Geez, you deserve better.
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Answer from a dude: Respect yourself. Leave now. Try to get back the years you lost by living a happy life. Otherwise you really do deserve what you get.
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If you choose to stay with him, it’s you’re fault. You’re allowing your worth to be defined by a cheating bum. People don’t change. Stop being ridiculous enough to keep allowing the same behaviour and expecting change.
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If he can’t even be honest not a chance.
#trustortrash
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Cheaters always cheat
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It upsets me so much that woman don’t love themselves. LOVE YOURSELF!!!
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I was married for 21 years to a man who did this same thing. Keep in mind that this is about him and not you. It can make you feel like you aren’t " good enough" and somehow it’s your fault. That’s no way to live. When someone continues to betray you, it’s damaging to your heart and soul. Obviously it’s not easy to leave a ten year marriage, but he’s really done nothing to stop disrespecting you. It’s pure selfishness. You deserve better than this and I hope you don’t waste 20 years with a cheater and liar like I did! Take your power back and send him on his way…or you can always dissappear! Good luck friend!
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Get rid of him. He’s not interested in changing.
He WILL NOT change, and HIS family is exactly that…HIS family, they will stand with him even in his wrong doing. Get out of there.
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Nah girl. It’s another empty promise, if he really wanted to change he would have by now, it hurts, pick yourself up baby, you got this. 
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No you’ll never fully trust again
The family needs to mind their own business. It’s your choice!! Either they want YOU to give him another chance because he or they depend on YOU for whatever reason or they’re afraid that if you split up, THEY’LL have to deal with him & they don’t need the burden!! He’s rotten & his words mean nothing!!
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I suspect he will never change! My opinion.
If he was going to change he would of already done it. Now its time to kick him to the kerb and find yourself a real partner not one that’s going to repeatedly drop there underwear every time someone else catches there eye. You deserve better than that
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Sweetheart know your worth 
if a man is in a relationship/marage and cheats this many times its fair to say the gambel you take to find out if he will or wont really isn’t worth it.
If his family are so convinced he’s changing then they wont have a problem housing him till he meets the next woman.
Its hard when you love them and want to believe they will change but after that many times the damage is done regardless xx
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Smh. You really gotta ask?
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5 times already not a chance id kick him to the curb
Big no! Get rid of him! 
I have been there and I can tell you they alway say they will never do it again but I devorst him and he never stopped cheating even after he remarried had 3 more kids
Not sure they no how to stop but you will never trust him no matter how many to you say you do
He will have to go above and beyond to prove it to me while we are separated… if he wants another chance and you love him then tell him actions speak louder than words… Tell him to do and show all he can and when you see the change in him and the trust is back you’ll consider it… this could take years so you’d Probably be better off looking for a man that isn’t going to cheat…
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This happened multiple times not to sound mean you can’t blame the women at this point or him you’ve allowed this more than once a man will only do what you allow if you allow if kick his butt to the curb you deserve better
No way once a cheater always a cheater
Well, if he has done this over and over again and continues to hurt you KNOWINGLY, you probably need to let him go for your mental and physical well being.
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No, let his family deal with him. If he did this 5 times before, kick him to the curb. He could have given anyone a STD.
Want’s a cheater always a cheater.
Find you again, none of us are perfect 
Hear me out 
find you , let him find him. Pray for him. It’ll take time. Let your husband show you, really show you what he wants to do. While you take a step back. If his childish behavior continues by all means walk away 
Forgiveness takes alot , then rebuilding trust… it’s a long hard road. But could totally be worth it. If you’re really both willing & do the work.
Did yall marry young? He sounds immature 
premarital counseling?
Have u seen The war room movie? 
Leave he doesn’t wanna be with you that is one of the reasons he keeps cheating. Move on and don’t listen to his family. He will never stop cheating.
What do you love about him? What do you love about you? Put your love into what you love most? I’m betting on you. 
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Does he remember the wedding vows he took?Can not be trusted,kick his ass out
I think you already know what to do. If he said every time that he’d change, and he never did, there’s your answer.
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Its so easy for outsiders to offer up what they think you should do because they’re not in your shoes. YOU need to do whats best for YOU…I will say if you’re questioning what you need to do, you probably already know the answer.
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Ah hello you know the answer
No dear he will not change he only thinks of himself nothing else. You desire better and more not a cheater.
This should be YOUR wake up call—walk away!
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Well, he has proven that he will never stop cheating and you’ve proven that you’ll still take him back every time. If this behavior is what you’re ok with for the rest of your life, then stay. If you don’t want to be cheated on anymore, leave.
