Maybe the guy knows what he wants. At least he is open to you and tells you what he wants in life. I would tell him it’s too soon but you’re not us. You have to find what you really want. I was seeing a guy and found out I was pg. I was only 7 weeks when I found out. My first son was only 6 months old at the time. It all depends on what you truly want, nobody else can do that for you.
This is coming across as he wants to get you stuck.
He’s screaming red flags.
He’s crazy. Stay on your birth control. Get a new job.
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Heck No
You should distance yourself from him this weirdo control freak
A baby isn’t something you do because someone you barely know wants one. It’s a lifetime commitment with no give backs when things don’t work out with him. Don’t do it !
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Oh my…its been 2 weeks you don’t even know each other dating wise. Keep using birth control.
Red flag …. I’d ask someone he knows what his last relationships have been like. I’d guess he would be a control freak. He doesn’t know you and you don’t know him. Why on earth someone would tell another person they want to have a family with someone they don’t even know
Please do not…I had a guy like this not even a month into relationship wanted marriage and kids but to leave me for the army after doing getting me pregnant and marrying me…please do not do anything close to a baby or marriage anytime soon with that man!!! Not even 2 weeks later already other girls and even packed and left me took my kids to their dad and went to his parents I was at work that’s why he had my kids they was all at home…yes we was only together not a month and he was round my kids…but I knew him way longer then a month the dating was just new…he was completely different person when the dating started…
You know I was in a similar situation. My man asked me to marry him very early on. We were in a long distance relationship and hadn’t even met yet. Then he started saying he wanted to have a baby with me. At first I was weirded out a little because who wants things like that so quickly? Well when we ended up finally meeting we moved in together 2 months later and a month after that we Eloped 
, now we’ve been married over a year and we have a son. I wouldn’t change a thing. He is the most loving, compassionate, hard working, funny man on this planet and he’s THE BEST daddy. While I recognize I probably just got very VERY lucky, some people just know what they want. He wanted me and he wanted to make a family with me and be apart of the family I had already started before him. Im just saying apparently There are totally normal, very good men out there who genuinely want these things early on lol With that being said, use an abundance of caution. Are you posting here because you really genuinely love this guy and want to be with him too? Just because he wants a baby and wants to get married does not mean you have to do those things right away. If he actually loves you then he will wait until you’re ready. If he gets upset in the slightest that you’d like to wait then RUN its a trap. If he’s simply saying these things because he’s actually just deeply in love with you then he will wait if you want to wait. My advice however DO NOT HAVE A BABY WITH SOMEONE YOU JUST MET. I had been long distance dating my husband for 6 months before I moved him in and we’d been together for 7 months before I married him, together for 9 months before I got pregnant. My second daughter was concieved with a person I barely knew and let me tell you, it’s been a roller coaster trying to coparent. My advice is don’t dump him over the want for a baby and a marriage just explain how you feel. However do dump him if he gets angry about your feelings. If he’s willing to respect you and the things that you want maybe give him a chance, just stay on your birth control 
The reddest of flags dear.
You posted anonymously on a public forum, I think you know the answer to your own question. 
After 2 weeks? Red flag I’d run More Than Moms
Is this a serious question? RUN!
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You have been talking for 2 weeks. He’s trying to pressure you when there’s something that will not be beneficial to either of you when you barely know him. Girl run and dont look back
Throw some holy water on him and run 
Girl…it’s been two weeks…
Why? Does he want to make u preggers?
Red flag. Trust your gut.
No… he doesn’t care how good of a mom you’ll be. You’ve only been TALKING 2 weeks and and already he wants you to stop taking birth control and wants to marry you? This asshat couldn’t even ask you himself if you had a bf. Girl… run.
That’s a carnival of red flags run
RED flag!!! RUN fast from him!!! 2 weeks and already talking kids then marriage…yes run fast and now!!!
RED FLAG!!! He knows that once married or child you will be stuck and that’s when the real him likely will come out. I would proceed with extreme caution
I couldn’t see myself agreeing to marry someone I’d dated less than a year, or intentionally getting pregnant before marriage. Things happen, but that’s what I’d plan for.
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Run. Run. Run. Love bombing and whimsical future decision making are not things a normal person should be doing. You barely know this person and they’re already trying to tell you what to do and planning out your life for you.
Run.
I agree with everyone else run do not walk away from him
Oh ick! Man’s a walking red flag, ditch him!
HUGE RED FLAG! He is trying to trap/ control you. He knows it is harder for women to leave after having a child with someone.
Red flag. Future advice…… if you have to ask if something is a red flag, then it probably is. Run……
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Ummm run, that’s crazy. No way I would have a baby or Marry after 2 weeks. Sounds like a trap to keep you. Cut all ties ASAP.
