You know some people don’t agree with or are triggered by Porn for reasons that DONT include being “prude”. Some people have very real triggers with porn including sexual assault triggers. Just something to remember
I don’t understand why so many people don’t think it’s normal to watch porn! Hell, try watching it together & see what happens! Y’all can try to compete with the ones in the video (as long as it’s not too dangerous🤣)!
If it bothers you there’s nothing wrong with setting that boundary. It’s 100%, completely, totally reasonable, and anyone who tells you it’s not can kick rocks.
This is you and your relationship, it is up to you what boundaries you set. Do not force yourself to be comfortable with it if you’re not because it will just hurt you in the end.
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I’d suggest taking everyone else opinions on porn in general outta the equation first off. That’s the first mistake in any situation is looking at things from one side or the other. Find it in your soul to be completely neutral to figure out how you feel why you feel that way and then how do you really wanna feel about it. Does it hurt you because other people say it should? Is he spending time doing that but neglecting you in ways? Etc. people cannot condemn you’re relationship in anyway do t let anyone make you feel any way about anything. Hurt feelings are more than just “seeing or lusting after other women” think about what it is that bothers you not just face value and how do you wanna feel or how you want relationship to be from now on and then after you process communicate that to him. You are entitled to what you allow in your life and how you’d like your emotional and mental stability through your relationship be cared for by your husband.
No issues here. It can also be fun to watch together or recreate from porn videos
Horrible. That is a Sick Addition and it will get worse. Stop him now or you will regret it. Get Help.Christian Counseling.
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I would have to say if u cant handle him hard over sexual content, u might want to reconsider your marriage because no man is gonna want to only see one set of tittiez the rest of his life. Make it fun,be confident about it, don’t criticize him tho for it or he will keep his sexual desires from u and eventually ull just bore him to death and before u know it, his thing won’t work so u need to keep it fun N exciting … Maybe u just need to watch more and find your hidden freak
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If you’re comfortable and secure with yourself it shouldn’t really bother you-unless it becomes excessive. Start looking at hot men and see how he feels about it!
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There’s a problem if he’s hiding it from you and doing it secretly. I personally feel that if my guy has eyes for others, then why be together?.. That’s just me though.
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All men watch porn, they love it… it’s their thing.
I’m not interested in it, so as long as i don’t see it. Doesn’t really bother me, i don’t consider it cheating.
But if it’s different for you then you need to communicate with your husband
He can especially if he wants to watch things I’m unwilling to do…
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It doesn’t bother me any
Everyone has their own boundaries. If you’re not comfortable with it you definitely should express that
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I don’t think so. He should get enough satisfaction from you…
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I think it puts desires of what a woman should do or be like sexually. It takes you out of reality, which isn’t ok. If you watch it together and you are both down for it that’s different. Do your thing. But I don’t agree with it at all. When you seek some sexual arousal from someone other then your partner it becomes a big issue. Hopefully that makes sense.
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It’s a no for me too! If you need ya business handled come to the bedroom! 
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You can be bothered by it, bit you should find a man who also is. Because tbh, watching porn isn’t cheating, even if you think it is. 
I’d rather him watch pron then hold all that in and go cheat
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It’s a no for me. What’s the difference between that and cheating? Only physical difference. My opinion though
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I don’t think it’s an issue but that’s just me. If it bothers you, talk to him!
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My does the same thing and NO I don’t agree with it
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It doesn’t bother me.
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If you know this and you allow it he gonna keep doing it. If you tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he does it maybe you will understand? He may be having an ED issue!
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I really don’t care tbh. We have a great bedroom life still and he treats me like I’m his one and only and we trust each other completely. If he wants to look oh well to me it’s a man thing unless it was like overwhelming his life and causing issues between us i personally don’t see an issue with it.
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Many men enjoy this and it doesn’t mean anything more then pleasure. If he isn’t cheating or anything then I wouldn’t worry about it. I fee there’s far more things that he could be doing that are concerning then watching some porn. If it is something that truly bothers you tho then talk to him about it and go from there. To me it’s not a big deal as long as I’m the only one physically pleasing my
Man.
