Girl I didn’t read past the part of him sending explicit pictures to a girl… like you were going through something so traumatic and he is entertaining other Girls… yes leave. Sending prayers your way! I know he lost a baby too but he should try to be there to comfort you not other girls , it’ll continue if you let it. Run while you can. Sorry for your loss 
You need to have self worth. Start loving yourself and do not go back with that trash.
I would just leave. Without giving any explanation. When he isn’t home. Leave.
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First. I am very sorry for your loss I can’t imagine what you are going through. Please leave him. My ex was a chronic cheater he never stopped. He just got more sneaky. I stayed for eight years. Find someone that values you. If he won’t even admit to his wrong doings he is not sorry.
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Trust your gut. If he is not cheating it’s only because he struck out and couldn’t seal the deal.
He doesn’t love you…. You’re afraid to leave… push through the fear…. Leave… immediately… no drama… just leave… you’ll be fine… you’ll figure it out…. Leave… you deserve better… we all do. Cheaters are always going to cheat
Unfortunately it’s time to put it behind you and keep it moving. He isn’t ready for a commitment.
Girl 
its 2022 we ain’t doing this shit to ourselves anymore go do you and get your life set for you and your child
boy bye 
. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Why do you want our approval if you already have the answers in your hands?
Even having the evidence in your hands, you let yourself be minipuled, when he wants you to stay to continue doing what he likes without you saying anything.
The problem is not if he can forgive himself, it is that to do so he must be sorry and show it with actions but apparently he blames you for ending the relationship, obviously he will continue to do so.
You are the one who knows if you can live with it, if so, continue with it, but prepare to get sick, it is not easy to live with someone like that.
Nope.
Be done.
He’s no good, and you aren’t the one he’s going to change for.
Wash your hands of him.
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Go somewhere and think by yourself. You need to make a decision by yourself.
Girl,
I’m so so so sorry about your daughter that pain will never go away, but honestly if your man is cheating on you while pregnant and lost his child he doesn’t love u nor will he ever change. You need to let him go and focus on u and your other child 
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He’s already shown you that it’s a pattern. He’s not going to change. You were in the right to leave and YES, having peace of mind is always worth starting over. Good luck to you hun 
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You have a kid to look out for. You are wasting time, you already know he doesn’t love you. If he quits this early when a bad situation happens, he don’t need to be around for the good. He just folded like a lawn chair (while you were sitting in it).
Now your on the ground.
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Pray you do not stay w/this person. Your life will never change. Move on and take care of yourself, do not depend on anyone.
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Leave! It’s a pattern
End it it will never sto0
The fact you are asking if you should leave shows you already know you should. Starting your life over will be a vast improvement.
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Are you for real, how old are you , get a grip, grow up
First up, I am so sorry for your loss 
Advice is run x
You deserve to be happy.
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Leave he will keep doing it as you are putting up with it.You deserve a better life forget him.Be brave
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You already know the answer
Dump this jerk. You will never trust him, and he will make your life miserable if you stay with him.
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Everybody always wants to say to leave. This isn’t a question for anybody but yourself to answer. It all depends on whether or not you feel that you would be able to continue the relationship and not be unhappy. I typically don’t respond to these posts because I’m the person who chose to stay and everyone always disagrees with that. However now we’ve been together for almost 3 years no issue. Married for almost a year and have three beautiful babies together. Again. I will say the only person who can answer whether or not you should stay is you.
He’s already out. He’s trying to transfer the blame on you for what he is doing. He’s a piece of crap
honey.
Get out of there now before you have two or three kids by him to support. Its only going to get worse from here. He’s just using you. Why in the world would you even want to forgive this?
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LEAVE HIM!! you’re either young or in a abusive relationship thinking that you CAN’T leave !!
He’s putting blame on you because he’s guilty. He is shamming you trying to make it on you that things didn’t work when it’s on him. He’s manipulating you. Run it will only get worse
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If he’s already cheating & you’re not married - yes leave. Trying to deflect his actions onto you!
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That’s called gaslighting. Walk away now.
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Narcissistic traits on him screaming warning lights to you
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Oh boy you’re already out of his house RUN!
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Don’t be a fool, he’s playing with you! Run like HELL!
Fool me once, your fault. Fool me twice, my fault. Any questions?
Nope.
You will continue to forgive someone until you hate them.
That takes a lot of energy away from you.
He’s a dirty rat. Dump him. You deserve better.
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Just leave … it going that direction anyways
Get out asap. Think of your son also. This is toxic as. Good luck 
Leave. Period. Just leave and forget about him.
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Run while you can. Plenty of decent guys out there lm sure.
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Run and don’t let the door hit you in the a##
He’s manipulating and gaslighting and he is in the wrong. You CAN start over and you can be happy. You deserve better. Know your worth! 
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If you’re questioning it whether you should end it or not… then you already have your answer.
GO GO GO before it’s too late he’s a CHEATER and from your story he’s not going to change it will.only get worse “TRUST ME”
Sounds like he’s manipulating u
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That’s what cheaters say and do. I wouldn’t forgive him. I’d just move on and cut my losses otherwise it’s going to keep happening until you do find out the truth and it tears you apart. Leave now before it gets worse. Good luck and best wishes for what ever you decide to do
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Oh go out that door and don’t look back!
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Leave. Don’t look back. You deserve so much better. You deserve RESPECT.
Doesn’t seem like he wants forgiveness nor cares that he’s hurting you. If you genuinely think you could forgive him and not have to worry about it being repeated in the future, then I would be for you staying…However, would trying to talk it out really do any good?? I am not one to usually recommend leaving, but 1) you don’t have much tying you to this man and 2) doesn’t seem as though you matter to him. I get that starting over is difficult, but you’d be gaining more than you’d be leaving. Best of luck to you and I am so sorry for your loss.
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Please leave, I made the same mistake as you and I can honestly say you will forgive him until you hate him. You deserve alot better.
No. Leopards do not change their spots. Leave and don’t look back.
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Let him go . He will not change or be truthful with you . Hoping he will leave on his own except you are living at his place ? You don’t need this type of grief . Life is too short .
Do you really deserve to be treated this way? When you answer this question honestly, you know what you have to do.
Sorry for your loss, but what the hell are you thinking? Forgive him? Get out of there NOW, don’t waste one more minute of your life. Your boy deserves better too
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I would definitely leave
He did cheat…he may not have physically cheated but emotionally, he cheated on you by letting another female think he wanted them. You can forgive him but that doesn’t mean you should be with him…he will only do it again…he’s not sorry, he did it…just sorry he got caught.
You already know the answer to it!!! Why get on here and ask these questions when your the only one that can answer them!!! However if your that blind you can’t see GET The HELL OUT!!!
Run as fast as you can. He’s a liar and a cheat.
He is. Cheater and will always be if he loved you he would never be talking or texting anyone else you need to get away from him you deserve much better in life it may be hard to start over but I promise you would probley be better off. Dont let him to continue to manipulate you cause if u let him he will continue to do it
He bought girls over, a girl took her top off in your room (pretty much got naked) and your wondering if he is cheating? Is that a serious question?
Lose him… bad news… not worth your energy.get someone who is into you
Get out he’s no good for you he’s obviously not going to change he’s proved that already you are worth more
Go ahead and stay and then stay the next time and the next. Sounds like you don’t think you deserve anything any better. Have a fun life.