The guy I am dating has a "small package": Advice?

Just get the vibrating ring to put around his :banana: that should make up for size and still please you

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It’s not the size of the boat, it’s how you row it.
If his package bugs you enough to ask on social media, maybe you should set him free so he can find someone who will love him for who he is, not what he’s lacking.

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This is why foreplay and toys were invented

Conversation first but be delicate about it but be honest with him and maybe suggest different positions or bringing in toys …but first an foremost sit down and have this talk with him

He may thing your little girl is to big for his little boy

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It’s not the size of the wand, it’s the magic it posses

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Deal breaker for me personally

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Maybe it’s not him that is the problem…maybe it’s you :woman_shrugging:

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“ but TT bitch what Imma do with that?”

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Have you actually had sex with the man to know ? I mean I get he has a small package but small doesn’t always mean bad sex… if you haven’t find out you may have to explore other ways to be satisfied in bed . But sounds like he’s a good man Get on top more penetration

I mean the way she’s describing it sounds like a button on fur coat small. It’d be a NO for me…

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is his name daniel :joy::sob:

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As someone that needs a small hand trolley to transport my thick, veiny, covered in wart-I mean, undiseased package around, he will appreciate your honesty.

And if it’s a problem for you being unfulfilled it’s probably better that you end it sooner to avoid things being really difficult later on if he’s having trouble ringing your bell and making your long nasty uncut toenailed toes curl in bed or whatever backyard, pasture or farm you do the nasty at.

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Buy some adult toys lol

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Introduce so extra play (you know) and toys. Wean into the toys though men seem intimidated by toys if you just go for it.

I’m disgusted with some of these comments. Like he NEEDS to do things to make up for something he has no control over. If that’s the case and you’re overweight maybe you should buy starving kids a meal to make up for that. Not a nice thing to say right? :roll_eyes:
Or dumping him over it when most of you would be throwing a fit if a guy dumped a girl for her breasts being to small or her vagina not being tight enough.

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Have you thought of doing exercises on yourself? That will help you both!

Wouldn’t hurt for you to give him directions as well you can’t just lay there and expect him to know if your happy or not tell him what you want if you don’t your the one being unfair

Oral and toys. Sometimes sweet isn’t enough honestly. Try giving it some time and go from there.

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Let the guy go and find a larger wiener to throw down your hallway. Why post it on social media…

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I think it’s a fair question. It’s not his fault but neither is it hers that his “package” isn’t enough to meet her needs. She needs to instruct/teach/ guide him in other ways to please her. He has fingers and a mouth, introduce toys. Be honest and hope his pride isn’t hurt but sticking with someone unwilling to put in work would get real old real fast, especially if he’s getting off and she’s not satisfied.

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If you’re truly in love it doesn’t matter

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Um…if he’s everything perfect for you mentally wise…what should be the problem?

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I think he should run as fast as he can…

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Prioritize your pleasure- try different things in bed and figure out ways to make you both satisfied… or let the relationship go… can’t think of anything else to say

Let him go. He sounds way too nice for you. Also you make yourself sound like a hotdog hallway :hotdog:

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Easy , Get u a man with a big package that treats you like crap, throw him back so the 1 that deserves him can find him.

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Sounds like you wouldn’t have probelm deep throating :joy::rofl:

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Honestly…

Have a serious conversation once you get comfortable enough. Tell him that you want to try an extender. :woman_shrugging:t3: Or something else that sounds good to you. There are so many options in this day and age, that size shouldn’t be a deal breaker…if you love him. If it isn’t love or doesn’t turn into love. I’d move on. Sex is a really important part of a relationship. Nothing says animosity like been dissatisfied sexually.

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I hope he criticizes something you’re insecure about. Because I guarantee you, he’s insecure about it. And you just old the entire world. It doesn’t matter that this is anonymous :woman_facepalming:

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I love going through these posts and reporting nasty comments. Keep em comin

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size doesn’t matter with experience…read books together, watch porn, get more ideas

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Leave then and stop being disrespectful. Do you have little boobs or saggy boobs? Maybe he thinks your vagina is a hallway. How would you feel if he posted about you? Let him go find someone who loves him for him. It’s not his fault how his member turned out. But it’s your fault for staying in the relationship. He needs to run very fast away from you. People who put their SOs down for what their bodies look like should stay single til they learn respect. Nobody’s body is perfect. This post…smdh. Body shaming your SO. Smdh

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First and foremost ladies, we know this is a man’s dignity. It’s one of those that needs to be addressed from the get go. I would talk to him about it. But if its only his package you’re looking for to please you, please move on.