My hubby and I both watch Porn together and sometimes separately. Doesnt bother either of us.
I will say if we didnt have a great sex life it may bother me
I watch porn when my wife goes into her depressive states and doesn’t want to be intimate. I don’t watch it every day, maybe once or twice to get that relief. ( Her depressive states last like 3 weeks ). Just talk to him about it, because none of us are going to know what’s going through his mind. My wife always said she’d rather me jerk off than go out to cheat. Which I wouldn’t do anyways, I love her.
Unless he’s withholding sex to jerk off to porn there isn’t a big deal. Men don’t operate the same way as us and thats what causes a lot of hurt with their woman. She feels since she doesn’t need to then him needing it means he doesn’t find her attractive enough but that isn’t true. The lying and sneaking around to do it is the problem. So I would just talk to him about it if it bothers you
I stopped reading after the opening line. 
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I didn’t care until my husband became addicted and it was affecting our marriage
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If I was home and walked in on my husband watching porn I’d be pissed. Only Bc I’m home and we could do it together, WTH. Lol I’m deployed atm and I’m fine with him watching it when I’m gone but if I’m home, it’s a NO.
It depends on your boundaries. If he watches random porn once in awhile when i dont want to idc but i find following or talking to people on tiktok or livecams Or onlyfans to be too much for me. I mean i think certain celebrities are attractive and read romance novels but those arent a personal relationship so he doesnt mind it and he knows i feel the same way. I do find it cute that he tries to wank one off in the bathroom and if i walk in on him he feels bad lol But he doesnt really feel the need to as we have sex roughly 15-20x a week so he doesnt usually feel the urge to and neither do i personally. Every couple is different.
Some women dont mind at all or watch with their partner even and thats perfectly fine too but personally id rather not because my ex was full on addicted like spending money he didnt have on sites and cams and hiding pictures and then taking pictures from girls i knew profiles as well. Then it turned to full on cheating and being into fetishes that glorified assault and things that had happened to me and were traumatic so its a bit touchy for me but luckily my fiance is very open and understanding and not addicted to it the way he was.
I don’t mind my man looking at other women I look at women with him. As for the porn I don’t mind him watching it either.
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We watch porn together so definitely doesn’t bother me 
I have no issue with it, but I’m not sure my husband does 
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My husband and I watch together and separately, HOWEVER we discussed this as a boundary in the very beginning and communicated that if the other partner EVER decides they are no longer comfortable with it that we would sit down and discuss alternatives. It’s all about open communication. I don’t have nearly the sex drive he does but it’s always great when we are together 
Everyone’s level of respect is different so whatever you are comfortable or not comfortable with should even considered
Have you talked to him about why he’s Doing it? Maybe it’s filling a void of some sort for him
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Lack of respect and love…
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My husband use to watch it, but he was much younger and doesn’t find it appealing anymore. Thankfully so because I wouldn’t be okay with him watching it. Most of it is either fake or degrading a woman anyways.
It’s sad how many people in our society think porn is perfectly fine and should be acceptable. Especially sad to think when I know men and women who have become addicted to it. Which studies do prove that it has a negative impact on the brain. It is not healthy, it is not normal and I hope you realize the women encouraging you to allow it, are giving you bad advice.
I think it is wrong and hurtful
Pick and choose your battles
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Everyone is different about that subject. I dont mind my husband watching porn. It doesn’t bother me because to me I dont see it as a betrayal. Some women do. They feel like they are getting cheated on basically. Really, if it bothers you, let him know how you feel and maybe he will respect your wishes or at least try his best to.
Nope. Not healthy for either of you
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I thing yes. Who cares?
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I feel that’s it’s degrading and lowers one’s self esteem as this hits a little too close to home for me.
