Child comes 1st regardless. No offense but if you can’t handle that its best to leave now. A good man puts his kids first and does not have to have a woman to help him care for his child. Just my opinion.
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I think you would probably be better off dating someone with no kids. For his sake, your sake and the kids you should break it off. His kid should always come first and honestly that should be a quality you look for in a partner…in my opinion you should let him go so he can find someone who will respect his lack of communication due to him being with his child.
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You don’t want a man that puts anyone or anything in higher priority than his own children.
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Find you a man without kids. You sound selfish and childish. As a mom I can tell you…my kids come first before some guy. If you want to date someone with kids…you need to let him have his dad time and find something that you can do while hes with his kids.
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Imagine feeling in competition with your boyfriends child lmao
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A child always comes first! Your obviously not grown yet to realize that. You can go ahead an excuse yourself from their life Selfish😠
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Seriously? You’re jealous of a 4 y/o? I would definitely advise you to pack up and leave. Smdh. That’s what a FATHER does, he takes care of his child.
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Yeah… You shouldn’t be dating someone with a kid if that’s how you feel. Kids are work and if you can’t understand and respect that, it’s not for you.
That doesn’t make you a bad person but it makes you someone who isn’t ready for that type of relationship. It’s too soon into your relationship to know the kid yet because they’re so young.
Him not giving you a gift though is a slacker thing on his part. He should’ve but that you didn’t want a gift in return but felt slighted says you actually did want one. That’s something you communicate to him and lay out holiday expectations if you should continue the ship.
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It’s hard to be with someone who has an already made family. If you are feeling ignored now. Just wait till you move in and his child comes to visit. That’s his kid. You are over thinking it and at an immature level. Get out now and find d someone with out kids.
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Its very selfish to think he needs to give you a ton a attention when he has his daughter. Hes being a father first. I’m a single parent and you have no idea the amount men who lose interest because my kids come first. The holidays are crazy and busy when you have kids. He probably didn’t intentionally not give you anything. If you can’t handle the situation, I’d leave and find someone who doesn’t have children.
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If you’re expecting to always be foremost in his mind then you need to walk away.
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His kid comes first, GROW UP or find someone with out children
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His child should ALWAYS come first! If you ever expect things to be different leave. To me it doesn’t sound like you deserve him or his kid.
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You sound jealous. Please seek help.
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Wow spoil brat i hope he reads this and realises it you and kicks ya ass to the kirb
I dont even respond to my HUSBAND when I’m spending time with my kids. You need to give your head a shake.
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I mean. Wouldn’t You Put Your Child Before A Dude??
Kids Will Always And Should Always Come First Especially With Such a new Relationship 
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He is a father , the child is not your competition. You’re not ready to date a man with a child. Either respect him as a father and learn to act accordingly or get out of that mans way so he can find the right woman
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I can’t even believe this is a real question…if that’s how you feel, please do HIM a favor and break off the relationship.
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Why would you want to be with someone who would put someone before their children? He is honoring the responsibilities that come with being a parent, that is a great quality to find in a man. If you don’t see that and can’t handle it, you need to find someone childless. It speaks to your immaturity that you would even consider leaving a man who has his priorities right.
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His child will always come first but there is a such thing as balance. You should talk to him about it.
He’s giving his kid his time, that’s something special. That should be something you look for in a partner.
If you don’t understand it then you should probably break up with him.
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He’s with his child and giving his child the attention the child needs.
You sound very immature tbh
If you can’t understand him then leave him
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Don’t date a man with a child then. You’re mindset is immature demanding attention away from his child. Get over yourself
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Grow the hell up. His child comes first
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If you’re not able to admire a man who makes his child a priority, you’re probably not for him.
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Sorry but children come first no matter what! If you can’t see that then your in the wrong relationship, buck up and stop being selfish. Be happy he is taking care of his child.
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His kid comes before you. Let him enjoy his kid. If you feel like you need to compete for his attention than leave him. He deserves a woman who won’t try to compete with his child.
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So you need to leave him and let someone else have him. You seem selfish. I’m sure if the roles were reversed you would give more attention to your own child then a boyfriend too. A child always comes first and if you cant handle that then you need to get with someone who doesnt have a child. Also with the Christmas thing if you weren’t expecting anything in return why are you mad he didnt get you anything.
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Children always come first. Well they should. Him not getting you a gift is a little unthoughtful… Maybe you should find someone a little more on your level without kids
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Leave that man alone and find yourself honey. You are selfish and threatened by a child!
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He should stop seeing his kid and put you first 🤦
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It shows he’s a great dad but he should be able to manage both things. When having his daughter and being able to still have a relationship with you from afar. He could easily be sending you pictures of what he’s doing or saying watching a movie with my daughter or whatever. It really doesn’t take much to still communicate and love your SO while spending time with your child. Including you will help not only you two to keep and grow a relationship but will help for you to grow a relationship with the child. Maybe instead of seeking attention from him while he’s with her maybe ask little quick questions about his daughter and him. Like how is she doing today and etc. let her in your heart and he will find more ways and time to include u.
