Lots of on your knees praying. Guidance from the lord is kneaded.
Don’t give him another chance. He has already checked out of the relationship, but this is your life. Its really all up to you
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Omg no way ,get rid of him .Once you can forgive 5 is 1 answer get rid x
This is a decision only you can make. You will know in your heart when it’s “over”. You wont feel the need to ask anyone else.
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His wake up call should be watching you walk away. There is no love on his part!
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He literally wants another chance to cheat on you again. That dude (can’t call it a man) doesn’t respect you he wants another chance to break you a little more. If he’s Done it 5 times he’s definitely Done it more than that. He’s a narcissistic serial cheater. He likes the game and he’s never going to stop
Always once last chance
F**K him off xx
Only YOU can answer this question. Consult a counselor… not social media.
If it were my decision, I would tell him to kick rocks. I personally could never trust him again and that mistrust would fester. I wish you all the best.
Nope. Absolutely not. Walk away. He won’t change. Believe me. People don’t change
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Once is a mistake. He obviously has a pattern. Tigers don’t change their stripes. We need to normalize leaving. Ladies, don’t second guess yourself. If you have to ask, you already know and are looking for confirmation. Which is understandable but you do not need permission to go. You deserve better treatment. All of you do.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If it was the first maybe second time. Then sure give it another chance.
Unless your okay with an open relationship, and set up ground rules.
You obviously care or you wouldn’t be asking.
Um…no. After the first time he did it sober, that was your clue he’s done and searching for something else. You have been his familiar in the meantime.
How many “one last chance” are you going to give him before you walk away? Will it be 7 more times? After he gets someone pregnant? After he gives you a STD? Know your worth …
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Nope. He’s just giving you the manipulative narcissist speech. He won’t change. I promise.
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Nope I would have walked out or kicked his arse out the first time. You’ve given him too many chances to change. Your health is at stake too many diseases out there
Leopard doesn’t change it’s spots. He just doesn’t get it that he is playing with fire. If you are able to do without him…why are you still with him. What is he doing that makes him so valuable to you even though he is betraying you.
you continue to allow him to do it & you wonder why it keeps happening… so when are you 
? when he brings home something you can’t get rid of?
Get rid of him, you deserve better! I gave my ex too many chances. It’s time to wake up and end it.
I can understand forgiving him after the first time but multiple times … Hell No!! Let that Hoe go!!
Heck no more chances. You have been way too gracious to the man. He chose to commit adultry now he has to live with it & you can live a happy life not stressing about him anymore. Time to move on God has someone out there for you ready to commit!
No sorry you need to move on. He has proven he wont change. It’s not fair to you. What happens when he gives you an STDs. Sorry cut your losses.
Kick him to the kerb hes had plenty of time to change his ways hunxx
The more you forgive the more he’s gonna keep doing it to you the definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result hun leave him the one your ment for us out there but while your wasting your time with him your soul mate might pass you by
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He won’t change. That’s a total lack of respect repeatedly and his behaviour is enabled by the people in his life. He should not have gotten married to begin with…
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I’ve been through this. As much as we hope people will change, out of love, because of what’s right, due to pressure from others, they only change if they choose to. We can all advise, you have to reach the point to walk away. For you personal well being, I sincerely hope that you get there soon. You deserve joy and peace of mind. You won’t achieve them in your current situation.
Pmsl you really need to ask this question.
Noooo. Definitely don’t do give him another second of your time let alone yet another chance… LOL how many chances does he get? He’s used them all up I think… With a few extra too
Absolutely not.i would have been done after the 1st time
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Why oh why would you even consider this and better still put this on Facebook . I’m not sure who needs the most help here him for his actions or you for putting this and asking questions on the internet. Come on women take a look in the mirror.
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Nope, nope and nope! Save your self the heartache!
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I know everyone will tell you to leave he can’t change and in some cases he won’t but in mine he did. Yes it took me filing for divorce 6 years to get him to straight up. But now he doesn’t hide anything he always tells me where he is at I have access to his phone and social media if I want at all times. He no longer hides anything. So honey it’s up to you you may have to take larger steps like I did but sometimes they can change
Once a cheater always a cheater
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All I can say is shame on him & shame on his family for saying he will change. It is your choice but will you ever trust him again? My husband & I were married 68 years & both of us felt that when we made our marriage vows we were making a promise to be faithful & love each other & we did. If he has been unfaithful all these times he will continue. I think you should get rid of him
You already know the answer so just do it! Once a cheater, always a cheater! Let him go be with the women he has cheated on you with.
Nope, once a cheater always a cheater
Really it’s your choice. But how ever if he is truly willing to change but also prove and show you and set some things in place to make it easy this time (if you do). Sorry this has happened it’s very sad I hope it works out if not or you do choose to, hope he don’t do it again.