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It’s obnoxious •
Love making is between 2 TWO people in compliance With Each Other •
Porn is Not Love Making
Plus children/ young girls/some women R being prepared for mistreatment•
Wake up … it’s Horrible/it’s Mean/it’s Disrespectful for All females & sometimes young males‼️
It’s EVIL
I accidentally figured out my first serious boyfriend watched porn (we were in our late teens) I think at first it hurt my feelings I was insecure didn’t understand why he wanted to even watch it. After a long discussion and eventually it bothered me less over time. Years later it doesn’t bother me at all anymore think most guys watch porn (and I learned from friends that some girls like to watch porn too) and I’d rather them watch porn and take care of themselves. Everyone feels different about it and takes it differently.
Start watching porn with super hot guys .
Luckily we both think it’s not okay. So neither of us would watch it unless we were watching together
Well I know the hubby watches it but we also work opposite shifts so I am not home with him till the weekends he work first and I work second I would rather have him watch that then cheat since we don’t see each other all the time but that my situation
I see nothing wrong with it as long as he isn’t watching it instead of being with you
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It’s ok to look but don’t touch.
What is ok for one isn’t ok for another, you need to figure out your own feelings and have a conversation or two with your husband, the only person you need to work this out with and be validated by is your life partner!
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It’s porn… It’s not like he’s cheating. I think it’s important that you give your man a little freedom and space if that’s what he wants it’s perfectly normal and healthy to self satisfy. Don’t forget you get the same freedom in return.
It has been known for a long time that men are visual and females are emotioal creatures. As long as he keeps it at home you shouldn’t worry too much
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That’s a big nope for me. To me it’s disrespectful and unhealthy for both parties.
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There us nothing wrong with is as long as he is not prioritizing it. I see no problem with either party watching it. I watch it, my fiancé watched it, we have watched it together. Allot of it has to do with how secure you are with yourself and your relationship.
Not married but if I was he better be sharing the videos with me
I watch them with my husband and encourage him to watch them if he wants… I just tell him, if it becomes an addiction and he’s doing it all the time, then its a problem and we need to talk about it.
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Nope. Not healthy. I told my husband I’d leave if he ever did it again. Hasn’t done it in 6 years 
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I believe this is unhealthy and disrespectful for both parties. My husband and I both agreed before marriage that it isn’t for us, never will be.
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It’s 100 percent ok that you are not ok with it.
And your spouse should have enough respect to not.
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Normal for men…even some women. I watch them with my husband. As long as just watching porn…hekos curb from whole cheating thing. I like hentai better than actual porn though…lol
It’s to each their own. My husband watches it and we watch it together sometimes. He is up front and tells me he watches it if I ask. But to him it’s the act of it and not how hot the person is or what not. Idk to me it’s normal for people to watch it this day and age. But that’s just my opinion and everyone’s is different. You make your own choices and opinions about things
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I’m not married but I really don’t give a damn what he does.
It’s fine with me because I watch it too
Your call. Everyone has different opinions and thought and feelings. Communicate with him. Know your boundaries.
It’s ok to look. Just as long as you eat at home 
. We are all sexual creatures and to shame your partner for looking seems harsh to me. If it bugs you please talk to them about it though. I am human I have my days where my own body bugs me so him watching porn may bug me on that day. I say something and talk about why I’m being triggered. Communication is key in any situation.
Nope. Not cool with it at all. If my husband was like that I’d leave.
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We watch it together but he doesn’t watch it by himself
You are married not buried… looking at things you like is very acceptable and natural, what is not acceptable is touching. Talk about it with him. watch them with him. Just don’t take it away it a thing he likes.
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To you “ women “ trying to normalize the thought that it’s ok for ur husband to be addicted to porn .Please just stop .
I don’t see a problem with it I’ll even pick one out for my man to watch lol. Only way I would find a problem with it, is if he was watching it and pleasuring himself and never do anything with me. If he watches it and gets turned on and wants to pound me, I find that hot! But to each their own.
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Tbh, if I were married, I’d watch with him. As long as he doesn’t go out and cheat.
To each their own.
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Some people/couples watch it together, and others don’t like it for their own personal reasons.
I don’t like it, it’s for single to me or couples who enjoy it together.
The only woman my man should look at is me… or look at our own home videos. 
