Should I worry about my friend and my boyfriend?

Oh for gods sake ! You know the answers already , it’s bullshit if someone is in your house they abide by your rules if she’s making you or your boyfriend uncomfortable , you tell her !
Sounds messed up already , give her a date she has to leave …

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Well if your man really loves you and is faithful to you than he will turn her down, he wouldn’t let temptation get to him, she shouldn’t be trying to take your man, she should be grateful that you’re letting her have a place to stay but she needs to respect you, and if she’s not than boot her out, this is why I will not let another woman live with me,

Ask her to leave she seems like shes taking piss abit

She’s making herself real comfortable in your life and looks like she might just want it for herself. It might be time at the least for a serious talk about boundary setting.

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Get rid of her… I smell trouble

OVER STEPPING BIG TIME. Get her out now

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Get rid of both. Sounds like he could be having an affair with her. She is no friend to you, who takes your man or talks like that.

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I’m sorry but she needs to go right away!

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I agree with your sister, it is weird and you’re being naive. This is a Jerry Springer show waiting to happen. She’s not just crossing but catapulting across boundaries. She’s trying to take your man. :woman_facepalming:t4:

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You should of replied “imagine I punched you in the face and you bled everywhere”

Jk but ughhhh she sounds like she’s up to no good your man you need to sit her down and have explain boundaries to her cause clearly she doesn’t have a clue.

Don’t let this behaviour continue or you will be in a world of heart break.

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Oh no honey she needs to go

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Ewwwwww…there’s the door for your ‘friend’…

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She is trying to work you out by “living your life with him” Tell her to go…seems they already kinda have a thing going already

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What’s your mates name cause my mum had same mate like that till I told her about it then she figure it out now they not mates what’s her name

You need to fxck her up and show her who the hell she is messing with. Throw her out! Nastttyyy

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She be moving in on your man. I’d tell her she needs to looking for another place to stay. You’ll only have yourselves to blame when something happens. Never a good idea to have another woman around your man so much.

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And if he has a thing for her tell him to kick rocks too

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I can’t really think of any more blatant red flags than what she has already given you. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Kick her out sounds like she wants to take your place

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Wasn’t this posted awhile back?

Get rid of her you dumb cluck

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Yes tell her to leave wth she’s rude and disrespectful …she has no boundaries and crossed so many lines wth …she seems not too tight up in the head too

Not a friend she got to go

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That’s no friend. That’s a toxic ass person and you need to cut all ties immediately

It’s never a hood idea to have another woman living with you and your man

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Get rid of her sounds like she is making a play for your boyfriend

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You’ve posted this before only it had more details before. Weird to post again with less.

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Red flags all around.

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You better get her out now like right now she is going after your boyfriend

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Girl you’re dancing through red flags like you’re in a tulip field.

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Girl she has got to go and make no mistake she is not your friend

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Get rid of her now, she knows no boundaries nor respects them either

Hopefully is not too late

This has GOT to be a joke

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Don’t ask her to leave…Tell her to leave…TODAY!!!

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Girl are you that Nieve :woman_facepalming::man_facepalming:

She’d be getting thrown outta my house. Wtf

Kick her butt out , now .

Omg :flushed: get her out of your house or you will be the one leaving :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

Get her out of there. Friendship over

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She has to go! If you don’t realize that, then maybe you’re the one that has to go. Idk, one of y’all need to leave :woman_facepalming:t2: Id be damned to have any female living with me and mine, so that right there, was the first horrible decision!

I’d ask her to leave

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Excuse me? That bitch needs to go. You’re delusional if you don’t find anything wrong with the disrespect for you she is throwing in your face every time she says some shady ho shit about your man.

Pack her things and get her out! She’s clearly after ur lad! If that was me I’d be telling her to go!

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She told you she was going to ask your boyfriend to marry her? WTF?!? Get rid of her.

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Matee kick her out!! The way shes actting with you partner and the comments about your kids is disrespectful and stright out rude. She has no respect for you or your kids, she just wants your man.
If i was you she would be on her ass outside with a door slamed in her face as soon as she called the kids ugly!

Wow!! It’s time to tell her to leave.

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Get her the fk out of ur home she wants ur man

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Are you for real? She is either sleeping with your man or planning to. I’m finding it hard to believe anyone could be this naive and blind. :eyes:

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Umm ask her to leave? Unless you’re ok with poly

She’d be gone yesterday and if he gets made you kicked her out…he’d be gone too

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Not a friend, put her out NOW

I’d make HIM tell her to leave…don’t be this slow or your asking for whatever consequence you get

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Get away from this situation as fast and as far as is possible there are places you Can go for help.

Hell no… she is clearly extremely disrespectful to you and your entire family… she has no problem crossing boundaries… she would be out immediately. Do not let her get away with any of that and definitely speak your mind, to the fullest… I wouldn’t be able to hold back if I was in your shoes.

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IM NOT YELLING, JUST WRITING IN CAPS SO MY COMMENT STANDS OUT.

everyone is pointing out how your “friend” is trash but your “boyfriend” is even more trash than her.

