His child should always come first. It should be expected that you don’t get all the attention when he has his kid. They are a package deal. If it makes you that insecure, maybe you should leave him.
Him “ignoring you” while he has his child is not the problem. He didn’t get you a Christmas present, and y’all have been dating for 10 months?? He isn’t that into you! Move on and find someone else. People should always put their children first, but people can still have healthy relationships and be parents too.
Sorry but his kid comes first and if you can’t handle that you can’t handle the relationship with him and his kid. Truth hurts but it is what it is.
Kids will always come first to a good parent. Get over yourself and grow up. If you can’t handle it now it’ll only get worse and you’re already resenting a 4 year old who was in his life before you. It’ll only get worse.
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Well looks like you need a childless man his child will always come first and you second maybe he spent his find for Xmas on his daughter did you communicate gift exchanges yes it sucks but it’s only been 10 month maybe he didn’t think you guys were at that stage of gift giving ? ,also let’s say you stay together one day have a kid he’s be one hell of a father that actually gives his child attention instead of hanging with his buddies or his nose in his phone all day great quality if you ask me if you need all the attention everyday from somebody your dating date a childless man
No one involved will win in this situation, do everyone a favor (including yourself) and date someone else.
If you date a man with a kid, you should expect to come second to that child, period🤷🏾♀️.
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If you don’t understand that when he has his child that his child is his #1 priority and even when he doesn’t have her she is his priority then you need to find a boyfriend who doesn’t have children.
Kids should always be parents first but a quick text to say hello i think their time to do that and as for the gift to me it sounds like your more into relationship then he is .10 months should be plenty of time to include you in some time with his child .i would let it go best wishes
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Sorry girl. But his kid will always come first. If you cant accept that then you should step off. He sounds like a good dad doing what he’s suppose to do. 
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Tell him you would like to spend time with his child too so you can get to know her better
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Can I slap you in the face? Omg please don’t ever have kids! F U!!
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Sorry to be so blunt, but his daughter will always come first. If you want all of someone’s attention and affection, date a childless man!
that’s his kid the time with her should be respected
You need a slap, grow up🤦♀️
Dump him move on but kids take 100% of someones time.
Girl bye that’s his kid you and come first take talk to him or move on
You need to find a man without a child.
I went to that first 6 years.
I felt like I was only getting half of him
You MAKE time for who your interested in. READ THAT AGAIN!
His children come first. Get over yourself
Kids come first and they trump everything and everyone.
Grow up!!! His kids should always come first. He sounds like a good dad. You sound needy and selfish.
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Going to different mommy pages and repeating yourself will just get you the same answers 
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Lmao what do you expect? Least he manning up and taking care of his kid. Find you a bf with no kids
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You sound like a self centered person and dont deserve a man who actually puts his child first
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well if he is still married or custody battles, then i am sure his lawyers have advised him not to.usually the father gets the bad end of the stick, but i would actully talk to him and find out where u stand. COMMUNICATION is important.
I’ll say it…you’re immature and I’d break up w you for even feeling this way.
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Coming from a mom of a hyperactive 4 year old son, he might not really have the time. I barely call and text people when I’m home with my husband and son.
Have you met his daughter? If you have, have you thought about planning cool experiences for all of you to go to? Be patient, 4 year olds are A LOT!
As far as the gift goes, that’s typical guys. I’d be a little bummed about that too, but it is what it is - let that roll off your back. Dont sweat the small stuff.
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Also, why are you even on this page…“MY KIDS ARE SO LOVED” There’s no way you have a kid and can feel this way and clearly you don’t love his or you wouldnt be so self centered.
He is making his child his priority. Good for him!!!
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Good for him. Kids before anyone.
Girl. Bye. You sound selfish af
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I’d find someone that can give you to materialistic crap you crave so much but deny it to try to make yourself look slightly better and get the fact that your jealous of his child ignored. Grow up. If it was another way around you’d be pissed he wasn’t being understanding that you’re a parent.
Wow, grow up! You are a jealous, needy, insecure person who needs help. Hopefully he realizes this and dumps your ass so he can find a better woman to share his and his child’s life with.
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y’all a damn trip…having a child doesn’t hinder u from responding to a text/call…busy agenda my ass,if he wanted to he would,girl 
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Why is it that he can’t give her AND the child attention.?
I have more than one child and can manage to give both of them, my step kids, my husband and myself adequate attention. And why is she giving him and the child gifts when he can’t reciprocate.? And why aren’t they discussing this as a couple, instead of her seeking help from the internet.?! No communication either.?! Wow.
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“When he doesnt have her he gives me the attention I want”…ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!! Hes spending time with his child…get over your “me me me” bullshit. If you are that jealous of a child having their fathers time and attention and not giving it all to you well you need to walk away and let him find someone that isnt jealous of a child.
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You must realize and understand that his CHILD comes FIRST. You seem to be a bit immature and not ready to date a man who is a father. You should applaud the fact that he is a dedicated father.
Did you forget that he’s a package deal and with that comes specific obligations and responsibilities as a parent? I would suggest that you find someone who is childless, so that you can have all the attention that you crave.
Something to think about going forward:
Most fathers have their children in most cases, every other weekend. That equates to about 24 times a year- give or take. These weekends aren’t a solid 24 hrs. per day. They may have perhaps a full 24 hrs. with their children because drop off and pick up times vary. Every quality minute that they spend with their child is important. Just think about how you would feel if your father ignored you during the small amount of time that you had with him for a girlfriend. When that girlfriend has access and attention from him the remainder of the time.
If you’re that needy you should not be dating somebody who has children.
It sounds like you have no kids you don’t understand. And instead of being mad about it maybe be a grown ass woman and be happy that he’s that responsible and his child comes first so maybe if you end up pregnant by accident or decide to be married and have children he obviously is a decent man and a good father and those are traits you would think women are looking for in a man who were potentially be your husband and children’s father.
Insecure ass women make me sick, she has his undivided attention when he’s with her now she wants his attention when he’s with his child, that’s just needy
You have to be ready to date a man with kids especially young kids…as a woman if he is not spending time with his kids that should be a problem… either grow up or get out too many men choose a woman over there kids I applaud him
Omg. Girl get the fuck over your self. Kids come first.
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Sounds like he is a responsible person, and sounds like you are very immature
Suck it up, children need more attention than you do
Stop being an attention whore. Grow up. Kids take a shitload of attention and good for him for spending time with his kid! That alone is admirable! You’ve been together 10 months. Good for you for getting them something for Christmas but that’s not what Christmas is about. You sound like a needy child and clearly aren’t ready for a relationship plus one. Maybe you should just move along and find someone single so you can have all the attention you want 
You girly are an immature,selfish,self centered little twit. Tell your boyfriend to run far away from your selfish ass
That’s because men can’t do more than one thing at a time GOOD
This kid has a gender and name but if your having attention problems then move on. Kids do come first
Sounds like you are a selfish and jealous twat and be should rid himself and his children of you quick like and in a hurry. You dont deserve either of them
I cannot believe what I just read. His kid will always come before you. How do you think his child would feel if the little time spent with daddy was while he’s sitting on the phone talking to his selfish, whiney, ignorant ass girlfriend. Go ahead and end things with him because clearly you do not deserve a man that cherishes his own child like most of us PARENTS do. Also, don’t ever have your own kid because they take time, love and attention and you seem way to self centered for that blessing.