Once cheater always so
Dump him , can forgive once maybe twice but not 5 it more he’s not worth your sanity
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He was having an affair because you probably stopped giving him sex. You’re also a sh*t cook and don’t clean the house.
Your husband deserves better
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Is this a serious question?? if hes cheated multiple times and you know it you’re as dumb as he is
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He’s not changing girl! Let him go
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If he’s cheated on you five times he’ll cheat on you five more times! Leave him!
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Only you can make that choice. You could walk away and find someone that deserves you and will treat you like the queen you are OR you could make your husband work for your trust and go through couples therapy. The damage is done and he is going to have to prove himself to you and it will take time for you to heal from the hurt and betrayal. Sending love to you girl, it’s up to you to choose whether you mend what’s broke or chuck and replace
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No.
Just no. Nope.
I would’ve walked away after the second time, fool me once shame on you… fool me twice… you know the rest
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Do yourself a favor and walk away. He’s so comfortable doing it with you not leaving him that he’s gonna continue like there’s no consequences. If he wanted to change for you two it would’ve been done.
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Nah he’s already proven the other 4 times that it’s not going to stop. I wouldn’t be able to trust him again and what’s a relationship without trust? It’s up to you though if you think he can change make him get into counseling and work on the issues he apparently has, do it yourself to figure out how to trust him again. Only you can decide where your breaking point is.
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I can understand wanting to save your family, if it were me, my stipulations would be lengthy, it would be a probationary situation as well. I’m taking therapy, a full medical examination and check up, a tracking device on his phone and acces to all social media, linked phones. In the meantime I would be working on myself as wel, getting my money together, looking for a house or apartment, the second he doesn’t fulfill a one stipulation, I’d be out. 
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Give him another chance only if you want to be dumped on again…
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Nope. You’ve wasted enough time. Onward and upward babe
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A tiger never changes it’s stripes
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I think that would be up to you… In your heart, do you think he will change? Or do you think he will do it again? Youve been together 10 yrs… Thats a long time to throw away BUT if you have to keep going thru this, it might be worth starting over bc you deserve to be happy
Being he did it on multiple occasions I would be done.
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Live your life. Without him. Do not let him or his family or anyone else get inside your head. You make the decision. If you’re OK with being treated this way and being disrespected, then stay. But if you’re aware that this type of behavior and treatment is not healthy, then move on. Love yourself.
I hear your heart. If you wanted to leave him you would have already left by now. And this may be the point in his life when he wakes up and grows up. But your decision to leave should be based on you? Are you willing to make the sacrifice again? Is this how you want to live your life? Can you change? Can you prioritize your best interest? You are better than this. You deserve better. But believing this is work. Prayers for you. 
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Soak him in bleach n see if the Spots come off….
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You already gave him another chance the first 5 times. Time to go. He’s just going to keep doing it because he does not care.
Run as fast as you can!! If you do you may as well make it an open marriage. It will be on his part anyways. He knows he can get away with it.
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Only you can make that decision, listen to your heart. If he hasn’t changed in the past, I don’t think this time will be different. Love yourself 1st and do what’s best for you
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You do what you feel is right for you. But remember, What you accept will become your future
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Run like a mtf that foo aint changing you already dealt with it 5 times damn 5 times too many smh.
If it was the first time…maybe if you really thought you had something worth saving…although it would take forever to get the trust back. At this point there is NO trust left to try and rebuild, you deserve someone you can trust, who has enough respect for you and cares for you enough not to put you thru this over and over!!! Ditch him and move on, you’ve never really had him. PS in your heart of hearts you’ve already made the decision or you wouldn’t be asking advice from strangers!!
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I am sorry he will not change. Make a plan and move on. He needs counseling to help his problem . Pray! Talk to your preacher and god. They will have the answer. I pray for your broken heart🙏
Even though it is up to you. 5 times in 10 years is a lot. You are worth more respect than that. His family should stay out of it as it seems they are putting pressure on you too. Do you have children? If yes think about what they are seeing done to someone your husband should be caring for. Good luck
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He won’t change you have been through this pain many times. Walk away you will soon feel better and start a fresh life. You don’t need a man in your life.layer you may meet somebody but for now just walk away too late to forgive you have already done 4 timed. Enough is enough.
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Dont do it, leave and find a real love
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Love yourself enough not to put up with this
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Nope. He’s already proven that he won’t change. 1 chance after the first time is fine. After the 2nd time… forget it. Youve already given him more chances than he deserves.
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I would be gone after first time
Send him packing. Cheaters never stop. My ex wife cheated so many times I lost count.
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Nobody can tell you what to do. You have to decide yourself and chose for yourself. Know your worth and know he probably will not and has not changed.
