People like you… make it embarrassing to be human… who are you to judge them…
Seriously? People like you are the one of the reasons it took me so long to find my way to God in the first place. Your children are going to make their own decisions in life. They will be exposed to many things outside of your control. As Christians we are supposed to love thy neighbor. It doesn’t say love thy neighbor only if they share your beliefs. If I was your children and you told me I could only associate with people who have the same beliefs… oh boy would the rebellion begin
I truly cannot believe what I just read…a huge part of me feels like it HASSS to be a joke but the realistic side sadly knows it’s not… May I ask what your plans are for when the kiddos go to school? Are they going to attend a strict Christian school? You plan on preventing them from being friends with any other kid if they are not raised as Christian’s?! When mind you it’s not the kids fault…it’s their parents choice on how to educate them religious wise or not…whatever their preference is…Why take that out on an innocent kiddo who just sees another child bud/her age and wants to come skip rope, play hide and seek, ride bikes…FFS It’s not like they’re going to be sitting in the backyard having a séance or bible study…THEY ARE CHILDREN!! Do you as parents know that every single one of your “friends”/co-workers, people you interact with on a daily basis are Christian’s? If you get a work partner that you have to be side by side with daily who is Atheist, Catholic, Pagan but is a really nice person in general what would you do? Quit your job? Be mean to the person? Just because they don’t have the same belief system you do? That person still bleeds red just as you and I do my dear. I am willing to bet that there are plenty of people you and your SO surround yourselves with daily whom are not Christian or they do believe in God but do not identify as Christian and you probably get along wonderfully and really enjoy said person…if a year down the road you find out person X is of faith but not Christian per-say…are you going to drop them?
Please just let the kids be kids!! They are all growing up so fast these days! Wayyyyy faster than we ever did…enjoy it and let them enjoy it while it lasts.
Oh and lastly…just as you wouldn’t expect or appreciate the Pagans preaching or pushing Paganism on you or your littles…keep in mind to reciprocate that courtesy IF you do decide to allow the kids be kids…Together!!
Yes you are “bashing” as you call it these people in this day and age what a pathetic biased attitude you have for a so called Christian.Your religious view should not affect who your children play with unless they are from some known violent sect of some sort that is capable of threatening yours and other’s lives…over reacting here need to encompass others more and give your children a choice very narrow minded
Jesus loved everyone,even though he was who he was. Judge not lest ye be judged. You need to actually read that bible to learn from it!
As a Christian we are raised to love all of God’s children even those that do not belive in the same faith. You humbly open you’re home to everyone we do not get to ask questions as we are all equal. So sheltering you’re children isn’t the best idea as they get older they will see other religions anyways it’s honestly up to them on the direction they go no matter how much we show the faith we are they may grow up and find its not what they want.
Seriously? I think you need more Jesus in your life. Sounds like your placing judgement, which is not your place, what happened to “love thy neighbor”?? Also you do realize most Christian holidays and beliefs are steeped in Pagen roots yeah? Get off your high horse.
Wow…youre getting alot of hate here…But thats how everyone is now…in answer to your question I think it depends on their ages…the world has alot of different kinds of people in it and you cant shield your kids from it forever…if you are clear to your children about your beliefs and explain that others may have different beliefs and still be good people whether they Love the lord or not…it may help them in our divisive society…Jesus loved everyone…he spent alot more time with the lost than with the religious leaders…and it was for the best…you just have to trust you put your kids on the right road…
Besides kids aren’t going to be talking religion anyway…
You are doing the hurting . Kids are kids . Pretty sick of you keep your children from having friends of other faith . I’m sure if they read this they wouldn’t want you around either . Pretty sure true Christians don’t act as such . Bizarre
Oh my this really is a sad, judgemental world we live in …
We have 5 kids , we are Christian and raised them Christian but did not baptize them as we feel that is their decision to make . One of the 5 has since chose to be baptized but we believe they get to choose their religion and beliefs . One of our sons girlfriends is Muslim and her parents were very unhappy with our son we talked with the father and told him we don’t have a problem with it as he seemed to think we should and said well if they were going to marry he would have to convert and our response was that’s his decision if he wants to not ours. I wouldn’t worry about someone’s kids of a different faith influencing your kids and you also need to realize you can’t protect them from everything they will learn and decide like everyone else.
