STOP bringin every random dude an bimbos home to your kids!!!go fkkkk in your car or your weekend you dont have your kids fkkk!
Nope you guys are exes for a reason.
No, Fu** him Periodt. Do you.
No need too make ur life
Match his energy. When heās ready, you can be too.
Nope surprise him lol but donāt b surprised when he freaks and tries to turn it because he will
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Let it flow. If he asks why you didnāt follow through, ask him why HE didnāt 
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If he canāt observe a simple courtesy, then itās none of his goddamned business.
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Listen, I reachex out to my exās new gf. I was very polite and told her I wanna meet when sheās comfortable. No reply. That was 2 months ago. Ex claims she isnāt āready to meet meā. Which is fine (i mean itās not but ya know Iāve let it go) but I hope she knows that I already donāt like her.
You donāt get to be around someoneās kid and not meet their mother. How disrespectful. My ex says he isnāt ready to meet my new bf either bc āitās too hard for himā. 
anyway, I say stick to your end and if she is anything short of a decent person she will want to meet you as well. Good luck!
Maybe ask for a meeting between all of you so itās easier and less tense.
I think itās too much. If they are going to start living with each other then maybe. But otherwise keep your personal life personal. Gotta trust each others judgment to an extent unless proven otherwise
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Keep your word. That way it canāt bite you in the butt later!
If your child is going to be around her, Iād 10000% want to meet her and I canāt understand why any parent wouldnāt. It would also make me question why heās so reluctant for you to meet her.
If it was me, he wouldnāt see the kids again until I met her and see if sheās safe. And then, it would be a while until she was around them with me not there. I hear too many stories about the new boyfriend or girlfriend hurting the baby and nope nope thatās not gonna be my kids!!!
Let if goā¦why the heck do you two need to meet each othersā new peeps.
Everyone is different. I waited until after my divorce for 5 years to date and my children were adults. Even after I waited until we dated for 2 years before he was introduced to my children. I didnāt want to pick the wrong person and my children not be able to speak up or defend themselves. Turns out my husband now loves them as his own. My children appreciate that I waited and I am now happy. I figured my kids came first.
I see no reason to push the issue & potentially create drama right now.
IF, and only IF, there is a time when his GF (or your BF) becomes someone that is spending one on one time with the child in a parental/supervisory role should you push it. And then it is a matter of safety. Parents should ALWAYS know who is caring for their child; it doesnāt mean you have to be best friends with that person.
If I ever get a divorce my two sons will never be around another man as a dad, and no other woman will be mom unless unless I meet him do background checks on him
has the new person met your kid yet? i would only push if thereās a chance that could happen. however his situation sounds new & he may be trying to figure it out himself.