Should I worry about my friend and my boyfriend?

Wtf? There’s so many red flags. I wouldn’t even be wondering at that point because that doesn’t seem like any sort of “joke.”

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Get her out! Sounds like she wouldn’t think twice about trying to get with your bf. She sounds very unappreciative that you are giving her a place to stay. Doesn’t sound like a friend you need in your life either. Good luck!

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Get rid of her! Even if he’s a good man, she is not a good woman and a worse friend

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Bye… you got trouble

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That my friend is a Psychotic Toxic Biatch. Kick her out As Soon As Possible. I feel bad for her child, but also call Social Services if she is behaving like that with her kid & yours. She is no good friend nor even a good person at all. And before you felt pitiful for her remember two things. One - Neither you nor your BF are psychologists & two - No Good Will Goes Unpunished. If you still keep her in the house out of pity, I’ll assure you that things will get pretty uglier.

Your friend is not your friend. She is using you and lacks respect. You need to kick her out ASAP. She will most likely try to make you feel bad. Where she ends up next is quite frankly not your problem as you have your own family to worry about.

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Get her the hell out of there… Asap. Quite honestly you and your bf should be telling her together she needs to leave

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OMG giiiiirl, why and how are you even asking something like this?!? She’s gotta go, like last week… for real! She has zero respect, consideration or care whatsoever for you, your child(ren) or him and is literally trying to create problems and issues with y’all’s relationship! Any REAL friend would absolutely NEVER EVER be saying nor doing any of the things she has and does! First tiny little incident that made my man, my children or myself uncomfortable in any way, shape or form; would be gone immediately without ever second guessing it! And in my personal opinion; if my man was playing right into her flirtatious bullshit and going along with it; I’d be questioning his respect, faithfulness and loyalty as well, not just the so called friends… I hope you’re able to see clearly what it seems like is happening and going on here with your life and relationship before it gets to a point where it’s far to broken or its just simply to late to go back and fix the relationship!!! I obviously could be all wrong about it but again, it’s my personal opinion and I would not be allowing that shit to continue; even if it was just me who was feeling, thinking and questioning the negative, uncomfortable bullshit like you clearly are! I’m just going based off of what you said happened in this post though and as for myself; if another bisch was even just calling my man “honey” that isn’t old enough to be his mother or grandmother; she gotta go! Ain’t no real friend of mine ever gonna be calling my man honey or babe or anything at all like that, EVER. If another female is making me feel any type of negativity and/or discomfort; then she gotta go… period… AND, my man would absolutely never ever wanna even speak to her, never mind be around her; especially alone… and he wouldn’t because he respects my feelings and thoughts as well as his own. He’d never want me to feel uncomfortable or any type of way that isn’t good because of and/or from another female when it comes to anything with him… so, idk what’s up with your man responding like that… mine probably would’ve just said “fine” and got up to leave the entire room she was in, lmao.

She’s looking to destroy your family hun.

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Do not accept her disrespect to you or your child. Follow your heart, and ask her to leave. She does not appear to be a person you could ever trust.

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Even if nothing going on the disrespect of the way that she speaks about him should not be acceptable

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friend needs to get her own place. she’s going to make a LOT of trouble.

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oh my good God she would be hitting the kerb outside very quickly

U need to open your eyes and heart it is definitely red flags here. Need to get her out and away from your man . But also ask your man where u all stand . It is not a good situation

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Listen to your sister
Boot your friend out with a good hard kick
And interrogate your boy friend
the way a cop would

Then pack your stuff and your babies stuff and leave him

Honestly i would ask her to leave it sounds like she will become more and more of problem

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She needs to move out now! Not even a question.

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You better wake up sister, Satan is on the prowl in your home and slowly looking for a way to destroy

I’d definitely be saying something to her!! If she’s saying these things to your face or in front if you imagine what she’s saying/doing behind your back! And to say she wanted to marry him??? Come on! Don’t over look her disrespect! Kick her ass to the curb unless you’re into poly stuff then do whatever buttttt it doesn’t seem like you’re into it by this post.

