Wake up and smell the roses, he will never change. You deserve better.
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Oh really, What’s changed him “this” time? He has suddenly seen the light? What’s different? After all the other times he was caught… Bull, Nope , he’s A manipulative , narcissistic liar. He hasn’t had any consequences for his action, he’s just going to turn around and do it again… get some self pride!! You dont deserve this . You deserve real love , not sloppy seconds and not seconds hand left overs. You too good for this.
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Don’t go back there again. He’ll change for as long as he thinks it’ll take you to forget to check up on him, then he’ll be at it again.
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You deserve better … Not that many times! It doesn’t sound like he’s going to change.
One more chance? I don’t think so.
I would have said bye after first time…let alone 5 times
He’s manipulating the situation and has been for quite some time. I would make plans to divorce and move on. He will most likely never change.
Come on now once a cheat always a cheat you deserve better kick him to the kirb
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Why would he need to change when you’re constantly taking him back. It’s you who needs to change and get tough…not him. You keep letting him get away with it. Toughen up eh.
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No if he loved you then he wouldn’t of cheated. Leave his ass. Bc once a cheater always a cheater
NO NO NO he will always cheat.
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A tiger will never change his spots.
You don’t have to jump into a divorce right away…but step back and make him prove himself…take as long as you need but only if you even feel you love him anymore
He will never change. That was just a month ago! What’s changed in a month for him? He’s using you, and you need to divorce him.
He will eventually change for the right woman. Since he has cheated on you 5 times he will keep doing it until he finds that woman he wants to change for. You will then be alone after holding on for many years. Move on and find the right person for you.
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Take some advice from a fool who lived with a cheater for 22 years…one day you’ll wake up and realize you have given him the best years of your life and he (or nothing else) has changed. Save your self some grief and get out .
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He will never change. I know that for sure.
walk on by leave him on the corner😎
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Lady these people are trying to help u there are allot of men out there who will respect you and take good care of you and if you have children he may be willing to help you out with them let him go been there and done that meet a nice men who treated me with respect and treated me like a queen now he’s gone to the spirit world and I miss him very much lasted 28 years you can do better men don’t look at your beauty outside but only inside good luck may God bless
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Really? You need to ask.? Once a cheat always a cheat!!!
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If you want to give him another shot that’s on you but I would suggest separating if possible even if you just live in separate rooms to put that distance there
Throw him to the wolves!!
You know that habit you can’t break that annoys other people? Cheating is his bad habit the only problem is It comes with alot of health issues. So if u still have tolerance for his cheating outside wont say anything to make u open your eyes.
You deserve better, Time is precious don’t waste another day on him. Time to move forward. I had a cheating husband and I ended it and later found true love.
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Na he doesn’t deserve it
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No you should not. Run lol
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A Leapord never changes it spots 
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Once a cheater always a cheater
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You should not even have to ask.
Leave him behind, find your happiness.
He’ll no kick his butt to the curve they do it once even one time they’ll do it again over and over because they figure we are there ones that will take them back
Chance to what? What do you want from him? What does he have that makes you put up with him sharing his love with multiple women?
I’m flabbergasted that this has been brought to your attention a minimum of 5 times! Him and his family are having a laugh
You might be better as friends. He can work on his issues and try to change.
Hellllllll no!!! Once is already too much!!!
He needs to go find his own place to live immediately and figure out what HE needs to do to redeem himself and your marriage. No more blameing and dishonesty. If he can truly devote hard work into saving his own marriage and clearly show you those efforts, there might be a chance to move forward together down the road. Go slow on this… Takes at least a year to show you the real changes. If you rush back into business as usual you are doomed to be in a relationship that continues to hurt and humiliate you. Please be strong now with firm and healthy boundaries for you and your family. Peace be with you. 
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Your life happiness is as important as anyone else’s. You only get one chance at this life…leave him. If he’s done this to you 5 or more times he has no respect for you and is a habitual cheater.
He has absolutely no respect or love for you!! His family should shut up cos they saying that cos they don’t want him back home!!!
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If you can cope with the knowledge that it will probably happen again and you can live with that and every other aspect of your lives is fabulous good luck if me I would ask for regular STD checks 
you are way better than the way he is treating you ,he is garbage ,
You already know the answer, you don’t need to be told. Know YOUR worth!!! Move on and find your happiness.
