I’d let my hubby but only because then someone else can do the work lol. I’m so not interested in anything sexual right now. I’d love to have him off my back. And not one word about sex being part of marriage blah blah blah. If one person doesn’t want it, it doesn’t matter if your married.
Never. Dont do it. Its a game changer. Next thing you know, they meeting up behind your back. Just say no. You dhould be enough for your husband. Period
Stay away from those kind of things! Your marriage will end and the relationship between you and your husband will never be the same!
Everyone has their fantasy, we are all human. Tell him you want a threesome with another guy but the focus will be on him. Bet he’ll stop asking😉
Seriously!! Sounds to me you have a wacko. He do it rather you want to or not with someone else. Wake up honey smell the coffee!!
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I could not do that. I am too old fashioned for that. BUT if someone asked about it and if I was an adventurous person, I would say go on vacation to a sexy place like Sandals Resorts (just an example) and start feeling some people out by having drinks with them or at a strip club. They would be someone that you would never see again and use fake names.
My Xhusband wanted it and I said NO WAY
NEVER,that’s 1of the reasons we are not married anymore
But you can do whatever you want and what your heart tells you what to do.
Put that crap away far in the bottom of your mind and never revisit it again…Pandora’s Box! Do not proceed forward, without an attorney!
I’m sorry but you will regret it. I had several friends who were involved in this and regretted it went through divorces. Don’t do it
The two of you must not be in love anymore!are that would never be a issue.because if you really love someone they are all you need….maybe you love him, but not in love with him???
This is probably just a made-up story anyway I mean I’m sure I know it happens in the world but this person probably just made this up and you guys just spend all your time on here and you could be with your husbands
My hubby and I dabbled in our 20s, now in our 40s it has never stopped being a fantasy for him. If I organised it he’d be right there ready to go but on the flip side he also doesn’t care that it doesn’t happen. With the rate of divorce we are just happy to appreciate each other and take care of us and our family. I don’t think it’s bad hubby is keen, he’s a red blooded male I personally won’t ever do it because my family is more important.
Use a prostitute if u ever wanna go through with it. She will only do what u are comfortable with and u won’t see her again, if u don’t want to, after the event. Just a suggestion if u ever decide that u want to as it seems like the ideal way for u both to try it.
Lol… sigh. I gave in and my spouse froze! It sounds better on theory…
No ! We are doing a study on sex and marriage and God . It’s 3 become one in the bedroom not 3 or for more . That’s opening up something you do not want to mess with . If he wants someone else he don’t want you !
This is just stupid. Looking for an end of your relationship is called divorce, you can’t handle this shit. No one can. If some one says I am wrong, they are delusional. Again I say this is stupid and it’s hard to fix this kind of stupid.
No make a commitment one man one women. It can only cause a lot of too much thinking for you .
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Once or twice I fantasized about putting my husband in a box. But so.e fantasies are better left inside your head
Don’t do it…it ruined my good marriage. Because I couldn’t get over it. All on me. I’m super jealous and possive. I hate that we did it.
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Don’t do it things will change never be the same
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He never asked her to do this. Throwing God and sin into this is ridiculous! She’s over thinking about a fantasy he has. A lot of us have a fantasy or two, but we don’t always play them out lol
You put it away by facing your insecurities that are driving your jealousy. Anything about yourself that you don’t like. You don’t want to resent not being ready and have it be a bad experience.
To me if you’re not enough then time for him to go
No, never! I thank God my husband is true to me and would never ask me to entertain the thought as i would never ask him.
I took my vows seriously and so did he.
Ask him to have sex in front of someone else. That’s just as exciting and doesn’t add another body to anyone’s count. Then go from there. If you think you want that person to join in, eventually you might be able to.
If you can’t deal with a person in your bedroom or hotel room watching, then try one of them sexy chats. Like Chatroulette or something.
In my opinion if he’s asking to bring another woman into your bedroom then to me it’s obvious your not enough for him. I would be highly upset. If your the jealous type and you do that it probably will ruin your marriage. But its just my opinion.
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If you need to find enjoyment with a third party 
then you and your husband are bound for divorce.
Don’t do it, believe me it won’t make u happy. It will change your life, and ruin your marriage. Temptation should remain a fantasy. If u value your marriage don’t do it.
That’s about the stupidest questions I’ve heard in awhile. Your vows said cleave to one another, not bring such a thought of having someone to help ruin your lives. Yes I’m old old fashioned. I’m 70,
So my husband and I have an open relationship. This which didn’t happen until 12 years together. I am also bisexual… I’m also jealous unfortunately but I believe being open to my wants and needs has open the door to an even better relationship. Go to pof app you can find women on there that might be compatible to just have fun. Plus you can be extremely clear what you want, what boundaries not to cross etc. With both you and your husband… keep the communication open. If you don’t want to do it but want to turn him on just talk dirty about his fantasy during intercourse.
No I wouldn’t. When someone wants to add a third person often they are really looking to replace you or get out of the relationship.
The husband’s always want the third person to be a woman. When you get your second man in bed your husband gets to roming feet. He will get more and more distant.
Not for me thankyou.
I am not even the jealous type.
Which way would the threesome go?
Men usually want another female.
Would it change the equation if it was another male?
I think it would to him.
The thought of catching something would put me off.
Kissing alone is still a transfer of bodily fluids, even if other protection was used.
Seeing health certificates probably also makes it more clinical.
Surely not someone you would know or want to see again.
Yet to find the chemistry to make it work.
Would either of you be happy again after.
For me, a definite no.!!
