Should my boyfriend remove the photos of his ex wife and kids from his house?

If its just pics of her sure but pics of him and kids no

He should take pictures down that down have the kids. Maybe work on replacing the pictures of his kids with new ones without the ex.

Ex wife yes… Kids no… Hang more photos of your little family now…

Ask if you can put rh pictures in the kids bedroom … I mean after all the pics are ment for the children.

Pic of them as a family I would put in his children’s bedroom for the kids

I wld have addressed this issue b4 i moved me and my kids into his home, of it were me.

Maybe of the ex wife not the kids if u can’t accept the pictures of the kids than u have problems that’s his kids

Kids no ex wife hell yeah I’d take them
Down myself :joy:

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Definitely not his kids lol but ex Forsure

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Ex wife yes ! His kids NO!! THEY ARE PART OF HIM.

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Let the children keep her pictures ect in their room💟

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It’s his kids and their mother :woman_shrugging:

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Not of his kids… just ex wife

Not the kids but her definitely

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Kids ok the ex not !!

Put the pics in his kids rooms

Add pictures of you him and your kids. ONE BIG blended family !!!

No. Those kids live there too! That’s their family too!

Fuck off. How about you get on with the ex wife and have family BBQs every now and then take some new photos of new happy memories together as a blended family. It ain’t about you

Sounds like he isn’t over her.

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Oooooof. That’s hard. I feel like it’s disrespectful to the kids to take down, but disrespectful to you to keep them up

That entire question sounds so insecure to me. That is still his kids mom & they deserve to have her pictures up in their house. You are just a girlfriend, I don’t feel like you really have a claim over the house or the contents. You’re just staying there-you’re not even married to him. So no, he shouldn’t have to remove the photos of his kids mom.

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No its his kids and there family still.

Me and my husband both have children with our x, the pics of me and my x I gave to my daughter and the ones of him and his he gave to his kids and it was up to them if they wanted to put them up in there room, but the only pictures on our wall out in the open are of me and him and all the kids

No. It’s unfair of YOU to ask him to remove pictures of his life with his ex wife and kids.
1, you’ve got to be hella jealous to make him remove it.
2, why be insecure about photos of HIS FAMILY. :face_with_raised_eyebrow:

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His ex wife, sure. But it’s not okay to want pictures of HIS kids to be removed out of his home.

Start printing pics of ur kids and you and hang them up. :woman_shrugging:

First of all those are his kids … he should take the ones of his wife and him down but not his kids

Your being kinda of a b. His kids should be able to see pics of there Mama if they come visit.

Put pictures up of you and your ex

U come to me, I’ll do for you …

His house. So no he shouldn’t take them down.

I can already tell your relationship won’t work out.

Colour her face in​:joy::tipping_hand_woman:t2: she’s the issue not his kids

Well if it’s just the kids leave them.

When my ex husband and I divorced we put the family albums and such up and saved them for our kids. Unless they wanted some for their room.

Take them down yourself just don’t throw them away. Not his kids just his ex.

Are you serious? No matter what happens, they’re still his family and kids memories. If she’s in them with the kids, they should stay up.

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So you all would be okay with having sex with your man with him and his ex wife up in the mantel? Ffs not me

You can always create a mixture of old and new pictures. That’s still their mom, and that is still a part of their life. There’s plenty of ways to incorporate old family pictures with new ones. The kids may find comfort in those.

I think if it’s a tasteful pic of his kids that his wife is in. He can keep those. But any of his ex alone. Absolutely remove!

Maybe keep once nice pic for his kids and then just add to the collection with nice pics of all of you

If they are pictures of the momma and kids… Put them in the kids room.

Is he over his ex? Red flag

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Take all her Stuff down and out.

tut out the X wife leave the kids…

Cut her head out of the pics and replace it with yours. :woman_shrugging:

#wakeup it’s his family

Take the old pics out and put new pics in the frames :woman_shrugging:

Start your own decor, blank walls

Um no that’s still his family.

Add your own pictures to the mix

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Get current photos of the kids…

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You should stop being selfish! They are his kids and will always be apart of his life.You should know better having kids also. You can take the photos away but the memory your partner has will always be just that so no matter what you do he will never forget her or his kids. Jeleousy is the ugliest trait a female can possibly have.

Depends on their family dynamics. A divorce doesn’t mean they still aren’t a family. They’ll always be connected from the children involved.

I say this with the assumption of her with the kids in the photos and not ones with just her.

Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Should my boyfriend remove the photos of his ex wife and kids from his house?

Fold her face out of the pictures and just leave his children showing. Toss the other things out little by little! It’s your place now own it like you bought it✌️

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If they are couple pictures of just him and her yes. If they are family pictures than no.

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I’d take them down myself :grin:

Take some new pictures. Make some new memories. Then replace them

I’d keep them there for the kids sake and update with your own as well! Blended families…

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Give him time he will when he’s ready my boyfriend has his wife’s pics up an I don’t mind

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I would have never moved in that just me.