Time to move on ,your husband has shown his colours , that will never change ,in time I hope you will find someone who cherishes you.
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Once a cheater always going to be a cheater
Have you tried any marriage counseling? While the good book says to forgive one another it also has the thou shall not commit adultery. It is the one reason for divorce that even God understands because faith and trust has been broken between the two parties. The cheat needs to realize the person cheated on has a right to be mad and need time to heal if the relationship is to go forward. With that said can the non cheating spouse get to a place where they won’t throw this up in the others face at every turn. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting the pain or acting like it never happened .It does mean setting up new boundaries and communicating going forward. If both parties are willing to do the hard work a marriage can be saved but if only one party wants it your wasting your time. Try a counselor and see how you feel after a set amount of time.Pray Pray Pray for wisdom.
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Good grief you should’ve left the first time. Everytime is their so called wake up call
Once a cheater always a cheater.
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No. Hes a serial womaniser. It will never stop! Why did she tell you, because he made her promises he couldn’t keep and now she’s angry.
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Nope, be done. You already knew this answer before asking… it will be hard and scary… you can do this
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What the hell??? Get out.
He definitely does not respect you.
No once maybe, but five times that’s a lot of cheating. Think of it like this if the shoe was on the other foot would he forgive you? If the answer is no then you have your answer.
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Wow, shit I hope you use condoms can you imagine the diseases he could have given you or gave you? Once I could understand to forgive but putting up with this bullshit for ten years and still staying. You either really believe you are ugly in looks, truly hate yourself or something must be wrong with you, that you would allow this to happen to you for this period of time. Women get off your ass look in the mirror find your self worth and start loving yourself. Get you shit together and plan to move out or kick him out, you got proof he’s been cheating take him to court and take everything you can alimony, the house kids EVERYTHING. You need to stop being a freaking doormat and stop being STUPID.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You deserve to feel special. You don’t deserve an ounce less than perfection from some one who makes you feel special.
I’m sorry to read this but he knows you’ve been their to take him back in the past as you say it’s not his first time , he needs to move on you need to give yourself time to think about yourself what you want for your future remember you are not in any way the one in the wrong don’t let his family pressure you into taking him back hope you make the right decision
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Once a cheater always a cheater.
Run as fast as u can girl manipulation at its finest run and don’t look back thatan ain’t ever changing especially when u keep allowing it…if it were the other way around would his family be saying the same to him he’ll no…you can do better
Thats a decision you have to look into yourself and decide. Personally I may be able to forgive one time but not the subsequent times. He has disrespected you and your relationship and broke that trust. You can try counseling but it seems to me you have already made your choice. Do what’s best for YOU.
Walk away your worth more … youve give him at least 5 chances in the past why would this 1 last chance be any differant …once a cheat always a cheat … i wish you all the best for the future what ever you decide .x
There’s only one answer here, I speak from experience. Leave, even if it breaks your soul you will come out the other side better off. Fear if the unknown is not a reason to stay.
Girl that’s 1 chance to many he continues to do it with broken promises of changing nope nope its time to close that chapter and rewrite a new one you deserve so much more then someone who does not value you or how you feel or even you as his wife
Come on you know the answer to that. Find someone that loves you. Better off single than to live with a disrespectful person.
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Fuck that, you tried giving chances. Start putting you first not someone who IF he cared wouldn’t have done it in the first place. Actions speak louder than words do and his actions say that he don’t respect you
Nope. You’ve given 5 chances too many. I’ve been in your shoes. Cheat on me once you are done. No chances.
All the extra chances are telling him is that you won’t actually leave and your threats are empty. He will continue and won’t change. If you are done, you are done. GTFO imo
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Hold your head up high and dump him ,he will never change
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Just leave! Tiger stripes aren’t gonna change.
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A snake sheds its skin, but it is still a snake. Cheaters rarely stop cheating and lying. I lived with a prolific serial cheater for 18 years…never again.
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He wont change even with 1 more chance. He did some of it but not all of it basically means he did it.
You are worth more than that, respect yourself first by not accepting his behaviours. By accepting it you are allowing him to treat you badly. Good luck x
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Walk away. You deserve better.