My comment is-if your relationship works, if your heart is content , leave it be. If not- be very careful. Health checks essential!
I don’t understand people that put their personal business on Facebook is it because you really don’t want to do it and you asking Facebook if it’s okay to do it
I would never consider it 3 never works
You would be opening the door for the devil to destroy your marriage. Once a person gets a taste of something they will want more and more. Once will never be enough. As the saying goes you will be left in the dust.
Marriage is a commitment you made to be faithful to that one person till one of you dies. If your not committed to this why are you even married?
I couldn’t do it. I am a real bitch about what is mine. The people we know that have done it are all divorced and it was not pretty.
Ask your husband how he thinks you should approach another man to join your threesome. When he gets confused and rejects another man then you should know where his curiosity is. Suggest another couple, if he’s getting the joy of experience a new vagina, you’d like to experience a different penis. Fare game.
Rarely does the reality surpass the fantasy!
IF you do, then hire a professional. No strings.
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Threesome can also be two guys and a girl.
If you have any doubts at all dont do it. I was a swinger years ago and it did alot of mental damage.
Satanic seed being planted. A fantasy indeed and it will end in tears.
Forget it. It’s a FANTASY. All men think like that. You don’t act out every fantasy you have. It will ruin your marriage. If you value your marriage, remember your VOWS.
Dont do it,it starts out like this,then couples,then next affair or worse divorce.
Why would you put this on Facebook put your big girl pants 
on and make up your own mind.
You want strangers to decide who you sleep with?
NO! Don’t do it! It will ruin your marriage and leave a deep scar on your soul!
A lot of men’s fantasy-start with a strip club if strippers climbing on ya both is something you can handle take it from their
Am I correct to assume you do not believe in God ,his son Jesus Christ Or that the Bible is God’s words to us ?
Male or female 3rd person?
Never too much respect for my marriage.
I realize this is normal for some people but it is morally wrong for All people. This is not pleasing to God.
My mother always said.
IT DOSEN’T HURT TO WANT. . . .
Use your best judgement !
Sounds like a sick puppy to me.
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My wife is all I want and all I need, fulfill these fantasies before you get married
Better to be the third wheel honestly.
A marriage is between a man and a woman. Nothing else, I would tell him that
It’s sin. A violation of your marriage vow.
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But would it be. Another man or woman.
I think it’s not a good idea!
Tell him you’d have to meet the right guy before you will consider it!!
Not for me, but everyone is different.
If he really wants a threesome you need to think does he really love you
Its a disgusting thought, if you you want to shut don’t get married
Crazzy world enough and dont add on any Devils deceasces thankyou .
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DONT DO IT!!! If you know you are a jealous person, pleassssse don’t do this. You will spend the rest of your life thinking about it, esp if your an over thinker. Find another way!!!
No.
Fantasy or not.
Just for me.
I’m a one man woman.
But to each his own
You feel Bad just thiny about it It’s WRONG ! It will be WORSE if You Do It!
Don’t do it, you will regret it.
You two don’t need to drink
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Just do it and give ya man that gawk gawk hand twisting move and ya should be happy
Ask if you can put a bag over her head…see what he says then lol
Keep it a fantasy is what I say
Play dress up with him, I don’t share my meat. Get some toys, oils and whoop it up girl!
No it would cause YOU problems. Mentally you may not get past it.
Thinking about it is sick and wrong. WWJD
Let the third in the theeesome be a man!
I’m a one man women. No thanks.
I couldn’t do it unless I was dissatisfied already
Tell him you want a man for the 3rd person
Sound like you’re asking for trouble!!!
He should never even brought it up if he cares about you
Fantasy are just that FANTASY. DONT OPEN THE DOOR. YOUR MARRIAGE WILL END IF TOU DO
Just don’t do it, a fantasy is just that a fantasy
Fantasies are awesome to share
Realities are messy and will rit tour relationship.
Role play is my answer
Meet somewhere dressed in a wig.
Have someone watch you ravage each other .
Something to think about?
You give him a inch he will take a mile
1st he will ask for a 3some then he will suddenly say “hey babe? I love you so so much BUT? How about we do swapping?
It would be so much fun?
And when you dare to say NO all hell breaks loose and he threatens you with divorce
And gets all moody
And pushy and when you still say no he starts ridiculing you about your looks or making you feel guilty about your aging etc
That’s just how they role!
Say no right now!
Tell him if he needs another woman hit the god damn road
It will bite you in the ass.
Generally when it’s suggested, there is already a sexual connection with that person.
All you are doing is opening the door to legit the affair.
Friend I know, his wife convinced him to have a threesome.
Turns out the girl was her lover all along.
They are divorced and she’s with her lover.
Do not destroy what you got
To each their own but, that’s disgusting!! When you get married there’s only 1 person next to you!
Do you have kids? Of not you do you. If so…I would caution against it. The wild cruise ship has sailed in that respect. There is a significant risk for problems witb that scenario…
Never! Leave it as a fantasy.
Stick to God’s commandments, " Do Not Commit Adultry," there are consequences for breaking God’s law.
Why would you want to put your health and your marriage at risk?
What the hell kind of Ass Hole are you ??? Holy shit
I honestly could not. I know I’m a jealous person and I think that if I ever did this with my partners, it would cause further issues. You know yourself best. Dont put yourself in a situation that might ruin your marriage if that is a concern.
That’s the devil enticing you both to open the door to a marriage dissolution
Dont do it your relationship will never be the same and there will. Be no trust
Get one of those human like sex dolls and dress her up. There problem solved. 
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