So are you going to shelter them their entire adult life too? What happens when they move our and go to college? Mommy’s not going to be there to hide them from all the worldly things. I am Christian too and grew up that way. My mom was super over protective kinda how imo seems like your being, and I rebelled really hard. Pray for your children. And I thought as Christians we were not supposed to judge and to share God’s word. So maybe look at this as an opportunity to share your faith and make friends. Remember Jesus didn’t hang around only the holy people.
Let kids be kids ! Kids don’t give a shit about religion they just want to play with other kids not compare who believes in what god !
Your child’s gunna grow up literally not wanting to be apart of your faith I notice that a lot of my friends who grew up in a Christian house hold and we’re forced to go to Sunday school etc they now just dislike the religion all together. Don’t do that to your children. Let them have their own faith. Also you should do more research on pagans cuz you sound ignorant and you should also look up Christian practices because believe it or not the majority of holidays that are supposedly Christian aren’t most come from paganism
Doesn’t matter what faith you are Christian, Jewish, protestant,Muslim children should be allowed to play with everyone of different faiths.
So what you are saying is that you are trying to deprive your kids of the very thing that God gifted us as humans…free will.
If you want your kids to be educated in YOUR religion, that’s acceptable. But once they are older, and they chose another path, that’s their fucking choice.
Parents that spiritually dictate are the true sin of the world
Oh please do not let them. I wouldn’t want my children to be influenced by any Christian’s either. Please spare the pagan kids. I would love for my children to have the opportunity to befriend more secular children
Wow.
As a Christian you should really sit down and think what the biblical answer is to this Situation
I can certainly tell you educate your child
We’ve explained to our daughter not everyone believes in God/ Jesus / Holy trinity, and that’s ok for them but our family has our own beliefs
And she’s absolutely encouraged to question and challenge that
Be confident in your raising of your children to send them out into the world and not be influenced
Also
Just let them be kids and know not everyone’s the same
And that’s OKAY
Seriously??? Did u know at school your kids play with different races and religion kids? That they also learn about different religions? Now ur scared of ur neighbors kids… Grow up, let them play… When they grow up they will choose what they want to believe in anycase, then you wont be able to stop them
Just wait until your kids grow up and find out who Constantine was and all the Pagen rituals you’ve made them believe are Christian… you need to study up on your Religion, where 99% of the stories in the Bible come from and pay real close attention to that Christmas tree you put up every year and the origins of that… this is actually quite comical to anyone who is educated in Religion and someday your kids will find the truth out even if you try to stop them…
If your religion can’t stand up on its own, it’s not that strong. If just talking to someone of a different religion can ruin yours…then so be it.
I’m the name of goddess Lilith I can’t believe what I just read
Wtf did I just read… I’m catholic my husband is Muslim my kids get the best of both worlds
So your kids will be sheltered from everyone not of the same faith lmao good luck with that get ready to homeschool and you and your kids having no friends
What if your childs Christian faith rubs off on those children instead? Jesus didnt judge the sex worker who washed his feet remember that
Please allow your kids to play with their friends. Religion should NEVER have a bearing on children’s friendships. The only thing that will come from separating them is resentment. As a mom that grew up in the church and later went to paganism I can tell you that parents can be their kids worst enemies when it comes to these situations. Allow your kids that diversity, I beg of you!
You say you’re living your faiths values but yet you are judging people ……
As a Christian, you should already know that this is Holy Week. This would be a fantastic opportunity for your children to witness to the people if they feel so compelled. Also as a Christian, you should know that everyone has their own faith, if you don’t want their faith pushed on you, don’t push yours on them. It’s like with Jehovah’s Witnesses, I tell them, that they can tell me about their god but then I get to tell them about my God.