Walk away before he did because soon or later he will leave you if he love you he wouldn’t look at another women let along be unfaithful to you walk don’t run hold you head up and go
U are on here askin, bc u already know the answer…it’s not like it was one time, that would be hard enough. This man has cheated repeatedly and u still keep his sorry a** around! U put up with it and he knows it. The more u take it, the more he is gonna see it’s ok…cheating is a serious betrayal and usually a deal breaker for most of us. Maybe ask him how he’d feel if the shoe were on the other foot. U need to find u a better man, honey and stop putting up with it, bc it sounds like he’s not gonna stop. If a man truly loves u, he will NOT CHEAT, he’ll know your worth, respect how u feel, and love u the way u deserve. Don’t settle for that shit. Get rid of him!!!
The way I see it…you already gave him at least 5 chances. Now, he’ll probably continue it because he’s confident he can manipulate you into giving in.
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You need to love yourself more. You deserve better.
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There are some faithful guys out there. That’s what you deserve!
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a leopard never changes his spots!!!
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Leave. Dont look back
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Like they say first time shame on you second time shame on me.
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Can you accept him cheating? If you can change the way you view relationships and see that as okay. Then sure. But if you’re like most of us woman and couldn’t accept that… then no.
Suggestion: counseling for both of you?
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A leopard never changes its spots once a cheater always a cheater hes had enough chances send him packing he doesnt deserve you
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A tiger don’t change his stripes…
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Get rid of his cheating ass…plenty more fish in the sea
Nope 5 time or more in 10 years he dont care and is not going to change
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Give it a try if you like being cheated on all the time and constantly hurt
Why should you seek help on what to do when you know what you should do. You know damn well he won’t stop cheating and knows you will put up with it
Once a cheater , always a cheater. I left when I had the chance. Sorry you are going through this.
NO NO NO and another No
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Even just the once id send him packing
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If he values you …goes on Friday comes back Sunday evening with all kind of excuses the he loves it’s only that your co wife unstand him more in bed…
Sounds like you’ve given him 1 too many chances and as long as you keep giving him “1 more chance” he will keep doing it IMO
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So the last 5+ times he wasn’t ready to change? Why would he now? Sperate & make him prove he’s going to change. Move out & start building your life without him. His loss, you tried! IF & that’s a huge IF, he does change then you can MAYBE THINK about giving your marriage another chance. But leave him & his cheating! Do you! At this point he knows you’re going to take him back so why would he stop? He just has to pretend to be sorry for a few days & everything goes back to normal. I wouldn’t change either!
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No way is he changing
NO! Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!
Not without church (God) or therapy, and even then, you will always wonder. Once is 1 thing, but 5 times? I think you know the answer. You deserve better
It’s not easy to let go of someone. 10 years is a long time to let go of. This seems to be a habit for him, for whatever the reason.
Maybe he is a great husband in all ways except being faithful but being faithful is what lets you know you can trust him. If you can’t trust him wholeheartedly then you’re letting yourself down in the process because you have certain expectations that aren’t being met.
Altho you haven’t mentioned if there’s kids or not I feel like kids are never a good reason to stay. I’m a firm believer that what kids grow up seeing you do or seeing what you allow to be done to you tells them what kind of adult to be or what kind to look for in a mate.
Best of luck to you. No matter the decision, it won’t be easy.
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Every time you let him back, you show him how to respect you less. Value YOURSELF over a relationship!
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Walk away very quickly and never look back! Once a cheater always a cheater! Keep your head held high! You deserve sooo much better!!
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Kick him to the Curd if he can’t take you seriously then it’s all a joke you don’t need the circus he has intended for you
Girl run. He does it because you allow it
3 things…
You teach people how to treat you…
What is allowed today will be assumed tomorrow.
Love yourself first or no one else can
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Bye!!! Sorry, he’s not changing
What would you tell your daughter or sister if this has happened to them this many times. Everyone deserves to be loved and treated with respect.
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Kick him to the curb
Nope. He has no respect for you or your marriage. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Move on. Don’t waste anymore energy on him or his family.
He’s certainly not going to change. He knows everytime he cheats, you will take him back and forgive him, so he will keep doing it. You deserve better!
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How does that saying go, do it once shame on them, do it twice shame on you for letting them do it again. Also something to really consider, are you ok with him doing it again? You have given him way more chances then what he is worth. Leave and find someone who will respect you or stay and except the fact that he does not respect you or your relationship. It is very easy to say no for both of you. You deserve better then he will give
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“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Maya Angelou
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u gave him already no more
That would be a big HELL NO. Once a cheater always a cheater I’ve learned that myself. They never change.
If u keep giving him chances , he will think its OK and that u will just take him back , leave ,
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If you take him back every time he does it, then why the hell would he change?? Look up the definition of ‘insanity’.
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though him to the curve
You deserve better, throw the left overs out! Never accept being second place ! His chances ran out! He abandoned you a long time ago. Your a diamond in someone else’s eyes and never will be valued completely in his. Actions speak truer than words.
