More often than. It I am watching right along with him or I suggested the video/person. Porn is porn. It’s a fake reality to get us in the mood or off.
No, I would not be okay with that!
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If your husband stays up very late at night to ingage in porn is he replacing porn in stead of i
My husband only watched porn when we were struggling with fertility and he had to turn a sample. Other than that never.
It’s all what your comfortable with hunny. You gotta have a real talk with him about how your feeling and what your comfortable with. It’s up to him to respect that or not.
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It depends…if the one who’s asking is sexually active herself…interested in sex i mean? Or do you just see the sexual bit as a marital must do? If the answer is that you are interested and active, experiment…ask to join him…even if it feels awkward…have an open mind…because he will watch it although you do not aprove, and if you forbid it at home…he will find other places to do it. Lets face it…in a long term marrige…the sex will become dull at some point…in most marriage…there are exceptions BUT…as i said…explore…ask to join him…who knows…in time maybe you will find advantages in it…but you must have an open mind…that is essential <3
I would be upset he watched it without me 
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It’s up to you if it’s okay or not. You set your own boundaries.
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I don’t find a problem as long as it’s not taking over all their time, he still wants me too, and it’s not illegal
Why not watch with him 
Get naked n see what he’ll do
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Only if you’re insecure with your relationship, porn watching will bother you.
Mine shows me when he sees a woman he thinks I will appreciate and vice versa 
Are you putting out ? Lol
These comments suck. Look if you are uncomfortable with it that’s all that matters. Share your feelings with him.
You look at other men. You may not watch porn but if you are on tik tok or any social media youre drooling over some thirsty tik tok person who cant stop videoing themselves. Or Jason mimoa.
And as far as porn goes…masturbation is personal and really none of your business. Unless it is interfering in his life other than you being jeaous, ignore it.
Wesley Neville Simon cronic no 
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My man does …I don’t mind…as long as it’s not illegal and I’d much rather him watch porn and take care of himself then be out letting someone else do it plus we have a good sex life and i offer porn even for us and he isn’t always interested in porn but I’m not picky or willing to fight and nit pick or find ways to argue with my man… he is a man and it’s porn …I mean that’s a pretty basic combo and I’d rather my man feel comfy then be trying to catch him and him hiding it or feeling like I’m controlling what he does in private with his dick…as long as it’s not in another female in any way I’m ok with him wacking himself to a porno…plus being interested with him has added some spice to our own sex lives…but if your not ok with it and uncomfortable talk with your man about it but if it’s something he really enjoys then he will probably just get better at hiding it from you and then there will be secrets and that’s just not healthy for either of you…not saying you should be supportive but just saying understand he is a man and be greatfull he isn’t finding an actual women to meet those needs …Iv found being " supportive" doesn’t cause arguments…or fighting trying to catch and being lied to or having things hidden and it’s just alot easier backing off and knowing and not having my man acting like he has to hide or sneak around to wack his own junk…hell maybe check out some porn yourself and flick the bean…haha you may be surprised. Porn isn’t just for men…but again if it bothers you that bad talk with him but I honestly found it alot less stressful for us both when I let it go…and stopped nagging and stopped snooping just to fight and make myself feel bad or insecure…it’s been a huge amount of pressure and trying to catch you thought process off my shoulders and has helped our relationship alot backing off and just understanding a man and his porn…so it’s really up to you but I doubt you expressing your feelings will do much but cause him to hide it better…or maybe he will respect you enough not to but idk and the trying to find out game can be stressful and rough on a relationship if your always out to find the deal breaker…your not going to be happy or whatever and it will effect your relationship if you hang on to the need to know and control him wacking his own junk…so really think about it is it really that big a deal to control when and how( with porn now cheating is different) he wacks his own junk to cause issues in your relationship and cause you to most likely become that female that’s nagging and trying to fight and trying to catch him watching porn just to fight or take it personally…
I personally am not ok with it…… but I know many are. Maybe it’s an insecurity thing. Who knows, but mine still watches it, even though I don’t like it, so…
it doesn’t matter, it’s gonna happen.
Why does it matter? If he is faithful and not talking to any other girls I don’t see why it would matter what he watches.
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I do not know when my man watches it but I found out he was watching xnxx.com and I went to it to find out what it was and it is a porn site. I just wonder if he is watching it to get ideas on what to do with me or for his own pleasure being that we have not made love in 2 months now(his choice).
Honestly I think that it’s something very disrespectful especially if your married. Porn is just bad period especially how it makes people create a false fantasy of how sexual intimacy should be.
I think that if your husband or partner watches porn and looking at other women I can only imagine what else is he capable off in a temptation situation.
No I’m not okay with that
If YOU don’t like it. Then it’s a problem!!!
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Don’t let him watch porn! It will cause Erection dysfunction, what he sees he would want to bring it to real life. Porn is fake that get paid. I’ve been through it.
There is simply no right or wrong. To each their own. I personally think if it’s nog being hid, done in secrecy & your being invited to watch along with him ‘both men & women’ then, what’s it going to hurt??? You can’t predict the future, all the well, ‘what ifs etc…’, everybody is different &, you simply address that if &/or should it come…
Could always be much worse, just saying
Are his needs intimately met and are yours? Maybe ask him why he watches it like why does it turn him on and maybe try new things when y’all are intimate with one another.
Yeah, I’d have no problem with it. I know my husband loves me to death, this I have no doubt. So what is a few pics or videos, meaningless.
Men are, typically, visual beings when it comes to sex.
Woman are, “typically” emotional when it comes to sex, though that does seem to be changing over the years.
Who cares where the appetite comes from as long as he eats at home.