, bed and utilities onā¦how someone lives really is none of your business.
CPS is a terribly corrupt organization that makes their money off kidnapping and ārehomingā children.
If the child isnāt in any imminent danger you donāt call the cops or CPS on people. Thatās a terrible reflection on you. I promise the kid would rather be in a messy home with his parents then lost in the system.
Just Be careful in doing that it can change ppls lives forever including yours as they will investigate u in return. Unless your child is directly affected then MIND YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!
If the children are roaming alone I definitely would!!
This smells fishy and petty. If you are honestly concerned (which seems doubtful) then have the police do a well check they will decide. Cause itās honestly none of your business
Iād call CPS no questions asked if you think that it is unstable living conditions if you were concerned for the little ones and your daughter Iād call CPS sometimes itās all people need is a little bit of an eye-opener and will change their ways
Cps would probably just go over and see if thereās food in the house and ask the kids if anyone is hurting them. If those two things check out, theyāll likely not open a case.
The risk with having a conversation first is this, if that conversation does not go well and you decide to make the call they will know it was you
And they want do nothing about 4 year old outside cause i had neighbor whoās kid did that and someone called she still got her kid
Some 4 year olds wait outside for their neighborhood friend to get there to play with them. You donāt know the story. When I was 4 we played outside all day.
A messy house is not necessarily an abusive house. Plenty of spotless households are abusive.
I donāt see what the issue is. 4 year olds are allowed to play outside. How do you know that nobody inside is watching them? Playing outside is much healthier than watching TV.
Just remember they will be in your life tooā¦not just his.
You share a childā¦and allow said child to be in the environment.
No. Offer to take the kids. Social services aināt gone do shit but put them in a (most likely) worse off home.
Iād take the little one inside and make a big deal about it like omg he mustāve snuck out without you noticing. Good thing heās ok. Thatās scary. Make them think about it. My youngest is 5 and heās constantly outside - with his brothers or sisters and where I can see him if Iām inside. If you call cps- dot forget YOUR child lives there also.
If you feel safe with your daughter being there, donāt tear up the family. Maybe the son needs some time outside and it lines up with pickup time.
Maybe ask. If you think the kid is in danger what makes you drop off your kid? Maybe he gets jealous when your daughter is over. Itās a matter of communication
Why is everyone so quick to.call cps now a days? Could be the most basic shit and yall wanna go running trying to get babies put in a system that not there to actually help them. ( few and far between they actually help) talk to them about it get them aware. Jeesh be an adult.
I would talk to them first about it and maybe call the cops but you can put a call into cps as well.
If your that concerned why do u let your kid go over there I gaurentee you they will be looking at u as well
Donāt call ocs on know one unless itās life r death situation they want take kids for house being dirty i been there before still got my kids babydaddy tried all kinds stuff didnāt work
As a mom of 5 imma say that mess probably just literally happened and I can relate my 4 and 5 year old are able to lock and unlock the door. Ugh many times I found em outside jumping on trampoline when Iām only going to the basement to switch laundry. Smh Iād talk to your ex express that others might call cps and warn em to keep better eye on the child hense the unsafty of the matter and just get reassured that your child isnt out by them selfs. But kids are kids smh
I feel that if youāre legitimately concerned, you wouldnāt have made this post. You wouldāve called CPS without spilling the teaā¦ But thatās me.
I would say try talkin to the parents about your concerns and what you see. If that does not work stop your child from going over there and if it does not change then contact PCS.
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House that nasty why are
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But 4 year old outside alone thatās kinda something worry about it he lives on vidy road of kid can reach water r a road thatās scarey
First off if it is really as bad as you are saying and you are so worried why do you feel safe enough to take your child their and leave her?
How wonderful for these children to be brought up in a house full of animals.
If you so concerned, why you sending your kid there???
You can call and make an anonymous report. It is then up to CPS if they choose to investigate and they wonāt communicate with you after the report is made. I would call.
Nope keep Cps out of it. You could lose your kid.
As long as youāre doing it for the kids sake and not just because heās your ex
I wouldnāt even be letting my kid over there
Yes. You donāt have to leave your name. If he asks say you know nothing about it. Say nothing to your son about it too
Probably a good idea and maybe you donāt want your child there either
Id def call the cops and ask to do a welfare check!
I would. Thatās terrible and I wouldnāt trust my baby with him
Treat people how you want to be treated
No Iād mind my own business.
Like someone else said like to the parents first!
Perhaps a conversation with them first ā¦
Have the police go over and do a Well Check, and go from there.
No. Donāt be a twunt.
I say follow your gut.
They wonāt do anything anyway. The case will be dropped.
When on doubt call them out.
Why donāt you ask how they are doing first and see if you can offer them any help
Mind your business
A messy house and wandering kid are not really a reason for cps more of a talk parent to parent in my opinion the system is no place for kids they get abused raped etc every kid I have met in the system only has horror stories
Sounds like thereās more to the story.
Why the fuck come online looking for attention.
I would absolutely callā¦
Iād sit down with the dad first and explain your issues
I would mind my business.
No i wouldnāt call cps. It isnāt a cps matter.