He is married. Don’t say anything to him. I would also suggest seeing a counsel to assist in navigating these feelings.
Don’t tell him. He is married. It would be selfish of you to tell him.
No,he is married. You need to move on.
Nope don’t he is married
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Wow. Leave her husband alone he isn’t your person anymore. He is hers.
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Leave it alone. You have a good relationship now. Why ruin it again.
Please don’t he is remarried.
Ok so you go tell him then what - really like he’s going just pickup everything and move in with you , do you really believe he will leave someone that loves him for himself, to go back to you that you gave up , ( just find yourself and your own state of mind)
If you lived him … you wouldn’t have remarried … you might just be trying to get back to a much better place in time
No not if he’s remarried leave it alone. Ik it sucks but I wouldn’t go there
I think it would be best to stay away altogether, even as friends, he’s married and it wouldn’t be fair at all to him and his wife. As hard as it is loving someone who obviously doesn’t love you that way back you need to leave it alone and move on with your life. The only reason I’m saying stay away all together is so you can move on with your life completely. Hope it works out for you
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How would you feel if you were the one married, had a different family and they told that to you but you’re happy in your marriage. You’d be upset and feel disrespected surely. You had your chance. Let the man be happy with his family now. By going and telling him you won’t just hurt his wife but his kids too. It’s not all about you, remember that.
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Honestly, I wouldn’t tell him. However, you might consider taking to your mutual adult child. (Note: I said ADULT! I am not an advocate for putting a minor child in the middle of “adult” issues). However, IMO, I think you are in love with the good that the two of you had. I also feel that IF you truly feel you are in love with him, you will keep it to yourself because you should want him to be happy. It will create issues with the relationship you currently have, should you decide to tell him. I understand where you are coming from, and if he was single or in a horrible relationship then and ONLY then would I consider telling him.
Even if you san say you are still in love with him that was 2 husbands ago! You’re in love with the man he was all those years ago. You don’t know the man he has grown into, the habits he’s developed that you may not like or know existed. He may be far more interested other hobbies or pastimes that maybe you have no interest in. Your love for him no matter what you share is based upon the love you shared behind closed doors many years ago. Those doors have changed and what each of you do behind them now are no longer each other’s business or concern. I love a happy ending just as much as anyone, but your happiness should never come at someone else’s pain. His wife and he have done the work, fought the battles to keep their marriage alive and working. If you sincerely love him as you believe you do, now is the time to be happy for his happiness.
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Yeah don’t do that. It may be eating you alive inside but someone whose married and have their own life, it’s not a good idea.
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Girl, tell him. If anything, it won’t haunt you anymore and you never know what he’s going to say back✨
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No … move on, he is married.
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No that man is married you need to stay in your lane & respect him & his wife.
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He is your EX husband who is CURRENTLY married, meaning he is now someone else’s husband. You had your chance at a life with him as his wife. You two parted ways. It is now his time to be with his current wife. Leave the man alone he has someone.
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Yes I think you would regret it. He would probably tell his wife. His wife would not want you to be friends. Totally awkward for you. He’s happy and your not so your probably having feelings from the past that are confusing you
No. He’s married. Let him be happy with his wife. He doesn’t need to know how you feel. That’s not fair to her, or him. Think about it, how would you feel if your husbands ex went to your husband and told him that she was in love with him. You’d be pissed. And hurt. Keep your feelings to yourself. And this whole “in case something happens” is just your way of finding justification, because you know he’s married and you know it’s wrong.
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I think that you need to find a way to process & release what you are feeling for your ex, out of respect for everyone involved, & accept the fact that HE IS MARRIED.
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Don’t you dare. He is a married man. You two aren’t together for a reason. Don’t be “that woman.”
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I wouldn’t say anything. He is married and has moved on. It’s time for you to move on and find the person for you.
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No. You need to move on. You two are not together and he’s married. Let him be married without complications. Show some respect for him and his wife.
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That wife is going to 
you !
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If he wasn’t married I’d say yes 100% tell him but no
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Leave that man alone and let him live his life !! You all are divorced for a reason … and to be honest you’re probably still in love with the memory of him that man you were married to is probably not the same man he is today we all grow and change
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Absolutely not… You need to go out and find you a man that’s not married and leave him alone he’s not with you for a reason. Let the man be happy.
Absolutely not… You need to go out and find you a man that’s not married and leave him alone he’s not with you for a reason. Let the man be happy.
