If you’re interested pay for an escort, they specialise in listening to your needs
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Sounds like you guys need to put your attention on Jesus and what He done for us, He died for you to have the Gift of Salvation, not to commit this sinning life style!
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If you’re a jealous person, then no.
I’m a jealous person and my child’s father had the same fantasy. He assumed I was up for it a few YEARS AFTER we briefly spoke about it. Then started messaging someone he admitted to having the hots for, who didn’t want a threeway but wanted just him…to which he didn’t say no to.
He’s an ex now 
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Is he gonna pick the guy or let you pick the guy?
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Do not do this! Honestly xx
Like mentioned in sex and the city, the best way to do it is to be the guest. This way you enjoy and leave the others dealing with the potential fallout
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That’s a big fat no for me. My husband was actually pushing for one with us so I said sure as soon as I get one with you and another guy, of course he said nope, asked him why he said bc I dont want to see another man touching what’s mine, I said exactly I dont want to see another woman riding what’s mine. He said I didnt think about it like that and has never brought it back up.
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No. A thousand times no.
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Stupid for even thinking about it
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Wow why would you even think about it? My husband and I have been together for 29 years and never once has this been a topic of conversation. If you want that lifestyle-marriage shouldn’t have been part of the deal
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Dumb, keep it a fantasy
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Nope. Its gross. And normally causes issues after…my husband says he refuses because no other guy is to touch me lol and I say the same about him and another girl
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Thoughts about having a threesome? - Mamas Uncut
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Keep in mind that herpes and aids are still around. If you want your marriage to end, then go for it. You will never have peace wondering who is thinking about and you are giving permission for secret affairs. You should be enough to keep him happy
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Yeah, if he’s as wonderful as you say, and neither one of you really want to do it, don’t do it. Opening up a can of worms, and that would complicate things A LOT1 Nope, nope, nope!!!
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Been there done that. We tried it both ways to be fair. I’m a very jealous person as well. Ruined the marriage. Don’t do it. Keep the FANTASY!! Much more exciting than the real deal…
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I would not share my husband with another woman and he has also said he would not share me. I just couldn’t do that.
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I think that is a stupid thing to do! A man washes it off, but the woman is invaded and can forget!
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Wrong in so many ways.
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Yes I could and we have loved it. But in my corner is I like women to so it was fun
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Keep it as a fantasy. Not all dreams need to come true to make life enjoyable. I’ve seen it flush otherwise happy marriages. Instead of getting physical, write him an adult story about it.
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Don’t do it. It’s not worth it. It brings up insecurities, especially if you get jealous easily. A marriage is supposed to be about the 2 of you…keep that in mind. Fantasies are well and good and a man will say anything you want to hear if it means getting that. Unless you are into the kink, I just wouldn’t do it.
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I think you’ve answered your own question, by saying your the jealous type, it would eat you up inside and your relationship with your HUSBAND would no longer be a partnership.
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Good answer & if he was so understanding why was it brought up again knowing how jealous you are 
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Everything these days it seems like is immoral I can’t people just have a good clean fun
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Clearly you dont want to and he doesn’t really want to. So I wouldn’t give it another thought.
Fantasies are usually more enticing when you know they won’t happen. And I couldn’t let a man or woman be with my husband, even if we only ever saw them that once. They are mine and I’m not sharing.
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If you are not into it then don’t if you are jealous. I love having them but it’s hard being in that right setting
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You will completely regret it, especially when you get older. Don’t do such a stupid thing.
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Absolutely, positively NOT!!!
There is NO WAY I could/would ‘share’ my man like that!!
Basically this ‘threesome’ crap takes something very intimate and sacred… that is meant to be between a man & a woman in a relationship and cheapens it.
And it’s wrong!!
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I know someone whos hubby pushed her to do it…Afterwards he had the balls to tell her he couldn’t even look at her anymore. DON’T DO IT. If he wants another in there he aint happy. Get out
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He should’ve said, “I don’t have a fantasy. My wife is all I need.”
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If you are married you are commit to that person and should not. Want another person in that relationship
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You’re opening a door that may NEVER get closed!! Fantasies, are just THAT…and NOT a follow through. Find other ways to fulfill each others desires without creating extra unwanted chaos. Because that’s what WILL happen. What a Husband and a Wife do behind closed doors shouldn’t be shared with NO ONE! OR talked about with each others BEST closest Friend even. Never know when that FRIEND will want what YOU have. It should be between YOU and YOUR HUSBAND!
