Girl he just went away for months at a time. Where. K bye.
He probably lied because he didn’t want to be judged or stereotyped. A person shouldn’t be judged by their employment or pay but for who they are.
He’s a LIAR. BELIEVE people when they show you who they are the first time!
Hes got a family on the side
He lied…true. But the way you now feel toward him because of his job……is why he lied.
The lie makes it a no for me. 8 months of consistently carrying out this lie is quite concerning.
This ice cream machine is broken.
If he lies about that, who knows what else he will be lying about. RUN!!!
Leave…he is showing you who he is. Honestly, the fact that he kept up the lie for SO LONG is a huge problem
It would be the lying for me. And the ability to keep up such a fake life
Sweetie tinder is for hooking up should have known better
Did he not come home smelling like fries?
Well it can get pretty oily at McDonald’s, but ya gotta dump him. Regardless of the motivation, he lied to you for 8 months. Over his job. Imagine how long he would keep it up over something bigger.
Ok, he lied but he is working, better than sitting on his butt doing nothing right. He wanted to impress you at 1st and if you really like him you would understand why he lied to you because he was ashamed of saying where he worked…To me, it would have never bothered me at all! Understand his side!
So where is he disappearing to for weeks at a time ? Another woman , wife and kids ? Maybe when he spends his time with you he is telling somebody else the same lies he told you. Have an honest convo with him , but do not settle for being lied to , because they’ll continue and get bigger
I know this isn’t like a time to be funny but my husband said maybe he’s the fryer.
Idk that much about working at McDonald’s but I do know a whole lot about dating a man in the oil field and be happy he works at McDonald and not the oil field. Minus the money aspect maybe.
Well he does work in oil… fry oil…
What does he do at McDonald’s? I know a guy that is a regional manager for a franchisee and travels quite a bit. He has a lot of responsibilities and makes good money.
Lying to that degree typically is a hallmark trait of a narcissist. The only wise action to take when it comes to a narc is RUN as far away as possible from folk like that.
He’s got a second woman who he tells the same lie to
But no I’d be pissed too. U gonna have to go ur not gonna lie to me
How did he not smell like fries? You must live apart otherwise there is NO WAY this could have been kept from you. He’s getting paid right? Just be honest and tell him it completely threw you off…maybe he was embarrassed
Free chicken nuggets…
How did you find out?
I sure hope you like him less because he lied and not because of where he works. mans still getting paid regardless
Maybe he figured you would judge him like it kind of comes across as
Run away like your hair is on fire!!!
He’s lied about his job, no telling what else he will lie about. You will never trust him and rightly so. He may be off doing horrible things, who knows!! Be safe and get rid of him.
Maybe he works at McDonald’s on the side oil fields don’t always have work.
The lying would be a no go but I don’t overly care what someone does for work.
I think it could go both ways. Maybe ask him personally why he lied? I feel like maybe it’s because he wanted to impress you or maybe felt intimidated? I can’t say I haven’t lied about a job before either and that’s the main reason why I did. Just because I felt like I needed to be someone more successful than what I was.
Lie about this, he will lie about everything
It doesn’t matter where he actually works, he lied to you about it for 8 months.
Please dear god tell me his name isn’t Nathan:sweat_smile:
What was he doing for the weeks he claimed he was gone?
am not for sure if I would confront him, if he would lie to you this way if you upset him what else would he do to you… Be carefull. And do not look back also stay off the computer
The lie is the problem, at least he has a job …
How did you find out???
I’d go in and order a happy meal
So in other words you thought he was loaded and now you know he has a regular job and can’t pay your way them you don’t “like” him?
Do him a favor and leave
The lying is a problem in my book
Just because someone works at McDonald’s doesn’t make them less of a person. At least he’s WORKING. But he should have never lied
So you couldn’t tell he was living a $13 (no idea how much you make at McDonald’s) an hour life as opposed to an $80 an hour job? The difference between those 2 jobs is like a hobo vs a CEO.
If you like someone, their job shouldn’t matter…I mean unless it’s something crazy and bad, lol. The lying I would be upset but maybe sit down with him and tell him he doesn’t have to lie to impress you. Maybe he works both?
Your reaction to working at McDonald’s and the fact that you “like him less” because of it are THE reason he lied about it
I always thought all the guys that said they worked in the oil fields were just fake guys from other countries and liars I would’ve never even talk to him when he told me he worked in oil field or was in the military in another country
He is probably ashamed of his job and didn’t want you to judge him.
I wouldn’t care about the job but lying is lying. What else is he hiding ?
To be honest I’m so sorry to say. But if he’s lied about a job ‘week on week off’ maybe he’s also dating someone else or has another family doing the same?….
It doesn’t matter why he lied, or where he works. He lied. Normal people don’t lie about their job
He may work in the oil field and just be laid off. It’s common in the field to have slow periods where companies have lay offs.
I get it sis it’s the fact that he liedddddd like why if you worked at McDonald’s that’s cool but you put on this whole facadeeeeeeeee lol
If he lied about something simple such as a job, he’ll lie about bigger things, such as if he’s seeing someone else. Like someone else said, where does he go and who is he with when he leaves for long periods of time?
If he goes away for weeks at a time what else is he hiding a family
One lie- will make you question every truth🤷♀️
If he lied about this what else would he lie about ? Imo Red Flag
he fekking lied and disappears. Really??? It ain’t the job. It’s the morals
Get the whole story then confront him about the information you have.
