Molly, you in danger girl.
Have you lost your mine.
Do not trust him. You do not know him well enough. Plus he works at the same place.
Narcissist - RUN. Generally this is a tactic to get you on the hook before you see the real them. Then your stuck. Run. Red flag.
And you really have to ask for advice about this nut job?
Mentally not quite there… run…
Red flag no way I would jump in with someone telling me they want a baby when you not even dating tell him only way u gonna talk baby is when u in a stable marriage kinda sounds like he just wants to knock girls up.
Red flag can you say petaphile
He couldnt be adult enough to approach you and say Id like to get to know you and wondered if you are seeing someone. He sent a messenger. But within 2 weeks hes “told” you, “multiple times” to “stop taking birth control”.
Youre the next victim of either a sociopath or a narcisist or hes both. . You dont even know each other. Telling ANYONE, to stop taking a medication for any reason, after knowing them for 2 weeks is control and manipulation. Tell him youre not interested in being a baby machine and stop talking to him. Expect he will keep trying and be pushy. He may even stalk. They hate NO !
There’s nothing wrong with Sharing goals for the future. Like, if someone is dating just for fun, it’s good to be up front. Also, if someone is interested in dating for the purpose of making a future with someone, that’s good to discuss too…
But talking too much about babies and actually suggesting you get off BC this early is a huge red flag. You know nothing about each other. It’s kind of scary. Please do not introduce him to your children at all.
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2 weeks 
is this a joke cuz if u really need advice your both red flags
Only 2 weeks??? Hell no!
Two weeks … really???
Oooh…no sis. Sounds like he’s planning on baby-trapping you. Esp after only talking to u for 2 weeks. Run.
Are you 12? Have some self respect. He sounds awful. Another absent baby daddy I see in the future. How many other stupid girls did he make this offer to? Talk to his mama.