The only things we’d watch together are movies or shows with nudity/sex. What he does in his own “free time” when I’m not around. I can’t control.
He knows how I feel it, he’s been busted before… but their excuses(exes included) are always …I’m a man/adult, I have urges, can’t help it, or I can do what I want.
So it’s whatever. Lol
It’s okay for men to watch porn or anyone to watch porn. What’s not okay is him always on tge sites. Tell him hoe you feel. If he doesn’t try to make your feelings unhurt then he is a loser and not much of a husband.
I would rather that than him out looking for it himself out on the streets. Pick your battles the only time I would ever see a issue with it is if he’s watching it so much he doesn’t want anything from me.
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All guys do it. Only insecure jealous women seem to care… lol. I feel bad for those dudes whose girl thinks its cheating. Theyd prob cut their right hand off if they caught them lol.
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Uhm ask him to watch it with you. Man. Because porn don’t hurt anything. But lying and doing it behind each other’s back is hurtful.
Step out of your comfort zone and be like hey we can watch it together.
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Be happy it’s porn & not other women
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just cause he’s reading the menu, don’t mean he’s going to order up a meal
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If you’re young move on if you’re post menopause thankful and let him whack away till his hearts content !lol!
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It’s your marriage, your rules. Whatever you’re comfortable with… My husband and I decided it wasn’t for us. On the same note, we also agreed that thirst trapping on Facebook wasn’t ok either… That if your male/female friend is posting things you deemed inappropriate for your relationship that they shouldn’t be on there. When I enforced the rules we both agreed on I was called ‘immature’ and asked why I was stalking these girls looking for a problem… I still don’t understand why. All I can say is know your worth, and it’s not worth your peace if he’s not willing to compromise…
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Ladies, your men viewed porn long before you came into their lives. If they say they don’t now because you think it’s wrong, they’re just clearing their browser history. Why don’t y’all watch it together? It’s definitely not cheating.
Me and my hubby watch it together 
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Everyone is different and its okay to have that boundary. With me, i dont care cuz i watch more than he does. But some people arent about it and that is 100% fine as well! Communicate your discomfort.
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Doesn’t bother me
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Personally I wouldn’t worry unless he is acting on it. But each to their own if you are uncomfortable with it maybe talk to him about it. Communication is key in any relationship and if your uncomfortable he should know this.
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Random pr0n is ok in my books. It’s all fantasy. The girls in those videos all live in California and only date rock stars anyways. Getting pics or vids from a “real” person or someone you could converse with would be where I draw the line
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He will look wether you like it or not. It is just that way.
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Are you sexually active? I’d find it weird personally…I mean I’ve not experienced that…im right there so why watch it when we could be doing it?
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No, it’s not ok. If I’m not enough or my pictures then Houston we have a problem.
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My husband isn’t really interested… he’ll watch it rarely with me. Question: has he ever cheated?? If that isn’t a problem, then either watch with him or ask him nicely not to. It is his decision.
Marriage is about wanting to spend your life with someone not about controlling them. Either join him or let him do it in peace he isn’t cheating. Just think of it as a movie with a long sex scene 
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Should they? No. Will they ? Yea.
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Its 2022. Alot of marriages are open, have gfs, sleep with other couples, have dominant/sub relationships, have boyfriend’s, have more than one wife, etc. He’s not into animal porn, torture porn, or kiddie porn. While it may make you feel uncomfortable, sounds like he’s yours and only yours. Porn takes up about a fourth of our active internet streaming. So about 25 percent of different people at all times of day are watching it. That percentage might be different today but that is what it was the last time I checked. Its very normalized. But what is ok with society, may not be okay with you. Let him know how you feel and analyze your own feelings and boundaries. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, and don’t be surprised if he looks elsewhere in your relationship because of it, then leave. You deserve nothing less than what you’re comfortable with. Me personally I’d be more than okay with him watching porn. As long as it didn’t become an addiction or get in the way of our sexual life. Hey it might even add some spice to your sexual life. How do you know he’s not looking for pointers for you?
I don’t care at all what he looks at as long as it’s nothing illegal.
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