I am recently dating this guy who is so sweet and so kind and is absolutely wonderful to me, but he has a “small package,” and I don’t know what to do with this. And I sometimes know little doesn’t mean everything, but we’re talking little enough that it matters, and it does mean something, and I just need to know what to do…
259 Likes
If he’s that awesome. It’s worth persuing. Be honest with him. There are toys and other things you can use (alone or with him) to satisfy yourself. Be gentle with him when bringing it up. It’s obviously out of his control. If y’all can build a great relationship, it’s not worth throwing away. Sex fades overtime anyway
My baby isn’t that big and I stay on top almost every night but I love it…
I find that being on top and riding a small package hit the g spot every single time. Being on top I can angle it to an big “o” every single time.
Decide what’s more important to you. How he treats you or his package.
I’m married to a man that is very small. I love him but it has had an effect on our marriage the last 18 years. He will need to want to please you in other ways like oral or with toys or his hands and really focus on the foreplay for you. It doesn’t change how I love him.
In my experience men who know they have smaller sizes tend to go out of their way to please you. So actual penetration might not matter if you’re getting pleased other ways. I found myself in this position and at first was like wtf do I do. I pushed through to find out my husband could give me the big O other ways. Multiple times before even considering thinking about his finish. Bcus it helps him get there to know he took care of me. Some others I’ve been with that had “big” packages never even got me close. So as long as your partner is doing their job. It shouldn’t matter
I’m queer gender. So every woman I date has a ‘small package’. I’ve been with men and can tell you that size doesn’t actually matter. I 100% orgasm with a woman, but rarely did with a guy. Fingers, hands, tongues, touch, foreplay are all valid ways to be intimate. It dosen’t have to just be penile penetration.
talking micro? Less than 3 inches? If so- you should just become a lesbian- they have bigger 
and toys! 
sorry… not sorry.
I had Dated a guy who was as small as my pinky. I didn’t stay. Sex is important
Maybe incorporate toys and such to help with the experience and doesn’t hurt his feelings?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. The guy I am dating has a "small package": Advice?
Go ontop and ride him, least you can control to get an orgasm if he’s too tiny 
11 Likes
He better be handy with his mouth if you catch my drift. Also maybe go to a adult store together and have him help you pick a personal massager for you!
13 Likes
Well if the jigsaw piece doesn’t fit the puzzle the picture won’t ever be finished. Just saying. 
69 Likes
Lots of oral,maybe 
and figure out a position that feels good in the situation. Best advice I have 
lol. And hopefully he knows how to use his tongue for your sake.
1 Like
Toys during sex 
2 Likes
Maybe you have a loose vagina? See how ignorant that sounds…no different than what you just said… Like jeeze lady, tell a bunch of strangers about his size. That’s just cruel
He deserves someone that accepts him, not you that comes on the internet and tells everyone about his size…
Let him go so he can find someone thats good to him. Who will care for who he is and not what he has. 
I’m convinced, the bigger the 
the bigger the they are. 
If he’s great to you, don’t let that discourage you! There are plenty of other ways he can satisfy you.
36 Likes
well then I pray you have a body of a goddess honey! because if he has a dam good heart those are rare af. ! let em go. He deserves better.
71 Likes
Don’t be so superficial.
10 Likes
I’m not really sure what “advice” I can offer besides being vocal with what you like. Most women achieve orgasm easiest from direct clitoral stimulation anyway, so as long as he’s willing (every partner should be regardless of size) to help stimulate you in ways you like I don’t see how it will be a problem. Try new things together, keep it interesting but comfortable for both. Just going directly with p in v is pretty boring anyway
13 Likes
Ask him if he’s ok with toys in the bedroom. This is a dealbreaker for me. If they can’t satisfy me I prefer to be single.
5 Likes
Penis pump and the viagra makes it grow
There are plenty of ways to have fun and please eachother. If his dick bothers you that much then you should probably move on. I’m sure there’s a woman that would be happy to have what he offers.
15 Likes
It’s not all about the size… does he know how to satisfy you? Maybe try different positions or toys?
1 Like
Girl get on top of it.
7 Likes
This is what you need
2 Likes
She said “I don’t know what to do with this” 
21 Likes
Maybe it’s you, try kegels
55 Likes
Like micro penis size? Ya let him go…
Don’t worry, they still have ten fingers and a mouth left, but if size is so important to you, let him find someone better, who doesn’t have so many prejudices.
