Letm stick you you in your A** you’ll feel it 
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If it matters, knot much u can do short of electro-shock therapy…time to break the news and move on…he deserves ur honesty if nothing else
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If hes a good catch otherwise improvise. There’s many ways to satisfy.
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Girl, if his Australian kiss( the kiss for down under) is good… You can work with the other.
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If you’re not satisfied in your relationship let him know see if it can be fixed. Other thing’s he’s willing to try.
It’s better to figure it out now rather than later. Sex usually isn’t a big issue until you’re not having it or you’re not satisfied with it.
I feel for you. I was in a relationship with a guy with this situation and he was great in every way except the bedroom. I’ve never been more physically attracted to someone but so sexually turned off. I thought I could get past it but personally sex is a big part of the relationship for me and it just didn’t work out. It’s not that he was small but that he didn’t know how to work with what he had. Felt like I was hooking up with a virgin every time.
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If he’s good deal with it shit good men are very hard to find in this day and age and learn how to take care of yourself if needed . You do you but their are plenty of ways to keep satisfied
Some of the best gifts are wrapped in tiny packages. Don’t forget that.
If he’s ok with it, u should be 2
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Honestly. Why are so many people commenting on this from the males perspective? Does the woman’s needs and wants matter at all? She is the one asking for advice. And just because she’s unsatisfied does not mean she’s gonna cheat. You judge-mental, non-supportive people make me so angry. I see the hate in your heart and the pain you inflict.
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Get a dildo to finish yourself off if you’re not happy in the bedroom.
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Girl if you are not satisfied you will never be, and if you have a passionate side then you might just have to let this one go. Not everything is about pleasure but it is a big part in a relationship. You guys can stay friends if he’s a good guy but don’t tell him it’s because of the small package, that can scar a man…
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There are SO many ways to be intimate that don’t involve average/large penises.
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If you don’t want him because he has a “small package” that’s kinda shallow. Size isn’t everything and there are ways around it. Personally I like guys that have a small package over guys with big ones but that’s just me. But in the end, it’s personality that matters the most to me.
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Melissa Jones I’m speechless here 
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Dont do it cause your gonna a end up cheating even if you say you wont you will that’s one of the most important things in a relationship gotta be satisfied in e very way
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Why in the actual F does size matter?? If he’s a good guy and does the job then size shouldn’t matter
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Maybe try incorporating some toys? If he’s amazing in every other way you should be able to look past his size.
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You’re going to win every single argument so that’s a plus.
On a serious note, some women prefer smaller packages, some women prefer giving birth, some women like girth, some women like length. I’m not naive enough to tell you (oh it shouldn’t matter, you’re so shallow, blah blah blah). It does in fact matter. We are all built different and life experiences make things more or less appealing. In other words, you like what you like and that’s that. So, if you haven’t slept with him yet, and you have a connection and your not waiting for marriage. Sleep with him, see if he has made up for it in other ways. If it’s good, then stay with him since he seems great in all other aspects. If it’s not for you and it’s bad, do NOT SETTLE. You will be miserable and always have a desire that could possibly lead to infidelity and he doesn’t deserve that. Not ever feeling satisfied will be an issue. I know there are toys, vibrates, and all that, but let’s all be honest here, there is no replacement for realife good 
. I promise you there are women out there that would prefer that or that sex isn’t a real big part (pun intended) of their relationships. You have already said it is for you and there is nothing wrong with that. Everyone has preferences. I like dark hair, dark features, dad bod. I have never been attracted to blonde, red headed men. Those are left for my fellow women who love that type. That’s why we are all made differently with different taste. You’re not shallow for that. Test it out, see what ya think. Could you be happy with that sex life for the rest of your life. If you’re not into that idea, order a dildo similar in size and see how it goes. You’re not going to get to feel the feelings and whatever else he may throw into it, but depends on how deep your willing to investigate (pun intended). Goodluck!
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If you’re not satisfied then let him know. Only you can decide if it’s a deal breaker.
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After so many years together sex isn’t even gonna matter anyways but how he treats you and makes you feel will always matter. There’s other things you all can do to satisfy you until then
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some times dudes with smaller than average bits are the best in bed. They make more effort with foreplay and really try to satisfy you. Dudes with big dicks seem to think so they need to do is stick it in and they’re all about getting themselves off. There are hands, tongue, toys, creativity is your only limit.
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Teach him where to touch you!! My man sometimes don’t even need to get to that part, he wears me out other ways
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Out of small packages comes big things.
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Girl on top might help compensate
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I think she should just keep working on the problem:laughing:
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I just want to say that men don’t choose the size of their package. He can’t help his size. And if you’re asking for advice and you’ve already said “ little enough that it matters” then you’ve made your decision. Asking for advice on this is like tossing a coin when you already know what side you want it to land on. You should let him go and he can find someone who appreciates all of him and everything he has to offer because If you stay- you’re always going to think 
he’s little and I’m unsatisfied.
