Just give her the custom/handmade items and return the rest.
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Nah! Fuck her and that baby!! 
JK JK
Donât be like that, give her the homemade gift and let her be mad over nothing.
Give the gifts. Itâs a celebration for the baby to be. Give the mom some space at this emotional time 
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Are you all joking with me? Sheâs pregnant, give her a break. I say drop the gifts off at her doorstep with a little note attached and let her reach back out to you.
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Return the stuff and move on, honestly lifeâs to short for petty BS
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Pregnancy is not an excuse to behave that way. I would give her the hand made items and return or regift the other items 
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Obviously she and the baby meant something to you or you wouldnât have gone all out. I would be the bigger person and give them the gift. You never know what may happen in the future and would you regret it?
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I would still give the gifts since itâs for the baby anyways
I wouldnât be giving her a present
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if the handmade items donât have any names on them iâd sell them and return her gifts 
just because youâre pregnant doesnât mean you get to act like a child.
Return it if you can
Get your money back and buy something for your self!
I went thru hell when I was pregnant and yes she should definitely apologize. I would give her the gift to show her there is good persons and maybe you both wonât be friends but the baby is innocent and you were thinking of it.
Return them and sell what you made
Pregnancy hormones maybe. Just return what you can and keep what you made in case she patches things up with you
DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER. Keep the ones you made special, just incase you become friends again. But what you can return. Return. You are not petty! And I donât care if she is hormonal. If she had real friends, they would let her know that this isnât nice. But if she really didnât like what you said, maybe she doesnât want to be friends anymore. People grow apart. And maybe you were too invested, and she wasnât. So the best thing to do is move on with your life. She is⌠Once the baby shower passes you will feel better. Rejection is hard to swallow. Everytime you think about it, get busy doing something else. Make plans on the same day of the babyshower that you canât back out of. With people who truly want you around. Just think how this could hurt you more if you went, and everyone treated you mean. Then you will be on here again about how bad they treated you.
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She uninvited you to the shower and wonât respond to your messages. You donât need a friend like this in your life- ever. Return the gift and close the door!!
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Hell NO. Give to a Mom who needs it. Plenty of grateful people out there in need. Time to let go, she had no problem.
Lmao girl if the shoe fits obviously sheâs offended because she relates lol so return the gift get your money back and get a massage
Donât give the gift. Return it. I am sorry, but if you apologized and even said the comment wasnât directed at her or towards her and she took it out of context then she is the one with the issue. She unfriended you and is NOT talking to you know. Itâs not worth it.
I wouldnât. If she sends it back to you youâre going to feel foolish. Leave it alone and walk away.
Sheâs also pregnant & super emotional⌠give her the gifts & fix your friendship.
Find a true friend to give them to, or give to a foster baby!!!
I would return what you can and save the handmade items. She may change her attitude but I would never trust her again. Sorry that you lost your friend.
Dont give it.
Save for someone else.
Sheâs probably really hormonal!
Donate to a person who would truly appreciate that gift .
Iâd gift them to someone whose appreciative.
Not invited, no gift. If youâre at odds, Iâd say no. Maybe send a nice text congratulating them, then be done with it.
I would return the gifts and buy yourself something.
The gifts are for the baby, remember your kindness and out of good will give it to the baby - even if it unborn.
She will one day realise she lost a good friend. This world is far too ugly, by all means stay mad at her or vice versa but donât take back what you intended to give the child. That baby is innocent, congratulate, wish her the best of luck and move on.
Kindness from you in the time of anger will hopefully let her see how much you valued the friendship.
I honestly would still go with the gifts. Maybe she just needs someone right now. Not right to take that out on you. But maybe its a cry for attentuin/help
It isnât the babies fault. Just give her the gifts somehow.
And honestly it could be her hormones making her be a lil over the top dramatic right now.
Youâre uninvited from the baby shower. Sending a gift would be stalkerish.
Return gifts or save for another new baby. And stay off Facebook.
Return it and save the homemade stuff for someone elseâs baby!
She probably doesnât want your gift
No gift! Return the purchased ones and donate the handmade ones.
I wouldnât give it to het.
Return items ⌠In my opinion