If your sure its his take him to court for child support and request a DNA test and the judge will require him to get one. If you win the case you can also ask for him to pay legal bills.
If you ask me, ask the new guy if he wants to step up and stepdad! If he can lose communication with his kid over this, he doesn’t need to be in the babes life anyhow.
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Do the test get child support from him and live your life without him
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Yes. He has every right to want closure in knowing the baby is his son as much as you want to show you are being honest and have nothing to hide. However I’d tell him he wants a test he can pay for it. Once ur done walk away from that toxic relationship for you and ur baby. Keep it strictly co-parenting. You deserve more then a sh!++y relationship.
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CPS will do DNA testing to find out if he is the father. He will be responsible for child support if it’s his child.
Just tell them he’s the dad; and refuses to help. They will take care of it from there.
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Do it for your baby so when she wants to know who she came from you can tell her and prove it.
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If you are questioning wether you need a paternity test the answer is yes.
Get the test. If you have nothing to hide then it won’t be an issue. Tell him to pay for it and you’ll have get it. $100 is a small price to pay for piece of mind.
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If you’re certain of the results, why wouldn’t you? It benefits your child to have its father certain he can love the child. Parents forever. Put your shit down. Children first.
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If he wants a DNA test he can pay for it. If the relationship is very toxic it’s time to end it.
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Tell him he has to pay for it or go to court to collect child support and the court will order it. Better to straighten this out while your son is an infant and has no idea what’s going on.
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You do the DNA test as long as he’s gonna pay for it. If not then don’t ! Anyways you’re sure that it’s his so why bother.
Make him pay for it. And if nothing to hide do it.
For argument sake I would do the DNA testing and when it comes back 99.999% that it’s his child then I would take his butt to court for child support because by then he should be kicked to the curb!
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If he doesn’t think it’s his kid and he wants the test, let him get it and pay for it! SMH!!
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So why did u hide the messages from him to begin with and why not give him proof i won’t take care of no child that i believe may not be my blood
Walk away he doesn’t want the responsibility of his child he probably won’t help in any way not worth paying for a loser to deny parenthood
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Yes… hows is that a question…
Do the test and quit the shenanigans u know it’s his kid. SMH 
If he wants it he should pay for it keep all messages of him saying he’s not going to take baby or visit it will hurt him! Go to court!!
Sounds like they both cheated and now she along with other females on this post are mad that the ex wants to make sure the child is his?? If she knew for sure he was the father, she wouldn’t mind taking the DNA test!! Sad the double standards in these comments!!
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do it if he’s paying 🤷🏻 he’s the one wanting it.
Do it for the child. Later on the father can deny the kid all he wants but you’ll have the test needed to ease the child’s mind. Also, child support
…or don’t get it done and do it on your own. I wish I had
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Tell him no problem. He pays, he gets…
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Make him pay for it…but as someone who has been through this…doesn’t mean he will be a good dad…
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Take him to court for Child Support. Theyll do it and you kill 2 birds with one stone.
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File for child support. They will order a DNA test & he will have to pay for it.
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Some states when you file for child support, if he requests the test they do it.
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If he wants the test… He can file for and pay for it.
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Just file for child support and the judge will make him pay for the dna test.
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Go to Maury. He’ll help you
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Don’t force a person to be apart of something they don’t want! That could turn out very bad!
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You definitely need the test. Your child not only deserves to know, but you may need medical information down the road. Go for child support & the costs should be taken care of. Also tell the courts of his anger & document everything! You will need that if he ever tries for joint custody. Some men that do not care will try that to avoid child support.
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Do it and send him the bill when it comes back that he is the father.
I think you need to leave this guy as the relationship has been super toxic
Remember you have a child now that matters more than anyone else, the baby cannot be put through toxic parenting
Do a DNA test just so it’s all clear
Make him pay
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He wants the test, make him pay for it
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I would definitely go through human services through your state. I don’t believe the courts will accept a “home” test… seems like you’re going to have a future with the courts/chuld support, etc anyway. Just cut the middle man and save yourself some time and energy.
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WE are lacking info here. Is it a chance that it is the other guy’s baby? If so, all three of you need to know what the deal is so yes, get the test.
Do the test so he can pay you child support
But ditch the relationship
You need a calm happy place to raise ur baby
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Maybe since you both need answers you can split the bill. It benefits you and your child since he’ll then be accountable as the father and it puts his mind at ease one way or another too. It’s worth $50 for either of you.
He can pay for one when you take him to court for child support 
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Cut your losses and be a single parent. Or go through child services they do the test for free and set up child support
File for child support n let judge order testing
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I would do the DNA !! It doesn’t cost that much and if he feels unsure it’s his child what’s the harm in proving the truth .
If he’s demanding a test to even see the kid but doesn’t care enough to pay out of his pocket or atleast offer half,you think a test is going to make him step up and all of a sudden be a man if he were to find out it’s his?! Sorry but he sounds like a pussy anyways your kids probably best without dude 
and your probably best without the bs
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Ask him to pay to prove and I’d Ask him to drop it after you prove your faithful
Go file for child support.
The state will pay for his DNA test…and order child support based on the results.
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Have him pay for the test since he is the one questioning it. But sounds like I’d be questioning it to. Also sounds like it was or still is a toxic relationship and better to let the courts sort out things for what is best for the child.