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Post his phone number or FB account and then leave him. There are plenty of ladies on here that are waiting for the signal to jump in and console him 
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I dated a guy who had a micro penis and I couldn’t do it. If it’s not enough then best to end it.
Break up with him because you already have made an issue out of his package. But don’t make him feel less because you want more. He will find love but not with you.
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Girl ur not wrong for not wanting a teenie weenie lol 
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The ones that got something to say it’s probably because there dude has one
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I’m going to have the unpopular opinion.
First, it doesn’t sound like she’s shallow. She’s reaching out for help on how to deal with it. She hasn’t technically defined “small package” so none of us know exactly how small she’s talking about. There have been some great suggestions about other ways to engage, toys, etc.
Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. There is medical definition of “micropenis” which is under 3”. If this is what she is talking about then many of the suggestions here won’t help and medical intervention is going to be the only avenue to physically improve length. There are some substitute toys are on the market to help with this. You will need to decide if this is something that matters enough to move on or Pursue the relationship. You say he’s a really nice guy. More than likely he is aware of his “shortcomings” so he may be open to some of the ideas as other have suggested and you could be pleasantly surprised. Ultimately, you need to decide what works for you in a relationship and go from there.
Mom - if you’re reading this, sorry 
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Stop wasting your time and move on
deal breaker… by…
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G spot is only 1-2 inches inside us women lol… you should be ok. Especially since he seems great to you don’t let his penis size make you leave… big things come in small packages girl!
Personally I was with someone b4 that had a weird condition where he couldn’t get all the way hard
…it made a few things alil more difficult but all in all we still had amazing sex somehow 
Give the dude a fair shot!
Ask to include some toys in your play time. Make sure he knows how to make you cum before you even get to that part… Always tell someone how you wanna be touched, eaten, played with, etc. And make sure you get off from it. It’s really as simple as that. And by that time, he will be so ready to bust from you getting off, that he won’t last long enough for you to care about his size 
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Size matters for some people. I believe it’s one of the top 5 most important to a healthy and happy relationship. If you’re not satisfied sexually. You’ll find it harder to be happy elsewhere from frustration. Yes. He may be able to satisfy your needs sexually. But not your wants. And a “small package” just won’t drill that spot. Some people need it. Some people dont
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Unsatisfied horny people…
how’s he’s tongue?
foreplay…
it might grow lol x
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The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. He seems like he’s a good guy and he treats you right.
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I personally feel that if he is not meeting your needs sexually, then its not worth to continue. People may call you shallow or whatever else has been said above me but sex is a HUGE part of a relationship. Its something people do to be intimate with each other and show their affection, and if that isn’t met then its gonna start affecting other parts of the relationship. It doesnt even have to be about a small penis, if you dont have that spark or connection, then its just not there. Its not necessarily anyones fault, just means its not the right fit. <<< see what I did there??
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I want to say something so bad but I just can’t …you’re welcome to private message me 
This is like a guy saying mmm her tits are far too small it’s an issue for me but she’s amazing…I just don’t know what to do…it’s disgusting…these are things we can’t help…if you aren’t completely satisfied at the start with what you have you never will be and you will just settle and ruin this poor mans chance at real happiness. Leave him alone.
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I’d rather be treated right tbh but I guess everyone is different
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God gave him ten fingers and two fists… improvise
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Sex toys, lots of em.
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Remote control sex toy he can control it you go mental
My fiance has a “small package.” Every time is like christmas morning.
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Honestly for me I wound ghost them whoops better than cheating later
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If he knows how to use it that’s all that matters if he doesn’t try to teach him if he still can’t get it going then maybe walk lol i feel like it’s hard to find a really good dude now a days and if you do well… he’s usually small lol
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If that’s really an issue for you then you should probably split not before one day y’all are living together, and things get heated, and you say some fucked up shit because you buried these feelings. Better just go find someone you’re fully satisfied with. Someone out there will love his little dick, and even prefer it. If that’s not you it’s ok, but it’s what you both deserve is to be happy.
I couldn’t do it. Nope. But on the other hand, I wouldn’t want a King Kong dong either.
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Try different positions?
Their are sleeves you can use. But open conversation about sex and experimenting with other pleasure centered type of play. Sex classes might be optimal for both you to find a happy center. By your description it sounds like he has a micro penis and that it challenging for both of you.
Micro penis is a real thing. I personally couldn’t do it. Sure nice guy, but to never be satisfied in the bedroom. No thanks. Contrary to popular opinion, size does matter.
Not all smaller sized men suck In bed. Have you even tried it out. My 1 ex was definitely on the smaller side but he still knew how to give it just right.