So everyone needs to have the same imaginary friend to be okay? Lmao… this post HAS to be satire.
This is not how you are supposed to be acting at your age. Why is this even a question? I feel for your children and the life they will live if you are worried about someone else’s children and what they believe.
Control control control. You job as a parent isn’t to control your kids, they’re their own people who will develop their own beliefs. Your job is to nurture that.
Wow… so I grew up In a catholic family on my dad’s side my mom wasn’t really into religion but we went to church as a family. None of us kids turned out to be catholic. When I became a mom I always said I will let my kids choose for themselves I didn’t go to church because of hypocrites mostly. And the fact that most of the church’s make you feel like you don’t belong there. But when my kids got to the age where there friends was asking them to come to church I let them it was there choice. As they got older a couple of them turn to more of a Pagan and wiccan beliefs. My younger ones still fully believe in Christianity. When I got remarried my husband is Christian and we as a family go on Sundays because that’s the only thing this man ask of us and he works his ass off so we go for him and he knows 3 of us don’t have the same beliefs and I straight up told him the first time they bash our religion I will walk out. It’s been 2 year and haven’t had that problem. This church my husband goes to Is the prime example of what Christianity is. They don’t bash other ppl religions they make you feel welcome no matter what. Anyway my point is. Is to let your children choose while there young instead of while there adults and become resentful of you and your religion because you want to shelter them from everything that’s not your way or your beliefs.
I don’t know about where you live but when I was at school and still to this day 25 years later. The kids do religious education on a weekly basis at school
It’s for all kids, religious or not. It’s really not normal to shelter them from how others live. Your seem extremely judgmental and when your kids are older, they are going to realise how judgmental you are of their friends, when you have no reason to be and they aren’t going to like you very much for it. May even rebel against you and the religion to prove a point, I don’t know. But they are going to see that’s how religion has made you think and I don’t think any decent person would like that. Just preying your kids have their own minds and aren’t influenced by your judgmental thoughts on others.
Glad you aren’t my mom. I’m Catholic and grew up with people of other faiths. It made me a better person.
I’m a Christian but il be honest the more I found out about Christianity as I got older the more I didn’t believe in it its basically a cult
Omg do people still actually think like this My son has been taught to make friends with people he likes regardless of faith or any other discriminatory factors. This post is shocking
As a Christian mom it is our job to raise our children in faith and let them teach others. Jesus hung out with nonbelievers and told them that He was the only way to heaven. At some point your kids will be in situations with nonbelievers and the earlier they know how to be around them the better. Ultimately it’s your choice who you let them play with but you won’t be able to protect them from people who worship differently for their entire life.
What a scary world view.
As a Christian you shouldn’t even have to ask this question.
Children are born innocent and know nothing but love and dont see religion, race etc as a reason not to play or know someone, they take them at face value…adults, society, role models teach them to act out of hate or fear and to make judgements about others. Maybe (and this is not meant to sound nasty, but parting friendly advice) maybe take a leaf out of your childrens books and see people with innocent loving eyes, not your adult learnt fear based behaviours…also maybe talk to your children about other religions and why you believe what you believe…even letting them question your beliefs if they feel that way, let them explore and come to their own educated decision…i dont think anyone wants to he told what to think or believe in, imagine if you were told you were absolutely not allowed to follow or share your christian faith, beliefs, rituals would you think that was ok? You want the best for your children to raise them in gods love, so be gods love. You believe in god, so pray and ask him for the answers, read your bible, talk to others in your church community, your minister, because I think deep down you know your response is one based in fear and not from a devoted christians core belief, and while some people have given constructive advice, you will have had to sift through all the hateful.nasty ones to see them and that isnt good for anyone’s mental.health, good luck
Umm wtf did I just read
I’m sure kids aren’t going to be talking about religion when they first meet. And if they do I’m sure they won’t be trying to convert each other. But what they can do is learn to respect each other and their beliefs which they will have to learn for entering the big world anyways.
