Don’t drop that case my son going to be 19 and he his still paying child support
If he wants it drop have him sign his rights over.
Don’t drop shit for that man if he’s never even tried to help take care of your baby. He didn’t deserve that check in the first place.
NO! Your daughter deserves to be supported by her father. Why should he get a free ride? You both made that child.
They should not have taken his stimulus check he needs to call the irs
HELL NO DON’T DROP IT! His parents aren’t going to live forever, then what?
You shouldn’t even consider dropping it no need to feel pity on him
Let it be… he had to deal with his own actions… he is just getting a taste of karma
He will only buy drugs with the money
Absolutely Not!! The money Is for the child. Put it in a savings account for their college.
No. It’s his responsibility. It would be yours if child lived with him.
Its not up to you. I mean the state already has his info. You on food stamps? Medicade or WIC? Theyre still gonna get his money
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OMG DO NOT DROP IT!!! He is a grown man for goodness sake , hes looking for a easy way out, hes more worried about a stimulus check, smh … dont do it girl dont do it
My son’s x wife is over 11000 and still paying. Not his problem that is hers. Don’t give in that is excuse.
No it is his child to he needs to grow up and act like a parent
Hell no!!! Keep your child support and tell him if he paid when he was supposed to they wouldn’t have taken it. He can suck it up and deal just like you do without his help!! Don’t cater to him!!
Don’t do it! He needs to be held accountable!
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No don’t drop it. Not your child’s fault he can’t do what you do…which is take care of her.
This just brings me to my situation, my husband of 15 years hasn’t really helped much he gets a job then loses the job then gets a job after months and months of not working and my mom is the one that helps me with the kids clothes and it’s 7 of them so it’s costly but she does it for them. He wants to leave to go live with a friend because I found some messages with some other girl he was seeing behind my back so I told him he can be with her but 3 days later I called her and told her that while he was seeing her he was with me he told her he wasn’t with me. So I told her the truth he was mad at me and asked for an explanation and he was almost crying because she didn’t want to speak to him no more. Called him a piece of shit and all he said he was going to change for her. Get a job and move out with his friend that’s staying with us for a little over a year now. So he told me that he would help me with what he can when he moves out because he would have to pay rent and have bills. Should I just let him give me what he thinks is fair or should I take him to child support. He said If I wanted him to prosper Inhad to let him give me what he thought was right at the moment. Any advice?
Don’t drop it. If he starts complying and paying, all the restrictions will be lifted.
Stick to your guns. His track record stinks.
Who got his stimulus check?
Do not drop it!! Your daughter can use that.
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Don’t you dare drop it! My girls are now in their twenties but it wasn’t until they were 15 & 16 did I get anything! I kept it open all those years in 3 states. The states they were born in and where we’ve lived for 20 years. He owed $25,000 in back child support. He refused to do his taxes to avoid paying and it finally caught up to him. He had to file ALL back taxes and had his entire paycheck taken every week or he faced 5 years and still had to pay. Mind you he had 3 more children since his first original 2 with me. His family bailed out the rest of money for him to keep him from being locked up but I eventually got every cent he owed. Damn straight my girls got everything they needed and all my bills were paid in full for quite a while. Bought my oldest a car and brand new wardrobes/ bedroom sets and took them on vacation for the first time since they were little. Why shouldn’t I enjoy it. I worked and went to college and was a mom to them. He was never there for them. I raised my girls!
Here in mn if your on assistance you can’t drop it. I wouldn’t either way
Don’t drop it!!! He needs to own up to his responsibility!!
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No way!! Hold him accountable! He sounds like someone who wants something for nothing!
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I would definitely not drop it. I have removed my ex from child support 2 times in the past to allow him to for what’s right by our 3 children. He decided not to help me with them, created 2 more children and has bought several cars. He recently received 100,000 PPP loan for covid and bought a 30,000 car cash, went on shopping spree and paid some of his other bills. My children did not receive 1 penny of it even thou he owes around 40,000. Keep him on cs and tell him to get a job and support his child and stop whining that he didn’t receive the free money and thank trump for helping to pay some of his child support.
