It’s really situational.
Like normal kid…no real concerns. Well behaved. No at risk behaviour…then nope. No snooping on my part.
Sneaking out, weird behaviours, slipping grades and always answers “everything is fine” when trying to address things…then yup. Imma snoop.
Door tho…ei…I don’t think I’d ever take that. The knob sure…but the door…Naw.
But I don’t need him hogging the bathroom as petty revenge saying he’s getting dressed since he has no door lol as he’s petty like his momma…lol
But ya…kids are mini humans and should have the respect we expect for ourselves…within limits.
Being normal…I’ll leave ya be.
Being stupid…Imma be finding out why if you won’t tell me🤷.
My son is 9 right now and any time I’m going into his room to rearrange or deep clean, I warn him. So he has time to remove anything he doesn’t want me to see. But he doesn’t move anything. Even his journal. Cuz he knows mom won’t look. But he and I have conversations constantly about things. So I don’t need to snoop to learn what’s going on with him…yet lol