Should we allow our kids to play with kids of a different faith?

Get off your high horse and head out of the clouds. The parent(s) are pagan. So what? Think harry potter is going to come running out the house screaming ‘expecto patronum’ at you? I’m Christian. Never has it affected my ability to be human, or sane. Smdh

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I’m a christian. And I will always be a christian. Right now yes my children do go with us to church. But never would I love my children any different if one day the told me they have other beliefs. I don’t thinking not letting ur kids play with the neighborhood kids cause they are not christian is right. Like why. So many turned their back to Jesus but he never judged those who did so. When my children have friends over and my husband and I are reading or praying or my children are praying we will do so and if the other children don’t then so be it. They are allowed to have other beliefs. Open your bible to a number of verses one that comes to mind is Luke 6:35-36 John 15:12-13. John 3:18. One of my favorites. You should live your life with the same understanding and willing to love another person. No matter what they believe in. Live your life as Jesus did and stop treating those who don’t have the same beliefs as ours. Love everyone. And let kids be kids trust me they will have friends at some point in their life who are not believers. Open your doors and heart the same way Jesus open the doors to everyone.

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Pretty sure the Bible says “love thy neighbor”.

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Freaking bible bumpers🤦🏽‍♀️

Kids should know & learn that the world is diverse. Sounds like OP needs a lesson in it.

It is important for kids to get outside of bubbles to learn what is out in the world. Some of my best, lifetime friends are Jewish and I’ve had close relationships with Muslims. I’m a Christian but I was taught in my Christianity to love everyone. So that’s how I’ve lived and taught my kids to live.

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Best to live in a cult with the same religion if you don’t want your children exposed to the diversity of the world

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Wow Jesus associated with everyone. I’m a Christian and I let my children play with all types of kids. Thats shallow , judgemental and religious. God hates religion. He wants relationship not religion. You’re children could be a positive influence on them. If you force religion on your kids they will run from it later in life. I did for yrs… thank God I’m not running anymore but this is just… Pathetic… signed, a God fearing, loving, worshipping, praying mama.

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I hope those kids parents don’t allow your kids over. Nobody has to deal with know-it-all, “my god is better” christians or their crotch goblins. Seeing as they’re pagan they’re not judgmental like you are and would encourage it.

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Your beliefs, faith and the way your children have been raised can be swayed by people who don’t share your religion? Seems your faith is weak and you should look inward.

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What would your creator do? Omg

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I’m friends with all types of religion… And I’m a strong christian

You can only shelter your children for so long. If you taught them good faith and they are believers then trust that they will hold onto those beliefs and honor them. Let the kids be kids and play.

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Lmao…religion. it’s not something that kids discuss while they are playing and if they do its not an offensive or imposing manner that adults do.
Kids are kids.
Seriously when was the last time you saw kids having a serious heartfelt discussion about politics, religion, race, money, etc!!!

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if anything maybe they should be worried about you since your are a christian and they are know to burn pagans , just saying, no seriously I dont think you should worry as kids dont really speak about their faith to anyone or try to convert anyone only adults do that

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Bless your heart :heart: I’ll pray for you and your kids, God knows y’all need it.

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They’re going to be exposed to many different religions as they get older. Can’t keep them in a box forever.

I think this is more of a control issue on the parents side

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Why do Y’all Christians teach your kids to fear the witches instead of the ones that burned them?

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As a pagan, we are more likely to be hurt by you Christians than us hurting you. Our most basic rule is to harm none. And those kids probably wouldn’t ever consider bringing up any gods they may or may not worship. How about you do a little research on the pagan belief? There are pagans who believe in multiple gods, pagans who only follow the earth and her energies and believe it or not Christian pagans. What was it Christ said? Love thy neighbor as thyself? And what rule is in the Bible? Judge not or ye shall be judged thrice fold of the original sin? In your prejudice and ignorance you are only harming yourself and your kids. Shame on you.

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They’re kids, they’re probably not even talking about that and if they are? Why does it have to be a huge deal?