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Been there done that I would say so long loser
No. Hun, he has no respect for your marriage. I think you know deep down you don’t want to be going through this again. Break it off and live your life without him. Good luck x
If you are aware of more than one time… Let’s be honest he is not gonna change fool me one shame on you fool me twice…shame on me. Just really think about it. Do you wanna continue in the “what if” life? Not knowing what he is doing cause you are waiting for him to change. Unless you are okay with him doing it then that is different.
If he cheated more than once than he is not going to change. So either put up with it or leave. His family will always be on his side and lie for him Love yourself enough to find someone that treat you the way you want to be treated.
I would walk away. He’s manipulating you and if this many times that you know of and he hasn’t changed them it’s best to walk away
It’s all about TRUST!
Bye Felicia. If he cheated 5 times sounds like 5 too many for me.
I would say, “Sorry dude, I can’t.” I done that and it sucks when the guy goes with the other girl. It sucks even more when the guy comes back and tries to reconnect with you and plays with your feelings. Sorry.
Your in the cycle of insanity. You keep repeating the same mistake and expect a different result.
What ever happened to the three strikes and your out? Not six strikes before you wake up.
Give him chance bcoz of his family but he will never change
I’m so sorry you have to go through this but my friend I think you already know the answere lovee xx
Give ummm the boot …he don’t deserve your heels 
It’s time to move on, I’m sorry. Love yourself more💕
Pack up and run girl! Liers never change!
Nope! Send him to the curb, he obviously has no respect loyalty or love for you! Kick him to the curb
Well Dear l am 70 now and l was married for 15 years to my first husband and he ran around all the time even with some of my friends we had 3 children together and l always forgave him but he did leave us for someone he worked with l was so broken but after a couple of weeks he wanted to come back and l told him no because l could see me at 50 years old still going though this and l just could not let him keep on hurting me and our children like this we deserved a better life than the the mess he was makeing of our lifes and he bother me for months not to divorce him l believe l did was best thing for my family we have had a very good life after all the constance hurt he put us though he ended up married the person he had the afair with my ex also liked money and she had some so they lived big for a while but as life has it what goes around comes around l ended up haveing my own busness l have always had our own homes new cars and never had to worry like l did with him dont think it came easy l worked hard all my life to make a life for us l am telling you this so that there is a life after a break up but only if you want it only you can decide your future do not let people tell you what you sould do its your life and you deserve to be happy and l had God there with me l made it because of God and l did get married again so you can be happy again God Bless
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Umm no. I’ve always told people I would be willing to try to work it out after one time of cheating but anymore than that I am long gone.
Forget that! Move on
You will be much happier and you don’t have worry about him cheating again
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Do you have any children with your husband? If there young i can understand giving him à chance but if no children id walk or kick him out. Whos name is on the deed? Do you rent or own? 10 years is a long time to throw everything away. If ypu can get him to go to counseling to talk about his Problem thats an oiption… tell him the only way youll even think about taking him back is If he trys to go to couselimg wirh you and tell him you demand at least 5 sessions
He will never change. Get out or forever live with his lie.
How many times does he have to subconsciously call you gullible, stupid, sucker? Sorry to be blunt but sometimes you have to see it from an objective point of view. Good luck and the sooner you get rid of him the sooner you’ll meet your true love.
I need more info…of course like many my first reaction is kick him to the curb…but I was in a marriage once where my first husband cheated…I always thought if he did I’d kick him out but when it happened all I wanted was to keep it together we had small kids and I didnt want to put them through a divorce …I felt I could handle the pain of heartbreak rather than the kids …but he left anyways for the other woman and it didnt work out for him in the end …next would be are u financially capable of supporting yourself and if u have kids them as well?? Because court orders only mean so much doesnt mean he will pay if ur given childsupport or alimony …so u have to be prepared for that … do I think he will change …probably not …but IF you want to stay even if to get ur ducks in a row…make him work for it …he needs counseling…he obviously wants to stay for a reason …perhaps he has an issue within himself …in NO WAY…is it your fault…its him to many times for it to be anyones issue but his own…if there are no young children involved and u can stand on ur own leave…and dont turn back …because u do deserve better…but I can tell u …uve only made it easier for him because u have put up with it before …if u stick it out make him work for it dont take him back easily if he really has had a wake up call then he will be willing to do anything to keep u …heck I’d get a post marital agreement that he has to give u everything if he is ever caught cheating again …if hes willing to do that …he may actually be serious lol…but only u know ur circumstances the law where u live your heart and him…be able to live with no regret whatever u choose. Good luck.
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5 times… another chance?
Fuck no.
First cheat hes out.
For ever.
And this is a mood