I quit reading at cheated 5times
Cheating once is a mistake.
Cheating twice… 3 times… 5 times. Is a choice. He probably keeps doing it because you forgave him the first time. It’ll be hard ti walk away but loyalty is important and he clearly chose to cheat. Sorry 
good luck
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That’s what cheaters do. If you leave him and he remarries he will try to cheat on her with you and tell you it’s because he still loves you. Cheaters just cheat.
By giving him repeated chances, you are enabling his behavior. He isn’t suffering the consequences of his actions. Show him the end result, and he can ‘rehabilitate’ himself in the company of whomever he wants, just not with YOU. Know your worth.
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Ummm no. One time, that’s it. You don’t put yourself through that sweet heart. No way.
Once a cheater always a cheater. I went threw this with my oldest son’s father for 11yrs. And the last time I caught him was the last time. They will promise you everything but one you become comfortable and you will he will be cheating again. What are you waiting for him to bring you some kind of STD that you can’t get rid of. And to be honest if you are asking this you know what you need to do. He has no problem cheating this is obviously, you should have no problem with leaving and being happy.he broke his commitment to you the first time he cheated and kept doing it he will always do it. Time to move on and get rid of the worry stress and miss trust. Time to free of the the burden.
Dump this guy once a cheater always a cheater. The trust is gone you can do better if you play smart.
5 times…he has no want to change
He’s a cheater and he’s not going to change. Divorce papers will be his wake up call to alimony and child support.
Kick him to the curb before he gives you an std
"do unto others as they do unto you "
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Absolutely not once a cheat always a cheat
I would leave.
it’s up to you & how your mind works. Will this forever be in the back of your head? Can you forgive & forget… Or will you live a life that isn’t fulfilling because of his infidelity and dishonesty.
Best of luck! 
Sometimes you leaving leads to changed behavior
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When someone cheats once, it might be a mistake. When they cheat 5 times, they are a serial cheater and won’t stop unless they get therapy, and it will probably take years.
Dont trust him. Dont trust his enabling family.
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I hate to say it, but a cheater is always a cheater! It had happened to me for 12years and his family told me the same thing give another chance he has changed! Nope, nope, nope! I’m done! I am happy and content
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Nope. I live by the three strike rule. You F *** me over, that’s strike three
Is this even a question? 
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He knows you are gonna forgive him that’s why he keeps doing what he’s doing. Men will keep doing what you allow. Time to move on.
The guy is a liar , probably always will be thing is if you stay with him he will steal your peace because you simply can’t trust him.
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A snake never changes his colors.
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Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me! 5 times is way too many chances
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Even if he doesn’t cheat again after he’s broke your trust so many times you’ll never be able to fully trust him so I’d say he’s ruined any potential future with you already
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You know what you need to do!!!
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Move on. You only have 10 years invested. You have lots of life left to find a man who will treat you like a queen . He doesn’t deserve anymore chances. You go girl
LADY!! Do you also not value yourself!? (Because he sure doesn’t.) 
I can’t clarify this anymore THEY DONT CHANGE!!
if it’s a repeated thing, he should of learned the first time you gave him another chance, he’s not respecting you anymore at this point.
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Once a cheater always a cheater
No,if he’s cheated on you before,he’s gonna do it again
It takes a long time before you give up I will give you the advice my mum gave to me when you can see him walk down the street holding someone else s hand and it does not hurt you that is the time to move forward with your life good luck
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Ok if it was the first time i would say everyone makes mistakes but after that second third and fourth time that was clearly a choice. Seems like a way of life now and no loyalty. I am sorry I know that hurts really bad but five time? No. Be angry be sad and send him packing.
Know your worth move on
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No sister! Once a cheater Always a cheater!
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Leave his ass at the curb. He is humiliating you.
Nope. Dont do it. Didnt change before… Wont change now
If he wanted to change he would have. You deserve better. Your heart deserves better. It will hurt not having him in your life because you loved him… But eventually… You self worth will go up and you will realize you deserved better. And you will feel a bit better. And as time passes… You will decide its nit worth holding the past in your heart youre trying to heal… So you… Let go… And thats when the real healing begins💓
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You are no body’s doormat hun time to grow some self worth stand up for yourself and walk away he has some massive problems which are not yours… walk run sprint you are not under his shoe…Kia kaha
This is the definition of insanity. Repeated task. With the same end result. You might as well be banging your head against the wall. Walk away and take everything. Good luck. You know the answer already.
