Valid question Amanda Watson
Lock him in Chasity 
Love shop 
many options
Have Sex On The Couch.
Monica Sonnier is it TH?
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Patricia Priest 
#EndItSis
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. The guy I am dating has a "small package": Advice?
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Theres more to life then sex. If thats the only reason you want to cancel the relationship I feel sorry for u
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Sexual compatibility is super important in any relationship. If both you are not pleased, it won’t work in the longest run. There should not be anything wrong with that either. Some people fit together and some people just don’t! You wouldn’t buy a car that you don’t like to drive.
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Can you forward this guy to me, I could really do with a good man who shows me love a treats me right
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If this guy is as great as you say he is and truly cares for you…Then I say if there’s a will, then there will be a way. Sex is very important in a relationship, but it is not the only important thing. Only the two of you can decide how important it is and if you’re both willing to do things to improve on that, that are of course feasible.
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If you cant compromise with his short comings then i would go ahead & end things. Dont tell him thats the reason that would be traumatic for him but also dont feel bad about ending things for this reason. Thats a major part of a relationship…
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I don’t know how to say this without being an asshole. If it’s a true soul connection, size does not matter. I know it sounds like a cliché but truly, I believe that. Sex is so much more than size. It’s an art, create your masterpiece. Use your imagination, size will not mattter. I promise…it will not.
If he treats you right, he’s a keeper from the start. Small package, big heart. It’s hard to find a real man these days. If you’re into oral sex, foreplay, and/or toys, maybe offer those into the mix. There’s many ways to have fun in the bedroom and it shouldn’t be limited by how big or small his package is. Explore your options.
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Better be good with his tongue then:rofl:
get a toy and teach him what you like 
Dang how small we talkin, like Vienna, little Frank’s, connecah, I’m just kidding
Hope you choose whatever makes you happy in the long run.
Crystal
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There’s more to a relationship then sex - but you also don’t want bad sex for the rest of your life.
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If your unable to get off I personally would end it , but if your still getting off all good plus I think there is pills a guy can take
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It may not be the size of his organ that is the problem, but the size of the cathedral he is playing in
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Be in love and have an open relationship.
People say the sex doesn’t matter, get toys and make it better but that is bs.
If you are a sexual person, you know what you need. If you are not, you know what you will settle for
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Good for you girl! You hooked a good one!
Could you give actual size comparison? Have you actually measured it?
Is he a “grower, not a shower”?
Is he open to different positions so you both maximize pleasure?
Honestly I’ve heard being on top is best for when you’re with a guy on the smaller side.
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There is literally toys in the market for this! Dont loose a great guy because of physical issues
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I dated a guy with a small package 
only 1 position that would work & feel good but got boring 
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I believe they make sleeves for his package…to add length and girth
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I had this situation once but his head game was phenomenal 
I’d say if its something you BOTH are into, bring toys into it. If he asks why you want to use toys say its something new your home girl told you, don’t out him to his face. But I agree with other comments if he’s so nice he stands out from the crowd, see if the toy thing works out.
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Could start incorporating toys? Sooo you still get pleasured and so does he.
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You’ll never be satisfied if it’s so small you’re writing about it.
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If you can’t enjoy dating him because he’s small you should probably just end it. He deserves someone who’s not going to make him feel bad about something he can’t change
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There are pills to make it bigger. 
If your posting about it you don’t like him enough. It’s always going to be an issue. If you were “into” him then it would be a whatever issue. Any who an average dick is 5”.
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I waited over 50 years to reunite with my first love and he had prostate surgery so our sex life is very seldom. It’s not easy to keep a hard but the love is so deep till I accept the cuddles. He tried using sex toys at first and I hated it. We just make the best of it when we can. You can get a kidney Dr to do a penile implant. Penile pump.
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He knows this, guys know that they got. (To the ¼ inch) 
Talk to him about what it takes so you can both be happy.
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Is he good with his mouth?
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You could just use toys if your ok with that or try a penis pump
They have toys to extend the size of the penis, try those! Be open about it.
I had rather b tickled to death as to be stabbed to death lol
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That’s what four plays for
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That’s not a problem really I will love him really
Everyone is different with what is important to them. I know when I can’t accept something but really want it to work, I tend to ask everyone’s opinion and over think in hope of convincing myself. In short (no pun intended) you might not be able to get over it, it seems an issue. Sometimes when they are so small they go above and beyond to pleasure you. Sometimes that’s enough and sometimes not. Good luck, it’s a tricky one! I personally wasn’t able to work with it 
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D i y…sort him out after.
He needs to dump you…maybe your "package " isn’t perfect either.
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Small package, big heart. Good heart in men is very rare. If im on your shoe, the package wouldnt be an issue or a reason why i will think twice of having a relationship with him. What matters to me is how pure his heart and good his intentions are to me 
Good catch i might say. 
Maybe his ocean has the good motions. Lol
Here is the thing. If your relationship is mature enough that the two if you are having sex, it’s mature enough to have an open conversation about what works in the bedroom.
A man wants to please a woman he cares about, so figure out what works for the two if you, together, like the adults you are. I assure you he already knows the size of his penis, but he won’t know you need something different in the bedroom unless you let him know.
It’s not going to get bigger lol, work around it.
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From experience: roll with it. There are moves you can do that help and also head is SOOO much easier. Also they tend to give better oral 
have fun hun
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You should have stopped at small package 
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go look for a bigger package lol
Buy a dildo. Problem solved.
Not really much you can do 
There’s plenty more to enjoy 
than just his package
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Enhancer! You can get a penis enhancer sleeve on just about any sex site.
Girl leave. Sex matters… that’s alot of the relationship. He can be so good to you but eventually you’ll get tired of not having that sexual connection and possibly start looking elsewhere. If u don’t feel like u can go anywhere with this don’t waste your time
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Isn’t the real question about whether or not you’re satisfied?