The ship has sailed 
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If I was his new wife and found this out, you’d catch these hands. Leave the past where it belongs. Age is no excuse either.
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I think you should tell him🤷🏼♀️ he will either feel the same way or he won’t. Don’t worry about his marriage. If he does feel the same as you do then his marriage is already broken. If he doesn’t feel the same, then you need to leave him alone.
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That man is married… you had your chance. Don’t go ruining their marriage because you have fomo… what do you expect he’ll do?? Dump his current wife and run off with you?? That just going to complicate things. How would you feel if you were in his current wife’s shoes and your husband’s ex shows up confessing her love for him?
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Im a firm believer if you actually love someone you will always love them even if your relationship doesn’t work out.True love for someone doesn’t go away.So no I wouldn’t say anything because you are divorced…he is married and that ship has sailed.
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Let me ask you this… how would YOU feel if another woman told your husband she is in love with him? I understand you have feelings too but he is a married man, and that is completely inappropriate.
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Get some therapy. You’re probably romanticizing your old relationship because you’re lonely: you’re in love with the idea of an ideal person who never existed.
Get out in the world & do fun things to stop your obsession with him. Travel, take an academic or activity class, make new friends, learn how to safely go on internet dating sites & find you a new man. If you have bizarre experiences, heck, you’ve got some funny stories to tell. But again, know how to stay safe.
Or start volunteering wherever makes sense for your interests. Get a dog or cat if you’re able to take care of one. The more people you meet, the more friends you’ll make, and the more likely you are to find a new man for you. Plus you’ll be happier, more interesting, and you’ll have new skills.
If you have to or you’ll pop, just tell him whenever you talk to him on the phone, “You know, I’ll always live you on some level.” The last part is important. Then change the subject and move on. But yes, this sounds more like an unhealthy obsession than true love. Realized that you two divorced for a reason.
Go have adventures with your kids & grandkids. Do something that scares you: ride some roller coasters, learn to ride a motorcycle, go indoor rock climbing, take a class in public speaking.
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NONONO he might hate you for doing so and you’d ruin the nice relationship you have
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I guess the real question is, how would you feel if you were married and his ex wife came back into the picture telling him she was still in love with him? Would that be fair to you and your husband and the life you have built? Js I don’t think anyone would like that.
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He’s married. Don’t tell him
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Keep your feelings to yourself.
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Don’t be a home wrecker
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There’s plenty of men in the world you go get yourself someone who’s not married 
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Leave well enough alone
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Majority of a bunch of Anonymous women are going to tell you no, but honestly I’d get it off your chest, you only live once, it’s not ruining a marriage if he doesn’t feel the same way
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Sounds like you need attention. Just do not seek the wrong kind.
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Leave that man alone
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if it didnt work the first time it sure isent going to work the second time around. cause everytime you have a disagreement hes gonna run back to her so go on with life leave it alone
Leave that man alone. He is married.
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He is a married man and you should respect his wife by keeping this to yourself. You had your chance, ex, and need to keep as friends because of kids but let any romatic feelings go.
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They sell BS enough on social media, don’t sell it to your ownself😆
And this is why you shouldn’t engage with ex’s. When it’s over it’s over.
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No. Leave him alone to be with his wife.
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He’s married. Think about if you were his wife. Would you want his ex wife telling him that she still loved him and complicate his life like that? That would be unfair to him!
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Leave that married man alone. I don’t care if you were married to him before she was. He is not property. He does not belong to you. He is MARRIED to someone. Do not be that girl.
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So what is the end game, he come running back to you? Leave that man alone.
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He’s married now. Leave him alone
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Divorce is a process where you are involved in every step of the process. You went through every step and finalized it. He’s a married man. I’m not trying to sound harsh but counseling or another outlet could be pretty beneficial for you. You may have these feelings of love for him but there was a reason you all got divorced. Try to keep that in mind. 
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He is married, leave him alone
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I think you’re just lonely. Get out and meet someone new.
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Absolutely not , maybe your just feeling how you are because of everything thats going on & you want security but it wouldn’t be real & it certainly wouldn’t be right as he’s married & it wouldn’t be fair at all of his wife… maybe speak to your friends or even make some fresh ones to but please don’t so something that’s could cause so much upset & stuff in your life especially as you & your ex share children , it would completely upset their lives to & cause that hurt. I definitely think speak to someone either a friend/family or a therapist there’s no shame at all in it. Sending love 
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Should’ve thought about this before you divorced.