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You guys can use toys that will help

Honestly if size matters that much to you then his personality and who he is must not be as important. Best advice is if his dick size is the deal breaker for you even though you admit he’s wonderful then he’s definitely better off without you.

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You can’t change that about him so what are you expecting to hear???

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There are so many ways and options to help with the situation. But honestly if he knows what he’s doing and knows how to satisfy me then I don’t understand why size matters. If you aren’t satisfied then maybe you should try other means of foreplay, etc.

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If it’s a problem for you then leave that man and let him find his Queen. You sound very ungrateful and you need to be humbled. His package just needs the proper handler and honey you just ain’t it.

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Let him be with someone else who can appreciate his kindness and his whole person. Physicality isn’t everything in intimacy, I’m sure you may have your own physical things you are insecure about.

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Sex is a big part of a relationship… beings you need to ask says you know what you need to do.

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If you have to ask strangers on Facebook what to do that says way more about you than his “small package”

Wow :woman_facepalming:t2:

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The only concern I see is if it’s too small for a condom. And even then, you can get female condoms. Otherwise, everything else can be dealt with. And for the record, if you’re basing a relationship on dick size- you need help. A small one obviously doesnt feel as good, but when you’re in a relationship, with someone, love should trump lust.

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Ummm that’s why they make sex toys lol. Girl, use them things! You do you boo!

Ignore anyone making you feel like shit for asking this question— the moral superiority in these comments is ridiculous :roll_eyes: that being said, it seems that maybe by asking, you’re answering your own question? Personally I’ve found that the little things you thought would get better end up being the reasons it doesn’t work out in the long run. Trust your gut :heart:

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Bring some toys into it. Make it pleasurable for you and exciting for him.

The biggest question is he able to satisfy you? Has he not been able to? I mean he’s a man I’m sure he’s very aware of his “size” if he isn’t satisfying you and you want to work it out then y’all need to sit down and have a talk about how to make it work… Either oral… Or toys ? But you also need to be cautious and considerate of his feelings… I’m sure you’re not perfect… But intimacy is a staple in a relationship… So find something that works for both of y’all :woman_shrugging:t2:

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If that’s a deal breaker he doesn’t deserve you.

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Have you ever thought it might be you instead of his littlet package?

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Put an extension on it…
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Poor guy!
:woman_shrugging:

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People are being super harsh and condescending here, y’all this person has probably not been with someone small before, and I mean if he’s not satisfying you, hes probably still trying to figure it out too.
tbh I think a good place to start, is simply talking to him about, just let him know maybe y’all should experiment a bit with toys and different types of foreplay.
obviously use tact when you talk him, but if y’all truly care about each other and want to be together then just talk it out. :blush:
and oh there are some lube that helps with female stimulation as well.
just talk to him, if it is meant to be everything will work out, communication is key here and there is nothing wrong with asking about it, especially because this is such a delicate topic and should be handled with care, hence why I’m sure you are here asking advice.

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Ever heard good things Come in small packages. How big is his heart, brain, wallet

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If you love him it don’t matter.

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they say its not the size that matters, but the performance. Just sayin’.

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My question: how little are we talking here? :joy::rofl:

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There is nothing wrong with this question. Some issues like these end up in infidelities and clearly you care about him enough to ask for advice. Is it a deal breaker maybe not but being happy in a relationship is key and let’s be real ladies…if the dick isn’t good, she won’t be happy. Toys only last for so long. Maybe a pump? Not sure if those things really work but its worth a try. Tough topic for men, communication is important. Maybe suggest some other fun ways to spice it up :blush:

What a bloody subject to put on Facebook

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Im my opinion if you’re bothered by his penis that much then maybe you’re not really into him that much because if you were this wouldn’t be enough to put you off. Id decide sooner than later what you want before you lead him on too much. Poor guy.

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If it means that much to you, then leave :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Emily Goddard’x dead​:joy::joy::joy:

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Matt Rehm who you been dating man ?

It shouldn’t matter how big it is as long as he knows how to use it.

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. The guy I am dating has a "small package": Advice?

There is something called “micro” and I’m not going to elaborate on that any further. What I will say is, if this makes you uncomfortable relationship wise etc., either put him in the friend zone or let him down easy. Just don’t say it’s me not you, or I need to work on myself. Be honest and let him know you don’t feel compatible.

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If him having a small package bothers you that much then leave him. Don’t waste his time because you’re judging him. It’s not fair to him.

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You can use other methods to have an orgasm. Such as sex toys, cunnilingus, breast stimulation, sexy fun games, mutual masterbation, kissing. You don’t have to be penetrated to have an orgasm. Also, sometimes just being in love can help you orgasm. I wouldn’t focus so much on his penis size girl!