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Has anyone just thought maybe she’s just too loose just saying
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I tried that one time, no thanks!!
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It’s not what a person has that matters it’s how they treat you as a human being 
Dick is everywhere small or not but kindness and loving is not
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Foreplay lots of foreplay
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Nah couldn’t do it…
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Learn the art of fellatio
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Work the balls up in there too
I will say my ex husband is bigger. To the point where penetration was very painful. The guy I’m seeing now had a smaller package and I have zero complaints. He knows what he’s doing and how to make it work, lol.
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Id have to be honest after a certain size or if it’s that small
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Find someone else if you are not satisfied. This will def become an issue!
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Gonna have to take it for a test drive and see if you like it.
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Lindsay Gene Lawson ummmm…
Cant work the middle cause he thing too little 
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Penis pump??? Maybe it’ll grow
If you had tiny boobs and he said “they’re little enough that it’s a problem” you’d be pissed. Don’t pretend to yourself in future relationships that someone’s personality truly matters to you cuz clearly it doesn’t.
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This can’t be fucking real . Holy 
On the plus side of it not being too big…
anal would be a lot more fun
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Would you rather someone who treats you like shit and doesn’t deserve you with a big package? Sorry but if you love him it won’t matter.
I would say you have a little tiny problem.
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If he is not what you want then let him go find a better fit…
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You really needed to say X amount of inches. My ex was 5 but he had great girth and he was amazing! Tbh I prefer small to average that get super hard than a big shlong that just hangs… just my personal preference 
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Every man has different sizes just like every woman. It’s all in how u work it. U know? If u show him what pleasures u ,u can possibly bring the kink and happy sex life in your relationship. But if u aren’t happy with him don’t hurt him more by staying with him.
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Question is do u have any satisfaction whatsoever with him when having sex?
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My ex girlfriend was like throwing a stick into a cave. Juuust saying
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If it bothers you that much , trade him in for someone with a big dick that may treat you like trash. You won’t be the only one that wants the bigger dick. Judgemental h#e.
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Not being personal or anything but is it his problem or do you have a minge like a wizard’s sleeve, may not be him on the small side but you on the big just a thought thought thought 
sorry not sorrt
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I used to have a friend with a small pecker but he solved that problem with his tongue. And honey HE made UP with it.
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from what you are saying ,me thinks that you do not Love Him , and if that’s the case leave Him . So He can find someone Who will Love Him.
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Bigger is always better
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. The guy I am dating has a "small package": Advice?
Are you attracted to him? Ask him to use toys on you. Teach him to eat vajayjay.
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Means nothing. And if you love him it really doesn’t matter.
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What if he was complaining about you having small boobs or a flat booty? Or god forbid a loose snatch…love should be able to see past that and if you can’t, then let him go find someone who will.
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Means your willing to give up a good guy cause he has a small package and probably end up with a toxic guy with a big one
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I wouldn’t worry too much about it. If it’s a serious relationship and you end up getting married, well, let’s be honest here…
If I put a dollar in a jar for every time I had sex during my first year of marriage, I’d have a jar full of dollars.
If I took a dollar out of the jar every time I had sex during my second year of marriage, I’d have a jar full of dollars.
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It’s the motion in the ocean!!! Lmao teach him how to do it rt
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He needs to learn new ways to make up for the size
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You can try talking about possibly talking to a sex therapist to help the two of you out. They’ll suggest techniques you can both try to have that pleasure.
It may be cliche but size really does not matter if you truly love someone. I have no complaints whatsoever in that department with my fiancé but if there was an issue I would still love him just as much, he’s an amazing man in every way and showed me what true love is and it had nothing to do with sex. There are so many other things he can do to please you and finding an actual, genuinely good man is damn near impossible so my advice is don’t ruin what you’ve got for selfish reasons, and show him how to please you in other ways.
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Sex isn’t everything in a relationship but it is important. If it’s something where y’all are ok introducing toys then do so. If he’s not comfortable with that then y’all may have to talk about other ideas.
Sharon Louise Pemberton
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It isn’t the motion in the ocean or whatever the dumb saying is. If he is little and cannot satisfy you In other ways…then that’s very sad.
A guy can be the sweetest,nicest…but if he doesn’t have much of a penis and CANT satisfy you other ways then it’s like almost a deal breaker.You need to be comfortable with him and happy, if your having any second thoughts then don’t waste anymore of your time.
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Sucks you can find the right characteristics in a mans personality and then BOOM… no sex game 
I can’t really say tho… Depends on how strong the connection is… Idk … I don’t wanna sit around thinking about it either… 
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Lmao you can leave him if it matters to you that much, it’s not like it’s in his control and what’s important is if he knows how to use it 
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