31 Likes
Ok. So, communication is very important. If you’re not satisfied, open that line of communication and talk about it. Also, make sure this is something you don’t discuss with your girlfriends because then you’re embarrassing him. They make toys to help in that department. Help him out with it. Almost like a fantasy. Like a “training” exercise. Just remember that what’s done in the bedroom, STAYS in the bedroom. If you truly care about this person, be gentle with his feelings… as gentle and caring as he is with you. Some guys just need a little help and that’s what their partner is for. Good luck 
25 Likes
Krista Marie Bailey 
3 Likes
Well if it’s that important to you they do have extender thingys ive seen for men with small penis’s like they put it over there pecker and it give it an extra inch or 2. But There are other ways to be pleased if your not getting it with his penis. Like others suggested ride that dude like a pony and get it! If your not happy about it try talking with him and see what you both can figure out. It’s going to be a very uncomfortable conversation but one worth having if you truly like this person. Honesty is the best route and if it can’t work out then let him go so you can both find someone that fits you perfect 
If he’s good at other stuff then work with it🤷🏻♀️ otherwise leave lmao
1 Like
Buy some “couple aids” and tell him you wanna spice it up
Get a dildo. They don’t talk back and when you’re finished with it, ya just throw it into a drawer lol
If sex is that big of a deal in your relationship, leave him or incorporate toys
You need to remove yourself from this and live your lives like this didn’t happen. He deserves somebody that’ll value him, not just what his body has to offer. You deserve somebody that’s as superficial as you are. Sometimes it be like that.
45 Likes
What in the actual fuck? You’re a real pos for posting this. Frfr. I hope he leaves you!!!
If his size provides you no pleasure and you’re not open to incorporate toys or other means to make it work for you and it matters THAT much … then I think this is not the right person for you…
13 Likes
Dont be shallow and let someone else who appearates a good man who dont care about size have him
6 Likes
I was seeing a guy like that for awhile. And he was an amazing man (still is)… but I couldn’t be happy enough sexually with him. When I broke that news to him he ended up going to some chick who started using him and they got married. I feel bad for him still. But I giggle everytime I see her knowing what she is “getting”. And when I say small… I’m saying literal micro penis. Like basically a big clit. The size of my pinky from my first knuckle to the tip. Literally like an inch or less. Tiny.
It’s not the size of the ship!! It’s the motion of the ocean!!
5 Likes
Let that man go. He deserves happiness & to be loved & accepted for who he is & you ain’t it girl.
21 Likes
Chances are he know his limitations… and can make up for them in other areas… but communication is key
3 Likes
Just imagine if this was from a mans point of view. “My girl isn’t tight enough. What can I do?” I know you probably mean well but this is just flat out rude
21 Likes
Yeesh. Sometimes size matters. For person calling her judgmental y’all sure are judging. Honestly, I’d leave him. If you’re not compatible sexually you’re wasting your time and his. I’ve been with a Micro guy and that shit was wack. Sorry not sorry.
I have been in a similar situation. And I know how frustrating that can be. I ended up moving on because of other reasons.
1 Like
You like what you like, personally I couldn’t be with someone that couldn’t please me 
You do what you wanna do, regardless of what anyone else says. It’s you that has to deal with it…
4 Likes
It can be frustrating but find other ways he can make up for the lack of. Oral and toys. If, not, it may be time to let little tink tink go!
8 Likes
At least he won’t cheat
10 Likes
It’s not the size of the wand that matters it’s the magic he can perform with it.
4 Likes
If he is open minded they make extenders. My x was not open minded and felt inadequate and he was abusive so… find out
Lort! When he finds out you put this on fb you probably wont have to be worrying about dating a guy w a small package anymore
14 Likes
The people telling you that you are superficial are judging you and being rude. You asked a legitimate question and pointed out his good qualities but whether people want to admit it or not, sex is a big part of a relationship and if your not satisfied, I think you should move on. I wouldn’t tell him that is the reason but you need to think about your happiness too
18 Likes
I’m going through the same thing. He’s perfect minus that.! And I’ve tried girl! I just can’t work with it lol
3 Likes
Yikes look into some male enhancers perhaps:woozy_face:
Been there myself but his oral skills were off the chain! So I kept him around.
So if he doesn’t have some other skills than you won’t be happy and you’ll end up searching for satisfaction with someone else. Trust.
1 Like
What type of cave you got girrrlllll ? jk jk . Use toys . He has fingers and mouth if you really like him try different things out, toys positions if not go find something bigger that fits your cave 
it is what it is
3 Likes
How would feel if he judged you on small boobs, or a loosey ho-ha?
