Should my husband help with weaning our toddler?

This has to be a joke, right?..

They will not bite if take away say no bite consistancy

Get him out of your bed

Throw the whole husband out.

Why would you ask this on facebook

Put the child in his own bed where he belongs. Problem solved.

Never had a kid so I’m no help.

Wow. A lot of judgmental know it alls in the comments. Gross.

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Wifes submit to your husband as you would to the lord for submission is ultimate respect . Yep right out of the big book (bible )

Sorry but hubby has a point.

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Take that child off breastfeeding!! It’s a simple fix!!

You have a very selfish, uncaring husband! I couldn’t live with someone like that!!!

Well from a Dad’s & husband’s side. Your husband is a jerk. That child is both of yours and he as much as you are responsible for the care and training of the baby no matter what time of the day it is. When we had babies at home my wife worked hard during the day as well I. But I let her sleep at night. I got up and took care of them bottles and diaper changes. No matter what type of work your husband does he is not being a husband he is being more childish than your babies. Tell that husband of yours its going to change as of today.
And get those children out of your bedroom make them their own room. Make up bottles for the night. Make sure your so called husband and dad of his children too knows where they are and go to bed. The bedroom should be the mom and dad room and the children’s room is the children’s room.

Well you were likely a couple before your little angel came along, and the best gift parents can EVER give their children is to love and support each other and although the days are long the years are short and that little bundle (if you do a good job) will soon leave your nest to begin their own lives and you will be left with your husband…shift your focus from your child to the family; that started with the two of you.

If you insist on doing it “your way” then you just might need to sleep in the livingroom. He may o ly work 8 hours outside the home but I’ve been a stay at home mom before pfst it’s hard but you CAN take a nap if need be when the kids do, or sleep in aittle longer or…or…the person dad or mom working a job have little control over how they spend their time usually.

Teamwork. Good luck.

For 0ne put child in their own room. When they cry it doesn’t always call for attention. Self soothing. Independent teaching. That’s why we have a bunch of lazy dependent kids still living at home. Still on parents health care plans at 22.stop coddling your kid.

I can’t believe the dumb@$$ advice from people who obviously never raised children. Our kids had their own rooms, but I did breastfeed at night in our bed when they were small. Sometimes they slept part of the night in bed. SOOOOO what. The husband is stupid for thinking only about himself, mother’s NEVER get to sleep anytime a child is up.

this is a joke right. Why is your toddler in bed with the 2 of you to begin with. He should be in his own bed. How old is the toddler and why did you wait until he has teeth to begin weaning. I won’t say anymore, but hope this is a joke. Sounds like a spoiled child to me Good luck lady

You made your biggest mistake when you decided to let the child sleep with you. A toddler should be in their own bed, in a room away from you and Dad. The baby needs to learn to self soothe itself back to sleep in their own bed. It will take a few nights of crying but get the baby out of your bed!

I’m sorry but your husband sounds like a jerk. You work more hours than your husband, you just aren’t getting paid for it. If he did not want to be responsible in caring for and raising his children, then he shouldn’t have had children.

What is the name of this inconsiderate moron, tell him welcome to the world’s reality. Tell him to breastfeed or it is the purpose of man to provide the needs of the entire household until he breath his last. Both of you brought that child together, cherish it. Send him to me I will fix him for you. May God bless you all

#1 toddler shouldn’t be sleeping with parents routinely. Using TV to entertain him when he wakes up in middle of the night is just sad. It was disrespectful to your husband. This is my opinion only. Not my child. He definitely should be in his own bed.

Good Lord. My mother had four children in four years. She was not only dealing with a breast-feeding infant but a two, three and four year old at the same time. My dad had to get up at 5:30 every morning to go to his job every day. He’d come back 12-14 hours later, dog tired, and all of us kids knew better than to disturb his sleep. How this woman can whine and cry about doing her part to provide for her family is beyond me. My other question is, how old is your, “toddler,” and why is it still sleeping in your bed and breastfeeding? I think the husband in this situation has a tough row to hoe unless his wife gets a grip and realizes that raising a family is hard work and it takes the two of them to get it done.