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If your questioning it, don’t do it. It can never be undone.
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I knew a couple that did that and it was all good between them until he would come home to his wife in bed with another woman she didn’t think there was anything wrong with it ended up divorced
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The bible says to lust in your heart. You have already committed adultery. If your husband needs that to be fulfilled then apparently he’s not happy. If you truly love someone this would be the last thing you would want.
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My partners have been together for 9 years this August. Hubby started asking wife for a threesome around 2 years into marriage. Took her 5 years, but she agreed. And we as a throuple have been together for 2 years now. And I wouldn’t have it any other way
I’d tell him a threesome would be great. Which one of the guys does he want to invite? 
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It was the worst mistake i ever made. It works for some people and thats cool but what happened to me it was not good.
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I wouldn’t bring a 3rd party into a marriage. Love, sex and marriage is suppose to be sacred. Adding a 3rd person will bring a can of negative energy into the mix and don’t do it especially if you are a jealous. Buy toys and get creative in that way… Maybe smoke a little of the green…
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NO when you invite a third party into your marriage things will change and not for the good
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Nope nope and nope for me.
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How sickening. The thought of sharing the person you took by holy matrimony with someone else. The world is changing & not for the better.
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My opinion is, there’s a time for monkey business, experimentation, and fantasy. That time is your young years, before you choose a mate, make some vows, and settle down. My observation is that when you backtrack sexually, marriages collapse.
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Every man’s fantasy, so when my husband 50 years ago asked what I thought when he said threesome I said oh I never thought about two men and me he never brought it up again lol
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Once it’s happened it’s no longer a fantasy.
Then you’ll have to find something else to fantasise about.
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I don’t like sharing so id say NO besides there is still STD’s out there have u thought about that?
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Is this a threesome for the enjoyment of both of you?
If you are not into making love to another woman then don’t but also ponder this, would your husband agree to a threesome with another man? Can you both enjoy a relationship with a third person? If the answer to any of these questions is no then don’t.
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I’m April’s fiance. I would not do it, and that’s coming from a man.
I say don’t do it! Leads to marital destruction sometimes. I would not take any chances with that
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Did you take wedding vowels when you got married apparently you or he or both aren’t remembering them maybe you better check them out again I see a divorce coming fast
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I couldn’t. Too jealous.
I’ve thought about it. And have rules about what he is allowed to do with the other person. Maybe vaginal sex is only allowed with you but oral and other things are fine. Idk?
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No way Wonder if the third person was a man Would he still have that fantasy 
He would change his mind guaranteed
I would NEVER go for this … but thats just me…???
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It’s okay to set your boundaries.
It’s real easy. 99.9999 % of marriages that have 3 somes end.
What’s that song on iTunes? I don’t look good naked any more!!! LOL
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From personal experience I would not do it if I had a “do-over” chance. Reality is never as good as fantasy and it could ruin a relationship.
I bet he would change his mind if you asked him who the other man would be.
If u do it, you will regret it
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I once met a man on a online dating site and he and his ex had threesomes but then the ex preferred the other ‘one’ and left him and took most of everything from him … he was turned out of the family home even the kids stayed on with the ex …it took him years to get over the breakup and caused him to mentally break down…nip the fantasy in the bud if u don’t want it…or try it if u are interested. Just e wary of std’s mental health issues scammers con people etc…do background checks for safety issues as one reads so many stories where it ended up in dire or fatal circumstances…
Tell him , " Sure Babe! Can I pick the guy?"
This usually shuts them up.