Two weeks & he’s already telling you to drop your life to stop birth control & have a life with him?! Are you serious?! This is NOT normal!
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Definitely a BRIGHT RED FLAG. 
Dude red flag. Stage 4 clinger. Run.
Run as fast as you can! He’s the type that will isolate you from family, work, hobbies.
Are you kidding? Stevie Wonder could see all the red flags. Open your eyes.
Tell him to kick rocks, what a joke he is!!
Red flag . Take your time there is no rush. Sounds its all about what he wants. Don’t let anyone decide what you should do. Trust your instincts. Asking this question days you are unsure so trust your instincts
A Narcissist would move this fast. Red flag for sure.
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Definitely a red flag but if you like him tell him you’d like to wait, and ask him not to bring it up again until you do when you’re ready. If he can’t respect that then LEAVE! If he us respectful and gives you time there is your answer.
Pay attention for other odd things or red flags you may see that goes with that too.
My question is what do YOU want for yourself?? There is no way I’d get off birth control till I had been with him for a year or more!! People are not always what they seem. Do what’s right for YOU!! Don’t defer to him! YOU are the one that carries the baby and is tied to that child forevermore!! You are the one that has to make ALL of the sacrifices forevermore if he decides to leave !! Be SMART!! Wait till you are ready to take all that on by yourself. And if you love him enough to marry him, then have your baby in that order!! And for goodness sake, don’t marry him because HE wants a baby!! You get married because you want HIM and he wants YOU!! The baby afterwards is a bonus!! Don’t be the wet rag that he just squeezes anyway he wants you!! You have your own will!! USE IT!! He could change his mind in another 2 weeks!! Take your time!!
Eewww there’s a control freak waiting to happen…No😳
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I think it’s a matter of personal opinion, I know some people who got married or had kids right away and have beautiful lives together. The best thing for you to do is talk to him about it and calmly express that you feel having a child so soon or getting married so soon is not something you want.
My grandparents met, then 2 weeks later they were married and 9 months later they had their first child. They had a beautiful life together and had 4 children and several grandchildren and great grandchildren.
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OMG…WTH is wrong with ppl. Two weeks? Any other reaction besides LOL is insane.
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You’re not even officially together and he wants you to have his kid?
Get out now! Red flag run, is his name Jon by chance? Red flag Red flag run run as fast as you can
Red flag, run dont walk!The ones that “fall in love” quick fall out even faster. He doesn’t know you, and you don’t know him… a baby is forever and who you have a child with matters because this is someone you will be tied to forever.
Tell him that’s not what you want at this moment and see what he says he’s moving way too fast
There are more red flags here than the United Nations!
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Oh girl, don’t do it. I’d leave him alone. Sounds like he’s love bombing you.
Run run run 
as fast as you can. That isn’t a red flag that’s a billboard saying he cray.
I’m two weeks? Red flag. Nothing but a red flag.
Two weeks and baby talking??? Ummmm 
seems strange to me.
I think more time is needed to determine this. Sounds like he wants to just play “house” 
This is a serious red flag. He’s talking life-long situations when you guys just started talking TWO WEEKS ago. Don’t stop your birth control for some dude that you 1. Barely know 2. Aren’t even sure you WANT to have a kid with yet. Run. Seriously.
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Omg run as fast as you can! That’s creepy!! Sounds just like someone you DON’T want to have a child with.
Red flag. Real men get married first.
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Um steer clear, that’s weird.
Red flag first things first time
Get a marriage certificate before you go off birth control.
You should get to be a wife and be married if he says he wants to marry you before you bring a baby into the picture - 2 weeks girl no tell him put ring on it first then maybe you’ll stop birth control
Girl that flag isa wavin! No no no
He sounds controlling. He will always be controlling. No family friends maybe no job either. Just saying
Uh…no buddy. Slow down and get to know him first. If it doesn’t work out you are stuck coparenting with this guy for life. Don’t have any kids with someone you don’t know. 2 weeks isn’t enough time. He needs to prove he’s committed before that’s even an option. The cart doesn’t go before the horse. Ever. If I were you, there are certain things I’d expect on his end 1st. 1) he needs to make you his girlfriend… just talking isn’t any kind of commitment. 2) give it a minimum of 6 months before bringing up children again 3) he needs to be willing to commit long term, minimum engaged before I’d even consider going off your birth control.4) he needs to be serious about being a parent, and doing parenting with you. Do you even know how he is with small kids or babies? Test him out. Invite someone you know who has a baby and babysit. That’ll tell you if he’s truly ready or full of it. You’ve gotta know all these things are there before you go down this baby road. A baby deserves at least this and so do you. Also, I’m curious what the rush is? Is he pushing 40 or something? That just seems odd of someone to be so forward with, before he even asks you out on a date.