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THEY. NEVER. CHANGE! mine did the same thing, I left. He’s done the same thing now too multiple women, 3 more failed marriages. Just proves they don’t change!
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If you went through all this and are still staying with him, are we to think you would listen to any of our advice?
5 times that u know of but how many times he’s done it u might never find out. If he’s done it 5 times why would u even consider to give him another chance to prove to u he’s a cheater and he will never change?
One time, maybe. Five times? Hell, no.
He will only stop when he is caught.
I would leave and never look back.
Move on, clearly he doesn’t deserve u, once a cheater always a cheater
Absolutely not! You deserve much better!
Oh honey I’m so sorry but he has done it more than that he just hasn’t got caught. Unfortunately he won’t change. Its up to you to decide if you can either just accept him the way he is or get out. You will only be hurt more if thats possible. Be strong and know what your gut is telling you . Blessings to do what is good for you.
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You need to get away from him. You deserve someone who truly loves you. Someone who honors your vows. By staying, it’s almost like you’re giving him the permission to be the pig that he is. It’s much better to not be in a relationship at all if it’s like this.
All the time he knows you will forgive him he will keep doing it .Move on and good luck x
Girl no. I can understand a 2nd chance, but a 6th chance? Nah. He ain’t changing.
Maybe the two of you should go to counseling and see why he is doing this. I’m not saying to get back together but maybe you can get to the bottom of it. Then you can either work on your relationship, or begin to heal and leave him. Sometimes we need to gain a better perspective on a situation to see where we must go from there. Cause when you decide to leave you have all your questions answered. It will help the healing process. If you choose to stay together you know what areas you both need to work on. Good luck!!
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The first time is shame on you the second time is shame on me for allowing it you will get what you allow and if you allow this behavior it will continue if he hasn’t grown up and has done this multiple times then you should be gone gone gone you are showing your kids if you have any that this is acceptable behavior absolutely shut it down and his family
I didnt to be honest but i do belive everyone to there own
I would have never trusted him again
Really sorry reading your question its not easy
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I forgave my man once. I wont forgive him a second time
You’ve already given him one more chance that ended up being 5 an this time will be the 6th. We don’t know your family dynamic but one more chance is all it’s going to be each time he f**ks up like that. He’s making the choice to do this crap. Make the choice to not allow yourself to get crushed like this again. Some do change, they show you how foolish they were an want to make things right, actions will show that but if it becomes repetitive like this an you keep giving that “one more chance” he’s just laughing at you at this point because he knows what he’s doing each time he pleads for forgiveness. You having to ask strangers for perspective already speaks volume about your inner thoughts. Big hugs, sorry you’ve had to go through all this.
Kick him to the curb and start a new life. He will never change
When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. He “says” he will change, but his actions prove he will do it again. Love yourself enough to leave. There is a person out there who will love you for who you are, and they will be loyal only if you make that an expectation. You’re worth more than this man has given you.
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How many chances does one need? He obviously doesn’t value you or your sexual health if he keeps cheating… One time may be a mistake more than once is a choice.
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Once a cheater always a cheater. He’ll change because you found out🤔 Naww can’t keep a man that doesn’t wanna be kept.
The Next time will also be a wake up call… Or a BIGGER wake up call or a Reality check 
MOVE ON!! Take your life back you deserve better… Hundreds of women are gonna tell you the same thing & you might think for a second that… “Well they dont know him like I do”… He is changing" or “I believe him a little” but he keeps it bc he knows you will forgive him. Love yourself more than you love him & begin to heal
If you always do what you always did, you’ll always get what you always got. Proceed with caution, cheating is a choice not an accident. Once is a mistake, twice is a choice, 3 times is a habit.
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I really hope you’re not that dumb. Girl LEAVE.
Message me. I have been I those shoes and I’m not judgemental. I can give you advice that I’ve taken from myself
Hope he doesn’t give you anything. I had a friend whose husband gave her AIDS.
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He won’t change, the best thing you can do for yourself is go on Prep & protect yourself against pregnancy.
Also go get yourself cleansed from all the negative aura he has been bringing into your home. You don’t know what his whores are using & what the people they sleep with & their partners are using.
He is going to die & you are gna be left with so much money. Wena just bide your time you’ll get your reward soon, bofebe ba hae will cost him dearly.
My opinion. He has had time to change and he didn’t . He did it multiple more times. So at what point do you say enough is enough. After the 20th time he’s cheated? I’ve been with my husband for a long time and I told him I will stick by you thick or thin but the moment you cheat on me you just lost it all.