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You sound like a child. Grow up. His kid is exactly where the kid needs to be in his life, you should always come second
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Youre gonna chase him away girl, bet
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That is his baby, his flesh and blood, u have only around for 10 months. Maybe dating a man with a child is not for you. Children come first always. And with regards to the gift, ever thought he just couldn’t afford one? Even a card can be hard for someone to spend money on.
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You definitely need to be with someone who doesn’t have kids. Clearly you don’t understand the kid comes first
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You don’t sound mature enough to date someone with a kid.
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I do agree with everyone that the kid comes first, but at some point during the time he has his child he should have a minute to respond back to her, as for the no gift for Christmas that’s kinda sad, you’ve only Been with him for 10 months he should of gave you a small gift. I don’t think he’s ready for a new relationship and your not ready for this one.
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Uh, he’s being a dad and that should come first. You should be single until you’re mature enough to be in a relationship. Time to grow up!
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Yes leave him girl the audacity of someone putting their child first!.. 
… it’s his child and he is trying to give her all of him while he has her he is a good man if he is wanting to be with his child over someone he’s only been with less than a year
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Wow. Hunny, YOU are NOT th3 priority. His baby is. Stop being a dumb ass and cherish the fact that he loves his kid. You should NEVER come before the kids. Get over yourself.
Kids (no matter what age) need 100% of your time and energy. He’s not wanting to ignore you. He’s doing what he’s supposed to do which is be a great dad. You should be proud of him. Keep him girl!! Good luck!
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How can you not see your piss poor attitude? Leave him. He puts his child first like most good parents do and he deserves someone that respects that and isnt being a baby.
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I’d be pissed off if my man was ignoring his kid for me, KIDS ALWAYS OUTRANK PARTNERS(OR THEY SHOULD)I expect attention when the kids are asleep or somewhere else.
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iyou should definitely break up with him. he obviously deserves better. he’s taking care of his child his NUMBER ONE PRIORITY, you come second. when he’s got her and not answering he’s obviously busy being a father. and two of you didn’t expect him to get you anything then why you mad. it’s not about getting or even giving. it’s about the birth of of Lord Jesus Christ. you for your gig you woke up, breathing healthy and have loved ones around you. a roof over your head, food to eat, water to bathe with. wow yes that man definitely deserves better and maybe you shouldn’t be so selfish
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You’re the beginning of Cinderellas evil step mother.
Go.away. Go kick rocks. Something.
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You sound selfish and jealous. That’s his child, they will always be before you. If it’s an issue, then do him the favor and leave. As far as the Christmas thing, it’s not about the presents, it’s about being together with loved ones.
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Sounds like a great dad and guy!
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I say let him be when he has his kid, he probably already have a set schedule with his kid so when he has his kid let it he and when he doesn’t it’s your turn. Nothing wrong with that. My bf have 4 kids and I have 2.
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I hope he dumps your jealous, irrational ass.
Grow up. You sound pathetic and desperate. A grown ass woman jealous over a damn kid who he obviously helps to take care of. You should be happy and appreciate a man who steps up. But no your selfish and ignorant. Leave him.
He is already helping to raise a child. He doesn’t need to date one.
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Are you a mother? If so you should completely understand. You child is your first priority.
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Walk away. If it bothers you this much when he’s spending time with his daughter then he deserves better.
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Uhhhh did i read this correctly? Lol honey he has a child & u are just a gf understand that his child comes 1st or leave. U didnt say that u think he is spending time with his childs mother just the child lol smh. Yeah u need to leave because u are jealous of his child smh sad.
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If you feel that way now leave. When a person has a child you have to allow them to be a parent to their kid. This means sacrificed time and more. You have to realize people’s kids are #1 priority and should always be.
His KID comes first! Quit being a kid yourself. If you can’t accept the fact that the kid comes BEFORE you…move on to someone WITHOUT kids
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Oh honey. You need a hug and a reality check. You should be so thankful he is an attentive dad rather than a deadbeat ass. You need to put on some big girl panties and learn to be involved with him and his kid if you want to stay in this relationship. But I respect him more for being a good dad than a over eager boyfriend. You got yourself a man and not a little boy. So stop being whiny and grow up
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Imagine thinking that you should be priority over someone’s child 
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Tell him to get rid of the child… I mean do kids really need dads who put them first anyways??
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You are the definition of evil step mother. You sound like a selfish human being, and kids should always come first!!!
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If you are jealous of the man’s child then PLEASE end it with him
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No sorry kids come first grow up
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He sounds like a good dad. He’s giving his full attention to his daughter. If you can’t appreciate that, do them a favor and leave.
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Girl it is all about his kid as it should be. Get in where you fit in or date someone without kids. Do you have kids???I won’t date a man who doesn’t take care of his kids, period.
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Kids come first and since you’re acting like one I’m assuming that’s why you think that should apply to you 
Who even counts this as a relationship issue/problem?!