Not going to try to be rude but at the same time this enrages me. I have 2 daughters and I decided that religion is important but it is also important for my daughters to chose what religion they want. I will not baptize my children. They will chose that on their own when they are much older and truly understand. Not just do it because “mom says so”. I was not given a choice and was baptized before I was a month old. I was forced to go to church Sundays, Thursday’s etc. It ruined it for me and I don’t want that for my daughters. I will support them with any religion they chose and have no problem answering questions about church etc to my girls. Anyways…… We lived in a Mormon community once. My daughters had friends at school. They stated best friends until their parents found out my children and I were not Mormon. They directed their children to completely ignore my daughters and they could no longer be friends. It hurt my little girls so bad. Tears and breakdown’s. All because of what? I don’t go to the same church? I was baptized catholic but never have I pushed what I was taught to a child nor has it ever came up in conversation with a child…… let children be children. Children should be able to experience different religions, traditions, races etc. Parents teach hate. Children do not come with a ounce of hate for another race, religion so on and so forth. It is taught to hate. And honestly not allowing your children to be around other children that aren’t in the same religion as you shows your child to hate. It is wrong on so many levels. If your doing it right with your values with your children you should not have any worry at all. Just my 2 cents. :woman_shrugging:t2:

So what about school kids? How do you handle that?

I grew up in that kinda house, not allowed to talk/play with anyone not in the cult. It was TERRIBLE and I was so resentful of the rules and restrictions. Contact for kids with their peers is critical and if you want them to grow up well adjusted you have to allow them some freedoms no matter what your beliefs. Let kids be kids

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This can’t be real​:rofl::see_no_evil:

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I’m a Christian and I wouldn’t mind letting my kids play with there kids . In all honesty kids don’t really get into religious politics there to busy playing :woman_facepalming:t3:

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I’m pretty sure kids rather play than speak on religion :see_no_evil:

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As a Christian you should know the answer to your own question… faith of a mustard seed sweetie!

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Stop forcing religion on your children let them choose their own path

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Lol the fact you are afraid that your kids will “be hurt” by interaction with non- christian people speaks to your true character. May all the gods have mercy on your poor children having to live in a wet bag with only you for guidance. Now as to your problem just tell your children the truth they aren’t allowed to interact with anyone that isn’t apart of your cult. Cuz that’s some good ole cult thinking you have going on there. I hope your kids find an escape and get to experience the beauty of the world once they are adults.

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To much sheltering

Can hide the world from them forever

Honestly. Not allowing them to see other people’s religions will likely cause them to look harder once they’re not under ur eyes. I know I sure did

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What’s best for your children is for them to be educated on all religions and allow them to be able to choose their own beliefs

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Ugh, is this a REAL question…

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What’s best for your kids is to have them be well educated about everything… I’m not a Christian. Their dad is. We don’t push either one on them. We let them believe what they want. My mom when I was teen made it to where I couldn’t be friends with someone because her and her family were pagan. I rebelled so bad against her because of that. You can still teach them your values and let them play with other children despite the differences.

I am so sad for your kids. You’re teaching them to discriminate…

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Wow… just wow. Like Idek what to say about this :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: ignorance at its finest. :woman_facepalming:

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:crazy_face::roll_eyes:

You act as if Christians don’t practice a form of witch craft. Call it what you want… using oils and incense, praying over “the body of Christ”… drinking wine as “his blood”…. It’s all witch craft type stuff… aka rituals! Holy water?! I mean come on! It’s all a form of craft.
Also… not all pagans practice witchcraft. Some are just spiritual. I can’t even believe this is even an issue regardless of how they practice. So disgusting!

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God says not too judge and love thy neighbor. What you are doing is preventing your child from being around other people because they have a different belief than you? Not very Christ like

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Your child needs to learn about the world we live in about different peoole different religions and to accept diff types of religions/people that live around us your child was born that way and then they start school they will mix with a whole range of people from around the world teach your child to be kind…

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As a Christian, you are hurting other Christians who love others no matter what!
How shameful! If the world was a blank white piece of paper, would that be appealing? No. The only answer is no!

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You sound like a cult….

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I think your thinking way to in to it kids are kids let the kids play outside your kids are going to school with all different kids cultures if anything they will learn and hear about different Gods in school then at the neighbors you truly needs to let your kids play with those kids your pretty much telling them no you can’t be friends with or play with them because of there culture but your kids go to school and play with different kids of different cultures

I follow no religion at all. My child goes to family day which is ran by a Punjabi family who are Sikhs. You would not believe how far she has come since starting there, not only that she is learning about other people’s beliefs & learning to speak another language which us as parents would never be able to do as we speak english only. Be open minded allow your children to explore the world and not be held back by a religion :sparkles:

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just wow. they will live in the real world so should you

Of course! Just like asking should they play with a different color?