Umm if you are a Christian pick up your Bible and reread it
Really? As a “love thy neighbour, he who throws the first stone” god fearing christian you’re asking if you should stop your kids from playing with someone of a different faith?
Well your options are 1) keep your children inside all the time, and only allow them outside with people who you witness attending church, not just ones who SAY they do. Then take them out of public school immediately, and enroll them in a single gender religious school. Never allow them to go anywhere without you, so you KNOW there is no possibility that they are ever exposed to the knowledge that OTHER RELIGIONS EXIST AND THAT IS OKAY WITH EVERYONE EXCEPT YOUR FAMILY. In fact you and other like minded people should start your own commune, to protect the rest of us from your judgment and hypocrisy. It would truly be the benefit of the rest of us.
I bet you are the type who think homeless people and those struggling should be ashamed to come to church, because they can’t dress up or give tithes too…
Yikes. Your kids go out into the world and well meet all kinds of people with different faiths, that doesn’t mean they’re bad influences. And being christian doesn’t automatically make them good people either. They’re kids and likely don’t even care as much about religion as you do or want them to
I feel like I’m reading a lot of judgment on a genuine question. Some people live sheltered lives and don’t know any better. Make this a safe place for them to ask
God ='s love. If you have faith it is your RESPONSIBILITY to teach your children that God loves EVERYONE and you should too.
I feel very sorry for your Children. You are teaching them hate, bigotry and prejudice. You are the definition of everything that is wrong in this World! Try teaching love and acceptance!
Isn’t Christianity supposed to be all about acceptance, or am I behind? And you are aware that the December 25th to you was actually a pagan holiday before your religion changed it to “Christmas” right? I’m very much atheist, and I can tell you I’ve never judged ANYONE on who they believe in or what, or not. I judge character. Not everyone needs something else to believe in besides themselves and the world around them. Let your children have fun being kids without teaching them to openly judge others on those types of things. The world needs good people, regardless of religious beliefs, or lack thereof.
Sometimes…these questions
As a Christian, growing up very few kids at my school were Christian and that definitely did NOT stop me believing, didn’t influence me at all. Why? Because I LOVED my relationship with God and going to church abd Sunday school and singing church songs, I loved all of it.
In high school it gets even worse, as teenagers go looking outside of themselves for answers and YES many learn or experiment with different religions or beliefs.
And again NO ONE else beliefs swayed my own.
I did make a choice in High school that I wouldn’t be around anyone into “black magic” type things or satanic music etc because those “beliefs” are the complete opposite to mind and I won’t be around anything like that.
Ironically the people I know who were brought up only with Christrans felt more smothered than me and many lost faith in their teenage years due to feeling forced into a belied set.
Just my experience.
Have you heard of the Golden Rule? If you are a Christian then your post doesn’t reflect it. Shame on you. Turn to John. 13. A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
How very unchristian
This sounds made up.
We have never stopped our children from playing with kids of other faiths. My beliefs talk about loving everyone with the love of Jesus - no fine print,no exceptions - everyone!! Many of my children’s good friends are of different faiths
If the sticker said “satan” I’d highly recommend you keep your kids indoors. “Pagan”… congratulations… you should talk to them… great opportunity to learn the history and origins of your own faith if they know a thing or two.
Im sorry but your kids will meet people from all kinds of faith throughout their life time and as parents you should be teaching then to accept everyone for who they are and how they treat you. Not what gods the worship. And as a pagan i myself i would like to remind you that several of your holidays including easter and christmas came from PAGAN traditions so we arent all that different. Blessed be
That’s just stupid their just kids wanting to play why would they be interested in anything else while they just want to run around and make friends that’s very small minded and immature in my opinion
Luckily for you Christianity piggy backed on all sorts of pagan customs and holidays. I’d say you’re good here. Common ground.