She is not your friend. She is lusting over your man. She is trouble.

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Ok 1: She would be out of my house with her shit on the curb!! 2: Single mom or not ain’t no way in hell would I allow someone to disrespect me, my man or my children!! And 3: if you don’t do something about this now it WILL become worse

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I’d be asking her to leave. You do not deserve to be treated like that and scum like her do not deserve your kindness or friendship. Home wreckers like her are just out to hurt you.

Girl if she has to ask you if she needs to wait while your man is in the shower honey she’s being what you guys call thirsty I believe and you need to make her step! And don’t get me started on the fact about the kid ain’t nobody going to disrespect my child on my watch! Put her in her place or put her out!

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Sounds like she is trouble I would watch your back and have her out of your home.She sounds like a home wrecker and wanting someone to take care of her .

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You need to speak to them separately. Pay attention to body language…that’ll be enough

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She would have been tossed.out when she called my baby ugly. She needs to go NOW.

You better get her out of your house.

Yikes. Nope she needs to go.

Sweet girl, lift them skirts and don’t walk away from her, RUN!!!

tell HIM she is making you uncomfortable. RIGHTNOW. That you need his help asking her to leave because you’re so thrown off about this. He has GOT to have your back on this or the relationship sadly will not be worth saving. I had this situation. But reverse. My husband pulled his dick out and told her she wouldnthave to help pay rent. She broke down crying thinking I would kick her out over it. I left him. Have him tell her to leave. Screw that.

All that disrespect and saying that to my man she would have a fat lip and be sitting outside

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It’s freaking OBVIOUS she is after your man. She needs to go before you’re on the outside looking in.

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disrespectful I’d politely ask her to leave

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Are you really that DUMB ?

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Shed done been gone yesterday

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Yikes. She’s gotta go.

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She would be out so fast her head would spin. She’s after your man. I don’t know what your hold up is.

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Get her out of your house Asap :rage:. Red Flag :white_check_mark:

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She’s obviously out for your man and she’s not leaving any room for doubt. Ask her to leave but don’t be surprised if your boyfriend vetoes the idea.

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She is bad news …Listen to her words - she is after your man!

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I would head her in the direction of the door. To friendly and you might want to stay friends.

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I had a friend like that once…her marriage broke up and she ended up breaking mine up as well…show her the door

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That girl gotta go!!!

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Rid yourself of that witch!!

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Are you ok with a poly relationship? Because thats what this is gana turn inti if you dont get her out

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She wants to ask to marry your boyfriend? And wanted to walk in on him. Acting like a teenager. She has no boundaries or respect. Shes 100% trying it on with him, id be scared to leave her alone with him. Id Tell her to grow up or leave

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That girl is nuts tell her to leave

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Never a good idea to have a single woman living with you and your man! Good bye!!!

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She’s tryna fuck your man or already is. Yikes.

I would have her leave if they haven’t already messed around. From experience leave this where it belongs the trash. She ain’t worth it

Kick her out befor its to late

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Open the front door -take her door keys and show her the way out.

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Do you really have to ask?

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“I don’t think much of it” girl what :eyes: this weirdo would have been out of my house as soon as she called him honey. Lmao

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She needs a place to live other than your house. I made this mistake. He ended up marrying “my friend” after he divorced me. It took9 mos total. Be smart, use your gut.

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I would throw them both out. Her for being disrespectful and him for not correcting her.

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Ask her to leave as soon as possible it is never a good situation to have another woman living in your house you can trust him with everything you have but it doesn’t sound like you can trust her speaking on experience

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If you have to ask. The answers yes! Worry.

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Honestly the fact that you’re dumb enough to allow any of this and then run to Facebook for attention tells me you shouldn’t be in a relationship to begin with and have a lot of growing up to do
The second she insulted my child she’d be on the floor

Umm bye! She is not your friend. She is with your man or trying to be. I might ditch him too. When someone comes onto my husband i know about it someone calls him honey he corrects it.! Yikes

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Yikes GET HER THE HELL OUT OF YOIR HOUSE especially if you are HAPPY with and in YOUR relationship!

