Split! He is not considering you it’s not worth it
Bye Felicia no point in staying if he’s going & he’s going to go he’s just trying to see if your following him or not
Split because he doesn’t have the same love for you that you have for him end it now and move on because that’s exactly what he is doing
If he’s not considering you and your kids I’d say leave. He may not really be ready for a family.
I’ve literally lived this. Initially I said leave now. He said ok. But eventually he talked me into going with him. Big mistake. I lasted 6 weeks. I missed my kids so much and he was actually acting like an ass. I came back home. He stayed. Any person that can say I’m moving away with or without you doesn’t deserve you.
If there isn’t a life changing event then you answered your own question!
Sounds like that’s his que he’s ready to split.
Split no use waiting.
Maybe he is just considering it or maybe he wants to split and this is his way of getting out of actually telling you, if he loved you he would stay here and be with you knowing your situation with the kids, and props to you for putting your kids first
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I don’t see how anyone can give advice without knowing all details. What I’m wondering is things like… did he discuss it with you or just bring it up? There is a difference. Did he ask you to join him on the potential move? If not, did he talk about maintaining a long distance relationship? Is it for work- Maybe bettering or furthering his career? Or maybe even just something he’s always wanted to do? Too many questions to make any comments either way, especially not knowing the depth of the relationship, also. I do admire you for putting your kids first!
Go now. The fact that he knows you can’t follow pretty much shows that he’s not committed. You deserve better.
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Split now, he probably sees the relationship is going nowhere and doesnt want to tell you
He dosent want a serious relationship or dosent feel the same as u do or he wouldn’t even think of going
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