No you’ve wasted enough time on that guy. Leave.
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Pray alot! You will know what to do.
Why did that woman rat him out? Maybe this is really a wake up call, maybe he did realize that that’s not the way he wants to live and she got mad and told you. DO NOT take advice from his family, YOU ALONE must know if you want to give him another chance or not. For you to be asking here, it means you are willing to give him another chance, even after knowing how many times he has already cheated on you
The only change he’s making is his clothes and that’s to go see another woman. It’s time to wake up and realize he’s a compulsive cheater and his family doesn’t want to deal with him so it’s easier for them to try to persuade you to keep giving him chances so he’ll have a place to stay. Trust me they don’t want to take care of him.
No ,no more chances. If he had cheated that many times already then you need to let him go. Find out who you are now and make a fresh start.
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No. No more disrespect. Have a plan. Get out. File for divorce
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5 times??? No girl. No more chances. One maybe. But 5 times??? Absolutely not. Time to leave. He absolutely doesn’t care one bit about you if he keeps doing it.
one chance too many he will only sneak around again time to let him go…
Cheaters don’t change,there isn’t a “right” person he will change for,sadly cheaters will only move on to a new victim,becoming better at hiding it,
No, he’s done… be kind to yourself first <3
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Quit disrespecting yourself and leave.
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let him go. when trust is broken - it’s broken - doesn’t repair itself. walk away and don’t look back
If they aren’t like you want them to be like, they won’t ever change
NO more chances. He’s had way too many as is. Leave him. And take everything.
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Nooo girl. Run. Run far away!!
Sorry to say if he’s cheated on you so many time then he won’t change dump his arse get made up get out and find someone that won’t cheat there are still men out there that are good men like me I’ve never cheated and never will I’ve been cheated on so many time ,now you should know the saying once a cheat always a cheat
A leopard never changes its spots, no more chances…
I guess, if you love being married to a man who has sex with other women, you stay.
NO HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. He knows u will continue to take him back so he doesn’t really need too. If I was u I would pack up and leave .until u want this to continue
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He will do it again.
When he decided to lay with another woman he KNEW what he was doing.
And he has done it 5+ times,
He has had time to “CHANGE” the last 5 times. Why sit there and allow it a 6th ?
You deserve so much more. You deserve respect, love, honesty & TRUST,
You’re constantly going to think “why me” , “what could I do better” blah blah blah ,
Girl know your worth you are an amazing woman you don’t deserve another chance at heartbreak,
He most definitely doesn’t deserve anymore of your time or chances, no excuses it should of been a “WAKE UP CALL” from the beginning not AFTER 5 times.
I bet right now he would NEVER of admitted it if that woman didn’t step in and let you know. So he would keep doing it ?
I think for your mind,heart, body & soul it’s time to leave,
I know this isn’t going to be the popular choice, but this is what I would do. Know that he won’t change. He’s gone. Done. Keep any and all evidence you have of his transgressions and save them. Stay “together” as long as you feel you want to, and use him. Siphon off his money into a separate, secret account. Then when you’re ready, divorce him, take half his stuff, you’ve earned it. Then go on a celebratory divorce vacation and live your best life. 
Try going to marriage counseling first, if you can’t find answers there, then separate.
Kick him to the curb!!!
To be honest I agree with 99% of these comments , from a guys perspective I’d tell you to move on he doesn’t seem to respect you because if he did he would certainly not of cheated on you once let alone 5 times, if he tells you he’s sorry ,it because he got found out .
Harsh I know but he just isn’t worth your time
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Don’t stay. Run far away from this man because he will continue to do it.
Why the fug I see shit like this on my F.B , quit acting like your in a fuggin relationship
If it was the first time, I’d say maybe give a second chance, but since he’s done it multiple times in the past, I’d say hell no! He’s proven he won’t change and he’s definitely proven he doesn’t have respect for you or value your worth.
Once a cheater always a cheater
No! If he has done this multiple times, rest assured it will continue. It just becomes part of their phyche that no one will know this time!
Nope hasn’t changed after that many times he never will.
He won’t change. Leave girl. Don’t waste your time with someone who disrespects you
Counceling. Then if he still doesn’t show change, kick his and his familys ass to the curb.