I mean the pics of him and the ex could be taken down but his kids photos should be left up! They are his kids and part of him!

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Yes because other wise the kids will freak out, he probably wants to cut her out of the photos so it’s harder for him than you, give the kids time and move a photo to kitchen and if they ask just say you were cleaning it :+1:

Put them in a cupboard, the children may want them when they’re older.

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If it’s of him and his children then let them be my daughter has photos of me her and her father in her bedroom and I’m happy in annother relationship and her father to me i here him however theses photos for her are important let it be and in time make it your home too x

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Pictures of the ex yes, pictures of the kids no

The ex has no reason to still be on the wall, the kids pictures should absolutely stay but the exes should be put away!

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It’s hard, I mean he has his kids in those photos, if it was just photos of him and his wife yeah okay I get it, but because it’s the whole family no I don’t think it is disrespectful to you, to take them down may be disrespectful to his children. They were once a family.

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Each to their own but they wouldn’t be on my walls. Take them down and replace them with pics of just his kids and him

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Keep the pictures of the kids get rid of everything else

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are you beyond yourself… he can’t have pics of his own kids?! the ex i understand that can be put away.

Speak with him first
Ask if you can remove any pics of him and her or just her
If children are in pics with her then they should stay
Don’t stress
Keep calm

He should maybe put them photos in the kids rooms so the kids still have them. But defiantly out of the main house.

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If there’s a family photo of all of them together cut your head out of a photo and stick it over hers :joy:

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If I were the kids and some woman moved into MY HOUSE that I grew up in and took down pictures of MY MOTHER I’d throw a fit

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If its just him and the kids no they should stay but if they have the ex in it then take them and edit her out of them and hang them back up

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Keep the ones wit the kids him an her an kids maybe put in the kids bedroom

It’s bothering you because you’re insecure. You moved into his house with your kids, I’m sure just like yourself, he has issues about you and your kids too, If you two move to a new house you can set ground rules there, but your just dating and living in his house so you’ll have to figure out a way to communicate your feelings to him about photos!

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If it’s just the kids, fine but negative on photos with the ex

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Replace them with pics of either just his kids or him and his kids then a few of you all together or just you,him and your kids? Put the others in a nice box for him? That way there is no disrespect to his feelings as like it or not they are still happy memories for him, he can look at them or show his kids in the future.

Let the kids keep the photos because they’re happy memories of their family. But thats your house now. Your partner. Your step-kids. Make the house your own! How can you do that with another woman on the walls? Again, kids should be allowed to keep them in their room or whatever but not in the communal parts of the house. It’s so disrespectful of you and your position in this family. I definitely wouldn’t like it. My partner removed all pictures of his ex as soon as I started going over to his house (not living there) x

It’s still HIS family. If you have pictures of you and your family why can’t he to?
I wouldn’t feel threatened by that. Maybe his kids find comfort in pictures of their mum in the house?
Don’t be so ridiculous

Take them down 100%. His ex and their family unit as it was is over. Any pictures with his ex in should without question be removed.

They are memories why do they need to go you can’t remove a past and it’s the kids mum

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I’m sorry but if they his children why take them down put urs up to

Why should he take down photos of his kids? If they are family photos, yes the ex will be in them. It’s HIS house, since you are not married. Chances are, since they were married, her name is on the title and the house is legally half HERS. Grow up & stay in your own lane.

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Tell him to put it in a place where just he can see it

Not one of you have considered the children. Those photos are doing no harm at all. Get over it

This makes my eyes roll, the woman is not being demanding and shes not being insecure what so ever. If there are photos up of just him and his wife then yeh take those fuckers down as its disrespectful but if there of his wife and kids then maybe take them down and put them into a room where the kids may go when visiting. It’s not that hard to do and it’s called have some fucking respect for the next woman hes with. All of you disagreeing with her how would you feel to be in her shoes hey would you like to constantly look at photos of your partner with his ex no you fucking wouldn’t so dont rip into the lady. Evil fucking bitches!

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Do you have pics of you and your kids? It’s his past but it’s still part of his and his kids life. You are part of a mixed family now, accept the old and look forward to new memories made together, new pics with both families. X

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I’m not sure what the problem is really because she is the mother they have of his children & she will always be part of the family because of that if my husband got married before me he had pictures of his ex & him & there children I would keep them on the wall as they are precious pictures & precious memories

Old fashion photoshop time! I would paste my picture to the ex wife’s…first to see if he’d even notice.

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Be ready to move when she comes back.

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You should stop being insecure and just let the pics of their mom stay up

Just do exactly that take them down it’s only right and then maybe put up some new pictures of everybody who’s there now

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U live there too take them down if his kids don’t live there make new memories y

You live there also, do what you want

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No need for bitchy comments she asked for advise jeez I’d take pics down and make new memories

Hahahahaha.best answer ever janis