Omg. That’s all I got.
My best friend was atheist, it in no way influenced my CHOICE to be Christian nor did it challenge our friendship. 
oh Gosh. Your kids wont be ready for the real World.
Wow…not letting kids play with other kids because of different religions. That’s horrible. You are teaching your kids the wrong thing. You should be teaching them to accept everyone. Not hatred, prejudice . You aren’t preparing your children for the real world
Your kids are already damaged. From the inside out
Good grief. Seriously?
Yes, you should let your kids play with the kids next door who are obviously good people.
Last things kids wanna talk about when they are out having fun is religion believe me pagan mum seems nice tho non judgemental about other children no matter what religion they are she dosent mind her kids mixing with yours maybe take a leaf out of her book
Start your own compound and don’t let any “others” in.
Proof that hate and judgement is taught
And you say you’re Christian because it doesn’t sound like you’re embodying Christian values?
You teach best by being the role model…. If you continue to keep them sheltered and under such a controlled bubble and judge others often for their differences THEY will become the children who “hurt others” because they will be so naive and hidden from seeing other points of views. It’s Also only going to hurt themselves and probably drive a wedge between you and your children……
Let kids be kids. We as adults tend to worry more about the what ifs. The judgement, etc this They simply just want to play… that’s all.
Also, they’re children. They won’t spend their day chatting about what God their parents chose to worship. It’s important to you, not them. Let them play and have fun. Don’t lock them away from the world through your fear of what they might discover and learn about the world they live in a and the different people they might meet. That is what living is all about. Any less isn’t living at all. Ridgedity is boring, painful and damaging.
Are you worried that your children will talk to the other children about your gods?
So basically you are willing to teach your children that others are wrong if they don’t believe like you do. I think you need to take some deep breath’s and stop trying to push your beliefs. You can guide your children to what you believe but it’s absolutely not ok to force it or shun others or put a hand up to who you allow around your children. You are being manipulative and controlling. It would be one thing if it was something that brought harm to your children.
Yes. Your kids aren’t Christians and will determine their own choice for religion when older. They shouldn’t even be forced to learn religions until old enough to decide.
Do you also stop them from playing with Dinosaurs?
I understand what you’re saying but you are honestly setting them up to be different and ridiculed by other kids. Are you going to home school them and shelter them forever?
Talk to your neighbors. Could be a bumper sticker for a band, a team, or just be provocative for fun. Used to be the name of a motorcycle gang too. Also, kids don’t generally talk about religion except in terms of getting presents, candy or other special treats.
Do you let your kids hunt for Easter eggs? Eoster is a pagan goddess & eggs are a symbol for fertility from pagan traditions, so there’s that. Do you have a Christmas tree? Druidic tree worshiping tradition. And Christians who profess to “take eat, this is my body” and drink “this is my blood” don’t have a lot of room to talk about weird beliefs.
BTW, Jesus was a practicing Jew and suffered for his faith, and never wanted to start a new religion, just change how people lived. He also never professed to be the “Son of God,” in fact when asked he said, “That is who YOU say I am” (emphasis mine).
Martin Luther just wanted to improve Christianity, not start a new religion, but it ushered in the reformation which started the splintering of a bunch of Christian sects. Some of the early popes weren’t even Christian, it was more of a political patronage position.
If your example and teaching and religion aren’t strong enough to stand up to a challenge from other faiths, maybe you need to rethink things.
Also, don’t you think your kids have a right to think for themselves? That their beliefs should come from something other than “because I said so”? That said, usually kids stick with whatever religion their parents had anyway and keep going to the same religious services because that’s what feels comfortable and most people dislike change. I got exposed to different (though mainstream) religious growing up, ironically through church youth group, which gave me wisdom and understanding but didn’t make me choose another faith, though I liked the idea of ditching your shoes at the door of the Islamic center!