Legit accepting flirting right in front of you, entertaining her flirtatious conversation, blushing…

Sure, she needs to go. But let’s be honest, you need to pack up and if you have any dignity, or self respect and leave with your child. I say that with respect because if he will be like that with her and he knows you are in a relationship… anyone can have him honestly.

I’d get rid of your friend but she’s not really the true problem here in your life. Your choice of baby daddy’s are. I’d be single if it were me because he’s giving you hints and I would take them and be gone. It’s a harsh truth and reality. Goodluck though. I really hope the best for you.

That screams homewrecker!

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Are you stupid? Bruuuh get her out!!!

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Red flags all around.
She needs to go.

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Umm… no to this entire situation. Definitely need to ask her to leave and then talk with your partner about boundaries

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You need to find a new friend

I would ask him a few questions maybe there is more to this , but if that where me she would be picking herself of the front lawn just saying

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Ha! Yeah right! Bye biiiiiiiitch

Tell her to leave right now!

Your gut is telling you the truth of what needs to be done.
The fact that your boyfriend “blushed” at her nonsense and disrespect for you would anger me to no end with him. He was disrespectful for not setting her straight right there and then in front of you.
She’s poison. She’s not your friend.
He’s questionable.

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1 You have to be very crazy to accept living with someone else and your partner in the same house, especially a woman who is not related to either of you.

2 You are being too permissive about her overconfidence and her lack of respect.

3 If someone behaved like this, even if it was my mother, she would have to leave and in a bad way.

Yeah she gotta go my friend. She throwing flags and ain’t no way imma let her fly them in my house.

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Kick her out unless you want an open relationship.

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Yeah. She sounds like The Hand That Rocks the Cradle crazy. Boot her from the house.

Fyi. Its a movie. Look it up.

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Nope! Your sister is right! That is totally inappropriate :flushed:

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Kick her out period.

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Boy red flags she would be gone . She’s telling you what she wants

Not my definition of a friend!! She would be gone!! She does that in front of you then I can only imagine what she does when you’re not around!

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If it you’re on here asking for advice then you probably already know what you need to do.

Girl red flags she needs to go. Sounds like she is not all there. :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

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You’re seeing all these red flags+still need other’s advice?
Either you’re not to bright or this is a bogus post…:upside_down_face::smiley::rofl:

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That’s weird and she needs to go far away.

Lol girl you are too nice. I wouldve knocked her the fuck out as soon as she started walking to the bathroom

I took the blush as more of an uncomfortable thing than a cute reaction. Maybe it’s just me but I think this puts him in an incredibly awkward position because I’m sure he doesn’t want to create a problem between his wife and her friend if his wife doesn’t seem to think it’s a big deal, and also he shouldn’t have to worry about a random lady walking in on him in the shower while he’s in his own home.

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She definitely doesn’t have any boundaries or loyalty to the hand that is helping her. She needs to leave as soon as possible and you might want to limit contact afterwards. If she says all this to your face, imagine what’s happening behind your back.

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Her ass and stuff would already been out the door. Your decision.

So many red flags I can feel the breeze

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If you’re having to ask us about this red flag :face_with_monocle: you’re not the sharpest tool in the shed. You two should date if anything… to be a little more clear, She has no respect you have no self respect. Case closed.

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She does not respect boundaries. She is trouble until she respects others. Get her out immediately

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If you’re having to even bring this up in a forum, you have your answer. She needs to leave.

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She would be gone and that bridge burned super quick

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If it feels weird, then she needs to go

Listen to your sister…
Ask Her To Leave Asap!!
She is making you and your man uncomfortable, and he shouldn’t have to deal with it because he doesn’t want to to start a fight between you and her. She has no respect for you, him and clearly not for your child.

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Red Flat in my book . Omg :astonished:

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That aint a friend omg

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Now come on!!! This post should have been about what happened before you put her out AND side eyed your dude😒

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Kick her A$$ to the curb ASAP

I’ve discovered that I am a bit too violent, I think. After reading this I thought, “Hmmm, if anyone ever called my child ugly I would drag their face down my driveway to the street.” :open_mouth::flushed:

Better get her out your house your asking for trouble

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Help her pack. She’s got to leave NOW!

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Kick her out obviously something going on when Ur not around not normal an she does this in front of your face image what she does or try’s when Ur not around

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If YOU can’t figure out the answer, what the heck is wrong with you?
Tell her to get the fuck out of the house!And if she doesn’t pack her shit up& toss her & her shit to the curb!
If you knew she was like this, you should have NEVER LET HER IN YOUR HOME FOR ANY REASON!!!
SOUNDS LUKE A EFFIN GOLD DIGGER

My boyfriend would be telling her to leave

:thinking: if you trust your husband then just brush it off. But she sounds like a home wrecking W**** so idk. I personally would be kicking her out. But that’s just me.

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ummmmk what? Like is this serious? :grimacing:

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