Girl he just went away for months at a time. Where. K bye.
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He probably lied because he didnât want to be judged or stereotyped. A person shouldnât be judged by their employment or pay but for who they are.
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Heâs a LIAR. BELIEVE people when they show you who they are the first time!
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Hes got a family on the side
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He liedâŚtrue. But the way you now feel toward him because of his jobâŚâŚis why he lied.
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The lie makes it a no for me. 8 months of consistently carrying out this lie is quite concerning.
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This ice cream machine is broken.
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If he lies about that, who knows what else he will be lying about. RUN!!!
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LeaveâŚhe is showing you who he is. Honestly, the fact that he kept up the lie for SO LONG is a huge problem
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It would be the lying for me. And the ability to keep up such a fake life
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Sweetie tinder is for hooking up should have known better
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Did he not come home smelling like fries? 
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Well it can get pretty oily at McDonaldâs, but ya gotta dump him. Regardless of the motivation, he lied to you for 8 months. Over his job. Imagine how long he would keep it up over something bigger.
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Ok, he lied but he is working, better than sitting on his butt doing nothing right. He wanted to impress you at 1st and if you really like him you would understand why he lied to you because he was ashamed of saying where he workedâŚTo me, it would have never bothered me at all! Understand his side!
So where is he disappearing to for weeks at a time ? Another woman , wife and kids ? Maybe when he spends his time with you he is telling somebody else the same lies he told you. Have an honest convo with him , but do not settle for being lied to , because theyâll continue and get bigger
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I know this isnât like a time to be funny but my husband said maybe heâs the fryer.
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Idk that much about working at McDonaldâs but I do know a whole lot about dating a man in the oil field and be happy he works at McDonald and not the oil field. Minus the money aspect maybe. 
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Well he does work in oil⌠fry oil⌠
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What does he do at McDonaldâs? I know a guy that is a regional manager for a franchisee and travels quite a bit. He has a lot of responsibilities and makes good money.
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Lying to that degree typically is a hallmark trait of a narcissist. The only wise action to take when it comes to a narc is RUN 
as far away as possible from folk like that.
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Heâs got a second woman who he tells the same lie to
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But no Iâd be pissed too. U gonna have to go ur not gonna lie to me
How did he not smell like fries? You must live apart otherwise there is NO WAY this could have been kept from you. Heâs getting paid right? Just be honest and tell him it completely threw you offâŚmaybe he was embarrassed 
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Free chicken nuggetsâŚ
How did you find out?
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I sure hope you like him less because he lied and not because of where he works. mans still getting paid regardless
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Maybe he figured you would judge him like it kind of comes across as
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Run away like your hair is on fire!!!
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Heâs lied about his job, no telling what else he will lie about. You will never trust him and rightly so. He may be off doing horrible things, who knows!! Be safe and get rid of him.
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Maybe he works at McDonaldâs on the side oil fields donât always have work.
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The lying would be a no go but I donât overly care what someone does for work.
I think it could go both ways. Maybe ask him personally why he lied? I feel like maybe itâs because he wanted to impress you or maybe felt intimidated? I canât say I havenât lied about a job before either and thatâs the main reason why I did. Just because I felt like I needed to be someone more successful than what I was.
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Lie about this, he will lie about everything
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It doesnât matter where he actually works, he lied to you about it for 8 months.
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Please dear god tell me his name isnât Nathanâ:sweat_smile:
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What was he doing for the weeks he claimed he was gone?
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am not for sure if I would confront him, if he would lie to you this way if you upset him what else would he do to you⌠Be carefull. And do not look back also stay off the computer
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The lie is the problem, at least he has a job âŚ
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How did you find out??? 
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Iâd go in and order a happy meal
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So in other words you thought he was loaded and now you know he has a regular job and canât pay your way them you donât âlikeâ him?
Do him a favor and leave
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The lying is a problem in my book
Just because someone works at McDonaldâs doesnât make them less of a person. At least heâs WORKING. But he should have never lied
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So you couldnât tell he was living a $13 (no idea how much you make at McDonaldâs) an hour life as opposed to an $80 an hour job? The difference between those 2 jobs is like a hobo vs a CEO.
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If you like someone, their job shouldnât matterâŚI mean unless itâs something crazy and bad, lol. The lying I would be upset but maybe sit down with him and tell him he doesnât have to lie to impress you. Maybe he works both?
Your reaction to working at McDonaldâs and the fact that you âlike him lessâ because of it are THE reason he lied about it 
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I always thought all the guys that said they worked in the oil fields were just fake guys from other countries and liars I wouldâve never even talk to him when he told me he worked in oil field or was in the military in another country
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He is probably ashamed of his job and didnât want you to judge him.
I wouldnât care about the job but lying is lying. What else is he hiding ?
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To be honest Iâm so sorry to say. But if heâs lied about a job âweek on week offâ maybe heâs also dating someone else or has another family doing the same?âŚ.
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It doesnât matter why he lied, or where he works. He lied. Normal people donât lie about their job
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He may work in the oil field and just be laid off. Itâs common in the field to have slow periods where companies have lay offs.
I get it sis itâs the fact that he liedddddd like why if you worked at McDonaldâs thatâs cool but you put on this whole facadeeeeeeeee lol 
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If he lied about something simple such as a job, heâll lie about bigger things, such as if heâs seeing someone else. Like someone else said, where does he go and who is he with when he leaves for long periods of time?
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If he goes away for weeks at a time what else is he hiding a family
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One lie- will make you question every truthđ¤ˇââď¸
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If he lied about this what else would he lie about ? Imo Red Flag
he fekking lied and disappears. Really??? It ainât the job. Itâs the morals
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Get the whole story then confront him about the information you have.