His child comes first. He is respecting you by showing you all of the attention you need when he’s with you. You’re expecting too much from him when he has his child. It’s not a competition for attention and time. Dont make it one.
As for the gift exchange, did you tell him you wanted to exchange gifts? Men can’t read minds. Maybe since you’re still early in your relationship he didn’t know it was something you wanted to do. Communication is key and so is comprehension. Talk with him.
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When he has his kid respect that it’s her time and if gives you all the attention when it’s just you two then enjoy it respect him for being a good dad he is a package deal don’t forget that get over yourself
I’d be thinking ohh what a great dad, enjoying his time with his child instead of texting me!
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His kid does come first and foremost. And if you cant handle that then leave
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The kid comes first, and especially at 4 years old there isn’t much of any relaxing time during the day. If you can’t be understanding of that, don’t date someone with kids
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Yes you are overthinking it. And you need to relax. It’s his child. Why the jealousy?
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You sound way to inexperienced and selfish to be his girlfriend. Go live your life and let him live his.
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He sounds like an amazing dad. Focuses his time and energy on his baby when he gets to not his phone. If you aren’t able to respect that then, the relationship probably isn’t for you.
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Woman kill for this type of man! That is all.
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Until you can mature enough to realize that a child comes first, then you dont need to be with him…wow.
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WOW… DO NOTE DATE MEN WITH KIDS. You are nowhere close to mature enough for that.
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Ur jealous because he takes care of hes kid?? Bahaha
Please tell me this is a troll post 
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Clearly u dont know what it’s like raising a child the last thing u want is ur phone lol
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Yeah, you should totally call it off. He has his prioritizes in order and you seem to think you are above what his most important one is, his daughter. You need to drop him. Him and his daughter deserve better.
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Your jealous of his child! Kids always 1st!
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He probable can sense your jealous and doesn’t want to deal with your bullshit. I would do him a favor and end it.
I think your being childish that is his child who I dought he sees every day sham on you
I think that yes he has to put the children first. It sounds to me that he is not looking for a committed relationship with you. If he is negletful and uncaring hes not that in to you. You sound like your ready for commitment but he is not
Everyone is hating on you because you are threatened by time with a child. And I would agree except you don’t have that perspective. If you’re not a parent yourself you might not understand it. And you say you try to give him his space. After 10 months he might want to start including you at certain times. Ask him if maybe you can join in and do a fun activity with him and his daughter maybe every other time he has her. Like a two-hour visit to Chuck-E-Cheese and you come to or a 2-hour visit to the playground and you tag along. This way you are not encroaching on all this time but you also get to see how he is as a parent and get to build a bond with his daughter. Is there a reason why he is keeping you separate from her? Is it in his agreement that he can’t have you around her?
You don’t have to feel guilty about your own feelings. If you need attention and you aren’t getting it it’s okay to feel that way but also like they’re saying oh, you need some perspective. He does not have his child all the time. His child should always come first and many people don’t do that. The fact that he is speaks highly of him. Maybe he’s not good at time management or balancing. I would sit down on a day where he does not have his daughter and express your desire to be part of his time with her. Make sure he knows it is not all of the time. Just once in awhile for a few hours would be nice. Also ask him is he can you please try to text you back when he has her at least by the end of the day just so you feel validated. He doesn’t have to drop what he’s doing and stare at his phone while he has his kid but a simple text message before the day is over would be nice. It’s a learning curve for him but also you. Doesn’t mean you have to end the relationship and it doesn’t mean either of you was in the world. Relationships require balancing.
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Time to move on for you. Apparently you cant handle kids in the picture
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Yes break up with him… so he can find someone who is understanding that his kids come first always!!!
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Good for him for spending time with his child instead of sitting on his cell phone. I’m sure you can manage without attention while he has his child 
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His child comes first. If he’s not responding to you it’s clearly because he wants to spend as much time with his child as possible and sometimes that means putting the phone down. You are selfish. He deserves better if you are willing to leave him because he “texts less” when he has his child. Shame on you.
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Do you have children? If not you won’t understand
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One of my biggest fears is getting divorced and having some Skank be jealous of my daughters. News flash-kids take up a ridiculous amount of time and attention. Don’t be a troll who’s bitter because a father loves his baby more than you. Shit, I love my kids more than my husband😂 wake TF up
His child is his number one priority and if you can’t understand that or why that would be… you need to leave. That’s so selfish
He sounds like he’s invested in his kid and that’s a good thing. Back off
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This is him spending time with his kid. I think you should respect his time and not bother him while he’s spending his time with them and if you can’t handle it then I would end it because all in all his kid is going to come before anyone else it sounds like which is how it should be. I’m not trying to be rude, but his kid is 4… They still do require our attention and sounds like you have a bit of resentment.
Grow up. He’s being a good dad and focusing on what the child needs
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End the relationship. You’re not equipped to be with a man with children so it’s pointless
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Oh my gosh I feel sorry for that guy and his kid.
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Selfish you are. CHILDREN COME FIRST.
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