Decide if it’s a dealbreaker for you. You’re allowed to do what you want with your own life.
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I think you know the answer… If u don’t see yourself being with him now bc of his size don’t go any further and hurt feelings and waste time when it could have all been avoided in the beginning
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Would you choose a half hour of pleasure over a lifetime of happiness? Get creative and let him love you like never before…
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Well there are other things yall could do. Like how is his 
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TEACH HIM TO USE THAT TONGUE!!!
But really. Teach him to eat you out to the point of getting dicked doesnt matter. After you have your orgasm then let him have fun.
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It isn’t always about the size of ur ship but about the motion in ur ocean.! Only u no the answer.!
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Get some toys and educate him on other stuff you like. 
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Maybe he’s good with his mouth/tongue 
It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean 
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I can’t believe how hateful some of these women are being…their man must not be packin much do what makes you happy whether people want to admit it or not attraction both physical and sexual is part of what keeps a relationship strong and happy…and I’m sure there are women who are fine with “less than” but that doesn’t mean everyone else has to be
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Omg happens 2 me all the time!! I know there r people on here that will say it don’t matter but really yes it does. It made me not even wanna look 4ward 2 sexual intimacy. Had 1 once I swear had a micro penis. Ugh. I prefer a well hung dude. Even average would b great.
Long as he can use his tongue, you can climax and use a toy lol
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- sex is soooooo much more than inserting a penis in a vagina tho
- you’re responsible for your O and there is nothing wrong with exploring new ways to get there
Omg are you dating my ex??? Lol
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Ask him if he is into cuckold? if not, ask him if he would wear a sleeve? Or use a strap on? And do some dp? If you care for him and he makes you happy and treats you good, find a way around it.
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I mean if he is a great guy then it doesn’t really matter could always buy a dildo then when your close let him slide on in. There is ways for you to be fulfilled even if he is small x
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Tongue, toys, fingers
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I mean… There’s a whole lot of guys with huge dicks they don’t use right. Take a chance! 
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I was always told doesn’t matter about the size, as long as they know how to use it.
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TT girl I needa talk to ya…
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You don’t deserve this man. If that is all you are worried about buy a horse
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But like how many inches are you talking about?
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As long as he can eat it you good girl, if not they have toys and what not…try new things
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If there’s LOVE then size doesn’t matter!
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Stop being shallow and get to know the guy. Or yes move on and he will find a female that doesnt let that affect them
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Thumb wrestle and leave
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My #2 was an ex who was by far the smallest I’ve ever been with…
(Legit walked out half way thru, the first time, and was not gonna call him back… He was eager to learn thou and ended up being amazing…
I had a guy like that, there are plenty of toys out there… but, I love real beef 
No longer with small fry 
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I was married to a guy that was lacking in that department… we made it work and had two beautiful boys.
But when we divorced I realized everything I was missing out on when I started dating again.
I was unhappy with our sex life and it affected us in many ways. I see both sides of it… if you’re unhappy sexually maybe talk to him and see if there are other ways to spice things up?
Next time, I would definitely run. As unpopular of an opinion as it may be.
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You are a shitty girlfriend 
. Let him go so he can find someone thats not immature like you.
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You’ve answered your own question being satisfied in the bedroom matters.
Sorry size matters. A 3incher isnt going to cut it. Been there done that. 
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Shallow get to know this man he sounds wonderful and if he’s as wonderful as you explain I’m sure it’s something you can talk about but if that’s all your worries about let him move on and find a women who truly appreciates all of him being a dv survivor I would take a kind man any day over the size of their penis.
Malika Sibera
I love this page
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If it’s not what you want move on with your life, it’s better than cheating on him then recking two lives,not petty but being real with yourself and him
Maybe you just got a wide deep vagina. It’s not small you’re just huge
Good head fixes that girlfriend
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The best sex I’ve ever had was with someone how didn’t have a huge 
. My husband won’t so most things. He’s very vanilla very basic very about him. I rarely get off.
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If that’s something that is a deal breaker for you, just be honest and stop seeing the guy.
Wow,some comments hold nothing back:joy:
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So find a diff guy then if it’s an issue
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I couldn’t be with a man that couldn’t satisfy me. For me love also means a good sex life, as I’m a very sexual person. I’d have to walk away.