Working at McDonaldâs is fine. Lying isnât. This is a HUGE red flag.
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Lol itâs ok Mcds is like 18 an hour now! but heâs a liar so thereâs that.
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Well there is a lot of oil in McDonaldâs foodđ. But you have to wonder what else has he been lying about.?
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Lying for 8 months is gross all around
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8 months. Were you never at his house? Like, you wouldâve seen the work clothes somewhere. Or smelled it on him. Heâs wrong for lying and I get being pissed off and it definitely would change things. But like, how did you go 8 months and NOT know something was off? Did you never meet his friends or family, Iâm sure they wouldâve said something about his work. This has vibes of an online thing and not an actual in person relationship.
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Iâd be pissed itâs been 8 months n I havenât gotten any free nugs 
dudeâŚthatâs unforgivable betrayal.
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Dump him. He lied. End of story. Didnât even matter where he worked.
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A liar is a liar and I do not owe any liar an explanation however, if you need to, pull up at the McDonaldâs order some food and leave!!! Block & Delete his number
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Liars are not keepers.
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Where is he when he is âWorking in the oil fieldsâ?
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Because he has a woman already on the side, he needed an excuse to not see you for weeks at a time and for that to be okay with you to avoid getting caught, that is what I would be thinking; by the way you should not expect a stable relationship to come from Tinder 
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I think he probably got turned down a lot for working at McDonaldâs
Lying isnât ok, but I knew a guy that did something similar because how people viewed him as less than for flipping burgers
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You approach him with the truth. Then? When he tries to gaslight you? You shut that shit down. Then? You block his dead ass and ponder why you fell for it in the first place. Weâve all been there in one form or another. Sending you strength!
He lied because for us Minnieâs shameful to work at mds, I worked for Tim Hortons and caught alot of shit thing is heâs a good guy so u say he just donât have the job u thought
I dated the perfect man. He was AWESOME. Married him after 3 months. He was so insistent. Well 3 months after we married he didnât come hone from work. Few days later he came hone. This went on for 2 years. I divorced him then and found out he had 5 other wives in other states . Thatâs where he was going. He ended up shooting one girl and killing her. He played it off for years!!! I should have known he was too perfect!!! Be careful , you could be next. Iâm guessing the girl he killed found out or was going to leave him. I snuck out.
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Biggest scam ever. Oil fields have you even met him in real life?
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If he doesnât work in the oil fields and is disappearing for weeks at a timeâŚâŚâŚ sis dump him
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He is not worth your time.
Are you sure he is actually working at McDonaldâs? How did you find out? Do yâall live together? If not have you ever been to his residence? Do yâall live close by each other? How often do you see him in person?
Even working at McDonaldâs I donât see how he could actually be leaving town for weeks at a time. I am sure they donât allow for that time off. My guess is he isnât really leaving town. Perhaps just staying with someone or even in another relationship.
The lying is the real problem here! I am not even sure what to say but I can say If you know 100% then I would be done. Lots of things that donât make sense hereâŚ
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So he already has a woman. Lol you donât go away for weeks for work for McDonaldâs. my god. What a loser.
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His job is not the issue his sociopathic behavior isđ¤Śđťââď¸
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Maybe he is in charge of the fryâs and that involves OIL! So he does work in the oil field! Maybe what you need is a bump! Good luck
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Do u know which McDonaldâs? Iâd show up and see his reaction when he sees you. Then block, delete and never look back. Lying for that long is a huge red flag But I agree with others this sounds like they never met in person.
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You donât get why people lie about something like that? Bullshit. He felt he had to lie because shallow ass people like you judge him for how he makes money. You even said it yourself that you feel like you like him less due to his job. Grow the fuck up stop being so judgmental.
Well McDonalds is pertty oily!
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I would tell him youâre not okay being lied to and you need time to think about things. If it were me I would just forget about it because heâs disappearing for weeks at a time and lying to you already.
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Cut your losses. Once you canât trust someone, itâs hard to come back from. And these âmoths awayâ are VERY suspicious.
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Oh wow. Thatâs something⌠Definitely a disappointment⌠Iâm sure you had to have missed things.
I would be upset. Lying is lying. And lying about your job is a pretty big lie.
Lol what did you expect from tinder?
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Move on. Heâs a loser, and a liarâŚboth deal breakers. Nothing more need to be said.
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Red flag. If heâll lie about that, heâll lie about anything. Run!
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Wouldnât you lie about your job If you worked at McDonaldâs? I had an ex do the exact same thing just not the oil field, still McDonaldâs. The point Iâd be focused on is the lie he kept for so long
Ruuuuun lol my ex lied to me for years about himself. I have slowly got him to tell me the truth on things. We arenât friends anymore so I canât get the rest but now Iâm just waiting to hear the truth from him.
Yea Iâd drop and move on. Not even that he works at McDonaldâs but just that he lies to you and goes âwks at a timeâ to a job
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Heâs probably embarrassed.
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But also how did you find out ??!
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Maybe heâs just ashamed to say he works at McDonaldâs and probably figured that nobody would go for him if he said thatâs his job⌠tell him you donât appreciate being lied to and try to get to the bottom of why he lied about his job and then see how you feel about that answer
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Heâs a liar
Run!! Run very fast
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If he can lie about that then he can lie about any and everything so best to drop now
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I wouldnât date someone who works at McDonaldâs or someone who would lie about it so either way I say move on.
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What was he doing when he would go out of town for periods of time?
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