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Didn’t even have to read this whole.post … bye Bye he needs to.go … You get one life to live … You really want to live it always wondering if he’s being faithful!!! Girl run … you can find a man that will treat you as you should be treated
I’d say probably no and that you’re going to end up with syphilis.
Just move on. Put it behind you. If you have kids, remember he is still their father. Don’t involve them. No matter what happens no amount of “probationary” measures will help at some point resentment will set in all over from both. Trust is gone and will not return. Just focus on reducing your stress and find a way for both of you to raise your kids. Good Luck!
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One time was too much
Either decide to accept that he will always cheat on you and you can live with it, or leave. He will not change.
After the first time he cheated…if he didn’t change I doubt he will. Much better guys out there to treat you like the queen you are. Know your worth
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5 times and you’re STILL with him??? Girl, why???
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If he ain’t changed in all them years, why would he now? Find someone who wouldn’t put you in that situation.
And it goes on and on and… If he was going to change it would have already been done.
LEAVE he don’t love you
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Definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. Only you can decide if you can live with his cheating, but Im hoping you have enough pride to get out, leave. Your deserve better!!!
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Oh beautiful! You have already given him more chances than he deserves and he’s also proven to you five times that he’s not going to change. Trust is a major thing in a relationship, you need to understand you deserve better and a good man does not cheat, he respects you and does not do these things. Know your worth and understand that there is a man out there waiting for you that would never hurt you or disrespect you like he has
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What… No. Absolutely not.
Ditch his ass and run like hell. There are good men out there that will treat you far better. If you take him back. Even if he really did/does change, it will always be in the back of your mind that he is cheating. You can’t have a good relationship when you are always worried if the other person is faithful. Let’s not even get started on std’s!
Whoop the woman’s ass and if she has a husband, be sure to tell him!!
He has shown you and no no no
Once a cheat always a cheat. The only way to make it work is through intensive counseling for HIM! He needs to find out why he cheats. If you decide to let him stay, insist that he gets therapy and you should too. Why do you feel you need to put up with such crap? Your self esteem is not where it should be if you allow this behavior. Actions have consequences and he hasn’t suffered them yet. My daughter went through the same thing and learned of his infidelity when he gave her an STD. The trust is forever broken.
That’s a pathological issue… another chance only means another chance to look stupid and to waste more time of your life on someone who can not be faithful. If he wants to change… okay but that has to come from him not his family. He needs some serious counseling. Saying he will change and not backing it up is just manipulation. Time to move on.
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Be done!! you owe it to yourself.
No he’s not going to change he has no interest in changing because he has no respect for you at all whatsoever in any way shape or form. You have a trauma bond with this person. And after 10 years you may honestly need some counseling to help you let go and move on before you’ve wasted all of your life with this person he’s a horrible piece of s h y t e. Who doesn’t deserve you never deserved you to begin with. Please ask your doctor about some counseling sessions to help you overcome the emotional abuse that you have been subjected to so that you can find yourself worth and not only leave and not look back but also learn to not accept this in the future because you matter your future matters your life matters don’t let someone like that use you as a doormat he’s basically using you as a fallback and that’s not okay for anyone man woman it doesn’t matter. But sometimes people don’t understand that they are in an abusive relationship even if it’s not physical it’s still abusive he’s taking horrible advantage of your forgiveness. If you can’t get counseling please please please just put together some kind of a plan and get out and move on. It will never change it will never change it is not going to change he does not want to change that’s your answer. Trust me on this.
No, especially if it is the fifth time… that you know of. Plus, he wasn’t honest about it until you had proof that he was lying… and then still isn’t being completely truthful even with the proof. He will just do it again and again.
You both need to sit down and talk to each other and find out what he needs in the relationship that he’s not getting and be honest and open between the two of you there’s something he is he is not being open about so if he doesn’t want to sit down and discuss the issue whatever it is behind that’s driving him to do this it’s probably something from his past and his childhood but he needs to get it out so he can have a good life and go to church get counseling and if he does it again hit him with a frying pan.
he will not change…it’s up to you…
In my opinion, once a cheater always a cheater. A decision to give another chance rests solely on you as it is your life, not ours. He will cheat again and again by the sound of it. You need to ask yourself if you can live with giving him another chance. Every one of us deserve to be treated with respect, trust and honesty. You deserve better especially after he has done this to you multiple times. You are not a door mat. 1 dipstick, 1 oil pan. He sounds like a mechanic sticking his dipstick in multiple engines. Have some self respect and tell him to hit the road.
Throw the whole dude away!! Once a cheater; always a cheater!! Know you’re worth!!
Cheaters never change. Especially all the times he’s done it.
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That’s why he continues to cheat, he knows you will forgive him, once a cheater always a cheater always a cheater. Oh but when you really get feed up, and tired there will come the time when your not going to even want to see him or have anything to do with him. Move on life is to short.
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6th times the charm 
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