Oh stop bashing the man my gosh, he works and what’s the problem with the mom getting a bed for the child and putting him into bed. Sounds like laziness on her part. It’s always bash men for frig sake.

My husband did something similar to me but not about breast feeding. I have two a 2 year old and a 4 year old. And for a month straight a while back the oldest was sick and he would get mad at me for wanting him to wake up with me and help me with the two kids at 2am (the baby always woke up when the 4 year old was puking) but I had a serious talk with him and was like listen! I know you work but so do I. I take care of 2 children from the time my eyes open until they close. I need help and you’re their father. I know it sucks but until we figure it out I need help and he understood after explaining what I do all day and how I don’t get naps either.

Your child should be sleeping in his own bed. Preferably in his own room. Being that close to you will naturally induce him to want to nurse , for comfort if nothing else. You have several issues to address …

Sorry that’s rude turning on the tv while you know your guy has to get up for work soon… yep dads have responsibilities sure to his family, how about not be disrespectful to his sleep schedule.

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Why the hell is the kid sleeping with you? Get them their own bed first of all. If you don’t want to get bit, stop! Who is the parent?

The problem is this toddler shouldn’t be sleeping in same bed. give him his own room and shut the door after a couple of nights of no attention when he wakes up he’ll start sleeping. The problem is the way your raising the child.

He has to get up and go to work so yeah its kinda fucked u want to turn the tv on in the middle of the night so you dont have to handle your child…put your kid in his own bed and when the weekend gets here starting Friday night start the process of getting him in his own bed

…and that’s why I never breastfed my four babies and hey turned out fine!

Toddler why isnt he already off breast and on bottle after 1year old or before

So the first issue is your toddler being in your bed. MUST get him or her their own bed asap

yeah NO! The toddler should not be sleeping there to begin with…

Breastfeeding toddler? Why breastfeed a toddler?

It takes two people to become parents doesn’t it? …

Who’s in charge. The parents OR the child. ???

Stop the breastfeeding, pump the milk and ween the child. GET THE BABY IN ITS OWN BED!

Stop co sleeping and a toddler doesn’t need breastfeeding :slightly_frowning_face:

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Baby should be in own bed in his own room!!!

Your husband is an ass! No sorry!

Just put the kid in his own bed in his own room and solve the problem!

Let him stay home for a week you get a job,see what happens,jeje

Just stop give a sippy cup he will live

This is personal why don’t
You keep it that way? We don’t care.

Look at all the LAZY women. Here LOL. He should do his job and do the exact same thing that I’m doing at night while not having a job! You just can’t fix stupid

Narcissist/controlling husband???

I think your being unfair.

He’s right
Be respectful

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A stay at home mom is like 2.5 full time jobs he can kiss his ass. You need to tell him that while he works you also work and take care of the home to make sure he has a nice clean bed to sleep in and food for his ungrateful fucking stomach. He can sleep on the fucking couch if he wants a full nights sleep fuck him.

He needs his own bed :sleeping_bed:

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Exactly what I think too.

Ow, my eyes! PARAGRAPHS.

if he dont help he IS A USELESS Piece of shit for a husband

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Carol Bumpus very well said.

What do you want him to do. Let’s stop with the liberal horseshit

Children need to be in their own bed in their own room. I’m not sure how old this baby is. I gave my babies a bottle with cereal in it before bedtime. A full belly and they slept all night. I would not allow TV during the night either. Daddy does need his sleep, that’s only fair.

Yeah, cut your husband a break. Sleep in the livingroom.

A TODDLER should be in his or her own bed, and breastfeeding should not continue until the biting stage. If a child can bite, he can chew food! Your husband needs his rest if he is working to support his family.

Wow i know you asked for input but judgemental people much