Don’t do it!!! I’ll regret it!! Tell him child support said u had to get a lawyer to drop it and u can’t afford a lawyer 
hopefully he will leave u alone then!!
Absolutely not! He needs to MAN UP!!
No don’t help enable him!! He needs to grow up.
Hell naw dont u drop it. He just wants a free ride. Dead beat if he would just man up. My son has a dead beat to and like i told his donor he can pay from his s.s. if he has to im not doin him no favors. What has he done for my son. Not shit so deal.
DO NOT DROP IT!! so what if he has to go sit in jail!! It would help him get clean anyway!
Omg… You would be crazy to drop it. Don’t do it! He is just trying to manipulate you.
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DO NOT DROP IT, you’ll regret it. Hes gothis issuesdue to HIS POOR CHOICES. Not your problem. Good luck honey
No don’t drop the child support
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DONT DROP IT! People never will change unless they are forced to!
You DON’T DROP it. He needs to man up
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No. His choices are not your responsibility. 
Nope. He aint going to change even if you do drop the case.
No ma’am, do NOT DROP anything!! It’s his responsibility to take care of his daughter!!
Don’t drop it he has just as much responsibility to her as her father
Heck no he needs to help support his child
Don’t do it. He will only use the money for drugs.
Hell no he needs to grow up. I don’t know why this is even a question
Please do not drop the case. Make him get a job and support your child.
Tough Love Girl…
Run but can’t hide!
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Hell no don’t drop it. It’s his fault for not paying for his kid
If you do…then you’re part of the problem…sad but true😥
Hell no!! Dont give him the easy way out. Your daughter deserves it and its his responsibility
Don’t drop it make him responsibility for his child
Don’t drop it. He has responsibilities.
NO, he is immature and he needs to face his responsibility.
No take his money if not the drug man will
No don’t drop it, he has responsibility to your daughter.
Hahaha hell no. He needs to be responsible and pay what he owes.
Do not drop it. He’s weaseling out of HIS responsibility.
Hell.no. dont drop it. Why not let him suffer. He doesn’t care if you or your daughter suffers.
No!!! He is responsible for that child also. Stop feeling sorry for him.
From someone who is in a similar situation, let his bum rot in jail.
Block his number and move on
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No if this man cant pay on his own to the mother. Oh well
No! Ignore him let him face his consequences
You deserve that help for your daughter!!
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Tell him to pay you half of what he owes and drop it.
Don’t drop it. He needs to do better period.
It either goes to your daughter or a drug dealer, your call!
Don’t dare drop it. That money is for your daughter. Forget him.
Nope! You hold strong
It’s not your fault he is worthless and it certainly isn’t that little girls fault.
I wouldn’t drop the case at all.
Do not drop the case.
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No way! He owes that little girl!!
Tell him to sign over his rights
I feel if you drop it your gonna be helping him a parents baby him he will never grow up
No don’t drop it he needs to grow up
Take it from experience. Don’t drop it
Dont drop it. He helped make her. He should have to pay something even if its a lil amount
No don’t do it. It’s a way for him to get out of it.
Nope, keep the money…
Not a fucking chance do you drop that. He needs to grow the fuck up!
I wouldn’t drop it , it took both of you to make her!!!
Do not do it! His ass needs to get a job and help with that baby.
If you drop it he wont grow up
Don’t give up and don’t allow him to see your baby. I am going thru the same thing with a friend of mine.
I say drop it. He hasn’t ever helped anyhow.
No…don’t drop it…
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Do what you’ve been doing… Why pay mind to his needs…
Absolutely not, Don’t drop it
Nope tell him see what his dad can do just like he told you
Do NOT drop it. That’s just enabling him more to be a deadbeat
Don’t do it that’s he’s responsibility
Do not Drop the case
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I know some states wont let you drop it,
He’s the father. He owes her. Don’t let him off the hook
Do you have money if so I would drop the case but if you don’t have money I wouldn’t drop it
No do not drop the case !
He dont feel sorry when your daughter dont eat
You should deff not drop it
No ur child has rights
Hell no dont drop it and don’t feel bad!