Working at McDonald’s is fine. Lying isn’t. This is a HUGE red flag.
Lol it’s ok Mcds is like 18 an hour now! but he’s a liar so there’s that.
Well there is a lot of oil in McDonald’s food😂. But you have to wonder what else has he been lying about.?
Lying for 8 months is gross all around
8 months. Were you never at his house? Like, you would’ve seen the work clothes somewhere. Or smelled it on him. He’s wrong for lying and I get being pissed off and it definitely would change things. But like, how did you go 8 months and NOT know something was off? Did you never meet his friends or family, I’m sure they would’ve said something about his work. This has vibes of an online thing and not an actual in person relationship.
I’d be pissed it’s been 8 months n I haven’t gotten any free nugs dude…that’s unforgivable betrayal.
Dump him. He lied. End of story. Didn’t even matter where he worked.
A liar is a liar and I do not owe any liar an explanation however, if you need to, pull up at the McDonald’s order some food and leave!!! Block & Delete his number
Liars are not keepers.
Where is he when he is “Working in the oil fields”?
Because he has a woman already on the side, he needed an excuse to not see you for weeks at a time and for that to be okay with you to avoid getting caught, that is what I would be thinking; by the way you should not expect a stable relationship to come from Tinder
I think he probably got turned down a lot for working at McDonald’s
Lying isn’t ok, but I knew a guy that did something similar because how people viewed him as less than for flipping burgers
You approach him with the truth. Then? When he tries to gaslight you? You shut that shit down. Then? You block his dead ass and ponder why you fell for it in the first place. We’ve all been there in one form or another. Sending you strength!
He lied because for us Minnie’s shameful to work at mds, I worked for Tim Hortons and caught alot of shit thing is he’s a good guy so u say he just don’t have the job u thought
I dated the perfect man. He was AWESOME. Married him after 3 months. He was so insistent. Well 3 months after we married he didn’t come hone from work. Few days later he came hone. This went on for 2 years. I divorced him then and found out he had 5 other wives in other states . That’s where he was going. He ended up shooting one girl and killing her. He played it off for years!!! I should have known he was too perfect!!! Be careful , you could be next. I’m guessing the girl he killed found out or was going to leave him. I snuck out.
Biggest scam ever. Oil fields have you even met him in real life?
If he doesn’t work in the oil fields and is disappearing for weeks at a time……… sis dump him
He is not worth your time.
Are you sure he is actually working at McDonald’s? How did you find out? Do y’all live together? If not have you ever been to his residence? Do y’all live close by each other? How often do you see him in person?
Even working at McDonald’s I don’t see how he could actually be leaving town for weeks at a time. I am sure they don’t allow for that time off. My guess is he isn’t really leaving town. Perhaps just staying with someone or even in another relationship.
The lying is the real problem here! I am not even sure what to say but I can say If you know 100% then I would be done. Lots of things that don’t make sense here…
So he already has a woman. Lol you don’t go away for weeks for work for McDonald’s. my god. What a loser.
His job is not the issue his sociopathic behavior is🤦🏻♀️
Maybe he is in charge of the fry’s and that involves OIL! So he does work in the oil field! Maybe what you need is a bump! Good luck
Do u know which McDonald’s? I’d show up and see his reaction when he sees you. Then block, delete and never look back. Lying for that long is a huge red flag But I agree with others this sounds like they never met in person.
You don’t get why people lie about something like that? Bullshit. He felt he had to lie because shallow ass people like you judge him for how he makes money. You even said it yourself that you feel like you like him less due to his job. Grow the fuck up stop being so judgmental.
Well McDonalds is pertty oily!
I would tell him you’re not okay being lied to and you need time to think about things. If it were me I would just forget about it because he’s disappearing for weeks at a time and lying to you already.
Cut your losses. Once you can’t trust someone, it’s hard to come back from. And these “moths away” are VERY suspicious.
Oh wow. That’s something… Definitely a disappointment… I’m sure you had to have missed things.
I would be upset. Lying is lying. And lying about your job is a pretty big lie.
Lol what did you expect from tinder?
Move on. He’s a loser, and a liar…both deal breakers. Nothing more need to be said.
Red flag. If he’ll lie about that, he’ll lie about anything. Run!
Wouldn’t you lie about your job If you worked at McDonald’s? I had an ex do the exact same thing just not the oil field, still McDonald’s. The point I’d be focused on is the lie he kept for so long
Ruuuuun lol my ex lied to me for years about himself. I have slowly got him to tell me the truth on things. We aren’t friends anymore so I can’t get the rest but now I’m just waiting to hear the truth from him.
Yea I’d drop and move on. Not even that he works at McDonald’s but just that he lies to you and goes “wks at a time” to a job
He’s probably embarrassed.
But also how did you find out ??!
Maybe he’s just ashamed to say he works at McDonald’s and probably figured that nobody would go for him if he said that’s his job… tell him you don’t appreciate being lied to and try to get to the bottom of why he lied about his job and then see how you feel about that answer
He’s a liar
Run!! Run very fast
If he can lie about that then he can lie about any and everything so best to drop now
I wouldn’t date someone who works at McDonald’s or someone who would lie about it so either way I say move on.
What was he doing when he would go out of town for periods of time?