If its meant to be itll be. Something will happen and they won’t work out and then you can revisit.
For now, move on with your life and figure out who you are.
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imagine being this wrong AND this loud about it
Leave him be so you don’t have ruin is marrage!
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He’s married now. Is your answer wtf.
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You love him still then leave him alone .
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Shut yo pie hole you had a chance
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And what about his new wife.
I think this is all about you.
And not about your ex husband or his new wife.
You just want what you can’t have.
Please stop being selfish.
Don.t tell him.
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No. Leave him alone!
“The way the world is today” is your way of trying to justify your selfishness. Leave that married man alone.
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You failed marriage number 2 and you wanna try to bring his down too? You don’t love him. Love isn’t selfish. You love the idea of him. True love would never think about doing ANYTHING that might hurt the one they love even if it hurts themselves. If you really love him you will knock this nonsense off. If he becomes single NATURALLY then whatever. Don’t try to ruin his life though. Even if he stays loyal all it takes to cause drama is for wife to find out. Stay the fuck away from him romantically.
Clearly he has moved on. Probably best to not rehash your past with him as he is married and started a new chapter in his. Ultimately it’s your choice but hopefully it doesn’t make things awkward for him and ruin the friendship you have now……
This has to be one of the most selfish posts I have seen here. You are good with possibly wrecking another womans home… the worst!
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He’s married. Your question is answered right there.
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Nope he has moved on…nothing good can come of it now
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Our memories can look better in time… hang onto the ones that made you get a divorce in the first place. Sounds like there’s hope you’d find yourself in love with your latest ex… i think this shows how important a marriage covenant is. You had the chance to salvage it, he moved on… if he’s unhappy, maybe you could help him and his wife to navigate through whatever are the current trials. Be a lady that helps to hold them together, because, that’s maybe what YOU wanted? Eh? Also, the only reason he’s still in your life, is likely because of the kids… not because he wants to be with you, or vice versa…
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Don’t say a word and let it go
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Hellllll noooooo he’s a married man.
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It’s ok to love someone from afar. Sometimes people do not work well together in a relationship but still care for each other. I feel it’s ok to tell him you love him, but not in a sappy get back together way. This will ease your mind and help you move on. Don’t focus on him, focus on yourself. Exs are exs for a reason, try something new. 
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No he’s married. You are very selfish if you are even thinking about it.
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Leave it be. If, at some point down the road, you both find yourself single again, it would be ok to tell him. This is not the time.
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Wow people in these comments are nasty. It is ok to tell the man that you still love him. He was your husband and is the father to your children and grandfather to your grandchildren. You don’t have to act on anything. It’s ok to still love him. Who in here even knows why you all got divorced? Everyone saying you had your chance but we don’t know that you ever wanted the marriage to end. Oftentimes divorce is bc one partner wanted it and the other had to go along with it
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Leave the man alone.
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Marisa Leinhauser she said she’s “in love” with him. That’s different. Why say it now?
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You’re divorced for a reason, he’s remarried, leave him in the past.
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Leave it alone. He already knows.
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No he has a wife who he loves you have somebody else stop trying to spoil things.You might loose his friendship
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Write a letter… and upon your death he can read it… seal it. Put in in your jewelry box. And let him live his life. Love him enough to love his wife.
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not if he is happily remarried, no!
Don’t tell him. He’s moved on and married now. No reason to make an issue for them just because of your feelings.
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I would think about how if you were happily married, would you feel if your now husband’s ex wife told him she was still in love with him… It’s an ex relationship for a reason. I’d leave it alone.
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Love him enough to let him go.
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No. Leave it in your will.
Hes married. Leave him alone
No don’t do that, leave your ex-husband alone. He’s married!!! Respect that!
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Absolutely not! He’s married!!! How would you feel if someone told him that while you were married to him? What do you think will come of it? He’ll leave her and get back with you? That in itself is messed up. The fact you have children together means nothing. Actually, how would your kids/grandkids deal with that. Telling him is completely selfish. Besides all that, what’s to say those feelings are even real and you’re not just in your feelings remembering good times and day dreaming.
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You need to leave that alone…Dont ruin another womans marriage thats just wrong…
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I think you need to respect his marriage and possibly wait until “The End Of The World” is a lot closer before dropping that on him. But hey… good luck tho!
Would you do that to another married man? No. Leave it alone and find someone new.
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Respect his other relationship and back off, women that destroy other’s relationships are pieces of crap