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Okay ladies Jimbo here it’s all fantasy a lot of guys think about and want to do and 95% of the time they don’t work out I had wanted to work out my wife cuz I was drinking all three of us were and then end up being like a couple of rabbits meeting in my wife watching I’ve had friends tell noon they’ve had the same exact thing result very very seldom does this work out tell your husband it ain’t worth it and I’m talking about a friend who has an open marriage I think that’s really weird but that’s his choices wife is fine with it too I wouldn’t you want to ask your husband he wants you to watch him have sex with another woman what he like two guys going down on you at the same time you can spice up your sex life and do something unusual a lot of things you can do that will probably satisfy him years ago for example my wife caught me watching porn and she says oh I can do that I said yeah the heck you would well she did and it was just me and her something out of the usual I was surprised it was kind of funny but she entertained my thoughts for one time just tell your husband there’s a lot of things you two can do together that steps out of the normal way you have your sex life just do something off the wall just between the two of you there’s a whole open area of things you can do because he won’t lie to three so or you won’t like the threesome
Do you not care about you and your husbands salvation…BC this is an abomination in Gods Eyes. WHY would you want to risk destroying your marriage also…because that is exactly what you’ll be setting yourself up for. I pray you do not do this.
Why ruin a good fantasy?
Your marriage is in trouble if you are considering a threescore
A marriage is 2 people not 3.
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I just look at him and ask if I can pick the guy… he shuts right up…
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One of my friend’s husband had the same fantasy and she decided to go with it. It didn’t stop there for him. Once he got his “fantasy” it was then more and they ended up becoming swingers. Their marriage did not last. Pandora’s box
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Nope nope nope…you can never undo it.
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Make sure you pick a sexy man for that then I’m sure he won’t want you too
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Thats a nasty thing to dont eved Entertain thT e il thought i you head Where.is God in your life stop you nonsense Stay foucased on each other
I LOVE threesomes, so long as it’s just fun physical play. Feelings get involved and I’m gonna lose it. Downside to that is that it’s hard to find another woman who’s up for no strings fun, but they do exist. If you really want to make it happen and have it be a one time thing, I highly recommend hiring an escort (obviously a good one.) It’s one of their favorite gigs, they know what they’re doing, and you don’t have to worry about them staying around.
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If any man ask you to do that he doesn’t love you get away from him now
Fantasy don’t have to become reality.
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Some things are best left as fantasies.
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Tell him, sure, we’ll let another man join us. Bet he’ll never bring it up again.
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It is asking for trouble
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I couldn’t only cus I’m a jealous woman
DONT DO IT!!! ITS A TRAP. He may like it and start looking outside your marriage, you should be more than enough for him!
First of all that is a sin against Almighty God!! Second you sin against one another. Third its a recipe for divorce.
Dont be silly ,yr just giving him permission 2 sleep around.
Don’t introduce another person into your bedroom. Asking for trouble
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If your a jealous person don’t do it…
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Your playing with the devil !
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My friends marriage went down hill after they had a threesome
If you have to ask then it’s a big NO!
It ruins the relationship
Get a blow up lady. Boom, there’s your extra girl.
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Couldn’t think of anything worse
Seek counseling,and get a divorce
Not all at the same time
NO No No You no that not right 1 man or 1 woman H an W. or Bf. an Gf.
Bad bad bad don’t do it movies make it fun real life is the pits
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Speaking as the ex partner of a man who was very much into this I strongly suggest you don’t do it. With my ex and I when it came to it well it wasn’t what I expected and in the end my ex wanted the third party to be a permanent fixture not just in the bedroom but in our relationship. That’s when I left him as I think I deserve someone who loves me and only me. Instead try spice things up in the bedroom. Sexy lingerie, toys, massage and you can even get some sexy board games. Goodluck
Clearly if you would committ to a threesome then your not really into loyalty,doesn’t sound like either of you are ??? You also want it to be a friend,but you want to ditch them afterwards
.Seems like you have loyalty issues across the board.
You are nuts if your bored get a hobby
We watched some tv court show, actually a crime show, murder involved. We discussed the different scenarios, I simply told him I worshipped at the alter of a certain penis lobbing woman. So, either keep it zipped unless at home or sleep with one eye open🤨
Don’t do it,unless you want to lose your husband
I suggest you really search your heart and soul, my ex from years ago used to always talk about this I always said no, for alot of reasons but one of them me being jealous, long story short, I gave in for his birthday, requested my favorite bottle of liquor, he picked the lady, we went to her place OMG talking about a big shock, she was short, seriously overweight, one thing he said he didn’t like as I was very aware of my weight, staying slim and fit for him, anyway, she wasn’t friendly, they went right into the bedroom, as I sat in the chair, fully clothed, they acted like I wasn’t there, I told him I changed my mind, pissed off by now, said I was leaving, he said I was tripping, so I got the keys and left his ass there! Needless to say we were done