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100% would be out the door faster than she can say anything else. I would also stop being friends with her. I would then have a conversation with the boyfriend and depending on how the conversation goes he may join her with being kicked out.

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She would have got my hand right in her mouth. Then she would be out of my house immediately!

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If they aren’t having an affair, she wants to. Get her out now

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Pack her shit up and show her the door or your husband is going to show it to you. Can you not SEE

She needs to leave immediately and you need to cut all co tact with her

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Drama :joy: time to house hunt ladyyy.

You don’t March her out the door asap. You deserve every bit of heartache coming at you.

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Why is this posted again? This was posted last week. Do y’all really not have any new content :yawning_face:

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Woah. :flushed: not a friend being suggestive toward your man… and calling your baby ugly? He sounds super uncomfortable by her as well.

My normal response would have been of course being that all my “friendships” had been 20 plus years in the making, then I found out you can never be to sure.

Give her a soon date to leave, tell her she has worn out her welcome & if your boyfriends want to go to, you’ll live, probably better without them both!!!

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Kick her butt out of the house and into the street RIGHT NOW!
DUH…

You let the fox in the hen house…!!!

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That ain’t a friend, sis. She’s after your man.

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It’s time for your friend to move on!

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I don’t understand why you need us to point out the obvious… she should have been put in the bin a long time ago. How bizarre! :exploding_head:

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Put that cat out in the alley because she’s on the prowl.

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:stop_sign::x::no_entry_sign::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:shes telling u what shes really like to ur face…imagine what shes capable of when ur back is turned…she needs to move along…shes no friend…shes ready to pounce ur husband any minute…disrespectful hearted person she is…

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Kick her out she is not your friend

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Hell no lol she’s gotta go !!!

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Not A “friend” why r you even askin? Where’s
Your sign?? Send him with her!!!

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Yes worry. My sister was living with me and was flirty with my man. He warned me but I always thought it was just brotherly love. That’s how she made it appear. Well…they slept together. So…

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Ew. Thats no friend. She sounds crazy af

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Not much of a friend. She would be out in a heartbeat. No respect for you or your relationship.

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Your alot more calm and laid back than me I’d of pulled both of them up
And says to my hubby why you blushing and you why you acting like a whore that after my man get to fuck and throw her out if he wants to stick up for her he can go too simple!!. I wouldnt put up with that

Ooh :open_mouth: she fixing to make a play for ya man … if not already has … never allow someone in your home but for a temporary emergency situation… get her gone

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Ummmmm she’s definitely NOT a friend. She is BOLDLY disrespecting you and your relationship to your face and sees you’re not even reacting to it so she’s going to go further with it.

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She’s no friend of yours and she needs to go nothing more nothing less.

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Get her out she is going to try and sleep with your husband.

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Tell her to pack her clothes…yesterday. Your too trusting. She’s looking for your man.

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Hey her out of your house and your entire life! She is dangerous!!! Rude!!! And Lacks boundaries!!! Get her OUT now!!!

She’s gaslighting u and by being mean to ur face n nice infront of him she’s trying to establish that if u tell him the truth he won’t believe you because she’s nice to him. It’s manipulative and passive aggressive. Get her out before she ruins your marriage.

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Are you ok? Like… in the head?

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Get rid of her, she is nuts!!!

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The real questions are 1.) do you want to take that risk of having her around? her saying these things is a huge :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:
2.) Do you trust your husband to tell you if something did happen? Or if she was making advances in him? Because to me it sounds like he enjoys the attention from her.
3.) She’s making ugly comments about your baby to your face but hiding that side of herself from your husband. Again :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

Keep your eyes open and don’t disregard anything.

So no a friend I’d be asking them both to cut it out and to move out asap

Massive warning signs right there. Get rid of her. I didnt listen to my gut instincts 14 years ago and my chidrens dad fathered 2 kids in between my 3. To my supposed friend who was living with us.

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That’s definitely no friend honey! Get her out of your lives NOW!

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Tell her to get out and to not let the door hit her on the way out she will destroy your marriage if she stays

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