Lmao so much for Christians loving and accepting everyone huh
Go join a cult and keep them locked up
Oh, and did it never occur to you that your kids could influence your neighbors to rethink their religion? But please, don’t proselytize. It just makes you annoying. Just be a good example in your life.
I grew up in a Christian home. I was allowed to play with whoever, as long as they were good people who treated me right. Just because they believe different doesn’t mean our God doesn’t love them. Let your kids play with them.
And this is exactly the roots of everything that’s wrong in the world
Pagan is a rock band. Right? A true christian would be secure in the fact you’ve taught your kids well and encourage them to embrace all kinds of things. That’s what teaches them common sense. The right to make up their own mind. There’s nothing wrong w someone just cuz they are another religion. I don’t think you’ve quite grasped what real Christianity is.
I sure hope you don’t participate in any Pagan activities/holidays and if you’re not sure which holidays/activities I’m speaking of then use google.
If Jesus only associated with those of the Christian faith, many of his followers would never have followed him.
Think about it, his best followers were tax collectors, whores and people possed by demons.
You, as a Christian, are suppose to be the light. To associate with all and show them God’s love regardless of faith, race or wealth.
Associating with them does not mean you agree with them or will now follow their ways, it only means that you have countless opportunities to tell them about God, his love and his grace. To lead them to Him.
God calls us to be shepards.
Christians already have a sheppard namely God. Others do not, if you refuse to be a sheppard, you cannot call yourself a christian.
Yes. It’s also good to learn different ways of living or even different cultures or backgrounds. Most cultures do mix & some do not want outside influences & relationship wise they stay with their own. One side of my family, most are Christians but maybe not so strict. & just a warning. Your child may or maybe not want to be Christian when their older.
Also, many modern Pagans lean more towards ecology, using natural/herbal medicine, giving thanks for the elements of the Earth like earth, air, fire, and water, and being grateful for the seasons, the heavens and their ancestors. Not many are cat-sacrificing devil-worshippers.
I can’t believe that in this day and age people are still like this… Thousands of years and Christians still haven’t learnt their lesson…
As a Christian who recently became good friends with a pagan… Just make friends and agree not to talk about religion it’s literally that easy. I also plan on raising my child to respect other’s faiths, not to be oblivious to the fact that there are others. Love thy neighbor all of my besties through the years have been of various faiths. We just don’t talk religion
Your attitude is far from what’s best for your kids.
Wow lol. So you want them sheltered and close minded.
It might be time to get with the times and let your kids make up their own mind as far as who they want to play with.
While you’re at it you can try and open your very closed mind and learn the values of another faith.
Too many people use oppression as a fallback and too many kids are deprived of knowledge which could help them in the future.
Well you sound like a “good Christian” what ever happened to “treat thy neighbour as you’d like to be treated”? Or whatever it is. Hope your kids grow up to more tolerant and accepting then you.
Wait…is this seriously a question in your mind……
You know what’s awesome for kids, exposing them to other religions. Keeping them sheltered may cause issues down the track. There’s a whole awesome world out there with so many different religions, cultures, traditions. Teach your kids to respect other people’s life choices and that it’s ok. And if really concerned, maybe talk to your neighbours. Might not be as bad as you think.
If your Christian aren’t you supposed to welcome everyone?
A cant beleive this is a serious question these days no matter the religion of beleive children should be allowed to play together equality and diversity we are all equal all that should matter is the kids is happy playing with there friends
First it’s the different faith then it’ll be the different race that’ll be the issue… Get a grip. I guess you expect other kids in school to announce their faith before approaching your children? Good luck with that. Maybe those kiddos will be better off without you. Sounds like you’re raising them poor babies into a cult like lifestyle. Major red flag.
I think you need to re-read the Bible. God accepts and loves all. Also, your children should be aware and taught about all different faiths. If you find they have questions you can answer them. They are children so I highly doubt religion will come up during playing.
If you want your children to grow up closed minded, unworldly, and prejudiced keep doing what you’re doing.