Shouldn’t matter whatever religion or anything else is with another child is involved…

Kids love everyone and love friends regardless whatever their religion, color, etc. Is…

All they see is a Friend and that’s it…

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“Love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).

Please don’t teach your children to discriminate and be ignorant. Besides - Aren’t we ALL supposed to His children, no matter where we come from?

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Jesus healed the sick and the blind, walked on water, and turned water in to wine. Do you not think he was a witch? Are prayers not the same as spells?

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Kids dnt usually push religious beliefs, but I would honestly either have an adult civilized conversation with the parents to see where they stand or just monitor their play time to see what goes on. Most rational people have their beliefs but dnt necessarily shove it down other people’s throats. Also u have to allow your kids to have an understanding of different religions and ways of life. Ultimately they are going to be their own person whether u like it or not

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The fact that your worried interacting with kids who are raised around another religion will get them hurt is saddening and that mentality that our religion will hurt you just by existing is why a lot have left Christianity and a lot of people don’t not feel comfortable around you at all.

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You might want to learn more about the family and not get to paranoid until you do! Just like every other parent responding to your question, you have every right to censor your children’s playmates for whatever reasons you choose! But, this world is really big and people seem to get all riled up over just about everything, so it might be wise to follow your own council and do what you feel best for you and your family! Good luck!

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Keeping them away from any outside influence and allowing them to form their own opinions is a sure fire way of them growing to most likely hate their religion. We instill morals in our children so that when we’re not around they have a guideline but you cannot keep them sheltered forever, and should not force your beliefs.

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Your their mama and it’s ur religion understood. But letting the children learn see how others live and different cultures/religions will actually help change the world. These kids need to learn and see. I am Muslim and raise my kids like wise. I have had pagan/jewish neighbors. My sister is straight Christian and the other is atheist. That’s their life. Use this as a educational point to remind your kids of their Lord. I don’t think kids will be discussing God tho. It’s time for kids to be kids

I understand u are Christian but there are different faiths out there and to avoid others because their faith is different isn’t very Christian. U just teach ur kids everyone is different and has different faiths that other religions are different in their own way. I was raised catholic but I dont follow that im pagan. pagans won’t shove their beliefs down anothers throat like some religions out there does because they think if its not their faith then its wrong. Im not bashing another religion thats just what i have delt with because i wasn’t that persons religion i was considered wrong and an evil person… Ppl think just because someone is pagan they are a bad person or evil and thats not the case. Pagans are some of the nicest people and they won’t try to influence another but will answer questions ppl might have about them… They are kids let them play just because a person has different beliefs doesn’t mean u can shelter ur kids from it. They are going to meet others with different beliefs. Eventho i am pagan we aren’t raising our kids pagan or under any religion. We are just guiding them to be good ppl and when they are older they can decide their own religious path… Just cuz we follow a religion im not gonna make my kids follow my beliefs. One day they may not decide to continue following ur religious path but might explore a different path one day when they are older. There is nothing wrong with that because everyone has their beliefs if ur kids have questions answer those questions without judgement or bashing another religion. That’s really all u can do because ur religion isn’t the only religion out there. There are other religions whether u agree with them or not. U don’t want to teach ur kids discrimination against other ppl just cuz their religion is different.

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How are you supposed to test your faith? If you have strong values and faith there should be no question…

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:100: would not let my kids play with yours. Wouldn’t want Christian values pushed on them. :rofl:

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You do realize that most of your mainstream Christian holidays were stolen from actual pagan rituals and celebrations? Christmas originated from Yule. Easter originated from Ostara. Quit being a Karen and let your kids play with the neighbors :joy::skull:

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In my experience the kids my children went to school with were Christian all ended up in jail robbery charges I believe but you go ahead keep your kids sheltered this is how they will break out lol

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:woman_facepalming:t2::unamused: You are what’s wrong with this world.

