There are cheaper over the counter DNA test I think wallgreens or cvs has them. I have a family member who did one and the results were given back quick.
If money is the issue tell him you have no problem doing it, if he pays for it. Or just take him to court and they will order a DNA test 
For real? If you know he’s the father than just take the test. It sounds like you’re trying to cover something up. I wasn’t with either of my children’s dad’s when I had them but gave them the test anyway cuz I had nothing to hide. $100? You can pick one up from CVS for $50. Not that big of a deal.
Do the test then Leave. 
that’s insanely toxic & controlling & it’s not healthy for a child to grow up in.
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Nope. You dont need this. He is a shit disturber and always will be. Save yourself - love yourself and your baby enough to see that there’s no future with him in your life.
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If he’s your ex why is he seeing your msgs?
If he wants a test tell him to pay for it himself
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If you know he’s the father you don’t need the dna. You’re better off with him out of your life.
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Tell him the dna test will get done when he pays for it. Or like said above, file for child support and that will take care of it
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Test…his his ass for child support and get the heck away from that idiot…js. sorry I’m blunt
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He can get it done for free.
Do it and he will have to pay child support
Tell him if he wants it he will pay for it. Period. It is owed to your child to know who his father is whether or not he’s in his life. If he’s on the birth certificate however that establishes paternity and he’s on the hook for child support should he decide to be a douchecanoe. If no name on the birth certificate a judge can order a paternity test.
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If your seeking child support the county will pay for it
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Well if you were talking to another man n deleting the text, I’d think you were up to something too…I would doubt as well. Reverse it if he was texting n deleting text from a woman, you’d be upset too. Just get the test n go on with life. Neither of the 2 of belong together
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I am not trying too be a bitch but I am getting so tired of the confusing ass posts. If you want advice and submit a question can you please make sense! Like provide us with a story we can follow and don’t jump from this to that it’s confusing and we can’t properly answer your question. Like I said I am not trying to be a bitch I am just tired of investing my time into reading these for them too make no sense. And trying too comment my advice when the story is hard to follow or give advice on with missing pieces. Thank you 
if his name is on the birth certificate… dna doesn’t matter in most states. if he’s doubting, he can pay. i mean if you got an extra $100 and wanted something to shove in his face… then i would say sure. but if you are certain, then i wouldnt pay for it. i know my husband was cheating on me and when i left… he claimed that our 1 year old wasn’t his… i guess he didnt realize thats not how it works and just because he cheated, didn’t mean i did too. he is her biological father. but his name is also on her birth certificate and since we were legally married at the time of conception and her birth, in that state its automatically assumed that the spouse is the father so he couldn’t deny her legally. even tho he tried to. then out of spite, he completely flipped and tried to go for full custody. that didnt work out well for him either.
If you want any support from the father definitely need it however if he doesn’t intend to feed his own child he should pay for it. In either case you’re wellrid of him
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Pack and walk away x
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If Father wants a DNA test he pays for it you all get tested 3 of you if he is dad he pays child support and DNA Testing
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He wants the test, he can pay for it!
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I wouldn’t especially as you know the truth it’s a waste of time and money!
If he wants a test then he should pay for it…
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Get the test. Y’all can split the cost. If it’s him do 50/50 custody and move on with your life. I will never understand why women have to make a big deal out of things!!!
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Take him to child support and they’ll let him do a DNA test. Then when they find out it’s his baby, he can pay the support for his own child.
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Yes you should do a test. How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot. You don’t need to be with him but if you expect him to be legally responsible ( seeing the kid and paying for it) prove it.
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No, and doesnt sound stable at all- it’s a toxic relationship. You should be asking yourself if you want to stay in this relationship? Tell’em you’ll get a test IF he goes to therapy. Ya’ll don’t have any trust. That’s everything! Apparently you cant keep that old side piece out. Why do he need to check on you??? - you could put your baby daddy on the phone to let him know your doing and will be fine. You are why there is no trust. Why you playin this man? IF you really want to make it work do whatever it takes to prove yourself, it can take time. It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth it. If it’s not and you’re not ready that’s ok too. Just let him go. It kinda sounds like you enjoy the drama.
No just move on and be a great mother
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If you file for child support he will have to pay to have dna test I believe.
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Your man will not trust you untile you du it
Make him pay and leave his ass anyway
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If you go to the state to apply for child support, they’ll do your DNA test for free 
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