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Yall so judgemental smh :person_facepalming: I’d like to point out to the men thats not how vaginas work :joy: also some of yall women need to chill. Sex shouldn’t be a black n white matter, there’s options my guys. Toys exist, tongue game can be improved and multiple sex partners is a thing :woman_shrugging: quit coming for people

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let me say this…if they got a wonderful tongue game, let them do what needs to be done for your pleasure and then let them have theirs. easy peasy!

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There are other means to help people be intimate, such as toys, enhancers, etc…maybe talk about it with him, see if he is open to other ideas. It’s not always about size and if you care about each other then you can find a way to enjoy one another.

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I dated a guy for 6 years that wasn’t that big but the sex was great and we had such passion it made up for the rest. I also slept with a guy who was over average and had no idea what to do with it. So size isn’t everything!!

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Poor guy is probably thinking the same thing. “I really care for her and she’s Wonderful but she must of got around before getting with me. All it is is just warm and wet.” Lol

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TOYS!! Spice it up.
If he’s a full package… other than the full package :package: do what you can to help him out.

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It’s not the size of the ship, it’s the motion of the ocean. I’m sure there’s other ways he can satisfy you. If not then don’t waste his time. Let him down gently and move on.

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Wait a minute……I thought this was a page about holidays :sob::sob::sob:

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If youre going to to judge him cause hes small then why be with him? Its not fair to him that thats your judging point.

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Invest in lots of toys that can be fun for the both of yall

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If there is no sexual chemistry there is no relationship. Don’t mentally black mail yourself into wasting his time because ‘you owe it to him because he is nice’… He probably is so nice because he knows he is small and it’s his defense mechanism. Life is too short for this nonsense. Leave him be. Go get railed by a proper :rooster:

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If that bothers you then move on let him find someone who deserves him

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I mean, he kinda has to be amazing in all other ways, not to be mean but what I’m hoping is that he’s genuinely a good person consistently and not just because you’re just meeting and he knows he has to make a good impression

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if a guy has a small package but knows how to use it you’ll be all set lol. maybe incorporate some toys too

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Way to body shame the guy. He deserves better

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The sad thing is I’m sure this person has already spoken to her girlfriends about this guy and may have had this guy around them, which is terrible for this guy. Just leave him alone and go find someone who matches your judgmental mentality.

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Even small packages can do the job . Or can be dynamite.

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Guys can’t help their size but different positions work betters with different sizes even small

Dump him and move on

If yall are open as far as conversation wise then bring up options like extenders. They sell at shops and amazon. I knew a guy his package was perfect for me but he wanted bigger so he got one. I’m not a fan but its different sometimes.

Add toys to the mix :woman_shrugging:t4:

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Its not the size of the wand its the magic in it

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One day that won’t even matter. It’s hard to find a man that treats you right!

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Dont hash this out on facebook, se a dr together.

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These ppl act like they don’t have preferences of their own in a partner… :woman_facepalming:t2: its natural. Don’t feel bad because these others want you to. If you don’t feel like he will be able to satisfy you and you’re not interested in toys, which you have every right not to be, then do what the nicer ones have said, and just let him down easy.

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He may have a small organ but it’s probably not played in a cathedral before

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If he knows how to satisfy you other ways, it could be amazing

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Depends really, are you a “bucket”?

It’s gonna matter the first time you get In a fight :joy:

I can’t believe a female would even go there in 2021 and then expect a man to love her hairy, no makeup, fat, and bitchy! If you need to talk to FB about your sex life - and, not him - you are NOT mature enough to be having it! Period!

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I think you know exactly what to do, you’re just looking for advice on how to break it off without hurting his feelings :man_shrugging:

Newsflash : you can’t break up with someone without hurting their feelings / ego. May as well be honest, and tell him that someday he will find a woman who doesn’t care about that, but that woman isn’t you. Done deal.

And ? There are more important things to worry about. I Dated a guy years ago that was huge…guess what, he was a total dick. Literally. That’s like a man saying to his friends her breasts are so little. I go for what is in the heart :heart:. Good Luck

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Better just dump his ass and quit wasting time, he’s gonna need to get some fat moved :joy::100:

Let the poor guy down easy and move on. It’s clearly an issue for you.

It’s also hilarious how many of you are calling this person judgemental :joy: guess what, if you’ve ever rejected a person because they’re not your type, you judged them. Told that ugly dude at the bar no thanks? Judgemental. Stfu hypocrites.

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