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Don’t tag him along if between his legs mean more to you then how he treats u . Personal it’s not how bog or how small it’s if they know how to use it right
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I’ve seen small like a 8 year Olds small and I wouldn’t know what to do either I don’t care for sex but I’d imagine knowing I can’t do anything with it will make me want it more
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Who cares if he has a small package sex isn’t everything if he treats ya good and stuff and iwas told it’s not about size if he knows how to operate it and my exes were all small and I was ok with it I have 3 kids so apparently small packages still work
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Toys sweetheart toys. Even toys attached to him as in çock rings that vibrate elect. I use pure romance
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If it is a deal breaker then let him go now. He can’t change what he was born with, so don’t string him along.
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If he is a big guy and loses some weight it will elongate the penis
Just because he’s small doesn’t mean he can’t satisfy you. If he is a good man, treats you right, and is able to satisfy you in any way sexually, why would you not give him a chance?
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If he isn’t what you are looking for you should not even go further with him just let someone else take him and enjoy him
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If it’s a deal breaker to you, that’s fine. Personal preference is personal preference, period. He’ll find the right person for him who doesn’t mind it. No judgement here. Let him go now before you lead him on.
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Jessica Ann Corbett
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I was in a similar situation… i ended it, but wasnt specifically for the ultra small package reason. . Was def a factor, being unsatisfied is a big deal in a relationship and it doesn’t mean your shallow. Sometimes ppl arent compatible sexually
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So buy a toy. A “package” isn’t the only answer.
Grow up sex isn’t all there is to a REAL RELATIONSHIP
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You sound horrible too… maybe your “lady parts” are too big. That poor guy. Him being a total sweetheart should be good enough. He was comfortable enough to be naked around you and you post shit like this?!. What if he posted about your mammoth vag?
Look I’m a firm believer that sex is important in a relationship. If the sex isnt good, then it’s not gonna last.
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Maybe it’s not him you might be pretty wide
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Experiment with toys with him, the size doesn’t always matter especially if he treats you well and you love him.
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If you like him every other way, Id just get a toy for you guys to play around with or do oral more. be careful not hurt his feelings tho, men are sensitive about that:rofl:
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Wonder how big your boobs are…
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Use toys during s3x.
If you don’t wanna hurt his feel goods, just tell him toys are your kink.
Love don’t need measurements…love is love except unconditionally…
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Buy a clitoral vibrater and use it, you’ll both enjoy it.
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How big are your boobs?
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All these women “sex isn’t everything” pshh. Girl I feel ya, I once dated a guy that had what amounted to a micropenis. Lots of toys, lots of mouth stuff, lots of experiments. Chances are he knows he’s small, don’t make a big deal out of it, just be honest with him.
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How’s his tongue game? as long as you’re having orgasms…
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There are some women commenting implying that it’s mean or judgmental
Bottom line - intimacy isn’t just sex but it is an important aspect to some relationships. Don’t feel guilty about that. Didn’t blast the guy’s name and photo.
While later in some marriages/long term partnerships it can become less and less of a roadblock it IS one for you now, don’t feel bad about that.
The advice I give with any issue in a relationship, communicate. Respectfully but honestly. He may be more than willing to find a way to create a fulfilling sexual aspect to your relationship. It’s an awkward conversation of course but he’s a kind man, be kind back and talk with him openly.
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Clearly he needs to leave you because you don’t deserve him if that’s what your concern is in the relationship… 
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Does he have a tongue?
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If you talking lil smokies small let him go.
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If it’s that big of a deal they have sleeves to add on to his size.
Unless you have a wide set vagina, you can make that Vienna sausage work. Deep tonsil that little man and lash it with your tongue. Motor boat the base and tickle the sack…smack it on your chin and gobble gobble gobble!!
I was in the same situation w a guy that I was dating. I couldn’t handle it. It lasted only a month. He was tiny and I was so frustrated. Sex is a very important part in a relationship and you need to be satisfied. Them being nice doesn’t cut it.
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First of all please ignore all the hateful comments and focus on finding a solution that is beneficial for both you and your bf. You are in no way in tthe wrong for knowing your body and needs! Check out this article for tips on positioning and other ways to increase sensations…if you decide to look into bedroom accesories PM me! I can help you find a C Ring or toy that gets you where you need to be!