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I dated a guy with a small package… he knew what he had and he knew how to make up for it…
I’ve dated guys with packages dropped off by King Kong and we’re all about themselves!
Explore other ways to get the job done. If it’s not for you than DO NOT FEEL BAD! If he had a bad habit you wouldn’t be shamed Into staying with him just because he was a “nice guy”
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Rediculous maybe he should leave you for the size boobs you have Jesus…
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Move on and let someone else appreciate him and what he has to offer. Good luck on your endeavors of finding a decent person out there
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At the end of the day it’s all about compatability. Sex is an important part of a relationship, I don’t understand why everybody on here is being so rude or getting offended. Size doesn’t matter, it really doesn’t, but if you don’t feel a connection or you’re not sexualy satisfied then maybe you guys just aren’t compatible. AND THAT’S OKAY, some people just don’t connect sexualy.
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I was dating someone with a really small package that always fell out during sexy time. He luckily had a girth tip… but other than that I couldn’t feel anything. It didn’t work out for other reasons- but if he treats you well and you’re compatible everywhere else… try a toy. There’s like penis extension toys- see if he’s open to that. 
It’s not the size of the vessel, nor the motion of the ocean; it’s whether or not the captain can stay in port long enough for ALL of the passengers to get off.
There are plenty of other solutions- toys, strap-ons, sheaths, etc. Just curious… what dat tongue do tho… help him with his game face.
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You could …without mentioning size because I’m sure he knows…just bring up how much you enjoy toys and let him help you pick some out.
If you can’t live with a work around, send him off because you are being unfair
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Jennie Kaye this makes me laugh so hard
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Sex without Love is just as pointless as Love without Sex.
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I think you might loose a really great guy.
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Ask him what that mouth do if thats garbage too…leave
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My advice would be it’s not worth it. If the sex isn’t good it’s prob best to move on. I once dated a guy who was seriously no bigger than my pinky and no fatter than my thumb. Yeah we most certainly broke up once I seen it. I’m too fat for that.
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Leave him and let someone who would actually appreciate him have him. .a relationship is not all about sex so spare his time and heart and let him go
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All you saying she doesn’t appreciate him, and getting upset with her saying that.
Size does matter! Too big and it damn hurts, too small and you can’t feel it. If you don’t have sexual compatibility then the relationship will go to shit because one will be frustrated…
Well try sex be open there are many toys you can add or use in combination with him and alone. Dont make him feel bad
Lol nothing to worry about here Jenny Allison
Stop being so judgemental on his package just be happy his with you beside’s it’s not the size that matters it’s what his doing with it as long as he cares ,that’s you good you should be happy you got a good man with you not all girl’s or women have a good man with them who Love’s them ,that’s them well so stop complaining, be happy with him
Sounds like he makes up in other ways.
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Most women don’t teach orgasm thru vaginal sex anyways - this is what tongues are for
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Duh,there are alot of adult toy stores…Smh
Just keep it in the bed room ,Damn we dont care,
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You can try to ask if he would be willing to use toys and enhancers? Like vibrating cock rings to add stimulation, or they have “sleeves” designed to add length or girth. Another thing is looking for “rhino” and “unicorn” pills that are used to enhance the sexual desire to both parties. Sometimes rhino pills can stimulate to make the erection a bit harder and that could make a world of a difference 
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If it’s a deal breaker for you, then stop wasting his time.
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Im just curious as to what youre gonna say is the reason for the breakup if that should occur? …
The MEN seemed to have gotten very defensive here, some women to, lets look at this in another light… What IF this was a man asking the same thing EXCEPT his ladies Who-ha was a Canyon? I mean couldn’t touch the sides with a gray hound bus type. What would you then offer as advice? Im Sorry but a good sex life is important. It helps people in serious relationships connect on a level that is mentally and physically healing and happy. It helps reduce stress and promotes closeness. I’m talking in HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS guys not one nighters etc… There’s nothing wrong with this question but I think if you care For him although its a very touchy subject talk to him. If he’s that small then this probably isst his first rodeo.
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There are other ways to please a person. It’s not that size that matters, it’s how you use it along with the love and caresses
Really why would you even put that on Facebook omg
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Ya what Vickie said I couldn’t put my sex life out where everyone could see it nothing is private any more
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If you are good then you will survive
Oh wait, is this a public question?
Tell him to use a penis pump or look into a pshot supposedly it increases size and girth
Sex is an important part of connecting in a relationship. If connecting is uncomfortable or unsatisfactory then you can either address it and see if your needs are met or leave and get your needs met else where
Use toys! Just make it more fun. Maybe go to a sex store together and spice things up! I’m sure it shouldn’t matter if he treats you well then great! I’m sure he’s a nice guy that will love to please you. Have a little fun with it. Have him use toys on you etc best of luck!
Hopefully he never sees this post, otherwise you won’t need to make a decision
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I don’t think size matters but if it is a big deal and you guys have a great relationship talk openly about it. It may seem strange at first but if you guys really like each other and want it to work he will listen and share some ideas. Just don’t make him feel bad, talk to him with positive attitude and tell him the truth. I hope things work out for you
Suck on it it will get longer and harder
Buy a vibrator if you don’t have one already
Girl I’m in the same boat kinda… this guy I’ve been seeing is AMAZING but he literally cums in like 2 seconds! I’ve only had sex with him twice and not under like ideal conditions to see like foreplay game and stuff like that but both times he came prematurely
Do him a favor.Breakup with him immediately. If something like the size of his package is a problem you are not in Love with him & wasting his time by taking up space in his head.
Imagine if he is writing for advice for a loose vagina you would be hurt