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What’s best is to teach your children Christian values. Teach them acceptance and love and how to be good humans no matter what religion they are. What will it hurt for your children to ask questions and understand others. We don’t discriminate In our home. And fyi during confirmation class we were taken by our Lutheran pastor to other churches for service to note and see the differences and ask questions and become full of knowledge. Last I knew I was still Christian, I didn’t turn out bad oh heavens I have a Wiccan friend and I have a Baptist friend and low and behold I have a friend who attends Latter Day Saints church. Guess we figured out what type we are gonna have to deal with.

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Teach your kids to love and respect every one no matter religion race color etc… different doesn’t mean bad.

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Woowww … where do you think most “y’all’s” holidays come from? But ok…
no one is going to sacrifice your child, :woman_facepalming: seems your scared your kids are going to be asking questions you don’t want them to know the answers to. Maybe teacher them about all types of religion and loving another and care with out judgment.

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You’re a disrespectful pos if you really allow your religion to get in the way of something like that.

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I’m sorry this makes me angry, I was raised christian and people like this are one of the many reasons I stopped believing in that god. If I remember correctly; “love thy neighbour” was for everyone and supposed to be non-discriminatory

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In all honesty. I respect everyone’s religion. I have nothing against beliefs. At some point in time you have to let your children choose their beliefs, just bc others don’t follow your path doesn’t make them bad people. The question should be “can you personally respect others beliefs without judging”?

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Man you are weird as fuck

The decal on our SUV :woman_shrugging:

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I hardly doubt witchcraft would be discussed with your child… More than likely you…

About the only time I remember
"Friends " in a conversation about god was if he existed and my friend said she didn’t believe…

We went to visit and her mom and mine were Praying so I didn’t understand why she said she didn’t believe…

Maybe she thought because of God is why her life was going through q hard time…

But i also didn’t push or say anything about the Prayers between our mom’s.

We are supposed to love and accept everyone and I do not believe in judging people, everyone will have that day when they die. Jesus died for everyone’s sins, not for a particular religion. I know we want to protect our children at all costs but if you teach them to love the lord, not religion they will be fine. Children do not understand religion and will most likely not be talking about it. As parents it’s our job to make sure our kids feel comfortable talking to us about anything so if questions arise they’ll always feel comfortable coming to us about anything!

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It’s a great opportunity to teach them that not everyone believes what they do or is they way they are and move on. I highly doubt their parents push it as hard as y’all do

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Allow your children to learn from each other.

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You can not honestly tell me you have read the Bible and still think God would say “choose your friends based of their religious beliefs”. You are exactly the person ppl are talking about when they talk shit about Christians being judgmental, and thinking they are better then the next! I think you need to read your Bible again and not pick and choose what you wanna take from it!

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Let them be kids. If you have set a firm foundation they will come to you with questions. Teach them. God put them there for a reason.

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This is not the best

We have religious freedom dude there will always be people with different religious ideas you can’t protect your kids from all of them and your taking away from potential relationships with these other kids who also have no control over their religion (at this time at least) I’m so thankful my mom taught us about everything and let us figure out what was right for ourselves.

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Idk, man. I feel it is good to expose kids to different belief systems and learn about them. But more importantly, why not just let the kids be kids?
Have you talked to these people about their belief system? I honestly think you are being presumptuous about what their faith is. Just because they have a pagan sticker on their car doesn’t always mean what you think it means. Talk to the family and get to know them before you pass any kind of judgment.

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Oh my fucking god are you kidding me? You’re the reason nobody likes Christian people bc you’re so damn judgy. Get over yourself.

You can not claim to be a Christian and not love everyone. It does not matter what their views are, you love everyone and remain judgement free.

You have a right to chose who your kids play with. How ever. Your teaching them diversity at a young age. We live in a new age where every one is supposed to be loved and accepted. I see this very wrong. But they are your children. Just remember they learn from you.

Reading this was just sad. How small minded can a person really get…

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When you were young and playing with other children did you guys really sit around talking about god and religion? :rofl:

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Imagine thinking this is something to be worried over. This is an opportunity to teach your kids about other faiths and how to be respectful of others. You can’t shield them from different religions, opinions, sexual orientations, for the rest of their lives. You CAN teach them how different the world is and how amazing it is that people from all religions, ethnicities, etc. can come together as one and be friends without having to agree on everything. AKA raising them to be tolerant and not ignorant. Idk why I’m explaining this to a Christian though, you’re literally suppose to love thy neighbor and instead you’re fearful of them because they prossibly have different religious views than you. :woozy_face:

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Teach your children that there’s more ways to live than JUST your way. Other people do things other ways, and that’s okay. Just like you don’t yuck someone’s yum, don’t act like someone’s beneath you because of their beliefs.