I’d rather have a little dick attached to a man who I know would respect me and value me as his equal…Than some big or average sized dick that’s attached to a man who’s gonna think he’s Mr. “Big Dick”walking tall and “all the women want me” and totally disregards your needs and feelings…on the other hand: what that mouth do?? I’d rather have a guy eat me out then get his…but you do you though, I’m just saying…
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We vibe! That’s a game changer. Be honest about sex. It’s a big part of a relationship for some people. Communicate your needs as long as he isn’t a turd (which he doesn’t sound like) he’ll want to make you happy too. Sex isn’t fun when it’s one sided. Toys, oral, anal all options to spice it up. Have the awkward conversation then go to the local lovers lane!
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Maybe your pussy is fucking huge??? Women wonder why they can’t find a good man your all full of shit period maybe your tits are small just nipples maybe your ass is flabby and fat and gross think about that before anything else sweet heart
U can get a sleeve that goes over him.
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I think it would perfect if he dumped you, especially if he said something like “I’m sorry we have to break up because your ears are too big! Goodbye forever Dumbo!”
If you didn’t get my point I’ll spell it out for you… You are judging him based on one of the few things that he has absolutely no control over. So Ms. Perfect, can we see a picture of your perfect self?
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seriously knew a guy and it was ridiculous he always had a thing for me and he was married! well one day he just walked into my apartment they lived right across the way and my friend was there also well he just whipped it out right in front of us and I straight looked at him and said what the f*** you think you’re going to do with that? I shit you not it was smaller than a sausage in the Vienna can 
I still don’t know how he had five children with this blessed wonderful wife of his. 
Just realize after u have kids your not going to care about sex you’ll be to tired
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Get a sheath? Lots of toys it will be OK x
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Who cares? As long as he treats you good and his small package does the job/what it’s supposed to, you’re good!
How would you feel if he said you were wonderful except you had small breasts and he doesn’t know what to do with that?
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Lol make him eat it 
there are ways around it.
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Hey they’re are other ways of pleasure… Does he hit on any of those?? If the answer is no then . Yeah maybe toys or something
If you’re so shallow as to think that’s anything important, then you need to show him who you really are so he can leave you that doesn’t mean anything at all, except that you’re a shallow jerk.
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Hows his head? That can for sure make things better. Also maybe introduce playing with toys together. Not like on him but he use them on you. You both may enjoy that. Now if he treats you bad then ummm leave because life is too short for small penises and be treated like dirt.
He is not for you. Its pretty straight forward. Find someone you enjoy. It doesnt need to be a drawn out thing. No hurt feelings, you cant change it so just move on
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Maybe it just seems small to you because your a fat B$&ch 
and anything big you can’t feel it anyway cos your guts is in the way of enjoying what he really has LMAO
Some of these people are mean. Sex is important to you, and you have a right to be concerned. They don’t need to berate you for that, and I’m sorry they are.
Experiment. Fingers, oral, both, toys, anal… there’s many other ways for you to have an orgasm. Be open with him. Maybe you can avoid telling him his package is small, and just tell him you wanna get freaky? Watch some porn before you talk to him, and see if there’s something that “tickles your fancy” if you need ideas… sex should be mutually enjoyed. There’s no shame in admitting that it may not be.
I, myself, find sex to be an important part of my relationship. It’s not the only component, but it’s part of it.
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I’ve gotten better results with a little bit smaller than to big. Have you even slept with him?
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If you’re just dating… U can say its just not working out… But if u have feelings for this man . then theres other things you can do… Be creative…
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Leira Marie Rivera
Hester Moore
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You’re forcing it if you’re asking strangers. Let him be happy with someone else
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It’s not the size of the tool that matters but what he does with his tool.
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Tell him to use his mouth more
Why are people so rude in the comments, no where did it say she was wanting to break up with him but hey if she’s not satisfied and is looking for help to improve sex why is that such a problem.
There are a lot of other options for you, try using toys, or being blindfolded and this can help heighten other senses making you feel more then what’s there, also lots of foreplay, there are even certain lubricants you can buy to help make you more sensitive down there so the feeling of touch can be optimized. There are lot of ways around these issues and people need to be more educated instead of shaming other women for not being pleasured by men. Pleasure on both sides is very important and no one should feel ashamed to ask for help.
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Buy him a sleeve… some even vibrate.
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Move on… if you are already disappointed, it will only get worse. Let him find someone that don’t care.
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