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Ummm, run. Fast and don’t look back. That’s not a red flag that is a red BLANKET. Lol but for real, I would not engage with that guy.
Why’s this even a thing to question lol the quite obvious answer is to ruuuuuuuunnnnn…two weeks in and he wants you to have his baby lol girl bye 
He clearly isn’t sht and thinks you can do more then just take care of him. Sounds like he wants to keep you stuck and then be more of a not sht mf although I’m sure he’s also completely in lust w you as well which adds to it. Bye dude
After 2 weeks girl RUN!!!
Freaking run!!! Giant red flag!! Possible domestic abuser, controle freak, definitely hiding something…
Red flag if you are not ready for family… But it does sound like a lot of pressure he is putting on you I’d wait a while and see if his feelings stay the same or fizzle out that will be a good indicator if he will stay or run after conception… Jus saying
Red flag!
He is talking marriage and kids after 2 weeks. I get that people know what they want, but him pushing the baby situation is too much. I feel like he wants to trap you. You barely know each other and having a baby is a huge deal on both ends. Marriage is also a huge commitment and both parties need to know each other and their habits. Also, he works with you which makes it seem more dangerous. He can control you on all aspects and you can’t get away from him. Run! Run far away.
Edit to add: if you already have kids, that is a no! He could have ulterior motives. Maybe I watch too many crime shows but that seems creepy to me and gives me some bad bad vibes. You have children to worry about if you are already a mom. Please think closely about him meeting them too soon.
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DON’T DO IT !!! He sounds like a narcissist he wants to control you.Run as fast as you can away from him.
No man that’s responsible would ask someone to have a baby two weeks after taking to you. You don’t even know this man. Your going to be raising that child by yourself because he is very irresponsible and the child will suffer for that. Run while you can.
You are talking to him? Not even dating?
Whoa slow the efff down…it’s only been two weeks and forever is a LONG time 
You’re just talking to this guy?
You’re not in a relationship with him?
RUN.
Keep him as a coworker and set boundaries and explain he needs to stop and find someone else you aren’t interested
A million red flags. Tread carefully.
Oh my…run. He gonna baby trap ya
The fact that she had to ask… I can’t imagine she can run
It’s been 2 weeks…no…red red flags everywhere
Umm, two weeks of talking and he’s already talking babies and marriage….I’d say that’s a no thanks.
Let him go and don’t look back.
This is a messed and twisted thing. Of course he wants you to do what he says because his health and life won’t be impacted like yours will if you got pregnant. Why can’t he get to know you better and you BOTH decide if and when you decide to get pregnant. It is definitely creepy controlling and weird and a way for him to always be involved with you ( if you have his baby and he decides not to be with you)
And no one can tell if anyone is going to be a good parent. Don’t let him cloud your judgement with that nonsense. I would stop talking to and dealing with this weird guy. Do not stop taking your birth control.
Red flag!!! run like hell…
After 2 weeks? That’s a walking red flag.
This a red flag. Set your boundaries and a timeline. And why would you even consider it, if that’s not what YOU wanted. This is love bombing. And it’s just best you just don’t deal with dude.
Number one rule don’t date who you work with. Trust me at all and bad then you’ll have to look at them every day and who in the world wants to get married and have a baby and you don’t even know him that’s a red flag girlfriend dump that guy he sounds like he’s a little sick in the head.
I HAVE NEVER SEEN MORE OF A RED FLAG IN MY LIFE.
I mean that in the nicest way possible. 
Sounds like he wants a baby maker.
Duh. Red flags all over the place. Run. Now.
Girl no don’t do it. My Babydad loved me after two weeks n trust n believe it’s not good at all
Red flag! Having babies is a decision you should be talking about, not him making that decision alone. He’s a control freak
You.must be a fool or someone who is begging for love
Narcissist. Run. He’s love bombing.
You’ve only been talking for 2 weeks and he already wants a baby and marriage? Seems a little soon to me
Committing to parenthood with someone should be several commitments down the road from the “2 week” mark, this guy is shopping for a brood mare not a life partner
Run and don’t look back!
Big red flag. Narcissist. He’ll pull you in and suck you dry (not in the fun way) as someone who got pregnant 3 months into a relationship with one. It won’t be the fairy tale he’s picture painting for you.
You’ve been talking for 2 weeks and he wants you off birth control? Major red flag run and don’t look back!
Are you crazy. No don’t stop the bc pill. He could leave you at any moment. Get to know him if you choose. After 2 weeks n someone telling me something so life changing . Lol. I’d say y goodbye
Absolutely not. After 2 weeks?! Sounds controlling honestly. Run away.