Should I send my child to her dads while she has the flu?

It’s her other home. Why wouldn’t she go? Sick isn’t a reason to deny visitation and he should be perfectly capable of caring for his sick daughter same as you. This isn’t about you and your need to keep her home bc you want to be her caretaker while she’s sick.

It would break my heart to send her. This is a tough one for me. Good luck.

You follow the court order. If the father can care for his sick daughter, bring her to him.

How old is she? Maybe leave that up to her.

Send her, unless she is not stop vomiting, he is just as able to care for his child.

The child is not a doll to toss around. If the child is not well you have a doctors confirming she has the flu. She doesn’t want to go I say no keep her home tell you come inside and see for himself. Explain to him that child is ill and feels more comfortable at home. In case anybody forget the flu is not a simple illness. My husband has children from a previous marriage and many time his ex-wife called and canceled his days to pick up the boys because they were sick and my husband would understand. Now if you want to be nice offer for him to take her the following weekend when she feels better.

no way–that is called spreading

Depends on if you think he can care for her

As long as he can provide her care while she’s ill,

I would say ask the child

He’s right! He’s her parent and can take care of a sick child just as you can. It’s part of him being a parent.

No. He or she should stay home :slight_smile:

You have to obey the law unfortunately

Let the other parent be a parent.

This is something you should be discussing with the dad. Nothing we say matters in the end. Talk as a family if the child is old enough and figure out what’s best for her at this point. Maybe she could go the following weekend to make up for it or work together on something reasonable. If she’s up for it then let her go and he will take care of her. Just talk it out without arguing

No then they will yelled at you

If he can care for her then yes. No reason why you shouldn’t. If it still makes you uncomfortable switch weekends with him.

I think that would be a discussion with the father. Let him help you decide whether he can help her as well, or if he would rather her stay with you

Unless shes too sick to go then he has his rights

Follow the court order. Otherwise you’re in violation.

So stupid if you to ask

If the dad is asking for the child then yes send them. I was kept from my son for a month and some weeks due to this covid shit because they were " quarantining" but my son was allowed to see other people just not me and he wasnt even sick so i filed a motion for contempt of court.