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Interesting that this is where your faith has led you…

Whats best is to have a variety of friends and faiths in my circle. It doesnt affect how i raise my child.
Anywho i also study asatru annnnnd have never found myself keeping my child from having friends because their parent has a decal on their car

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Teach your children tolerance & acceptance. Let them play with these children. If anything comes up explain it in a way that supports your beliefs as well as is respectful of their beliefs. I was brought up Lutheran/Catholic I had friends that were Buddhist, Jehovah witnesses, Jewish etc growing up. I witnessed rituals, saw statues & other religious paraphernalia. When I was curious my questions were answered simple & respectfully. The only issue we ever had was a baby sitter who tried to force her religion on me. She made me sit through some kind of ceremony every morning, gave me books, made me memorize stuff, banned anything with certain characters (like smurfs) & products (crest toothpaste) because somehow by me using them I was violating her religion. My mom took me to my pastor for counseling then quickly found another baby sitter. Bottom line don’t look for a problem before it comes up. If 1 does then deal with it or seek help from your religious leader. Chances are they just want to play.

Everyone has an opinion and has a right to their opinion…
But is this question a serious question??
I grew up in a Catholic school, mom was Christian dad was Baptist… Guess what!?! Lol I don’t claim a religion but I believe in GOD… I don’t attend a church regularly especially since the pandemic but still… I also have 5 kids and 1 I believe might be Atheist she’s 22, my 21 year old only goes to church to get her grandma to leave her alone and they attend The Church Of Christ (I believe they might be Christian not sure) my 16 year old wants to attend Church on a regular and that’s a Catholic Church… my son is 14 and chooses to not attend and my 3 year old well she’s too young to decide for herself and yes all 5 was raised by me… moral of the story is it don’t matter what religion you choose for your kids because one day they will lead with their own footsteps as you probably did… let those kiddos play with whomever as long as they’re not being harmed… I wish you the best! 

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So will your kids be homeschooled and never ever be on any sort of team or dance class or anything at all where they’ll interact with other kids who may have a different faith than you? This is just silly. I grew up Christian in a Baptist church. We had friends who had different beliefs and have never had an issue. We weren’t allowed to go to their church but aside from that there was no problem. Your kids are going to meet people with different views, beliefs and opinions. You can’t shelter them forever.

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Totally not my place to say this. But ‘what’s best for your kiddos’ is let them live their lives and pick what’s best for them when the time is right. You can’t cage them in the name of religion duh!

How old are they. It might be a good time to teach them to love and respect others even if they believe differently

If you’re never around nonbelievers how do you plan to help bring people to Christ? Of course you let your children play

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Hate, discrimination, and prejudice are taught to children by the PARENT’S bias opinion. Educate them, grow their heart and minds instead of making it as small as yours!

I grew up in a catholic church and private school, later on was re-baptized christian, only to find my peace within my life with Santisima. Let them grown and find their peace!

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Yeah my family been there done that and then I became a satanist out of rebellion and now I’m a pagan. My best friend’s mom didn’t allow her to play with me as kids because I liked Harry Potter and read fantasy books since “WiZarDrY iS a sIn”.

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Would Jesus socialise with people of other beliefs? Of course.

Your faith must be extremely weak if you think that children’s playtime is enough to damage it.

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If you’re truly a Christian then take those Christian values and act like it. Do unto others as you want to be done to you. the only one who can judge them is God so who are you to judge them?

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Wow really…they are kids for goodness sake,

How exactly are they going to be hurting your children?? And you’re basing this all off of a bumper sticker?? I wouldn’t want my kids around YOU!!! Isn’t one of your commandments “Thou Shall Not Judge”??

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I cant believe I read all that nonsense.

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Typical “Christian” bs. People like you are what’s wrong with this world.

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Yes you should allow your kids to play with kids of other religions so you don’t raise a bunch of bigoted, prejudiced, idiots.

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Teach them empathy. You don’t always have to agree with someone to respect, understand, and love them.Being a Christian taught me that. :heart:

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No do allow this unsupervised

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