You’re the one who so getting hurt and screwed over. If he would have cared he would never have done it. You deserve better.
Oh my girl. Please stop and see the answer in front of you. I have been cheated on by my ex and was blind to it until I was told by a friend and it all came to light. If you know he has cheated and now have the proof, please leave and find a person who you deserve to treat you right. Hugs
Yea…he wasn’t sorry every time until you caught him. He won’t change. He tells,you that so he can have another chance to,do it.
He’s gotta go… as hard as it is you’ve already given him second, third and several opportunities to prove his loyalty and that he’s sorry…. Time to go.
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No. Leave. He has proven he won’t change. You deserve more!
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You have to , didn’t the LORD forgive you ?
When he laid his life on the cross . That’s what makes us the children of God .
The scriptures tell us to love one another as , he loved us . That is the first commandment in the law of God .
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Absolutely not! You deserve better! Run!!!
Nono no once a cheater always a cheater he’s done it loads of times from what you said he won’t change you deserve better love
Will he go to councilling with you
No he’s not changing. Too many chances already
If he doesnt get help he never change
I personally would leave but only you can make that decision
Honestly I think you’ve given him too many chances. I don’t really believe the saying once a cheater always a cheater. But I do believe that if someone has cheated on you that your trust is broken and regaining that trust in the person will be extremely difficult and the fact that he’s cheated that many times on different occasions, if I were you I’d never be able to trust him again. I’d move on. Clearly he isn’t the one for you or he wouldn’t continuously step out on your marriage. You deserve someone who only wants you, don’t settle for less than what you deserve.
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Need to leave him, I was the other girl once when I found out I was gone. No need to be second best find some one who put you and only you first
Just cheat back n make him pay all the bills
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Once a cheater always a cheater, you already stated he did it before! Leave now there’s a real man that wants to show you he will treat you right!
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Good grief girl. These are not mistakes. Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a decision. This is how he is and how he will always treat you. Why would you want to spend your life with someone like him? What could he possibly bring to the table other than an STD. Stop, look in the mirror and tell yourself that you deserve better.
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Why once they cheat they will do it again 5 times be done🙈
They’re always “changing” he did before multiple times if he wanted to change he would have. By not leaving after the second time you inadvertently gave him permission and let him know that you weren’t goin anywhere. But by you wondering if you should leave tells me you’re not going to. You’re not ready or you would have just been done. So get ready to be stepped on the whole time you are together, may be a year may be two but he will do it again cuz you have allowed it.
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I wouldn’t, but you have to make your own decision. One you can live with.
If this has been going on the whole time you guys have been together then I would just leave. It doesn’t seem like he cared to change or be honest with you. He only was able to admit it when you had the proof and he probably would have continued to do it if he wasn’t caught. It’ll happen again most likely. So if you are done dealing with that leave and heal. I hope the best for you i know how it feels. 
Well he’s done it more than once, so likely won’t change…, if it was me …I’d end it sadly 
…already give plenty chances and more than patient…,it must be so hard on you uou deserve better… but … ultimately the decision is yours to make…, good luck x
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me 5+ times…??? No, you should leave.
Dont be a doormat for him. Leave.
What makes THIS TIME HIS WAKE-UP CALL??? he not changing and hid family don’t want to put up with his ass if you leave him so they’ll tell you anything to get you to stay
Once a mistake,twice a habit! Your worth more !
NO ! THEY ARE ALL BEING MANIPULATIVE. that’s too many times girl. Please re read what you said and keep reading until you get that he does NOT love you like he should! I’m sorry. I know ten years is a long ass time, but pls love yourself enough to know that you deserve better than that
If he had been completely honest when you first asked him then maybe, just maybe but the fact that he lied as he was telling you “the truth” means he needs therapy and you need to think more of yourself than him! You deserve a man of honor not a man of lies and deceitful acts.
I mean you’ve already given him 5+ chances …what’s one more
Leave his cheating ass… How could you ever trust him?
Nope. Pack the bags. He’s at at least 5 chances. Can’t change his ways if he won’t even dully admit to shit
If you trust him it will be OK. With out trust you will be in sheer aconney. Always wondering where he’s at. Not a good feeling…I’ve been there.
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My grandma always said: fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. 5xs is too much.
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Only if your heart is strong enough to continue being broken
Once a cheater always a repeater!
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Kick him yo the curb now