Why would you want your child around a male like this?? If you don’t want the kid if this prick isn’t the dad, bring it to my house! I’ll adopt it!
Ps… he is bullshitting you…he probably knows the baby is his.
He just knows he can hold those texts over your head to make you feel guilty.
So you wont talk about how he’s not been around for his kid.
This is baby Daddy bullshit games 101.
Dont fall for it.
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He’s demanding. He should pay.
Go to child support they will do it n of his he has to pay n pay support.
Let the court figure it all out. He just doesn’t want to pay support so he starts denying his own child. He’s a loser. But the courts will force him to pay support and if there is any question about if this child is his, let the court decide who pays for it.
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Go through the court and get one!
Tell him if he wants a DNA test so bad he pays for it or just say bye. 🤷
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If he wants it done have him pay for it 
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Otherwise, he can pay for it! But tbh they sell at home tests for 20 at walgreens and the lab fee when u send it in is like 120
Why even get the test? If it is a toxic relationship and he is toxic. Save yourself and the baby the stress. Move forward and move on to better things.
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Don’t get a test, just let him walk. And sign papers that he’s not the father so he can’t come back later.
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Any state help or childsupport will usually require a test…easiest path i eould take is thru your child support office…
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Why wouldn’t you do a DNA test you scared?
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Yes, definitely do a DNA . You gonna want that child support
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File for child support. If he disputes it and requires a dna test the court will make him pay for it. Sorta went thru this with my ex and when it came up he would have to pay for it he just took responsibility for his son
If you can live without child support i say leave it alone forget he exists if its that toxic. No reason to put the child through toxicity bc that part probably wont change throughout the childs life.
Take him to court for child support and when he say he wants a DNA he will have to pay.
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Unless you’re looking for child support let it be
If you’d like to be 100% sure and able to let your child know who is definitely said child’s father take him to court state he is the father and you’d like support
He will be asked if he’d like a dna test it’s free first time offered if he refuses it’s on him if he chooses to have one in the future
Hello i think u should do the test and the same paper from the test take it to child support and support ur baby.
Let him take YOU to court for paternity. You take him to court for custody and support. If he really has doubts, he can address them at the support/custody hearing.
Tell him to pay for it
Let him pay and I don’t see a problem ever proving to a man he’s the father. Nip it in the bud and go on with life
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If he’s asking for a DNA he should pay, as long as your 100% stick by your guns. He’s no father if he’s doubting you, it’s just an escape for him, he’s swerving all his responsibilities xx
If HE wants the DNA test HE can pay for it. You know who the father is and that’s enough clarification.
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Do the test just so that later he can’t deny child support since obviously you both aren’t going to wind up together 
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I would pack my stuff and move to another state before he changes his mind. Eff him. This is your freedom card. Take it and run. It will be worth it in the end to have your kid, no custody battle and to live your life without being tied to him and a custody order forever.
Tell him to pay for it. If you know the child is his, it shouldn’t matter. He can pay though if he wants it
Your child support office will cover the charge if the baby is not his, but if the baby is his he will be responsible to pay for the DNA test in full on his own…
Just do the DNA test I can understand why he wants one how can there be trust when you deleting messages? Why not show to him to prove you wasn’t being unfaithful? Seems like you have something to hide? I don’t know the full story but I could be wrong
I’d get rid of that guy . Get the test if you want to nail his butt for child support . O r lie and tell him it’s not his , then you have to see his sorry ass again .
Come on, you must kno 
. If it’s his then u should do it to shut him up 
Everyone talking about pay, pay, pay. Is the child your ex own or a next man’s own? Split the cost if necessary. Take a look at some Paternity Court episodes.
Girl, your messy ass needs a dna test. Get one. Stop playing them games
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HE wants it so he should pay for it.
If you have nothing to hide do the test and he pays!
I would do the test. The 2 of you may not get along, but your little one deserves to have a chance of having his daddy in his life.
I wouldn’t. Just take him to court and if he wants one he has to pay for it.
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It’s so corny when insecure men want to pull the dna card
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The biological father needs to support the child. The test may be needed to prove to him, and the law, that he is responsible.
It’s only fair you have a paternity test for all involved including the child so it knows who its real Dad is
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Go for welfare benefits tell them bthr bio father is refusing to help because he said the baby is not his, they will pay for test. You can always go on Maury!
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Usually depending on where about you’re located if he’s proven the father he has to pay otherwise you pay 
I say do it it’ll shut him up !
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Get him for child support they will do a DNA test thru the system if he contest it. Problem solved and good riddance to him
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So just give him the DNA test its not a big deal
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If u sure that’s his baby it shouldn’t even b if u should or u shouldn’t… u should been got it done
Depends if u want him in ur life forever
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Nx no dont do it if he wants DNA test he can go and do it himself and pay for it…as long as you know its his that is enough…if he wants to end the relationship he may do so remember he is not a lung its a relationship you will leave…you will find someone better not this toxic prick who’s been looking for a way out nx.
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Tell him if he wants or needs a DNA test he needs to pay. And if he won’t pay. That’s his loss. If he signed the birth certificate he will be paying child support
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Yup, go for child support. If he denies your child they will do a DNA test.
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I would. I told the father of my children if I was a man I would want one done. People do crappy things to eachother.