8 Likes
They make toys for this situation… this is something you can fix having some one treat you like chit an be a shitty person you cant.
if you were in a long term relationship and something your partner couldn’t preform what would do leave him or figure out something
1 Like
Little to me with a curve was a GODSEND . Lawd Jesus , I was wrong about men. Here I am , my life is ruined by a nerdy man who loves dinosaurs and wears glasses lol 
that curve in it. Not huge but he was my first vaginal orgasm
2 Likes
He might be a Grower not a show er , it’s not the be all and end all just enjoy his company .
It’s too bad you feel this way . Sounds like you need to move on and he needs to find someone who appreciates what he has to offer 
4 Likes
All I wanna say is this: if “size” is the issue with this man then move on.
Believe me when I say there’s man out there with a big ass junk and don’t know how to pleasure a woman so mind as well focus on what you really want and if that’s a big Dick man then keep looking girl 
Stop breaking your head if that doesn’t make you happy enough besides the poor guy being wonderful to you then move on 
I’ve been married 10 years and he has a small package lmbo. But he knows how to use it and we are about to have out 5th child best advice I can give… go buy toys together and let him use them on you! Makes a whole big difference!
You have to decide if that’s a deal breaker for you. If it is, do him the kindness now. If not, then you gotta figure out a way for it not to matter
4 Likes
Girl Keagle’s are definitely good to do. Do you guys have a kinky side? Try making a homemade sex video or you can always get him a cock ring. Although honestly it sounds like you aren’t used to being treated right. Otherwise I don’t think you would be complaining about anything. Sex is just sex. The feeling of love comes from the heart. My dear it sounds like you have a great great guy that would do about anything for you be grateful for what you have not what you don’t. Thank God for the blessing of the this mans heart and sincerity to you. Don’t be ungrateful.
4 Likes
It’s not the size, it’s what they can do with it 
but if you already know your sex life is going to suck then don’t continue. But keep in mind there is oral, toys, and enhancers
1 Like
Tell him to be good at oral
Do some kegels & tell him to try viagra. Maybe you’re not the only one not satisfied🤷♀️ he may have a small d and you may have a loose v. It could go both ways.
3 Likes
If you hit the right angle, that small package is going to hit your g-spot every time. Just saying. Thats one area the big guys can’t speak on usually. They’re too busy trying to get it in deep that they completely miss the entire thing.
6 Likes
Im sure “yours” isnt all that either.
3 Likes
Always toys y’all could play with
Try having sex before saying it matters…had to edit or else FB was gonna intervene.
Toys, a c-ring? Fingers, tounge etc. Many possibilities. And a big plus is that bjs are a lot easier for you!
10 Likes
Buy some like a virgin from pure romance. It makes your walls swell.
1 Like
Ask him if he’s opposed to pumping
Really on Facebook! No need@
1 Like
Sex toys. Even if he’s well endowed, they’re fun😃
Guys should just read the comments lol
I dated a guy for 6 months we finally slept together no foreplay no nothing. I ended it the next day i ended it… sex isnt everything but its important.
2 Likes
Teach him how to eat 
lol
Either love him as he is or let him loose to find someone who does.
9 Likes
Sounds to me like you don’t deserve the guy
8 Likes
Pretty sure there was a song about this from the 90s 
2 Likes
Jasmin Broadhead
Sometimes size doesn’t matter, if he knows how to use it and other stuff
1 Like
Size doesn’t matter its how you use it there are other things you can use toys ect
If you aren’t enjoying it then best to let him know now rather than a few months down the line
Size isn’t everything but I personally cannot be with a person that I’m not attracted to or cant feel! It isn’t a matter of being loose its a matter of someone having a finger windy
1 Like
Get an extender thing for men that they put on it to make it longer and wider…
Maybe have a conversation and get creative. Would be a shame to lose out on a good guy for that reason. There are plenty of other ways to be satisfied
3 Likes
Some of ya’ll calling out your man on here like we’re not gonna peep your profile. Maybe it’s just me, I’m nosey.
41 Likes
Why are all of you telling her "let someone else have that man and appreciate him"
she’s not being mean or rude, she’s being real. sex isn’t everything in a relationship but it is a big factor. You can’t be truly happy with someone if you’re not being please in bed, because if you’re not being pleased, you’re not going to want to have sex and then he isn’t pleased. So no one’s happy.
22 Likes
Girl. Bye. Come on. Sex means a lot more than anyone wants to admit. If u can’t have everything. Choose. Bald head. Or brown eyes over blue. But girl. Never the dick…
16 Likes
Move on n let him find someone who will actually want him n not cause of his penis size. You’re honestly judging him n he doesn’t deserve to b with someone like u
Alonica Boyd read this